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    Quote Originally Posted by itsallaboutthepink View Post
    Ok that’s very interesting!
    How come you don’t recommend those tactics for pink now just out of curiosity??


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    A few different reasons:

    1)I try to shy away from anything that is said by other sites to actively sway blue. I don't think any of these things are at al magic bullets and it makes people enormously apprehensive

    2)It is very possible, indeed likely, that the reason why things seem to sway is due to the individual variations that made some of us have boys or girls to begin with. That's a bit of an esoteric point, so let me explain...it may be that in someone who is already blue friendly, like pink swayers who have had many boys, taking certain nutrients simply adds on to their already good stores of nutrients and may sway more blue. Like, take for example the vegetable oils like the Omega 6/9, right?? If you are already have stores of lots of Omega 3 fats in your system from a lifetime of eating healthy, you can shake off a little Omega 6 leaving the Omega 3 fats to improve your condition.

    But if someone - let's say a person who is not a big eater, may have chronic underlying nutrient deficiencies, already HAS an imbalance of Omega 6 fats from eating a poor diet, like a lot of blue swayers with many girls already do, and then they add MORE Omega 6 onto that, then that may just exacerbate an already existing imbalance, and taking the Omega 3 just can't make up for that.

    So, long story short, the rules are not the same for pink and blue because they haven't started from the same place to begin with, and nor are they eating the same kind of diet when they sway (this is the more important reason)

    and 3)I really dislike maca as it's a huge unknown, barely studied, and I think it tends to mess up people's cycles, so I don't actually recommend it for anyone
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    I’m on cd 13 and no surge! This is so weird not even a flashy smile and negative in my other opks
    Very strange, in the past I’ve always had 3-4 flashy starting cd 11 then pos by cd 14-15. Then I took a cheapie opk and test line was darker than my other opk but not anywhere near positive. I am temping and my cm is changing so hoping I ovulate by cd 15
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    Quote Originally Posted by itsallaboutthepink View Post
    Thank you

    No I didnít sway for her at all, I think I was actually really boy friendly at the time! Iíd gained some weight, was eating quite well and taking omega 3-6-9 capsules, Maca and had lots of attempts for her! But I was exercising many times a week so perhaps that just tipped the odds into favour??

    Were your luteal phases that short when you conceived before??


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    Iím not sure about my LP to be honest because DS1 was a surprise and DS2 was conceived first go when I just decided to start testing OPKs and get to know my cycle! Lol.


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    Quote Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush View Post
    A few different reasons:

    1)I try to shy away from anything that is said by other sites to actively sway blue. I don't think any of these things are at al magic bullets and it makes people enormously apprehensive

    2)It is very possible, indeed likely, that the reason why things seem to sway is due to the individual variations that made some of us have boys or girls to begin with. That's a bit of an esoteric point, so let me explain...it may be that in someone who is already blue friendly, like pink swayers who have had many boys, taking certain nutrients simply adds on to their already good stores of nutrients and may sway more blue. Like, take for example the vegetable oils like the Omega 6/9, right?? If you are already have stores of lots of Omega 3 fats in your system from a lifetime of eating healthy, you can shake off a little Omega 6 leaving the Omega 3 fats to improve your condition.

    But if someone - let's say a person who is not a big eater, may have chronic underlying nutrient deficiencies, already HAS an imbalance of Omega 6 fats from eating a poor diet, like a lot of blue swayers with many girls already do, and then they add MORE Omega 6 onto that, then that may just exacerbate an already existing imbalance, and taking the Omega 3 just can't make up for that.

    So, long story short, the rules are not the same for pink and blue because they haven't started from the same place to begin with, and nor are they eating the same kind of diet when they sway (this is the more important reason)

    and 3)I really dislike maca as it's a huge unknown, barely studied, and I think it tends to mess up people's cycles, so I don't actually recommend it for anyone
    That makes such sense!!!
    Thank you for explaining it


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    Quote Originally Posted by mommymachine View Post
    So sorry this wasnít your month How many months have you been trying?


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    Iíve come to terms with it and overall perhaps itís for the best with all this COVID-19 craziness. Iím not sure if Iíd be able to get all the scans and monitoring I need next pregnancy due to all the social distancing.
    Silver linings!!
    This is only my second month trying so Iím not overly worried!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Princess Mom View Post
    Iím on cd 13 and no surge! This is so weird not even a flashy smile and negative in my other opks
    Very strange, in the past Iíve always had 3-4 flashy starting cd 11 then pos by cd 14-15. Then I took a cheapie opk and test line was darker than my other opk but not anywhere near positive. I am temping and my cm is changing so hoping I ovulate by cd 15
    Eeek, maybe itís a sign thatís this will be your month!! Fx!!!

    How long will you wait to dtd after your positive?


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    I got positive today most likely will ovulate tmrw or following day going to do my attempt late tonight everyone that wants a boy can have my blue dust I’m praying for pink

    Allaboutpink- Tonight best of luck to u
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    Quote Originally Posted by Princess Mom View Post
    I got positive today most likely will ovulate tmrw or following day going to do my attempt late tonight everyone that wants a boy can have my blue dust Iím praying for pink

    Allaboutpink- Tonight best of luck to u
    Lots of pink dust to you!


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    So strange after my pos opk yesterday I got a temp spike today my opk is still pos so strange, I did have ovulation pain this morning. I did bd last night and late Tuesday. I’m so confused this cycle is wacky not going to get my hopes up
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    Hey I know itís confusing, but with a temp spike at least you can be pretty sure you ovulated, and your last night attempt is nicely timed.

    Did you have any alcohol last night? If I have alcohol the night before, my temp spikes.


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