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atomic sagebrush
June 28th, 2012, 12:58 PM
pH is second only to timing as an unquestioned “truth” of swaying. But is it, really? Let’s take a look at pH and see how and IF it even makes a difference. Updated 12-13-17

Biologically, pH serves a very valuable purpose in the human vagina. Many harmful microorganisms don’t like low pH and it makes it more difficult for them to survive. The naturally low vaginal pH of 4.5-5 is sort of a gateway mechanism that exists during most of the cycle to keep harmful invaders at bay…by killing everything before it can make its way up inside your uterus where it could cause a serious infection.

The problem is, sperm don’t like low pH either. NEITHER X nor Y sperm like low pH (less than 6), in fact it renders them immobile, if not dead. In one study, it was shown that when a woman’s pH was less than 6, she had no motile sperm in her cervix in the postcoital test. The pH of cervical mucus, quality of seme... [Clin Reprod Fertil. 1986] - PubMed - NCBI (http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/3742438)

WHAT?? Read it again ladies – pH of less than 6 = NO motile sperm in the cervix. Not X, not Y. X sperm DO NOT love low pH. NO sperm love low pH. Low pH kills sperm. That is why the natural pH of semen is in the 7’s – that’s what sperm prefer and thrive in (note – they don’t like super high pH either!!). Infertility - A Couple's Survival Guide (http://www.drdaiter.com/37.html)

Then how do we get pregnant at all? As we approach ovulation, we experience a gradual rise in estrogen that triggers not only ovulation itself, but also causes our our cervical crypts, endometrial glands (in the uterus), and special cells in the Fallopian tubes that grow every month for no other purpose than to make alkaline fluids, Fallopian tube - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fallopian_tube), to produce fluids that are higher in pH. This higher pH EWCM and the similar fluids inside our uterus and Fallopian tubes is ALWAYS between 6.5 and 8. pH regulation in the female reproductive tract (http://herkules.oulu.fi/isbn9514266641/html/x548.html) Even the fluid that is released along with the egg at ovulation is high in pH. There is NO acidic fluid in the female reproductive tract where sperm meets egg. ONLY in the vagina is pH ever low.

As our cervix opens up at ovulation, this alkaline EWCM flows down and out into our vagina and raises vaginal pH to enable sperm to survive. This CM creates a little path for the sperm to swim in to reach the safety of the alkaline cervix, uterus, and Fallopian tubes…when our husbands ejaculate, their semen is essentially a life raft of alkalinity that keeps sperm alive until they can find their way onto that path. It’s a gamble that our bodies temporarily take at ovulation – we risk temporarily raising the chance of infection in order to make it possible for sperm to survive to make it to the egg.

When Dr. Shettles came along, he did not have the technology to be able to go up inside a woman’s body and reliably test for pH. If you’ll recall (if you don’t recall, please read this essay to learn about Dr. Shettles’ BIG mistake http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-discussion/7691-trouble-timing.html) Dr. Shettles believed (wrongly) that X sperm were big and slow and lived a long time, while Y sperm were small and fast and died quickly. So based on this erroneous conclusion, he then decided that X sperm were impervious to damage and looked back at some old information involving a veterinarian that claimed to get more boy horses than girl horses conceived by using baking soda douches. But it just isn’t true. Dr. Shettles was WRONG. Both X and Y sperm like alkaline environment. They both thrive in it. All low pH does is kill off sperm!

The underlying assumption of pH and swaying has always been, women who conceive girls naturally have a low pH and women who conceive boys naturally have a high pH and that this affects X and Y survivability and motility differently somehow, and that’s why some of us have boys and others have girls. But this simply cannot be true. If ALL sperm thrive in pH of the 7’s, high 6’s at the very lowest, if sperm actually become immobile at pH less than 6 and DIE, and ALL our female bodies are designed to provide a nice alkaline pH at ovulation and if we don’t we have a very hard time getting pregnant, HOW can it be true that X sperm “love” low pH and that all the girls on the planet were born to women who just so happened to have low pH because they ate a lot of cranberries??

IT CAN’T BE TRUE.

Now, given all that, let’s move on to the logic of pH and swaying. Does altering our pH REALLY make any sense at all whatsoever? People have used it to sway and seemingly had some measure of success at it.

Just for giggles, let’s assume that the traditional sway info is 100% right – we’ll pretend that X sperm love low pH and Y sperm love high pH. What would then happen if we shot a big bunch of low pH goop into our vagina at ovulation? If the pH of the cervix, uterus, Fallopian tubes, and even follicular fluid is in the 7’s, and X sperm ~really~ loved low pH, would not the X sperm simply stay in the low pH of the vagina? Wouldn’t the Y sperm flee the scene in terror as quickly as it could and head TOWARDS the egg if it was more alkaline up there (because remember, your pH up inside the uterus and tubes will always be higher than that in your vagina)? And if you were swaying blue, EW or BSF/BSD, with pH in the high 8’s-9’s...why would a Y sperm ever leave that environment to go into a LOWER pH? Wouldn’t it just sit there happily basking in the high pH while the X moved on to more acidic pastures? It simply makes no sense.

The argument goes, that this pH diffuses up into your entire reproductive tract, all the way up to the egg (and there are studies and patents out there, done as most swaying studies are, by the “I.M. Sellingsomething University of Vaguely Scientific Sounding Gibberish, Timbuktu Campus” that allegedly prove this) but this premise is equally nonsensical. If the pH of the vagina could diffuse up into your uterus and Fallopian tubes, then our naturally low vaginal pH would diffuse upwards and LOWER our internal pH at ovulation. But instead, the alkaline fluids being created up inside of all of us (and remember your body grows special cells every month that have NO other purpose but to make alkaline fluids!!) assisted by gravity, flow down and into the vagina and raise vaginal pH!

Additionally, at ovulation, every square millimeter of our cervical crypts, uterine endometrium, the cells in our Fallopian tubes are busy churning out fluids with pH in the 7’s. Even if there was some diffusion into part of the cervix from douches/jellies/egg white/BSF/BSD (which may very well be the case) that doesn’t mean that diffusion will amount to anything at the egg, where it really counts. The cervix is designed to keep things that aren’t supposed to be there, OUT. The vagina is very similar to the human mouth - if you swish your mouth with baking soda water and then spit it out, and then tested your mouth’s pH, it would def. be higher temporarily and it may even be higher in the upper portions of your esophagus thanks to diffusion. But it would NOT change the pH of your stomach acid in any appreciable way (which in your repro tract, would be akin to the Fallopian tubes where sperm meets egg.) Diffusion isn’t magic, it gets weaker the farther away you get and it gets diluted by whatever other fluids it meets along the way.

Perhaps an even better example is if you have one of those horrible colds where your nose runs and runs…does it really make sense that if you put a moistened fingertip of baking soda inside your nostrils, that will do ANYTHING to change the pH up inside your sinuses? No, because your body is making so much mucus that it just keeps flowing down and out, not up and in.

pH has also been said to sway via “ions”, but the problem is that X and Y sperm have been shown not to have different electrical charges in recent studies. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/science-behind-gender-swaying/1562-what-real-differences-between-x-sperm-y-sperm.html Therefore they cannot be differentially attracted by ions in cervical mucus or by any electrical pull of the egg. Plus, acids themselves contain POSITIVE ions, not negative ones – so if someone could explain how bombarding yourself with negative ions “because X sperm prefer negative ions” (source IG FAQ) and then using acids that are chock full of positive hydronium ions (that’s what acids ARE, liquids with positive hydronium ions – read both pages, the second page has a nice graphic on it that clearly shows acids have positive ions and bases (alkaline) have negative ones Chem4Kids.com: Reactions: Acids and Bases (http://www.chem4kids.com/files/react_acidbase.html) and Chem4Kids.com: Reactions: Acids and Bases II (http://www.chem4kids.com/files/react_acidbase2.html) ) makes any sense whatsoever, that would be great – I’m not a chemist and I freely admit I could be wrong or have missed something on this but it just doesn’t seem to add up.

Practically speaking, if any of the ion/electrical charge jazz was true, there would be no need for Microsort – Microsort is a procedure where X and Y sperm are differentiated by using dyes and then a technician adds a tiny droplet of liquid that contains an electrical charge and then the charged sperm are separated by electrostatic plates. If X and Y sperm had different electrical charges to begin with, there would be no need for this complicated process, they could just separate them with the electrostatic plates! Again, we HAVE the technology to separate out X and Y sperm via electric charge but it does not work unless electric charges are ADDED to the sperm. Why would the technicians have to add electrical charges if X and Y sperm already had them? Answer - because X and Y sperm DO NOT have different electrical charges, this idea has been debunked!! If pH is supposed to sway because of ions, science simply does not support it.

Along these same lines, if pH really swayed in any way at all, it would have been proven beyond a shadow of a doubt by now. Because it would be so easy to prove using modern technology!! As one of the best known sway tactics there is - a tactic that’s actually been around longer than timing and I can guarantee you that most if not all reproductive endocrinologists have heard of it - if pH caused Y sperm’s “tails to freeze” or whatever the theory claims, then RE’s would have figured out a way to simply dump an egg and some sperm in an acidic or alkaline environment for a cheap method of gender swaying. They’d LOVE to be able to do this because they’d make a fortune at it. But they don’t, because it doesn’t work! If it worked they would be doing it already!

Yes, but Dr. Ericsson uses pH in his sperm spinning methods! There has been seemingly some success with Dr. Ericsson and others using “albumin gradients”, swim up/modified swim up, and sperm spinning, but there are some problems that have arisen with the Ericsson method. First of all, no other researcher has managed to replicate Dr. Ericsson’s methods independently (never a good sign for any scientific claim). Secondly, Dr. Ericsson himself admits that even after all the albumin and spinning business, the sperm are STILL 50-50 X and Y but claims that these sperm then go onto produce more boys or girls, according to how they’re spun. Thirdly, see the paragraph above. If pH ~really~ swayed in any strong, undeniable way (as in, put Acijel in your VJ as a magic bullet for pink, or BSF for blue), then WHY would Dr. Ericsson have to use all the “albumin gradients” and swim up/modified swim up and sperm spinning to get it a weak 70% results at best (that no other researcher can repeat). If true, we don’t know why it is – if it’s pH, spinning, or some other thing all together (such as the albumin gradients triggering different rates of capacitation than what normally occurs in the body.) We get as good or better results with swaying alone than Ericcson does with all his tricks in the lab!

What am I testing with my Ph sticks then? People do start swaying and then see the number on their pH stick change, and I have a couple explanations for that. Firstly, a lot of people on IG (a site where people test pH a lot) did NOT understand that their pH would naturally fluctuate throughout the month. When I was a forum mod on that site I saw tons of pink swayers who were thrilled that their pH immediately dropped to 4.5 (after starting their sway at the end of AF because that’s when people tend to start their sway; as it just so happens that’s also when their pH was naturally on the low side) and then freaking out when their pH went up at ovulation because they truly thought their pH was 4.5 because they were taking cranberry and not because it’s naturally low when you’re not fertile.

For blue swayers, if you start off testing pH NOT at ovulation, and then test at ovulation, it will appear your pH is going up but it very well may have gone up every other cycle of your life when you weren’t testing – including all the times you conceived girls. pH ONLY counts in the fertile window, because that’s the only time sperm can survive long enough to reach the egg, so any reports of low pH are meaningless unless we know for a fact that the reading was pH within the fertile window. So at least some of the pH claims, from IG particularly, are inaccurate and misleading because we don’t know when these people were even testing pH. Or how – pH from the lower part of your cervix will naturally be lower than pH from nearer your cervix and two different readings on two different sticks may indicate nothing other than different techniques. Not to mention that if you use a fingertip full of Acijel or baking soda and then test your pH right after, of course your pH will seem very low or high, accordingly. But all you’re testing is the pH of Acijel/baking soda – you’re not even necessarily testing your CM pH! Even CM pH tells you nothing about what is going on up inside where sperm meets egg.

Secondly, if you naturally have a lot of EWCM at ovulation and you dry it up via diet, supps, and antihistamines, OR if you typically have very little and then increase it via diet, supps, and Robi/Muci, then NATURALLY your pH will appear different. It does NOT mean that the actual pH of your CM has changed at all, just that there is less of it or more of it available for you to test. Since EWCM is what makes your pH go up at ovulation, having less or more (or thinner and watery vs. thicker and drier) than you normally do, will appear as an increase in CM pH even though your CM pH may be identical to what it’s been every other month of your entire existence. I personally believe that much of what is reported as rises and falls in CM pH is nothing other than more or less EWCM or CM that has taken on a more or less fertile consistency.

Thirdly, it is IMPOSSIBLE to alter your blood pH with diet. If your blood pH goes outside a very narrow range, you DIE. Acid/Alkaline Theory of Disease Is Nonsense (http://www.quackwatch.org/01QuackeryRelatedTopics/DSH/coral2.html) The idea that you can alter your body’s pH through diet is completely untrue. I promise that regardless of the pH of the foods you ingest, the second they hit your stomach acid (very low pH of 1-2) they dissolve into a low pH slurry that is then neutralized in your duodenum by alkaline fluids before moving on to your intestines. You can seemingly alter the pH of your urine temporarily, and it ~may~ be that you can alter the pH of your CM from diet in a similar fashion although I’m not convinced of that because CM has nothing to do with the digestive tract whatsoever. In one study done in mice, mice fed an acid or alkaline diet, whose urine pH changed accordingly, did NOT have any different gender ratios of offspring. http://www.publish.csiro.au/paper/RD06053

I find it much more likely that again, what you do to sway via diet is affecting the amount and consistency of CM and that the presence or absence of CM in the vagina is the only thing that actually changes at all. Example – drinking a lot of lemon water for blue keeps you well hydrated and being well hydrated helps your body make CM, in addition to replacing some less healthy options such as diet sodas that some blue swayers may have drunk in excess when they conceived their DDs. Example 2 – LE Diet helps to lower estrogen and less estrogen means drier and scanty CM and so can dry up CM and seemingly lower pH.

:think: If all this is true, atomic, then why do you keep pH in the sway at all? Two reasons - most importantly that people like it and feel like they need it or their sway will fail. I am certainly not the font of all earthly knowledge and if people want to keep pH in the mix, who am I to try and stop them? I have tried very hard to find the safest and best techniques that are safe both for health and for swaying and I feel that this is a great compromise between what people want and what I believe is best supported by the data. For pink swayers, RepHresh(this hasn't worked), baby aspirin (this hasn't worked), antihistamine (hasn't worked), diet; for blue swayers, Preseed or Conceive Plus, and fish oil, grapefruit juice, Robi/Muci (guaifenesin), and diet.

Secondly, I actually DO think pH can sway. Not in the way that the traditional sway gurus claim – not because X “love” low pH and Y “love” high pH or because of ions or any other magic bullets, but because low pH kills sperm, and fewer sperm surviving to reach the egg seems to sway pink for reasons we don’t understand. High pH, on the other hand, may help sperm to stay alive in a hostile vaginal environment until it can make it into the safety of the cervix and beyond. (Update - since we have seen little to no benefit with pH stuff to a sway, I really, really, really have a hard time believing any of this is working. Use the methods if you want to, but it does not seem to be adding anything to a sway and the pH approach is really cutting odds of conception severely.)

