Gender Disappointment [Archive] - Gender Dreaming Forums

A surprisingly balanced Gender Disappointment article (0 replies)
8weeks & Gender Anxiety (7 replies)
Surprise at birth, gender disappointment postpartum (3 replies)
Twin Boys (6 replies)
Having a second boy - horrible disappointment 😔 (4 replies)
13+3 5th boy or 1st girl please give your guesses (2 replies)
Awaiting- Gender Disappointment Blues (3 replies)
Gender disappointment - Second Boy :( (2 replies)
3rd boy and so heartbroken... (2 replies)
Just heartbroken (5 replies)
Just welcomed my second boy (2 replies)
Long vent post (2 replies)
Hoping for some advice (1 replies)
Girl with brothers (8 replies)
Unexpected extreme gd (2 replies)
Having my third boy and just sad (2 replies)
Feeling really deflated after dating scan today (1 replies)
Terrified of being disappointed (5 replies)
Sadly joining you here (6 replies)
teasing for not having a boy (2 replies)
Surviving Gender Disappointment (3 replies)
Having a hard time getting into the super feminine girl stuff after hoping for blue (1 replies)
Still not happy with the idea of having our 3rd boy (6 replies)
Help - GD over my little boy, couldnÂ’t feel worse (2 replies)
Is it a better idea to stay team yellow/green? (1 replies)
Would you find out the sex of bub if you had gender disappointment with the last baby? (8 replies)
Gender Disappointment – Would you find out bubs sex before they are born? (0 replies)
Having our 4th Boy ........ Saying Goodbye to my Dream of a Girl Forever (1 replies)
Testing (1 replies)
Back after 12 weeks of severe GD... some questions... (10 replies)
Disappointed (8 replies)
Discouraged (5 replies)
SneekPeak says boy (3 replies)
The old GD creeping in again (1 replies)
Prenatal GD Therapy? (12 replies)
How to make same gender birth special (12 replies)
I don't seem to get notifications in this forum for some reason (0 replies)
Dealing with my family and gender disappointment (4 replies)
Folic Acid Intake (1 replies)
Coping with announcements (1 replies)
Failed sway, here comes boy number 5. (5 replies)
Does it go away? (3 replies)
PSV vs Tottenham (0 replies)
I dont want to feel this way... (2 replies)
Sneakpeek test (5 replies)
It's confirmed: I'm having a boy (1 replies)
scan day tomorrow... and so scared (13 replies)
Please help- gender disappointment- don't know what to do :( (2 replies)
Can sonographer be wrong? (2 replies)
My doc says ovulation time and baby sex is not true (3 replies)
Another girl. (1 replies)
A little worried finding out the gender... (3 replies)
Girls are easier than boys comment (17 replies)
ANOTHER BOY (6 replies)
7 Years on... (2 replies)
Does GD ever go away.... (3 replies)
Gender disappointment at 7w pregnant (6 replies)
Do I find out the gender? Advice please! (0 replies)
deep sadness (2 replies)
Just found out about DS3 today... (9 replies)
It’s a boy. I’ve heard that 3 times now. :( (2 replies)
How do you deal with GD? (22 replies)
The Feelings are Back :( (7 replies)
DE IVF high tech gender selection fail (1 replies)
Roller coaster ride that lead to being disappointed (1 replies)
I feel defective. (7 replies)
Feeling obssessed and over GD (16 replies)
Boy no 4. coming. I cannot stop crying (1 replies)
That old feeling is creeping up again... (16 replies)
Any Advice Please (3 replies)
Wondering how I will ever get over this disappointment (3 replies)
My sway has failed...devastated (10 replies)
Feeling so down..I feel almost certain my sway failed... (8 replies)
Just need to vent (0 replies)
I don't know what to do.. (0 replies)
Please help (28 replies)
How do I stop blaming myself for my failed sway and feeling guilty that I should have tried harder? (7 replies)
Failed Sway Hurts so Much (11 replies)
Feeling down (5 replies)
How to get over gender disappointment? (54 replies)
