have a question about the Custom Sway Plans? Ask here!!!

[atomic sagebrush]

They come with a pretty basic plan (the blue one is more thorough than the pink one, really) but YES of course I will look at it! Send it in a message or post under the thread where your questionnaire is.

The 21 day meal plan, I believe is helpful (or I wouldn't be trying to sell it to people LOL) but totally at your discretion.

[Bluebooties]

I cant seem to locate the thread so I will message it to you. Let me know when you get it.
Thanks a bunch !

[atomic sagebrush]

I will message you with the link.

[Bluebooties]

got it .... i will take a look at these resources as well. But i did PM you my daily meal plan do let me know what you think.
Thanks !

[atomic sagebrush]

first thing tomorrow ok???

[Bluebooties]

Oh yes plz take ur time

[Babapink]

Hi atomic, I was just wondering if you do personalised plans for diet, exercise, supplements and any other general info for ladies going ht? I've seen your plan for swaying pink for those who may go ht but I'm definitely going ht so thought I'd ask if there's anything totally geared to that route? Thanks
Xx

[atomic sagebrush]

No, but I help you guys in the forums however I can. :)

[atomic sagebrush]

For HT, a lower carb (but not TOO low, don't cut carbs all together) diet with lots of colorful fruit and berries, and nuts, with whole grains or even gluten free is best. Lower or eliminate processed foods.

Mod exercise is always good but don't overdo. 4-5 days a week.

Supps - they help you with that in the HT section and know far more than I!!

[Babapink]

Thanks atomic! Xx

[Bluebooties]

Atomic any updates on my plan ? and I did post a question about exercise in the other form if u could take a look

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes it's done, I think I saw it is posted today. I am going to move the diet question into the same thread with your plan so we can have it all together under one roof.

[Bluebooties]

Ok

[nuthinbutpink]

It has been posted.

[mom2boys2]

Do you offer money back if the plan fails? Also, I read somewhere on here that said a good plan could sway 80%! Is that true in your opinion?

[nuthinbutpink]

Do you offer money back if the plan fails? Also, I read somewhere on here that said a good plan could sway 80%! Is that true in your opinion?

No we do not offer money back because we are very upfront with the fact that swaying is not an exact science and we cannot make any guarantees. All we can do is provide you with all of the knowledge we have one the subject AND the personal support is worth every penny that we charge for the plan if you are truly doing to give it your best shot. We have no control over what each of you actually do with the recommendations we set forth. If you want a guarantee, I would look into IVF because that is the only way to guarantee anything and even they don't offer money back if you end with with no embryos of the desired gender to transfer! Don't get caught up in the percentages. Most of you are at 0% success if you have all of the same gender- so the stat I last saw of 66% is pretty darn good compared to the 0% most of you come to us with. We use stats to notice trends- it does not actually represent our member base as a whole because we have thousands of people that never post and just lurk.

[atomic sagebrush]

Do you offer money back if the plan fails? Also, I read somewhere on here that said a good plan could sway 80%! Is that true in your opinion?

No, the money is for my time and help and not any kind of guarantee. Swaying is in NO WAY a guarantee (if it was ever possible to ensure 100% gender selection, the whole human race probably would have died out a long time ago because the human race "needs" about 50-50 boys and girls to survive.)

While I believe that it is possible to sway gender a considerable amount (possibly up as high as 80% for boys, 75% for girls) I want you to focus on the LOWEST number instead of the best case scenario. Go in expecting the worst (which is 60-65% for pink, 70-75% for boys) and make your decision based on that.

Those of us with 3-4-5 of the same gender have a lifestyle that strongly supports the conception of one gender vs. the other. Our odds are not 50-50 to start with. My thinking when I was swaying both DS 4 and DD, was that if I could do something to get to 50-50, I'd take the flip of the coin at that point, because after 3 boys, my chances just "doing what I do" were probably much lower than 50-50!

[CarolineSinclair]

Hi,

I am a 39 year old single woman who will be using frozen donor sperm via IUI to try to conceive my first child.

Because I am older I worry if I have a son he'll have Autism, and I worry it may be harder on a son to have no father figure, so I would like to try to sway girl.

I also have Hashimoto's Hypothyroidism and high estrogen, which I believe is why my weight is about 10 lbs higher than I want.

I was going to go in for IUI this month but I found this site and could put off the IUI for one month to try a plan. I was told I would need a custom plan. I was told to ask on the forum on what steps to take next.