Some of the blue sway tactics that I believe to be sperm-hostile (such as egg white and baking soda douche/finger) the body is actually quite forgiving of, firstly because the sky high pH of BSF/BSD kind of average out with the low pH of the vagina to a more reasonable level, and secondly because when you insert anything odd into your vagina, it can trigger a reaction where your body produces alkaline mucus to try and wash the offending substance away so you actually end up triggering a big burst of mucus of normal alkalinity that gets rid of the super high pH stuff.. So blue swayers, even tho I still (VASTLY) prefer Preseed, if you’re already pregnant and you used BSD/BSF, please don’t panic, you still have a great chance at blue. (Update - I can no longer tolerate egg whites in swaying because I believe the risk of uterine infection to be too high and also believe that it may cause or contribute to miscarriage because of this risk. NO EGG WHITE)

I hope this sheds a little light on a confusing topic! Please let me know if you have any questions or if anything was less than clear.

PS - If you are a big believer in pH and still want to include it in your sway, that is FINE. This is not swaying atomic's way, it is swaying YOUR way. I have an essay on how to test pH here for those who choose to go that route. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/2065-how-check-ph-dh-dw.html


I know sometimes when I go around debunking these things people get frustrated. You guys want to know what actually sways, if all this stuff doesn’t. But we don’t have the ability to figure that out. To really unravel the mysteries of gender ratio we have to rely scientists and researchers to put it all together. In the meantime, we can use logic and reason and the science that already exists, to rule out the things that are simply not adding up!

Lucky-happy-blessed
June 28th, 2012, 02:11 PM
Atomic, this is another fantastically enlightening essay, and I found myself nodding along as I read it:bigsmile:

I fact I feel this connected the dots for me in a big way as I always had doubts about the way ph was said to sway, in fact I was going to ask if it swayed by reducing sperm count (as that had always been my guess) but then you covered that so no questions from me:bigsmile:

(and as an aside, I'm starting to feel like some kind of cyber stalker as I'm following you around and thinking that every thing you say is so insightful and brilliant!)

auroara78
June 28th, 2012, 02:41 PM
LOL @ "cyber stalker"

Another brilliant and very clear essay, Atomic.

Thank you for all the time you put into this website!

Mochagirl
June 28th, 2012, 02:50 PM
I remember being so frustrated back when I was on IG because I'm one of those people who have low ionic strength and so can't test my PH. I remember being told there that I shouldn't even bother swaying if I couldn't test my PH, and it was even suggested I take copper supplements, which are very dangerous, to try to make my PH readable.

I was so relieved when I came to this site for my next sway and learned how unimportant PH really is. I didn't try to test my PH even once and didn't fret about it either...and here I am having my girl! Thanks again, atomic!!

Hobbermittens
June 28th, 2012, 03:11 PM
Thanks for another great essay!

atomic sagebrush
June 28th, 2012, 03:13 PM
Thanks ladies! I really appreciate the feedback. :)

Mocha - great point that I didn't even think to mention!! Aside from the copper supps, people are also told on IG to keep cal and mag in a 2-1 ratio to prevent low ionic strength. This is super dangerous because high intake of mag supps can also make you really sick. Some of the IG pink swayers are taking 1200-1800 mg of calcium and so are taking 600-900 mg of magnesium to prevent low ionic strength in order to test something that doesn't even matter anyway. I know of two people who ended up in the hospital because of this! Don't take any more than 200-250 mg magnesium and if you get diarrhea from that amount, take even less, because when you're eating low potassium and sodium, having diarrhea for even a short time can really mess up your electrolyte balance and make you very ill.

Lilpumpkin06
June 28th, 2012, 09:03 PM
I've been having trouble testing my pH with the Hanna digital tester because you can't touch the glass bulb in the tip & at the time I didn't have enough CM. (used a Q-tip to apply & still wasn't convinced it read it accurately) So should I just skip pH testing & not worry about it?

atomic sagebrush
June 29th, 2012, 03:27 PM
My personal opinion is that if you don't have enough CM to test, you've successfully swayed pink anyway and your pH is meaningless - plus if you're using RepHresh your pH will take care of itself anyway. My other personal opinion is that no one should be testing pH anyway because there have been too many pH opposites for it to really make much of a difference and it has the potential to raise your testosterone by being another thing to obsess over. But I know it's hard for peopel to let go of.

This thread may help. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-discussion/2065-how-check-ph-dh-dw.html

Lilpumpkin06
June 29th, 2012, 04:43 PM
My personal opinion is that if you don't have enough CM to test, you've successfully swayed pink anyway and your pH is meaningless - plus if you're using RepHresh your pH will take care of itself anyway. My other personal opinion is that no one should be testing pH anyway because there have been too many pH opposites for it to really make much of a difference and it has the potential to raise your testosterone by being another thing to obsess over. But I know it's hard for peopel to let go of.

This thread may help. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-discussion/2065-how-check-ph-dh-dw.html

Thank you! I was hoping I could drop this. I just didn't want to be kicking myself in the butt later for not doing it if it was really important. I really think the LE diet has lowered my testosterone (& hopefully will keep lowering it) because before I would have obsessed about not being able to check it right. Now I'm glad it's one less thing I have to do. I feel so chill! Haha! :cool:

mrshonyez
July 2nd, 2012, 03:12 PM
I really needed to see this! Thanks for posting! I was freaking out last month trying to test my pH, and now I don't feel like I need to. This explained perfectly. One less thing to worry about :)

Elements
July 24th, 2012, 10:42 PM
Thank you for this. It has helped alot with some of my confuzzlement

mis2ninos
July 24th, 2012, 11:42 PM
What a relief thanks for another excellent essay atomic. I cant check my own ph and sure wasn't looking forward to turning into a mad scientist checking my husbands. I doubt he would let me anyway.

