Atomic, you're the best!!!!!!! Even though the BD was botched for this "attempt" "not attempt" I hope I've made you proud with all the advice I've taken and used!
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Good luck, hoping you hear blue :fingers::bluecheer::bluecheer::bluecheer:
Atomic! I'm feeling pretty down, I can't shake this feeling that this is going to be a DD and a failed blue sway (even though I didn't fully sway with my BD).
I just want to kick myself! This week was the week that should have been O for me and the week I was hoping to get a bfp from by BDing for blue!
I'm debating doing an early gender test or not- I have my first dr appt on Monday so I'll discuss with them, my dating scan is booked for the following week- but I know this wouldn't show any gender indicators yet.
Ugh.
Just try to keep in mind that no matter what, you can't lose. Either you get another amazing DD to love (and there are SOOO many of us who would LOVE to have two DD, we would all be green with envy!) or you get a boy and that's like the icing on top of an already super awesome cake!
My way of thinking is that it's always better to wait till it's a for sure thing instead of getting possibly unclear/misleading pics and then obsessing over them. But that's just my opinion - do whatever you think will give you the most peace of mind moving forward.
Many people I know (myself included) have tried for a girl and BD one time 4 days before O... ended up with boys .
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Good luck!!!!
Blue dust to you!
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Totally trying to be positive! I'm even thinking of DD names - I've folded and organized my DDs smaller clothes and have them neatly boxed so they're easy to get to!
Honestly this will be a shock if it's a DS! I don't think I'll know what to do with myself ! Lol
There's actually a phenomenon I've witnessed several times where blue swayers talk themselves into being so convinced their baby is another girl, that they then have some gender disappointment when they learn their sway worked! And I def. had some sadness hearing it's a girl, not that I wasn't super happy of course but I realized "omgosh I'll never have another baby boy!"
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Ok so I had my dating scan! Per LMP I should be 8 weeks 2 days but I was measuring 7 weeks and 3 or 4 days (I forgot)
Now I didn't pay Dr Ramzi but from googling the Ramzi theory- my scan leans towards girl... my DD was also positioned on this same side. The scans abdominal :(
The babes heart rate was 163 and I think my DD was 160 at the dating scan...
Ugh... signs are pointing to pink but I know nothing is conclusive.