PINK MUMS! A question about the BIG O!!

[Kiesse]

Sorry if this is tmi, but……………
I know when ttc girl the female is not meant to have the big orgasm, DO YOU KNOW HOW HARD THIS IS?!?!?!
I am finding this extremely difficult and am having to find other things to think about while in the middle of sex just so I don’t go, but its too hard!
My question is, those who have successfully swayed pink or naturally had a pink bundle, did you orgasm when you dtd and conceived?
Out of all of the sway I am actually finding this part the hardest.
I am due to ovulate this Sunday or Monday, we are having protected sex now with a condom each day but it always feels different (and better) without one I am gonna find it even harder to hold off when we have our attempt!

[dloui128]

I can't remember exactly if I did or didn't with DD1 but with DD2 I know I did before during and after :)

[Kiesse]

awww you give me hope! I find it very difficult, he knows which buttons to press, i am usually done within the first 3-5 mins honestly! very sensitive i am lol.
Do you mind me asking, what else did you do, what was your eating patterns like? did you produce much CM? and did you have a cut off? trying to get as much last minute info as i can! anything that helps!

[dloui128]

With DD1 I had a two day cut off but we were DTD from the day AF ended until the cut off so it was at least 5 days in a row, with DD2 I'm not sure because she wasn't really planned and I wasn't charting or anything but to be honest I think she was a one hit wonder. Naturally I don't have a lot of CM, my CM was more creamy then it was EWCM. And as far as my diet goes I wasn't exactly a healthy eater. Sometimes I would eat breakfast sometimes I wouldn't, some days I would eat breakfast and then I wouldn't eat again until dinner time and it was mostly because I was too busy. I ate lots of dairy, drank lots of soda barely any water at all, the only vitamins I took was a multi vitamin. I liked healthy food and would eat it occasionally but I didn't very often only because it was easier to throw something in the microwave and go. I was on the thin side and never worked out. I hope this helps and I hope you get your girl:)

[lobella2]

I can't remember if I did with DD1 (but I probably did) and with DD2 I did (by accident)on my O-3 attempt but not my O-1.

[Hobbermittens]

I always have a big O, and I did when I conceived both DD1 and DD2.,

[ThreeLittleStars]

Yep, always including with all four of my girls. :)

[Kiesse]

Thanks sooo much! i was beginning to worry a little bit!

[nini]

unfortunately I only managed to NOT o when conceiving my dd. With all my boys, I o'd, I definitely tried not to this time, but I did seconds before dh (sorry tmi). With my first (not from my husband) I definetely had the big o and with ds2 as well (didnt know about swaying or anything of the sort).

[toomanyboys]

well in my case i did with a 4/5day cut of with DD1 and then i didn't with the O+12. i still don't know to this day which one made it. but with my history of literally no cm in the last couple years and if so really thick mucousy cm just before Ovualtion, i thought i am better off with the BIG O before and after only. to allow myself to be hosibitable as prior to this attempt i didn't BIG O a couple of times during my peak times and on Ovulation day and it never happened....so base it on your cm too. if your generally wet and moist down here then you maybe better off maybe holding back or coming AFTER rather than before he comes. but not during. but if your dry your have a higher chance to coneive if your environemnt is a bit more hospitable if you do have the BIG O and being quite acidic already will increase the chances of swaying PINK. this is what i did this time round (as i conciously gave kind og give up trying and though what the heck i have some fun too and subconciously was till aware i wanted to sway IFYWIM) had some fun did have BIG O more at our earler attempts. BIG O after DH on day of ovualtion attempt and BIG O'd after at our O+12 attempt. and now i am nearly 5 weeks....all i can hope for is that my enviroment was just good enough for conception but unhosbitable enough for boys sperm to survive..:)
it is not about the BIG O or cut offs really....it all comes down to your enviroment which is the biggest factor i think when swaying pink or blue....with my boys i was a very very wet cm person generally... and i was way younger...!!!! but with age my cm has completely more or les deissapeared during my cyucles and i have thick mucous like cm just before O hardly any EWCM. and even now whilst i am PG i have no CM at all...the odd drop or two...go figure..
good luck....

[auroara78]

I did not O this time, but I was swaying and was too nervous from his low sex drive (was worried he wouldn't have stamina to continue so I was too frazzled with worry to O, I just wanted him to hurry up and make a deposit, lol)

I did have the big O before and after the sex that made DS2 (It was a most awesome afternoon delight, LOL) but my lifestyle was very boy heavy then.

I really don't think the big O matters all that much in regards to swaying. I really think it's the other things you're doing that makes a big difference...lifestyle, food patterns, CM, his sperm count, etc etc.

[atomic sagebrush]

I did have an O with DD.

[hopingforsaskia]

I did with DS1 and didn't with DS2... I would think that with the RepHresh you'd be covered anyways wouldn't you? It "keeps the balance" for 3 days... :)

[Cinss]

I have always had the big O before my DP while DTD, everytime, he wouldn't have it any other way. So yes you can definatly concieve a girl with the big O.

[Butterfly Spirit]

I only O right before my period or afterwards. When you O it makes your cervix dip into your seminal pool, and it scoops up a lot more sperm, so in my opinion it sways BLUE. Soo I won't go there if I can help it. ;)

[atomic sagebrush]

Well, I've read conflicting info on that one. Some researchers say yay, others nay.

Makes no difference because if you O before your DH (which is how I normally do it sorry for TMI) there won't be any semen pool to dip into.