I am so very tempted....

[secretly sad]

To sway again with the help of Atomic. I had more or less made up my mind 100% I was going HT but Atomic is having such good results at the moment. Then I think back to how I felt when I was desperately wanting to know if I was having a boy or girl and it physically makes me feel sick! I don't know if I am strong enough to go through that again. I have just turned 37 so time isn't on my side anymore. What do you girls think? We can afford to go HT (just and no more) which we will be paying back for years to come! Decisions, decisions....... Supposed to be going for all my pretesting next month so I have to make a decision and quickly. Is the diet as hard to follow as IG? Thanks guys x

[Indira]

It depends if you can accept the idea of having another boy if you´re unlucky despite the sway.
Are you saying you can afford only one cycle of HT? I wouldn´t do that, risk of loosing the money and not getting your DG baby would be too big for me. Then I would sway with a personalized plan instead. Good luck with your decision.

[nuthinbutpink]

Going by your username, I say go HT.

[deaks66]

I say go HT first then if not successful sway with atomic. As indira says, it depends how much you could handle hearing boy again. I know for me, that is not really an option UNLESS i exhaust the HT route unsuccessfully and trying naturally gets the better of me!

[RedCanoe]

HT first and swaying as backup plan. GL! :)

[secretly sad]

Thank you ladies. I think you are all right - HT it is. Indira - we have set aside enough for 3 cycles. I think I have to give myself (due to my age) at least that. When i hear of so many of the girls on here getting their desired gender with the help of Atomic it does make think.... Mmm maybe I should sway again?? However, this will definitely be my last baby due to my age, 3 c sections, financially etc etc.. So I have to be sure it is a girl. Just frightened I will fail, that's all. X

[Indira]

Ah, if you can do 3 cycles then I think you should go HT.
If you sway you´ll have to go through the stress of waiting to find out again and if you do get an opposite, you´ll regret not having tried HT first.:fingers:

[auroara78]

I agree with others....Do HT first, esp. if you have the money set aside for 3 cycles and really, really only want another child for a girl only.

Swaying should be a backup if HT doesn't work, but you should still come to terms with the fact that swaying is obviously not 100 percent.

[sweetsister]

I agree,if you have the money to do it,do it,no regrets that way ,if you sway even the best sway you still may not get your desired gender.It is still a 50/50 chance.

[secretly sad]

Thanks girls. I feel very lucky yo have you all to confide in x

[Eyefrog]

Tough decision, I think I agree with going HT first as you are prepared for 3 cycles. Good Luck!

[atomic sagebrush]

SS, it is SO hard to know what the right thing to do is. Since you have enough for 3 cycles, have the history of C-section, and the idea of not knowing is making you physically ill, I would go for it, altho at 37 you're right, time isn't on your side, and I urge you not to postpone for anything short of the direst of circumstances. Swaying will still be here if (God forbid) you need it at that point.

For future reference or anyone else wondering the same thing, the diet is nowhere near as hard to follow as IG.

[secretly sad]

SS, it is SO hard to know what the right thing to do is. Since you have enough for 3 cycles, have the history of C-section, and the idea of not knowing is making you physically ill, I would go for it, altho at 37 you're right, time isn't on your side, and I urge you not to postpone for anything short of the direst of circumstances. Swaying will still be here if (God forbid) you need it at that point.

For future reference or anyone else wondering the same thing, the diet is nowhere near as hard to follow as IG.

Thank you Atomic x