I definitely want to do IUI next month as I'll be 40 in September and also I think my fertility tests expire in July.

[atomic sagebrush]

Hi Caroline,

At 39, we don't have the time to spend waiting for a plan so if you do want to go that route, I will bump you up to the front of the line and get you your plan right away. I DO NOT want you to postpone the IUI at 39 for any reason! I wouldn't even have you do much besides diet and exercise, and a couple of supps, because a lot of the stuff we do is not going to work with the IUI.

In the following thread I have an alternate diet called "atomic fertility diet" (it is 5 from the top and can be done by anyone, I just put it in this thread for the sake of convenience because most people who use it have PCOS) and I think you should follow it with the variant for people who are going HT for a girl.

[CarolineSinclair]

All right, thanks for the answer! I will check out the thread.

[CarolineSinclair]

Hi Caroline,

At 39, we don't have the time to spend waiting for a plan so if you do want to go that route, I will bump you up to the front of the line and get you your plan right away. I DO NOT want you to postpone the IUI at 39 for any reason! I wouldn't even have you do much besides diet and exercise, and a couple of supps, because a lot of the stuff we do is not going to work with the IUI.

In the following thread I have an alternate diet called "atomic fertility diet" (it is 5 from the top and can be done by anyone, I just put it in this thread for the sake of convenience because most people who use it have PCOS) and I think you should follow it with the variant for people who are going HT for a girl.

Not sure which thread I am supposed to look in. Do you mean for me to click on the link in your sig?

Also, not sure about payment options.

Sorry for being lost here, I'm very new here and not so great with navigating.

[atomic sagebrush]

Haha yes it would help if I actually posted it, sorry. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/9052-swaying-under-special-circumstances-part-3-pcos.html

[atomic sagebrush]

My point really was that I am not even sure you NEED a plan. If you want one, I'm happy to do one and I will bump you ahead, but I feel a little bit like I'll be taking your money for something that will not be a super huge benefit to you (although the coaching would come with it meaning you'd always get your questions answered within 24 hours).

If you were to want to go that route, the link to buy is here http://genderdreaming.com/forum/payments.php

[CarolineSinclair]

Yes, I'll probably buy one because I will be doing the IUI in June, my nurse said it's ok and that gives me time to wean off the anxiety meds I'm on. I'll buy it when I get back from the store.

Thanks! :)

[CarolineSinclair]

Since I can use the atomic diet, I suppose the only thing I would need to know about is exercise and supplements. Would I need to purchase a plan for that?

Thanks in advance!

[atomic sagebrush]

No, I can help you in the forums with that.

The only advantage of a sway plan for someone in your situation is the coaching that comes with it. I would just not feel right accepting your money without you going in with the understanding that much of what we do won't apply to you.

I'd def. have you doing the exercise 60 min. 6-7 days a week if you can.

RE supplements, we have some discussion to do because most people take very little in the way of supplements (we all take folic acid, of course). You may have lowered odds of conception with IUI and I am torn what approach to take, because I don't want you to have to go thru many rounds of IUI to fall pregnant when we can take some supplements that may help up your odds of conception, but possibly could sway blue. What are your thoughts?

[CarolineSinclair]

Thanks for looking out for me about the money, because as a single woman I do need to save where I can.

Well my plan is that if I don't conceive from an IUI, I will get my eggs frozen. I don't want to do multiple IUIs, not only can I not really afford it but I don't feel like I have the time. I will want to get my eggs frozen for future IVF before I turn 40 if the IUI doesn't work.

I don't mind if the supplements could help me sway blue if it would help my fertility. Thanks again for your help!

[atomic sagebrush]

Would you ever consider an egg donor?

Just giving it to you straight, your body doesn't know about birthdays and so on and your eggs are in a gradual state of decline from birth on. So really there's not a ton of difference between your eggs at 39 and your eggs at 40. But, all that having been said we're going to just hope that this is an academic conversation and the IUI will work.

What I would do is have you take a brand name prenatal without megadoses of anything, but we will take megadoses of folic acid (I would have you take 2000 mcg and folate is better than folic) and vit. D 1000 IU total (including that in your prenatal). WHen I was TTC at 39/41 I just took Women's one a day, not fancy but it has a wide array of nutrients and already has the 1000 Vit. D in it.