Rosie85
August 23rd, 2012, 10:24 AM
I never looked at the Shettles Method as a Ph thing, for me it was girl sperm do live longer and the further you put out sex from the O the more likely there will be female sperm to fertilize the egg. I thought it was proven that females outlive the males? Did I hear wrong?

atomic sagebrush
August 24th, 2012, 12:32 PM
I never looked at the Shettles Method as a Ph thing, for me it was girl sperm do live longer and the further you put out sex from the O the more likely there will be female sperm to fertilize the egg. I thought it was proven that females outlive the males? Did I hear wrong?

Yep, it's been totally debunked 100% and has been for decades. X and Y sperm are about the same size, live the same amount of time, swim about the same speed, etc. (and Tamara will verify this as well.) You can read more about that here http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-discussion-ttc-boy-girl-home-swaying-info/7691-trouble-timing.html and here http://genderdreaming.com/forum/science-behind-gender-swaying/1562-what-real-differences-between-x-sperm-y-sperm.html

Once timing was debunked in terms of sperm lifespan, the IG site started claiming timing worked because of differences in pH that occured in CM and that changes in CM occured for every person at the same rate of time every month. I do not believe that the facts support that which is partially what this essay was addressing.

fairyfrog
December 4th, 2012, 08:42 AM
I tried messing with my ph one cycle and got bacteria vaginosis. Bleh! BC and a week on antibiotics convinced me to just leave it alone.

atomic sagebrush
December 7th, 2012, 11:49 AM
Good point!!! BV is worse than yeast and now there are some types that are antibiotic resistant and impossible to get rid of.

mariposa
December 9th, 2012, 09:20 AM
wonderful essay, atomic! thank you so much :happy:

I only have a question, what about DH´s ph? is that important? I tested my DH sample and it was around 9 (it was with cheap ones, so "around" , never exact colours)
Is it good to sway pink? Should I give him cranberry to low it? Will be better to give him antihistamines to thickness the sperm and just forget the ph? :confused:

atomic sagebrush
December 11th, 2012, 11:17 AM
I don't think it makes any difference what his pH is, I think it matters how many sperm are in there and how healthy they are. Sperm have a pretty narrow range of survival - they really do best in pH 7-8 and don't like high or low pH.

I think cranberry certainly can't HURT. Some people have reported that giving their husband Sudafed (pseudoephedrine) has lowered their pH and made their semen thicker which may help your sway. Women shouldn't take Sudafed but men seem to tolerate it better.

Sometimes guys with high pH (9 and up) have an infection in their testicles that is bad for their sperm and there are some scary, but rare, things that can cause high pH too. I would test him a couple more times and if his pH stays high, he may need to see a doctor to find out why his pH is so high.

mariposa
December 11th, 2012, 04:30 PM
thanks atomic, I´ll do! :agree:

Goodus
February 17th, 2013, 12:36 AM
I wish I had read this before I bought my ph tester! I'm one of those with very low ionic strength and very little cm. it's been terrible trying to get any reading and I've given up on it for the moment so am so glad to come across this. I'll still use rephresh and acigel but not going to test ph. What a waste of $$ :P hopefully my son can use it in his experiments next time lol.

aidansmum
September 13th, 2013, 11:10 PM
Thanks for the great info Atomic! I had thrush since I started trying to lower my PH :(. Diflucan took care of it and hopefully it won't come back. I am not too worried about PH anyway, if I happen to find some I'll test it, but after Clomid I'm pretty dry, just creamy CM so far, very hard to test! And I have no idea what DH's PH is as it's a pretty pointless exercise because I could test it before but it could still go up and down. He is having cranberry pills though, just to cover all bases. I am having Aspirin every other day and drink Diet Coke just because I always liked it, and using Equal in my coffee.

atomic sagebrush
September 15th, 2013, 12:50 PM
whenever you change your pH it can cause thrush (or as Americans say, yeast/candida) essay about why that is, here: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/465-complete-guide-swaying-yeast-infections.html

myurkanin817
October 3rd, 2013, 02:27 AM
I'm new here and this just confused me to no end!! So if you're saying that our ph doesn't matter than why do we need to go on the LE diet (or any diet?)? Ill be ttc a girl in the next 6 months or so and I wanted to get a big head start haha. This just doesn't make sense at all. I've been reading on here to use Rephresh which is what I was going to do and now this post is saying its just masking the alkalinity? So why waste our time and money on it if it's just masking the ph? I'm sorry this just confused the heck out of me! I didn't want to change my diet much. I just wanted to take the aspirin and the Rephresh 3-5 days before O.... Maybe I'm just a blonde haha. I'm sorry... Hope you can get back to me. Thank you!!!

atomic sagebrush
October 3rd, 2013, 01:54 PM
Because overwhelming evidence suggests that changing diet sways pink. NOT because of pH but because of other reasons entirely. There are various theories about what these reasons are and we could debate them all day long, but the fact is that we really don't know. It's almost certainly NOT pH because if it were, like I mention in the essay, RE's would simply put eggs and sperm in a different pH solution and get overwhelmingly boys or girls.

Diet does A LOT of other stuff besides affect pH. The good thing is, even tho we don't know what actually sways, we don't need to know, all we need to do is emulate certain dietary changes that seem to sway and let our bodies do the rest.

The thing with RepHresh or in fact any of the pH methods that I have written about on this site is, I am certainly not the repository of all earthly knowledge. This isn't "gender swaying by atomic", it's gender swaying in general and thus I try to provide info about various methods even the ones that I don't personally believe in much or at all.

We have some pretty strong evidence that sperm numbers in and of themselves sway gender (fewer sperm seem to sway pink, more sperm seem to sway blue). Low pH kills sperm and thus low pH may sway pink by killing off a fair number of sperm, but it's NOT because "X sperm love low pH" - that is biologically impossible because pH below 6 showed NO motile sperm in the cervix, not X and not Y.

You can have whatever sway YOU would like to have. All I do is present the evidence and write about what makes sense to me after having studied the issue for 5 years. Sometimes I feel like people get annoyed that I don't agree and that it makes them doubt their sway, but I'm not here to convince anyone of anything or sugarcoat facts to make people feel more positive about their sways. It proved impossible to conglomerate all the sway tactics into one megasway. We tried it, it doesn't work. People who tried it got BFN after BFN and made themselves sick doing highly restrictive diets. In order to come up with a sway that is effective but still safe/sane and yet still allow people to get pregnant in a timely fashion, it is necessary to let go of some things that are either wrong or don't sway reliably and IMHO pH is one of those things.

Dan
November 12th, 2013, 11:05 AM
Thanks for the great info Atomic..
I bought preseed the other day, however when I tested its Ph, it was 6.8,, do you think this would be ok for a blue sway?

Thank you so much for all your help...

atomic sagebrush
November 12th, 2013, 03:42 PM
I think pH of 6.8 is fine where Preseed is involved because it's made to be sperm friendly and to aid in their survival.

unwirklich
January 14th, 2014, 03:49 PM
Ah, this answer my question from my other thread. Super informative. Every post I read by you Atomic boosts my confidence in your diet. Always so well researched, though, as I've been reading threads the last few days I thought I recalled seeing cranberry recommended as a supplement. Is there a reason to take it besides ph in regards to girl swaying? (sorry to bump an old thread)

atomic sagebrush
January 15th, 2014, 02:09 PM
No not at all, I like people to keep the old threads going that way we have less but more informative threads to read that way.

I have some threads on here from the earlier days of the site where we were kinda just discussing the various sway supps that were out there. Since cranberry is one of the best known sway supps out there, I do need to have at least some info about it included on the site. I do have cranberry used by DH because it is safer for them to take. I have a full discussion of the whys and why nots of cranberry here: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/ttc-girl-best-practices/7086-how-lower-ph-via-supps-cran-baby-aspirin-aspartame-other-techniques.html

1+2+3boys
February 25th, 2014, 05:28 AM
Great to read about PH. On a Baby forem I used to go on there is one girl swaying thread and so many people talk about PH and Timing and they all have no idea!

atomic sagebrush
February 26th, 2014, 12:55 PM
The unfortunate truth in life is "it's better to be lucky than good" and there are some things about both timing methods and pH that can sway by virtue of sheer dumb luck so it can work for some people. But it's NOT because of timing or pH itself, because the facts do not support it. And when people get too focused in on them, they end up shooting themselves in the foot going for things that really aren't doing anything while letting go of the stuff that does - such as adding attempts but keeping timing, or sending their T levels thorugh the roof testing their pH ever 30 min.

Aliroqui
March 23rd, 2014, 11:08 AM
Oh, thank you for this. I've been getting so frustrated trying to check my ph with little to no cm! Throwing those test strips away!!

atomic sagebrush
March 25th, 2014, 04:40 PM
You can give them to the kids instead, they have a great time pH testing everything!!

Dreamofpink
March 25th, 2014, 05:47 PM
You can give them to the kids instead, they have a great time pH testing everything!!

Spoken like a true home-schooler :wink:

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unwirklich
April 7th, 2014, 04:14 PM
So, I dropped the ph part and had one attempt last night, looks like I'll O today, well when I was checking my cervix today I got a good glob of EWCM so for curiosity I used one of the pH strips I still had in the bathroom. It was like emerald :worry: there is no emerald on the color chart, but it was closest to like 9, possibly even 10. Way too dark for 7.. it's possible it was both CM and semen being we BD last night..but is that bad? or should I consider it a good thing if sperm don't like high or low pH and that's pretty high so would reduce survival and sway pink. I just worry it'll kill too many and I won't get a BFP

atomic sagebrush
April 7th, 2014, 05:15 PM
I honestly would not worry about it one bit. I have seen SOOO many pH opposites, both blue to pink and pink to blue, that it is just impossible for me to believe in it any more.

