What if dh has a hard time ejaculating in that position?

[Boymomsrock]

Dh has a really hard time ejaculating with me on top or with him on top. Not quite as much with him on top but he has a much harder time than with him behind me. If we are going to dtd several days in a row and be doing FR there is no way he will be able to go with me on top or him on top. Can he do it behind me and i j&d? Or is that a no no? I also want the best chance of getting preg, i'm 35 and he's 40. If i'm doing diet, does position sway that much??

[Navywife620]

They are talking about this in another thread. they said it doesn't make much of a difference. Maybe if you do it from behind have him pull out a little when it goes, so it more of a swallow then deep. I might run into this issue too we will see how tonight goes.

[zanacal]

Do whatever you should need to do. My DH released really deep and I did a J&D.

[Mrs_P]

you know what it really doesn't make any difference at all, i conceived at least 2 of my boys with dh on top, 1 am pretty sure doing it from behind. I know a girl desperate for a boy who tried it from behind and she got a girl. Only difference it makes is how long the sperm are in the hostile environment but with everything else your doing to sway it really won't hurt, if he can't finish you won't get preggers and you'll have a miserable husband.

[Navywife620]

I know for a fact that ds1 was conceived with DH on top but I remember him making sure he was very deep because I wanted to get pregnant! I am just going to make sure this time that DH pulls out half way when he goes so its closer to the entrance!

[Navywife620]

I also just searched on the internet and they said the spooning position is good for ttc a girl. Has anyone heard of that?

[wilma_five]

We did all kind of positions with all of our boys. I really really think it doesn't make a difference. Just do as you please. You need the spermies to get pregnant in the first place right?

[pinkin2011]

when I concieved this baby d/h was on top and real shallow I actually got him to point of no return then we dtd only "just" and we only had a one shot. I am having a boy! My poor d/h was having so much trouble he released for 10 days and then we did 3 releases in 24 hrs so by the time i wanted to dtd he struggled BIG time.

[6bluewant1pink]

Spooning position last failed sway gave me boy #6!

[Wishing4Princess]

got both my boys with missionary position, deep release. laid down w. hips propped for 30 mins and of course, was gaining weight and diet was boy friendly... my Dh would never be able to finish w. missionary position or me on top IF he was doing FR! even worse if he takes LR!

[atomic sagebrush]

Switching positions is fine. Don't worry about doggy style if that's the only way he can finish - remember, pretty much EVERY failed blue sway was doing doggy because they think it's a magic bullet for blue, and there are plenty of them.

I don't think positions sway very much if at all, esp. if you're doing a lot of other things to sway.

[atomic sagebrush]

Oh and I also got boys with me on top and DH on top.

[atomic sagebrush]

I also just searched on the internet and they said the spooning position is good for ttc a girl. Has anyone heard of that?

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-discussion-ttc-boy-girl-home-swaying-info/1143-best-sex-positions-babies-particular-gender-just-getting-pregnant.html

Still, I do not believe positions sway very much at all.

[Boymomsrock]

Thanks Atomic! ;)