Add in a pregnancy DHA supp and Coq10 (ubiquinol form best) 400-600 mg

If you do not have thyroid problems and if your prenatal does not have iodine, I would add in 150 IU of iodine.

Coq10 should be weaned off gradually at BFP.

Folate continued till end of first trimester then gradually weaned.

Other supps are ok to continue thru pregnancy.

[atomic sagebrush]

oh and if you do end up freezing your eggs let me know as there are some supps that are ok to take if you won't be pregnant that month. (things that help egg quality but may not be best if you will actually be pg in the same month as egg retrieval)

[CarolineSinclair]

All right, thanks for the information, I really appreciate it!

Sorry for taking a while to get back, I was very busy yesterday and today.

I have tried prenatal vitamins in the past and they gave me bad nausea. Is there any kind of tips to help with that?

I too hope the IUI just works, I am certainly praying for that! :)


And yes, I would consider donor eggs if my own become unable to be used.

[atomic sagebrush]

Don't worry about it, I can't always get back to you guys right away anyway.

Take the prenatals with a meal and if one brand doesn't work, take a different one. Don't take them before bed tho becuase they can keep you awake.

[CarolineSinclair]

All right thanks for the tip!

I'll keep the board updated on how things go. :)

[CarolineSinclair]

Hi, I was wondering where I could find the exercises you recommended me to do 60 min. a day. My main concern is boosting fertility over gender swaying now. Thanks!

[atomic sagebrush]

I'd just walk. I wouldn't exercise more than 4 days a week for you either.

[CarolineSinclair]

Thanks, sounds good!

I'll be going in for the IUI around the 15th, wish me luck everyone!

[atomic sagebrush]

Good luck Caroline and keep us posted!!

[Blue Bear]

Hi! I should have possibly posted my question here... I had ordered the sway plan Aug 3 (I think!) and was wondering how long this would be. I know the wait says 10-12 days but I know sometimes it is less based on the list. Looking forward to getting started on any additions since we will be trying again in about a month. Thanks!! :)

[nuthinbutpink]

Hi! I should have possibly posted my question here... I had ordered the sway plan Aug 3 (I think!) and was wondering how long this would be. I know the wait says 10-12 days but I know sometimes it is less based on the list. Looking forward to getting started on any additions since we will be trying again in about a month. Thanks!! :)

It's around 10 days! Looks like yours should be posted very soon! You will get a PM/email when it is posted.

[atomic sagebrush]

Hi! I should have possibly posted my question here... I had ordered the sway plan Aug 3 (I think!) and was wondering how long this would be. I know the wait says 10-12 days but I know sometimes it is less based on the list. Looking forward to getting started on any additions since we will be trying again in about a month. Thanks!! :)

I get thru the plans in 7-10 days and yours was actually done, I like to let it "percolate" for a day and then review it which I did this afternoon and just sent in to tech support to be posted.

[Milybaby]

Hi Atomic, you told me you Were sending my plan in à couple of days but I didńt receive anything... Could you tell me when you think you're gonna be able to send it? I began LE diet 2 days ago and it´s really difficult...
Thank you :)
Xxx

[atomic sagebrush]

I do my very best to get things done as quickly as I can and your plan was completed as quickly as I was able to.

[oxox2013]

Hello Everyone!

So just a quick question... I have already purchased my plan and am just waiting now so I have kinda started trying a few things here and there to see how I will do with this diet. I am an awful dieter and my eating habits suck so I know this will be the hardest, yet most important part of my sway. Anyway so my question is will the plan come with a more narrowed down shopping list for pink? I found the larger list and I can go off of that if need be, but I do find it so overwhelming! I do not wanna mess this diet up.

My plan is to be on the diet until my attempt in November. Depending on when I ovulate, this should give me about 12 weeks on the diet if I O mid November and start the diet hard core Sept. 1st. Does this sound ok or will that be spelled out in my plan to? I guess I kinda hope the sway plan is called swaying for dummies! LOL

[atomic sagebrush]

No, the plan doesn't come with a shopping list. It would be literally impossible for me to have the info I would need to know the foods around the world.

You certainly DON'T need to buy everything or even ANYTHING on that shopping list!! Was more of just a catchall for everything we could think of. :)

We will work together in your forum to get your diet ironed out for your sway. Starting in Sept. for NOv. ovulation is fine!

[CinnamonSwirl]

Hiya, I purchased my plan a week or so a go and just wanted to check what are the wait times on the plans? xx

[atomic sagebrush]

It was posted yesterday morning, can you see it?