Re it being too high and killing all the sperm, the sperm are long gone up inside the safety of your cervix now and your body knows what it is doing - I would bet that up inside your cervix, uterus and tubes, there is a very nice pH level going on.

unwirklich
April 7th, 2014, 05:23 PM
Thank you :) That makes me feel better. I took Clomid this cycle and it did something weird to my pH I think, so that had me worried. I kind of have yeast infection like symptoms, but no smell, just kind of a burning sensation and a bit of itchiness after wiping. I tried an OTC cream and turns out I'm allergic, by day 3 using it that was painfully clear lol so I tried yogurt and no change. Not even sure it is yest cause I've never had a YI before. I planned to just wait and see if the natural shift in pH from O would clear things up.

maidentomother
April 7th, 2014, 05:25 PM
It probably is from the semen as well as your EWCM. I think that if you don't have any vaginal discomfort, it's probably okay and not too toxic for sperm.

covered in blue
June 4th, 2015, 03:35 AM
Bump :)

atomic sagebrush
June 4th, 2015, 01:34 PM
Did I miss a question or is this just a general purpose bump??? Please help if I'm missing something (using very small words and a lot of patience LOL)

mandyp85
June 4th, 2015, 01:37 PM
Did I miss a question or is this just a general purpose bump??? Please help if I'm missing something (using very small words and a lot of patience LOL)

I think it was bumped up for a lady in the June 2ww thread :)

TiffSal
June 4th, 2015, 06:04 PM
Covered in blue bumped it for me. Thank you. And Thank you for the article. I have been using acijel so i guess i will stop that....

atomic sagebrush
June 5th, 2015, 04:05 PM
Just hasnt been getting the results to justify its existence, unfortunately (I would SO LOVE if swaying was that easy, just a little jelly! But alas no)

Pinkplz
September 8th, 2015, 07:25 AM
My head is spinning. I remember reading on this site about different types of ph lowering gels such as rephresh and replense and how 4.5-5ph is idel for concieving a girl and I had such a strict diet that I'm so completely tired of and can't wait to concieve so I can eat and drink without obsessing and freaking out about what I'm putting in my mouth... And now I'm reading that all this thing does is kill of sperm. And I used rephresh one day before dtd and then two days later.. Now I just wanna scream!!

atomic sagebrush
September 10th, 2015, 01:21 PM
This site is not and never has been "do swaying atomic's way or else". It is a clearinghouse for information about how to use all the various sway tactics safely. Many people WANT TO DO pH at least to start with, and that is their business, their decision to make on that. If I start making this into a cookie cutter approach then it would be no better than any of the other sites.

I would still much rather see people using the jellies (even though I personally do not believe they're working) than get frustrated and go to another site and start up with all the douching (which is causing harm and making it take forever to get pregnant way way more so than the jellies). I try to figure out what is the best, easiest, safest way of doing all the sway tactics, even the ones I personally don't believe in. I am not the font of all earthly knowledge and the fact is I could very well be wrong, maybe pH works for some people and if I go around ruthlessly cutting out the things that didn't work for me, that would be a step in the wrong direction.

It's your sway, your way. If you believe in pH, cool, that's why I leave the info up there. If you don't, then drop it. I did and got a girl without it. But I"m not going to go around starting to bully people into doing it the way that I think works.

Pinkplz
September 11th, 2015, 06:58 AM
Yeh I get exactly what you mean. The information you give and your essays are extremely valuable and thank you for that. Sorry I was just having an off day. Thanks for all your feedback. Greatly appreciated

Thinkpinkplease
January 16th, 2017, 12:26 PM
Thanks for sending me in this direction atomic. I also feel stalker-ish because frankly everything you say makes sense and I like your approach. It isn't a one hit wonder. It's logical and sensible.


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Mums
January 21st, 2018, 10:11 AM
great essay! Any new info on this?

atomic sagebrush
January 21st, 2018, 10:48 AM
great essay! Any new info on this?

What do you mean? New info?

This post has been updated last month so is current.

if you can elaborate specifically on what you mean by new info I can be of more help.

Mums
January 22nd, 2018, 09:26 AM
Atomic- I have a feeling I know your answer but your words always bring me comfort haha

How do you feel about the theory that vaginal cm ph and/or urine ph in early pregnancy can predict gender?

My brain tells me it’s a total joke. But I’m nervous at the same time because “google” lol haha

Mums
January 22nd, 2018, 09:29 AM
Everyone has their “claims” lol

And while I think I know what I’m hoping for one moment, the next I feel like I don’t really know ��

I can find major benefits to a boy or a girl to be truthful. I start to think it might swing one way based on these types of things, then I feel badly about the thought of it not being the other gender - hormones REALLY do a number on me.

Mums
January 22nd, 2018, 09:37 AM
I didn’t realize you updated it a month ago. awesome! Just saw the original date on page 1

atomic sagebrush
January 24th, 2018, 05:42 PM
ok! was there anything in particular you were wondering about though?

Teb
May 18th, 2018, 05:20 PM
Hi Atomic! So just to be clear, since you didn't say it outright in the essay, RepHresh, Sylk, and antihistamines are not really effective, since trying to change pH is not effective in swaying?

atomic sagebrush
May 18th, 2018, 06:02 PM
Hi Atomic! So just to be clear, since you didn't say it outright in the essay, RepHresh, Sylk, and antihistamines are not really effective, since trying to change pH is not effective in swaying?

Yes we've tracked our results with those things and found that none of them have worked. Same number of people getting girls with and without them.

