Question about arousal/semen flui (TMI!)

[Sweetfame]

Hi just a quick question(sorry TMI)

Well, erm... Before BD my DH is getting quite excited(obviously lol) and there is PLENTY of arousal? fluid being discharged especially if there is foreplay before the actual BD. Sometimes DH almost leaking lol. And what I've noticed, it's that fluid really resembles my EWCM and it's really REALLY stretchy,I mean my EWCM would be envy on how stretchy his stuff is!

Anyway,the question is: is that normal? Does this in any way will interfere with us swaying pink?

Any info would be appreciated.

Thank you!

[fresas]

Pre-ejaculate can contain sperm, but if you've done everything to prepare your body to sway for a girl and you aren't planning on doing something like splime or the turkey baster or spin down methods, then it is probably fine. I don't know if you are planning on doing frequent releases, but I would avoid the pre-ejaculate with a condom or something else if you are planning on DTD two or three times the day you try to conceive, at least the first time you have sex.

[Sweetfame]

Fresas Thank You for your reply!

I'm doing LE diet at the moment and plan just natural TTC.
My DH can't abstain due to his age but he can't FR either,so we will be BD with condom whenever we're in the mood after my AF and then just CFR O-2 O-1 possibly? Actually I'm putting my sway plan together at the mo and will post it in the next couple of days.
I thought maybe use SYLK as a lube hmmm decisions,decisions.

[atomic sagebrush]

Totally normal, happens to every guy, and I wouldn't worry about it. if you're using RepHresh it will neutralize any pH considerations anyway. Sylk would also help if you prefer Sylk.

Regardless of all other considerations, diet will be swaying huge for you no matter what! i wouldn't give it another moment of worry.

[atomic sagebrush]

Fresas Thank You for your reply!

I'm doing LE diet at the moment and plan just natural TTC.
My DH can't abstain due to his age but he can't FR either,so we will be BD with condom whenever we're in the mood after my AF and then just CFR O-2 O-1 possibly? Actually I'm putting my sway plan together at the mo and will post it in the next couple of days.
I thought maybe use SYLK as a lube hmmm decisions,decisions.

:agree: something else you may want to consider in that case, is BD using a spermicide condom in the days prior to your attempts, then drop the condom for your attempts. The spermicide residue may sway for you in some way and yet if you do it days in advance, it's not going to prevent pregnancy.

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/ttc-girl-best-practices/1736-spermicide-swaying-pink-share-your-experiences.html

[Sweetfame]

Thank you for reassuring me Atomic! I'll give spermicide a go,quite like the sound of it :)

I'll be having my attempt in about 3-4 weeks, I don't want to rush it but at the same time I really want to get pregnant
this time. Last month we did last minute attempt at O-3,O-1 and O but we didn't get PG. I did J&D and a tiny amount of SYLK
I guess I'm just impatient lol.

As for the diet I've done well for the last 2 weeks and lost 1,5 kg but today we went and had large Macdonalds meal and now I really want to stuff my face up with chocolate :( how to control myself?!

Where is the best place to post my future sway attempt?

Thank you. X

[Sweetfame]

P.S. Atomic, i keep watching your ticker,not long for you now,only a week to go! X

[atomic sagebrush]

Just remember, people doing nothing to sway often take 3-6 months to get pregnant, so with swaying it can sometimes take a few months.

Try not to worry about any one meal - it's the overall pattern of your diet that sways, not any one or two meals.

You can post your sway attempt in the TTC girl sway section or there is also a section in the Dream Members section - I answer Dream Member Section posts first. A lot of people are treating their sway posts in the DM section, almost like a kind of diary where they keep track from month to month and it's working well for people.

[atomic sagebrush]

P.S. Atomic, i keep watching your ticker,not long for you now,only a week to go! X

I thought last night was the night but then everything came to a grinding halt! She must realize she doesn't have a name yet!! o.O