grr at things not going to plan

[Lassie1982]

ergh....so much for no attempts this month..
DH had his wicked way with me when i was half comatose his morning...

Not good :(

Did a J&D.

We also dtd on CD5 - but thats safe as house. Also DTD on CD10, but DH pulled out well in advance..

So everything is in BOY zone - timing, frequency, have been back on the diet 110% for 2 weeks, but had 10 days of pigging out before it. Had tons of ewcm yesterday.

Folate, iron and zinc. Was planning on soy isoflavones next cycle.

I *think* i might be o-ing today based on temps and cm/cp

grrr

DH knows I'm not too pleased, i said to him "you know we're not supposed to!" His response "maybe you just need to let go and let it happen naturally if you want it to happen"

so annoyed at myself. :hair:

[cravingsalt]

Hi Lassie!

I relate. I've dropped a few of my IG sway factors (timing, replens, supps, ph testing) and am o'ing today as well (soy brought it on early). All that's left is diet, ions, half-assed pH (drinking aspartame, baby aspirin)...I've been telling myself that with everything we do to sway, it's still only a sway and whatever is meant to be ultimately will be. My sway is as much so that I can tell myself I did as much as to push for a girl.

Anyway, the ones you dropped, timing and frequency, are thought to be least important. Maybe even with diet your body may interpret your having the food but then getting it taken away so drastically as girl zone- and the cm... maybe just what you needed to finally get a positive? Not only that, you j&d so count was probably low, girl zone. So many ladies get their dream gender not swaying at all or with a weaker sway that what you've been doing, so who knows, could be serendipitous and you get to thank hubby later for finding the balance. :) 2ww, here we come again!

[BeadinMom]

Just wanted to wish you luck, Lassie...
I'm second guessing my sway attempt, too and I haven't done it yet. lol.
I think that's why we're boy moms...we tend to overthink and overplan everything....at least I know I do.

Good luck to both of you ladies!

[Butterfly Spirit]

Best Of :luck: Luck Lassie :HH:

May July be your month! Try to stop stressing out about "The BOY Zone" woman! :P

[Butterfly Spirit]

CravingS & Beadinmom, I'm pulling for you ladies as well! :)

I say July BFPs all around!! LOL

[BeadinMom]

Thanks Butterfly, I really, REALLY hope so! :) ♥

[Lassie1982]

Best Of :luck: Luck Lassie :HH:

May July be your month! Try to stop stressing out about "The BOY Zone" woman! :P

your very right butterfly :) one positive is that i have had zero stress this cycle!

Maybe dh is right - just need to let things be...

[Lassie1982]

Just wanted to wish you luck, Lassie...
I'm second guessing my sway attempt, too and I haven't done it yet. lol.
I think that's why we're boy moms...we tend to overthink and overplan everything....at least I know I do.

Good luck to both of you ladies!

Thank you :) You might be onto something with the over planning and over thinking - that sums me up in 2 words! best of luck to you :)

[Lassie1982]

Hi Lassie!

I relate. I've dropped a few of my IG sway factors (timing, replens, supps, ph testing) and am o'ing today as well (soy brought it on early). All that's left is diet, ions, half-assed pH (drinking aspartame, baby aspirin)...I've been telling myself that with everything we do to sway, it's still only a sway and whatever is meant to be ultimately will be. My sway is as much so that I can tell myself I did as much as to push for a girl.

Anyway, the ones you dropped, timing and frequency, are thought to be least important. Maybe even with diet your body may interpret your having the food but then getting it taken away so drastically as girl zone- and the cm... maybe just what you needed to finally get a positive? Not only that, you j&d so count was probably low, girl zone. So many ladies get their dream gender not swaying at all or with a weaker sway that what you've been doing, so who knows, could be serendipitous and you get to thank hubby later for finding the balance. :) 2ww, here we come again!

sounds like our sways our similar this month - bearing in mind i wasn't planning on attempting this month - all i have is diet, aspartame...and zero stress!

I've always been a big believer in "whats meant to be, will be, and whats not meant to be, won't" so i have a lot of belief in your mindset...just need to keep reminding myself of that!

here's to a fast 2ww! and bfp's to follow all round!

[atomic sagebrush]

Lassie, you just never know, many times it's the sneak attacks that end up being pink. I don't think it's a bad attempt at all !! Good luck and sending you pink dust!!

[Mum23boys]

Fingers crossed for you. xx

[atomic sagebrush]

Update?? Any symptoms??:noaf:

[Lassie1982]

Update?? Any symptoms??:noaf:

Thank atomic :)
Nothing glaringly obvious yet - FF and i had battle again this month and disagreed on ovulation day LOL.
We've compromised and agreed on cd 13 so I'm currently 6dpo..

My symptoms are much the same as i have had in previous months, slight tinges of nausea, tender breasts, but nothing else really that i cold hang any real hope on. But here's to optimism :) If i am , thats great :) If not, then the soy for next month is currently in the post so at least i have something to help next month

Im going to try my hardest to keep till 10 or 12dpo for testing

[Lassie1982]

hey atomic - i just noticed you have less then 1 month to go! How exciting!!! Are you all prepared? Did you do lots of pink shopping?
Cant wait to see pics of your little princess when she arrives :)

[atomic sagebrush]

I actually didn't buy too much - I tried to restrain myself LOL! I am NOT AT ALL prepared. It's actually a big problem! This family situation about killed me this week, I really needed the time to get stuff done both here on the site and around the house!!! Pray for me LOL!