GD and haven't even conceived yet (1 replies)
This Meme breaks my heart (16 replies)
Just found out it's a girl. Beyond upset. (3 replies)
I may have a second chance (11 replies)
there no words to express how i feel............ (26 replies)
An "unwanted baby" (33 replies)
Does embracing GD help?? Could this be my answer? (12 replies)
DD3 gave me a new faith in God... Yet.. (5 replies)
Hoping the 13 week NT scan was wrong (0 replies)
DH won't try again! (9 replies)
Question (1 replies)
Okay and not okay (5 replies)
Coming to terms with it - my positive story (14 replies)
Scared these feelings are permanent (4 replies)
Feeling selfish (5 replies)
Another BOY (3 replies)
10 weeks and already anxious about GD (2 replies)
So much pressure on me, I feel so annoyed with myself. (2 replies)
Another pink announcement within family and friends tonight, I was doing so well until the last few (5 replies)
I feel like I'm betrayed by my close friend (4 replies)
I just feel numb (15 replies)
... struggling ... (1 replies)
Deleted (20 replies)
Jealous (5 replies)
How do I prepare for Gd????? (10 replies)
might be having girl number 2 and I can't stop crying (2 replies)
Not so lucky this time, my third sway (for a boy) has not worked :-( (16 replies)
How Do You Find a Counselor Who Understands GD? (9 replies)
New study published on Gender Disappointment (5 replies)
How to prep husband for GD? (0 replies)
The return of GD and now with it's BFF, jealousy (24 replies)
Back to Gender Dreaming... with GD anxiety (25 replies)
My mother is making me feel awful (1 replies)
Found out we're having our third boy (75 replies)
Dealing with jealousy (9 replies)
I don't know what to do and I feel like time is running out. (18 replies)
Feeling bummed after mom's comment for some reason? (5 replies)
Unbearable- when does it get easier? (8 replies)
Do my friends assume that I wanted a girl after a boy? (5 replies)
Why is it that most of us want GIRLS? (35 replies)
Some days it's hard....... (5 replies)
My husband judges me... (8 replies)
Angry at SO for failed sway/GD? (3 replies)
...Boy #3... (13 replies)
2 Ultrasounds - Both WRONG - MUST SEE VIDEO!!! (9 replies)
How long will I have these feelings? (13 replies)
Reprogenetics PGD and CVS reveal different gender (6 replies)
I really should not be posting on here, I am sorry! (8 replies)
19 weeks (1 replies)
Failed girl sway resulted in twin boys (3 replies)
So over it (11 replies)
3rd boy on the way (4 replies)
Second boy (3 replies)
Terrified of pending results. (7 replies)
Gender experts- wrong?!? (19 replies)
Just found out: another girl (6 replies)
article about the science of "wanting" (1 replies)
Can't believe I'm posting here (14 replies)
Panorama: Is it ever wrong?? (3 replies)
The old feelings are creeping in..... (12 replies)
This sucks. (10 replies)
How do you get excited about an unwanted gender? (9 replies)
shouldn't be here, but I am (17 replies)
Disappointment feels so wrong (2 replies)
Tips from therapy for GD (6 replies)
Three little words (5 replies)
what if I feel disappointed at the birth? (8 replies)
PGD/ED at Cyprus (Ada or Geneis) or at Czech (clinic R?)? (3 replies)
coping strategy that really helped me!! (14 replies)
Just need to let it out (4 replies)
Swayed Blue but Got Pink?? (12 replies)
Please help me deal with gender disappointment (15 replies)
Just a little vent (13 replies)
Happy Mother's Day! (2 replies)
Two failed sways (11 replies)
Does it feel better? I feel so overwhelmed :( (21 replies)
How do you handle going to baby showers for your DG? (17 replies)
Really trying hard not to let my GD get to me. (6 replies)
my GD story and goodbye post (5 replies)
Less than 24 hours 'til I find out (19 replies)
"Million Dollar Family" (11 replies)
boy bashing (24 replies)
How Do I Get Over This? (7 replies)
How hard did you sway? (13 replies)
Anxiety (2 replies)
finding out at the birth? (15 replies)
Is this a place I can share freely and not put down? (4 replies)
Anyone else annoyed by this? (10 replies)
So so so angry (11 replies)
Desire and disappointment (8 replies)
Looking for a bit of advice (20 replies)
Having a hard time with 4th boy at home... (6 replies)
Stupid newspaper article (14 replies)
SIL has the girl (10 replies)
Really feeling it atm (34 replies)
Disappointed, guilty, depressed and angry... Help :( (12 replies)
Making me so much worse.... (18 replies)
What are your strategies for those who trigger you GD (12 replies)
accidental second pregnancy! (2 replies)
Am I the only weirdo (3 replies)
Heartbroken. Pregnant with 3rd boy after 3 years of hoping and working hard.:( (9 replies)
Blaming myself and very angry too (33 replies)
New Here...gearing up for GD (3 replies)
Upset and Pressured (9 replies)
Deleted (9 replies)
Beginning to resent my husband... (5 replies)
Feeling alone, angry and depressed... (13 replies)
When do you say 'enough is enough' ?? (50 replies)
My gender struggle (2 replies)
Announcing gender after GD??? (9 replies)
whats wrong with me (6 replies)
It's a boy.... again (11 replies)
Tips for dealing with gender disappointment at the scan (12 replies)
12week NT tomorrow, I am crumbling! (8 replies)
Wearing GD on the sleeve (7 replies)
"We only make boys" (10 replies)
It's just not possible.... (17 replies)
Still not coping with idea of dd2 (5 replies)
please tell me if this shows any hope of a boy?? (9 replies)
Depression? (11 replies)
I wanted a boy. (1 replies)
need some support please. (7 replies)
Extremely gender disappointed (6 replies)
Positive stories of dealing with GD- how do you overcome Gender Disappointment? (9 replies)
Not sure where else to post this.... (4 replies)
Nub theory results have me in tears (42 replies)
Horrible Name resulting from Gender Disappointment (3 replies)
So upset :'( (10 replies)
Future GD......what if? (24 replies)
If you are a UK based Mum of boys only... (3 replies)
Would you find out? (11 replies)
One of those days.... (6 replies)
4th son in the way, am I horrible for planning pgd? (7 replies)
I should be happy but can't hold back the tears Gender disappointment CRUSHED! (9 replies)
Thanks, Mum... :( (4 replies)
12 weeks and guesses boy (34 replies)
Just found out I'm having boy#3 through panorama... (5 replies)
SIL is having a girl (8 replies)
Driving myself mad... 38wks (6 replies)
Was convinced it was a girl :( (15 replies)
Does anyone feel GD for other people? (5 replies)
age gap concerns (9 replies)
Just found out - please help (10 replies)
My last chance gone - feel so inadequate :( (10 replies)
Not as strong as i thought i was...antidepressants time :( (6 replies)
Gender scans (1 replies)
Need help from those who have moved past GD and into acceptance (12 replies)
i hate this feeling/ losing out twice :( (5 replies)
i wanted to say this! (3 replies)
2 boys already, depressed after 2nd failed attempt at IVF for a girl (3 replies)
3 girls and one Angel baby boy (3 replies)
anyone else feeling like this? (4 replies)
I'm having my third boy :( (16 replies)
Still feeling this stupid disappointment!! (2 replies)
Didnt think I'd ever post here (30 replies)
Extreme disappointment, boy #4 due soon (5 replies)
My 3 boys.... (12 replies)
This sucks. (6 replies)
Nervous (4 replies)
Feeling Defeated (11 replies)
GD update...just to say... (5 replies)
GD Sucks (5 replies)
How did you get over this?? Any and all advice... (9 replies)
Disappointed and alone (7 replies)
And it strikes again.... (4 replies)
RESEARCHER: Mothers of boys who wanted a girl (0 replies)
Hating GD :( (3 replies)
First time mom, resent my husband and baby (17 replies)
Gender disappointment...again. (3 replies)
Feeling alone.... (3 replies)