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    DebH FAILED Boy Sway June 2011

    BOY SWAY:


    NAME -Debh

    Gender Resulted - GIRL
    EDD February 24 2012
    Swaying Attempt - Natural

    PH
    CM pH -8.6
    DH pH -High 8’s week before but didn’t’ test after he drank BSD

    Baking soda douche -no
    Baking soda on finger on attempt or week before -Day before and day of attempt

    How did you use Pre-seed, and what was its PH? No

    Egg whites used/type/pH Yes Davidson’s PH 9.25

    Big O - Yes, Before, After

    MINERALS
    Calcium Avoided
    Magnesium -Avoided
    Potassium Added lots to diet
    Sodium Salted everything
    DH minerals Decreased calcium, magnesium, added more salt

    DIET
    Dietary Changes - Switched to alkaline diet and more salt, red meat and sweet potato, banana, dried apricots - every day. 2 months+ on diet changes.
    Did you continue diet after attempt/ how long? -Weakly attempted to follow in 2ww
    DH caffeine consumption before BD day -Cut down to a cup a day
    DH caffeine 1/2 hour or an hour before BD -Strong coffee 1 hour before

    HORMONES
    Drinks -Knox jiggler recipe of 3 packets plus 2 cups blueberry pom juice daily.
    Desperate to increase PH, drank BSD day before and day of O. DH drank it too.

    SUPPLEMENTS
    Evening Primrose Oil (EPO) -500 twice a day
    Robitussin/Guafanesin tablets -600 daily af to o
    Alka Seltzer Gold 2 tablets daily af to o
    Green Tea - 2 cups daily
    Fertile-CM No
    False Unicorn No
    E No
    Fish Oil GNC Triple strength 900mg omega 3
    Folic Acid -2000 mcg taken as 1000 twice a day
    Flaxseed Oil -no
    Alfalfa No
    Drinks All day every day Lemon water, v8 once a day, 2 cups green tea daily
    Others -l-arginine 500 mg daily

    DH supps -zinc 50, l-arginine 500, folic acid 1000, Fish oil 900 mg omega3, B12 500

    TIMING
    Length of DH abstinance -5 days
    BD on O - Yes
    How close to O -18 hours past 1st +OPK
    BD how often -ONCE
    Charting O with Temp - Yes
    Charting O with OPK - Yes
    Fertility monitor used/type - No
    suspected O date- 6/7

    IONS
    Oed in what moon phase -In between but after New, before Full (Closer to New ☹)
    Changed ions in other ways? -Cell phone in undies right after and all morning. In pocket all day

    OTHER
    How many kids do you have? 3
    What gender(s)? 1 boy, 2 girls
    # of months TTC 1
    Your Age 39
    BD position Doggy
    EWCM present/how much? -Yes
    DH undies type -Boxers
    Did you use instead cups/how long? No, but propped up on pillow for at least an hour after.
    DH cold bath/ shower or ice - no
    OWT - anything under bed? - Son’s baseball glove and photo in frame made by him

    COMMENTS? I thought this was a really good sway and we tried very hard to follow everything we could. I had NT scan at 13w 1d this week and the tech said he will not guess this early (34 yrs experience, but he is a total arrogant jerk EVERY pregnancy I've had - DH hates him more than I do!). I asked twice and both times he insisted he doesn't check and would not be giving me any "shots" to try and guess on my own. THEN, as we're getting ready to walk out he goes "girl, girl, definitely a girl". So now I don't know whether to believe him or not. Still reluctantly hoping it is boy.

    Link to my Chart - http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/334b75
    Last edited by DebH; September 26th, 2011 at 02:53 PM.
    (8/25/04), (7/21/06), (6/1/09), EDD 2/24/12 - failed boy sway

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    It'a a great sway!!!! This can be your boy for sure !Don't listen to the jerk tech he did that because he is a jerk! Do you have any pic at all from the scan?
    +1

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    what an a**hole. i had a perinatalogist like that ALL arrogant (about other things). where do theseppl come off. does he know you want a boy?? then for sure he is teasing you. why would he tell you when youre about to walk out...to gain power/control. i hate those types.
    i think your sway is GREAT!!!

    question, why did you use real EW if you had your own ewcm, plus all the ewcm supps. just bc of ph? i was thinking of doing that too. i have my own ewcm, plenty, but i would have done real ew just for pH but i keep thinking the lemon water and bsd will take care of that...?

    congrats on the pregnancy!!! :-)

    Polpectomy/Hysteroscopy complete (2 polyps)
    June ER @ HRC
    30 retrieved, 24 mature, 23 fertilized, 17 to biopsy, 5 normal, 2xy!, 1 transferred, 1 frozen
    HB seen at 6w4d!

    I can't believe I did this!

    My HT son
    My family is complete. Baby fever resolved!

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    Congratulations and FX for a boy - I agree with the others about your tech, what a complete prat. {hugs}
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    I have the most ewcm a 3-4 days before o and then it tapers off. When TTC DD2, I had read TCOYF and used CM only to figure out when to give it a go. After charting for this one, I see that I probably was 3-4 days before o with the first, heavy EWCM.

    I wanted more EWCM later since I knew that O was coming at the tail end of my EWCM days. I also wanted the higher PH of the real ew. I was very concerned about the PH. Even with alkaline diet and lemon water for months, my PH was only around 6-7. It only went up into the 8's after I added BSF + BSD.

    BTW - He knew we were hoping for a boy - he sounded pretty certain when he said it was a girl.
    Last edited by DebH; August 26th, 2011 at 03:38 PM.
    (8/25/04), (7/21/06), (6/1/09), EDD 2/24/12 - failed boy sway

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    (8/25/04), (7/21/06), (6/1/09), EDD 2/24/12 - failed boy sway

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    Hey Deb, great sway indeed! Don't sweat it, you don't have too much longer till your big scan. We will be keeping FX for ya!
    (2002) (2005) from 1st marriage. TTC since Aug 2010- Dx: low sperm count and 1% normal sperm. We are giving up and moving on with a baby-free life.
    UPDATE: surprise bfp in Feb 2013! It's a BOY!

    NEVER GIVE UP HOPE!

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    Sorry there is no nub on your pic's ! Baby is very cute!!! I think there is no way he could tell girl from this pics and just no way for sure at 13 weeks! So he know you want a boy that's why he said girl. he is just an @$%^& don't worry!
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    Thanks everyone! You make me feel much better about it!
    (8/25/04), (7/21/06), (6/1/09), EDD 2/24/12 - failed boy sway

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    I would SO not trust a girl guess at 13 w from anyone!!! Don't despair, I think you had a great sway and I'm sending you blue dust by the ton.
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