What to drop first?

[Boymomsrock]

I can't find where it says what to drop first if i'm ttc a girl? DH did FR from AF-O and I used rephresh once and had one zyrtec one day and one the next. We BD'd through O 2-3 each day. What do i give up first? I can't find the sticky. :/

BTW..I'm 35 he's a young 41 and has testosterone through the roof though i'm not sure he has a ton of swimmers. LOL.

[atomic sagebrush]

That's because we honestly don't know what is best and it is probably different for every individual couple anyway.

I would drop FR and keep everything else the same - you didn't use a ton of Zyrtec or RepHresh and you BD quite a bit, so my guess would be the FR was too much for the swimmers.

[Boymomsrock]

So if you drop fr how often do we do it? Wouldn't every other encourage boys?

[atomic sagebrush]

Frequency just doesn't sway that much. Many of us got our girls by BD in boy frequency (myself included).

[Boymomsrock]

Ok good to know...thanks atomic ;)

[mama2LB]

Think I've just found the answer to my question! Would FR for say, 5 days reduce a little or is this pointless? x

[atomic sagebrush]

Think I've just found the answer to my question! Would FR for say, 5 days reduce a little or is this pointless? x

I don't think it sways blue, at worst it would be neutral, so if you'd like to give it a go and then culminate in a release AND an attempt on the 6th day, that could be a good compromise.

If he were able to pull the trigger twice a day, even better. In that case you could prob. go ahead with just your attempt on the 6th day, if that makes sense.

[atomic sagebrush]

You want him to be depleted, but still have some troops at the ready.

[mama2LB]

Thanks Atomic! Think we'll give this a try. As I keep reading, I'll never have the chance of DD if I can't get pg! :pray:

[atomic sagebrush]

That is one of my cardinal rules of swaying! :)