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Lassie1982
September 15th, 2012, 10:34 PM
Its a BOY.....which I was expecting.
My sway at the end was weak, diet only.
I had reached the point where i was just desparate to be pregnant.
I honestly believe that the reason for me not falling pregnant sooner was to do with my very tilted uterus - having always DTD missionary then lying on my back, the swimmers had virtually no chance of getting in there.
Alas though, it wasnt till my BFP month that I found out about the uterus, and we therefore changed positioning, but my then i had thrown ever sway aspect out of the window (expect diet) I was even taking Soy!

If there is ever a next time i will go back to a full on sway, but just DTD form behind and lying on my stomach to the give the swimmers some chance.

Am honestly ok with it though, and am head over heels in love with my little man.



TTC a Girl Sway Attempt
Gender Result:
boy
DW Age:
29
DH Age:
44
Current Children's Gender(s)
Boy
Number of Months TTC
6-9
Did you purchase and follow a GD Personalized Plan?
Yes
DIET
Did you follow a diet plan?
Yes
If yes to diet, which one did you most follow? LE(Low Everything)


Comments regarding DW's diet changes-
My diet did become weaker as the months dragged one.
Couple of things i remained very strict on
- No breakfast
- No snacking

I don't know what i was doing in cals per day as i stopped checking, i would say around 1500 per day.

Diet was nutritionally devoid, not much veg, barely any fruit.

Mainly had plain rice / pasta / noodles.

If i cheated it was on sodium
If diet was used, length of time before attempt?
I had been on some version for the LE diet for 9 months.
I did allow myself some cheats in the 2ww, though. But then went back to the diet
Did you skip breakfast regularly?
Yes
Did DH change his diet with you?
No
Comments regarding DH's diet-
-
DId you consume alcohol? No


DId you try to limit caffeine?
Yes, I had 1 drink per day
Any Diet Details?
-
Any Diet Comments/Additional Info?
-
WEIGHT AND EXERCISE
What did you weigh/BMI do leading up to O?
bmi was 20
Any Weight/Exercise related additional info/comments?
-
THINGS in VG and CONCEPTION DATE(CD) INFO
pH Before Starting a Sway Program, if known
-
Any VG potions used?
-
CM pH at attempt
-
DH pH
-
How many BD attempts did you make for the BFP cycle?
4
BD Dates according to Ovulation 2 Days Before O
1 Day Before O
O Day
After O


Any additional comments?
-
THE DEED INFO
DH Info about Swimmers DTD through Ovulation


BD Position
Doggy style
Did you Jump and Dump? No


Any relevant attempt details?
Found out the months prior that my cervix is retroverted, so we did it from behind and i lay on my stomach for 20 mins afterwards.
I also had a big O...figured i would try anything to help the swimmers along
SUPPLEMENTS USED
DW Supplements folic acid


DH Supplements
-
Any additional supplement info?
In desparation to get pregnant i started taking the following
- Iron
- Zinc
- Soy Isoflavones

I had dental surgery 2 days before ovulation so i was taking antibiotics at the time and also codeine based painkillers
Did you do anything with Ions?
Wore 2 rose quartz bracelets
Moon Phase during conception?
Waxing Crescent
Did you use any Old Wives Tales?
Pink one piece under blanket
Things that make me feel great about my sway:
Not much really.
I started out with a super super strict sway, but as the months dragged on and i became desperate for a BFP i dropped aspect after aspect...the only thing I had was diet, and even that wasn't too great towards the end. So from a 'sway' perspective, it was very weak.
Things that make me nervous about my sway:
That is was virtually non existant!

I do wonder wether the reason i hadn't fallen pregnant sooner was because of my cervical position, in previous months we had always DTD missionary, and i lay on my back for 20mins afterward, which apparently is the complete wrong thing for conceiving if you have a retroverted uterus. My BFP cycle was the first cycle we DTD from behind and i lay on my stomach, and now i wonder wether i *could* have had a stronger sway and still fallen pregnant, if only i had known about my cervix position.
Things worth mentioning:
Shamed to admit that I smoked very lightly, 4-6 cigarettes a day, af-o.
Its very bad, I know. But I did it, so i might as well own up to it.


All in all, i am just glad to be pregnant :) At this particular point in time i do feel that i will be happy with a boy, slightly disappointed, but happy all the same. Only time will tell though wether this is true or wether it is just wishful optimism. The aspect that saddens me is that DH is adamant that he does not want more then 2 children - whereas i want 3, he says he won't budge due to his age (thinks he is too old) so if its is a boy, then i will most likely never have a girl - and its that definite aspect of the word 'never' that is slightly sad.

Will be finding out the gender at a 15 week private gender scan, so not too long to wait!

BeadinMom
September 15th, 2012, 10:46 PM
Aww Lassie, must've felt so wonderful to be able to type this up!! :) I am SO happy for you!! Fingers crossed it's a pink bean!! Cannot wait to find out!!! ♥

coocoobananas
September 16th, 2012, 12:16 AM
Good luck Lassie!
My husband was totally saying 2 was it for us too. When he realized after ds2 that I was really mourning never having a girl he came to me out of the blue and said we could try for a girl knowing how sad I was about it:) your hubby may suprise you and come around in the end but try not to worry about it til after you have the next babe;)

Cinss
September 17th, 2012, 07:31 AM
I hope you get your girl lassie! When will you have your first scan?

dloui128
September 17th, 2012, 07:52 AM
Sounds like a great sway Lassie, I'm so happy for you

NCBeachyGrl
September 17th, 2012, 07:59 AM
Congratulations Lassie! I think diet is most important and the fact you were on it for 9 months is awesome!

HopeandDreamG
September 17th, 2012, 07:59 AM
Great job lassie. So happy for you. I think you have a great chance at Pink xxxxxxx

Lassie1982
September 17th, 2012, 03:06 PM
Thanks Girls :)

Coco - i hope my DH turns out like yours! LOL :)

beadin - yes it was so good to type this out, i never thought it would finally be me!

Cinns - we're having 6 week dating scan, the nuchal scan, and then an elective gender scan at 15 weeks...so i will know by then at the latest :) we will probably do the nuchal scan sooner rather then later so that we can get the all clear and tell everyone :) So will do that around the 11 week mark so i probably won't get too many good guesses from that, but it won't be took long to wait for the 15 week scan

hopingforsaskia
September 17th, 2012, 04:16 PM
Good job Lassie!! So so happy for you! Fx'd for a little chicky babe in there... Can't wait for scan pics! ;) :flowerz:

sweetpea
September 18th, 2012, 01:29 PM
You did a great job, Lassie! Congrats on your BFP!! I hope you hear girl!!! Good luck! :)

genieinabottle1
September 18th, 2012, 08:24 PM
COngrats, I think your sway sounded great!

maidentomother
December 8th, 2013, 08:34 AM
I have a retroverted uterus and I have always conceived easily in missionary (my fave position), I can't even do doggy as I find it uncomfortable at best. Lots of women have tilted uteruses and it has no effect on ability to conceive nor does it sway in either direction.