babydust
August 8th, 2012, 11:29 PM
I think...that maybe I'm over my Gender desire.
I do have a boy and a girl. But I still Had a BIG desire for another girl. Well, I'm in the 2WW now. Not sure if I'm pregnant or not but all of the sudden...something clicked. I Would be beyond thrilled for another little boy!! I always thought that boys aren't close to their moms. But that is so untrue! I think because I am very family oriented no matter what gender my children are, they will always be close to me, be happy, and live the life that makes them happy. That's all I can hope for. My son is Such a sweet amazing little boy.
I always thought boys were rough and tumble. No Emotion. Well I was very wrong. He does love to run around and do boy stuff for sure which is fantastic!! But that's only one side of him. He loves music and art, baking and cooking, reading, the beach... So Many different interests. He has such a sweet heart. Before I had kids I thought it was girls doing girl stuff and boys doing boy stuff. I love that I get to do girlie stuff with my daughter but she's not all pink bows and ribbons either. She loves rough housing with her brother. She's more rough then him! Haha
What it comes down to is that regardless of gender, children are individuals. It's not boys
are This way and girls are that way. There is soooo much gray in between. And as long as they are surrounded with a loving family then that's how they will Grow up. Family oriented and with a good head on their shoulders
I hope this doesn't change but right now I feel like I would be happy
With a boy or a girl. It doesn't matter to me One bit! I doubt I will even find out the gender before birth. I want to be surprised for once.
Yeah I swayed for a girl. But I'm glad I did because at this point if I had to try again I don't know which way I would try for. I didn't do everything to sway, so there is still
A good chance of me being pregnant and having another little boy. Yay! But I think it was a pretty bad boy sway. Haha.
We shall see. Another little girl would be fantastic too! Either way I
Might be done after this. My little bonus baby. IF I am Pregnant or for the future will I consider the sway a failure if I have a boy? 100% no.
When I was pregnant the second time, so many times people would say to Me that they hope I have a girl as girls are forever and boys leave when they get married. Can u believe that! Yeah, I did :/. Not anymore, not at all. It's all how the children are raised.
Just wanted to share my thoughts with you girls
Before I head to sleep.
I'm in a peaceful place now and it feels Darn good :HH:
Xoxo
I do have a boy and a girl. But I still Had a BIG desire for another girl. Well, I'm in the 2WW now. Not sure if I'm pregnant or not but all of the sudden...something clicked. I Would be beyond thrilled for another little boy!! I always thought that boys aren't close to their moms. But that is so untrue! I think because I am very family oriented no matter what gender my children are, they will always be close to me, be happy, and live the life that makes them happy. That's all I can hope for. My son is Such a sweet amazing little boy.
I always thought boys were rough and tumble. No Emotion. Well I was very wrong. He does love to run around and do boy stuff for sure which is fantastic!! But that's only one side of him. He loves music and art, baking and cooking, reading, the beach... So Many different interests. He has such a sweet heart. Before I had kids I thought it was girls doing girl stuff and boys doing boy stuff. I love that I get to do girlie stuff with my daughter but she's not all pink bows and ribbons either. She loves rough housing with her brother. She's more rough then him! Haha
What it comes down to is that regardless of gender, children are individuals. It's not boys
are This way and girls are that way. There is soooo much gray in between. And as long as they are surrounded with a loving family then that's how they will Grow up. Family oriented and with a good head on their shoulders
I hope this doesn't change but right now I feel like I would be happy
With a boy or a girl. It doesn't matter to me One bit! I doubt I will even find out the gender before birth. I want to be surprised for once.
Yeah I swayed for a girl. But I'm glad I did because at this point if I had to try again I don't know which way I would try for. I didn't do everything to sway, so there is still
A good chance of me being pregnant and having another little boy. Yay! But I think it was a pretty bad boy sway. Haha.
We shall see. Another little girl would be fantastic too! Either way I
Might be done after this. My little bonus baby. IF I am Pregnant or for the future will I consider the sway a failure if I have a boy? 100% no.
When I was pregnant the second time, so many times people would say to Me that they hope I have a girl as girls are forever and boys leave when they get married. Can u believe that! Yeah, I did :/. Not anymore, not at all. It's all how the children are raised.
Just wanted to share my thoughts with you girls
Before I head to sleep.
I'm in a peaceful place now and it feels Darn good :HH:
Xoxo