Is DTD gently ok?

[Lassie1982]

DH is rather frisky - i think its he is liking the opportunity to DTD for the sake of it, rather then regimentally because we 'have to' LOL

Anyway - is it ok as long as we are gentle and very shallow? Can the fluids get into my cervix and do any damage?

[Butterfly Spirit]

Sex during pregnancy is supposed to be totally safe...but if he's rough maybe tone it down until 12 weeks? I don't know... After my loss I waited until the first trimester mark.

Heck you're probably just fine though. Your cervix is sealed closed with your mucus plug.

[mummypink]

I'm always really mean and refuse to dtd until after we have got passed 12 weeks and heard the heartbeat. I'm just paranoid really as I had spotting in my first pregnancy and a little this time too. No real reason why you shouldn't but check with your GP or midwife if you're worried :) x

[Cinss]

I know what you mean haha. Yes it's perfectly fine and safe to DTD anytime during pregnancy unless your GP tells you otherwise.