mum2threegorgeousboys
October 28th, 2012, 07:18 PM
Hi Everyone,
I have 3 gorgeous boys and would love to sway for pink. I'm just in the process of gathering information and working out what would work best for my sway. The hardest thing I'm finding is the reaction from people when I mention we would like a 4th child. They look at me as if I'm crazy. Is anyone else getting that from people around them. My mum is the only one really behind me and had that desire for 4 children but due to her health had to stop after number 3. Of course as I'm not getting much support I question my desire for another and think maybe they are right. Can anyone with 4 children give me all the positives going to a family of 4. My husband will support me but is worried about my workload. I currently have a 4.5yr. 2.4yrold and 3week baby. So fairly small gaps and would like another 2 yr gap with the last one. I also get the comments from people like -you will end up with 4 boys! Of course what ever we are blessed with so be it boy or girl but people think its pretty funny we are same gender family. Maybe I should just ignore them as they are the ones who create expectations on people and hence fuel the feelings of gender desire.
I have 3 gorgeous boys and would love to sway for pink. I'm just in the process of gathering information and working out what would work best for my sway. The hardest thing I'm finding is the reaction from people when I mention we would like a 4th child. They look at me as if I'm crazy. Is anyone else getting that from people around them. My mum is the only one really behind me and had that desire for 4 children but due to her health had to stop after number 3. Of course as I'm not getting much support I question my desire for another and think maybe they are right. Can anyone with 4 children give me all the positives going to a family of 4. My husband will support me but is worried about my workload. I currently have a 4.5yr. 2.4yrold and 3week baby. So fairly small gaps and would like another 2 yr gap with the last one. I also get the comments from people like -you will end up with 4 boys! Of course what ever we are blessed with so be it boy or girl but people think its pretty funny we are same gender family. Maybe I should just ignore them as they are the ones who create expectations on people and hence fuel the feelings of gender desire.