moof4
October 30th, 2012, 01:00 AM
:babym:
today is my day! after the weekend of attending a family party whereby an uncle asked if were going to buy a girl! I thought I have had enough!! Society believes that a 'perfect' family is a nuclear family with mum dad and 2.2. kids of both genders. I have never been one to conform to society so I believe that my family of mum, dad and four indiviual children who happen to be boys to be perfecto!
I may not get to buy dresses (however I could for people less fortunate than us, or for my nieces), or walk my daughter down the aisle but I get to walk my son down an aisle, you tell me the difference. There are vast differences in male and females however i am mother of four boys and I am proud to say I am a 'boy mum'!!!
my husband suggested a while back that i seek grief and loss counselling, but i feel we are all on a journey and it was okay for me to be sad for awhile that i would not have a daughter however all of the time and energy I was putting into these feelings when I was missing out on what was right in front of me, my beautiful children.
today is my day of acceptance. i hope you can find peace also. :pickuphappy:
today is my day! after the weekend of attending a family party whereby an uncle asked if were going to buy a girl! I thought I have had enough!! Society believes that a 'perfect' family is a nuclear family with mum dad and 2.2. kids of both genders. I have never been one to conform to society so I believe that my family of mum, dad and four indiviual children who happen to be boys to be perfecto!
I may not get to buy dresses (however I could for people less fortunate than us, or for my nieces), or walk my daughter down the aisle but I get to walk my son down an aisle, you tell me the difference. There are vast differences in male and females however i am mother of four boys and I am proud to say I am a 'boy mum'!!!
my husband suggested a while back that i seek grief and loss counselling, but i feel we are all on a journey and it was okay for me to be sad for awhile that i would not have a daughter however all of the time and energy I was putting into these feelings when I was missing out on what was right in front of me, my beautiful children.
today is my day of acceptance. i hope you can find peace also. :pickuphappy: