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October 18th, 2012, 05:19 AM
Hello
I am new here so....:) I have two fantastic boys and am dreaming of a daughter.
I am seriously concidering IVF with pgd for a girl. Im 40 so this is my last chance to have that babygirl. My husband and I are "ordinary people";)), middle class, so we do not have unlimited amounts of money lying around;)
I am looking into clinics, but when I think about spending all of these money on my dream, I am also afraid of people to take advantage of that.
How do I trust people who are making so much money on a thing that you can not check up on?
I mean if I do not succeed the first time, I will be around a second time to pay another 10.000 euros for another round of IVF.
Im actually thinking: How do I even know they are putting any eggs in there?
I know it's awful to think that about other people and there are for sure lots of good clinics and doctors out there, but there are so much money in this.....
Has any of you had the same thoughts?
Casandra
I am new here so....:) I have two fantastic boys and am dreaming of a daughter.
I am seriously concidering IVF with pgd for a girl. Im 40 so this is my last chance to have that babygirl. My husband and I are "ordinary people";)), middle class, so we do not have unlimited amounts of money lying around;)
I am looking into clinics, but when I think about spending all of these money on my dream, I am also afraid of people to take advantage of that.
How do I trust people who are making so much money on a thing that you can not check up on?
I mean if I do not succeed the first time, I will be around a second time to pay another 10.000 euros for another round of IVF.
Im actually thinking: How do I even know they are putting any eggs in there?
I know it's awful to think that about other people and there are for sure lots of good clinics and doctors out there, but there are so much money in this.....
Has any of you had the same thoughts?
Casandra