Being MommaBear
August 22nd, 2018, 09:56 AM
I just came across this thread while searching this website. Thank you so much for the insightful essay!! I had been on a gender swaying group on Facebook and quickly left it because their approach and emphasis on adjusting body ph levels seemed illogical and unhealthy. That group seemed to proclaim that a girl sway was an extremely unhealthy and bland way of eating, but absolutely necessary to have a girl, yet I knew plenty of healthy women who conceived girls. This site and your essay makes me feel so much better about trying to gender sway and finding good ways (mentally and physically) of approaching it! Though I still feel like I have a lot to learn!

atomic sagebrush
August 22nd, 2018, 06:51 PM
Exactly, it just made NO sense to me either and over time I started to wonder "are they making this so impossible to do because they want to always blame it on us when it doesn't work out?" I mean sticking to that awful diet for 3 months and never ever cheating?? Who could even DO that? And then when I saw several people seemingly do it perfectly only to get a boy I was like "this cannot be right" and that's when I started researching. Have you seen this? It has more info about my journey to this method of swaying https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/7507-ig-vs-gd-swaying-whats-difference-who-atomic-sagebrush-anyway.html

I'm here to answer any and all questions so please just ask, ask, ask anything you want to know. :)

Being MommaBear
August 22nd, 2018, 07:37 PM
Hi again, Atomic,

You are truly amazing in your dedication to respond to thread posts and questions! I saw both this response and your response to my 'introduction' post, so thank you for that. And yes, that was my reaction! I felt like, if I don't eat a strict diet of white bread and diet coke for 3 months and have a boy, then the sway fail is my fault? It felt incredibly counter-intuitive, and I knew my doctor would not support a drastic diet like what some of these sites were recommending. I will absolutely read through that link you provided! And thank you for your gracious invite to ask more questions. I will definitely be doing that along the way (my husband and I are hoping to try in Dec, so we have time to prep for a sway). I did try to read a thread about frequency of BD and whatnot, but all the acronyms had me confused (in full disclosure, I had to look up what 'ttc' and 'BD' meant). If I find that one again, I'll try to post a more specific question there. Thanks again!

atomic sagebrush
August 22nd, 2018, 07:58 PM
Abbreviations are here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/2069-abbreviation-translation.html (they seem impossible to translate at first but within a couple days you'll be using them like an expert, even in conversations with people who will have no idea what you're talking about, ha ha)

aoverby23
August 29th, 2018, 09:03 PM
This makes so much sense! I am so glad I found this forum and you. I felt a lot of pressure to do all these crazy things to change my pH that honestly don't feel right. I don't think I could ever feel right about putting egg whites in my lady parts! I'm in a Facebook group that uses a lot of IG for their sways. This one lady in the group has been keeping her pH at 8-8.5 (blue sway) and has been TTC for 2 years now with no luck getting pregnant with either. Do you think her constant high pH could be affecting her fertility?

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atomic sagebrush
August 31st, 2018, 02:51 PM
Yes I absolutely do, not to mention that egg whites are NOT analogous to EWCM and semen is not made to swim through it.
But that having been said, the IG people also really hurt their chances in several other ways like timing with the one attempt on ovulation day, which is also terrible for odds of conception. Not to mention the diet, which is incredibly unhealthy. When I was on that site there were people who were going on and on for many months/years not getting pregnant, and then they ended up with really low bone mass and tooth decay, and even high blood pressure from so long eating no calcium and tons of salt.

I have a thread about the egg whites here, it's not a traditional essay, I have a lot of thorough replies on the various pages so you may want to read through the whole thing. https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-boy/6952-egg-whites-success-miscarriage-failure-get-pg.html

aoverby23
August 31st, 2018, 04:06 PM
Thanks atomic! I will definitely read this. I love reading your work. It always makes sense. Been reading your stuff for months before I decided to join and purchase a plan :-)

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atomic sagebrush
November 12th, 2019, 09:58 AM
Here's a great article about the risks of lime in the vagina. https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/context-and-variation/vaginal-ph-redux-broader-perspectives-on-douching-race-and-lime-juice/ pH doesn't work anyway, please don't take the chance

Racheleighc
December 17th, 2019, 04:48 PM
Just a theory about ph... Could doing the stuff to lower ph (and as you have said, most women are lowering it to a level that kills all sperm), maybe it is killing a bunch off, but by doing so is lowering sperm count that gets through, and may sway pink by lowering sperm count in the uterus, not in the traditional sense of swaying with ph?

atomic sagebrush
December 18th, 2019, 10:39 PM
Just a theory about ph... Could doing the stuff to lower ph (and as you have said, most women are lowering it to a level that kills all sperm), maybe it is killing a bunch off, but by doing so is lowering sperm count that gets through, and may sway pink by lowering sperm count in the uterus, not in the traditional sense of swaying with ph?

That's what I assumed at first, but since our results have shown clearly that the pH stuff hasn't helped, (same number of people getting boys with and without it, and it's the same as the overall success rate of the site) and then in addition, seeing SOOO many pH opposites where people with the "right" pH got the wrong gender and vice versa, it's really become tough for me to believe in it any more.

One of those things where t's fine to start off with it, but then let it go before adding attempts. :)

Racheleighc
December 19th, 2019, 07:11 PM
Okay gotcha thanks! ... Its so weird how something makes complete sense and still doesn't seem to make a difference... Frustrating!

atomic sagebrush
December 20th, 2019, 07:06 PM
It only makes sense if you think that X sperm are big and strong. But that has been debunked completely, we know without a doubt that Dr. Shettles was wrong about thinking he could see X and Y sperm through a microscope. He was looking at capacitated and uncapacitated sperm. X and Y sperm are about the same size, live the same amount of time, and swim the same speed. And just as you said while I started off thinking exactly that - that sperm count might still be swaying and since acid kills sperm it might still work, we tracked those results and disproved it. Again, totally fine to give it a whirl if you want to at first but drop before adding attempts. :)