oh nooo :(

[amanduhjade]

I messed up ladieees !! So the night of the 17th I came home from a night out with the ladies . of course highly intoxicated! And im ttc pink next year so havent started my sway yet and I recently stopped BC I am supposed to ovulate the 22nd. Me and dh dtd that night and there ended up being a little semen in there he says there was prob a little in and a little semen out haha! My question is have any of you ladies gotten PG that far before O or do you know anyonr who has? Im freakkkin out!! hellp :(

[Mum23boys]

Its possible because you could Ovulate early - dont mean to put a dampner on it - was your hubby intoxicated too ? If not i would sure as hell be blaming him for not putting a sock on it !!! ha ha sorry !!! Hopefully it will be ok but you oculd always get the morning after pill

[amanduhjade]

Its possible because you could Ovulate early - dont mean to put a dampner on it - was your hubby intoxicated too ? If not i would sure as hell be blaming him for not putting a sock on it !!! ha ha sorry !!! Hopefully it will be ok but you oculd always get the morning after pill

Haha no he wasnt i woke up him up out of his sleep lol! Oh maaan im scared shitless! I told dh i wanted day after pill but we dont have the moneu until friday OMG this blows

[ThreeMenAndALAdy]

I know 2 people that are pregnant with a 5 day cutoff.

[amanduhjade]

Oh no! Im sooo dissapointed in myself. i will be so veru upset, i was waiting to ttc until my 2nd turned one. i guess i have to wait 2 weeks to find out i sure hope not

[amanduhjade]

Anything i should do during this 2ww ? As i said i shouldnt O until the 22nd but im slightly cramping now. or pretty much whats done is done? And i should jst wait to see

[LacePrincess]

Well, likely not much you can do. But try not to worry, a 5 day cutoff is awwwfully long, and that little eggy was meant to stick if you turn up preggo.

You can try drinking lots of peppermint tea, it supposedly can induce a miscarriage at therapeutic doses, but it kind of depends on your personal ethics what you're comfortable doing.

[amanduhjade]

As you said if i do turn up preggo its meant to be ! Ill just wait it out

[Ipadmad]

Sorry to be another one, but we dtd on a Monday, OPK showed positive on the Sunday afterwards (i.e. 6 days later) and I got ovulation pains on the Monday. So 7 days from dtd to ovulation.
The result, DS2 is asleep in his bed right now.
BUT, I think it is unusual to get pregnant 5 days before ovulation.
So I'd say probably not, but possible.
Chances of falling in any cycle are more towards not than getting pregnant anyway.
Not sure if that helps. If it does happen, then I guess these things are just meant to happen.

[LacePrincess]

Kinda off topic, but I'm super envious of all you Fertile Myrtles, holy cow! Back when we were trying Shettles cutoff for a girl we couldn't even get preggo with a two day cutoff. Sheesh I'm so envious of you ladies.

[Rosie85]

I got preggo with a large cut off. I am extremely fertile. If you fall pregnant easily other times I would say chances are strong.

[Ipadmad]

Lace - I get 5 days of EWCM, loads of it. But its probably why I've got two boys! I'm really hoping the Sudafed will help to dry me up a bit. It concerns me I've got too much EWCM to sway really.

[amanduhjade]

I am verrrry fertile! I was on BC with my second and i took it right no antibiotics .. went by the directions and still got preggers

[LacePrincess]

*green with envy* ;)

Dayamn, girls!

I'm not nearly as fertile, not even close. Ours was 2 months, 10 months, 4 months to conceive and nailing the egg each time. So why are mine all boys?!?

[atomic sagebrush]

It's possible, but not super likely.

[atomic sagebrush]

Lace - I get 5 days of EWCM, loads of it. But its probably why I've got two boys! I'm really hoping the Sudafed will help to dry me up a bit. It concerns me I've got too much EWCM to sway really.

Please use antihistamine rather than Sudafed - Sudafed is not safe for women to take - full explanation here: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/ttc-girl-best-practices/7086-how-lower-ph-via-supps-cran-baby-aspirin-aspartame-other-techniques.html

[atomic sagebrush]

Haha no he wasnt i woke up him up out of his sleep lol! Oh maaan im scared shitless! I told dh i wanted day after pill but we dont have the moneu until friday OMG this blows

Don't take it at tha tpoint, it won't work.

[Ipadmad]

Atomic - could I ask do you know what antihistamine would be good to buy in the UK? They all seem to have different ingredients, so I want to make sure I buy one that's going to help dry me up.

Thanks so much.

[amanduhjade]

I believe i may have O'd early, I never really kept up with O as i havent needed too! i have an app that goes from AF to pretty much predict O which according to the app woulf have been the 22nd but i have alot of EWCM today, cervix is waaay in the back and slighty open so that would be 3 days since 17th :(

[Inglewood]

Atomic - could I ask do you know what antihistamine would be good to buy in the UK? They all seem to have different ingredients, so I want to make sure I buy one that's going to help dry me up.

Thanks so much.

I took zyrtec (certirizine) not sure if this is ok to use, it was when I swayed last year and dried me up as the sudafed gave me palpatations. GL x

[Ipadmad]

Thank you Inglewood! That's really helpful, I'll buy that. Congratulations on your twins!

[atomic sagebrush]

Atomic - could I ask do you know what antihistamine would be good to buy in the UK? They all seem to have different ingredients, so I want to make sure I buy one that's going to help dry me up.

Thanks so much.

Cetirizine and diphenhydramine (this is sold as a sleep aid in the UK)

[Ipadmad]

Thank you Atomic. I've bought Zirtek today, which contains both.
I'm so hoping it will help, as mine lasts for 5 to 7 days!

[amanduhjade]

ive noticed an increase in cm , at first i thought i may have Od twice but no this is everyday now, strechy cm . could this be a sign of pregnancy this early?

[Mrs_P]

i had more cm than normal around my bfp but was really sticky and not very stretchy also not clear like ewcm. In past months though before i took steps to dry it up i got ewcm for days before and after o

[amanduhjade]

i had more cm than normal around my bfp but was really sticky and not very stretchy also not clear like ewcm. In past months though before i took steps to dry it up i got ewcm for days before and after o

its kind of cloudy

[Mrs_P]

could well be promising then - mine was quite different from the egg white stuff and it got sticker the closer to my bfp i got (presumably its starting to form the plug) and although its not as sticky now it still hasn't gone away

[amanduhjade]

ahhhh ! i hope not . i know it will be another boy if so and this is our last baby . im due for af nov 5th

[Mrs_P]

I wouldn't worry too much - swaying can mess you body up and give you strange symptoms anyway - its no means a guarantee - for me my boobs were the best sign, i only ever get sore boobs if i'm pregnant

[amanduhjade]

i havent started my sway yet , ds1 boobs hurt like hellll ds2 no symptoms at all whple pregnancy except bfp haha

[amanduhjade]

ahhh i got my BFN today never been happier! :)