[Pretty]

I'm sorry, I may be missing something painfully obvious but I am going to ask rather do more research (I am a quintessential pink swayer), but what is the different between "The TTC a Girl Bundle- Personalized Gender Swaying Plan and Coaching Service PLUS Guide to Understanding Your Cycle and using OPKs to Sway PLUS 21-day Meal Plan" and "The Complete TTC Girl Package"?
TIA!

[atomic sagebrush]

If you want a personalized plan then you get the one that says "personalized". Some people don't want to wait for plan OR don't need the Coaching (they just want to grab something and go rather than hanging out in the forums) so they get the other one.

[Pretty]

They both say "personalized plan" in the description :(
I'm sorry to be difficult... I'd like to just go with the one that's cheaper, but I hate to do that and not know what I'm giving up or missing out on...

[atomic sagebrush]

Sorry, let me take a closer look, I never bought a plan LOL so I forget what exactly is in which option.

[atomic sagebrush]

Sorry, let me take a closer look, I never bought a plan LOL so I forget what exactly is in which option.

The cheapest one is just the plan and coaching. The next one up has the diet book and OPK book. The most expensive one has all three books. All come with plan and coaching. It just depends on what you want.

[Pretty]

Thank you!! I just ordered my plan!:running:

[atomic sagebrush]

thank you!

[NewPreggie]

Hello atomic,
I might start TTC late this year or late next year. I am hoping to time baby to come during Spring 2017 or Spring 2018 because of school.

I won't know for a while which year we will try so if we do decide to wait until 2018:

1. Is it too early now to buy a plan?
2. Would the plan be different by 2018 or change along the way?
3. If I buy now, would I have to pay again for coaching?
4. If I buy now, would I have to pay again for the plan?
5. Is there a "boy diet" that I can incorporate into normal daily life until then in case I get unplanned pregnant?

Thank you.

[atomic sagebrush]

1)No, some people like to have a plan really far in advance. IT's totally about what works better for you.

2) Not usually, unless you or your husbnd had some new medical condition or gained/lost a lot of weight.

3)That's up to you if you want to continue coaching or not. 6 months costs $25 and you may have all your questions answered during the first session and decide to just let it lapse or you can renew it if you want to (or you can let it lapse for a while and then renew)

4)Only very rarely would you need a whole different plan and most people just renew the coaching.

5)http://genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-boy/16806-high-everything-diet-nutshell-version.html

[NewPreggie]

I am a dream member now. Can I post a light sway for you to review? Just looking to ease into a boy-friendly lifestyle first. I need time to adjust to such a new way of eating. When I'm ready I'll buy a plan.

Is there an app you recommend or easy way to track nutrients intake?

[atomic sagebrush]

yes of course! Please do!

Most people use My Fitness Pal to track nutrients. :)

[dross]

hi! im not sure if i am being redundant as i PMd you as well, but i want to be guaranteed to get you as my sway coach. is that possible? we plan on TTC late june so i definitely want to get a move on and am eager! thank you!

[nuthinbutpink]

hi! im not sure if i am being redundant as i PMd you as well, but i want to be guaranteed to get you as my sway coach. is that possible? we plan on TTC late june so i definitely want to get a move on and am eager! thank you!
Yes, atomic will do your plan and is your sway coach!

[dross]

so when i buy the package (ps what package do you suggest??) atomic will be guarenteed to be my coach?

[atomic sagebrush]

I think I answered this via PM but just in case, I am the only sway coach there is so I do all the plans. Sorry I didn't get back to this question sooner, Mother's Day and one of my kids' birthdays this week made me a little behind on q's for a couple days.

[norskie2005]

Hi Atomic, I had just ordered a plan and am confused as to what I'm supposed to do now lol??

[atomic sagebrush]

Fill out the questionnaire and once I get it I can make your plan.

[norskie2005]

Ok I just figured out that I needed to log out and then back in to find the questionnaire, it wasn't popping up until I did that. I just finished filling them out, thanks! Hope I did it right lol!

[atomic sagebrush]

I see them, norskie!! thank you!

[norskie2005]

I had sent you a personal message too, before I decided to jump the gun and get a plan, so you can ignore that message now. I'm just really looking forward to working with you and getting help to possibly get a little girl, but know in the end if we are blessed with another little boy I'll be just as happy, all we want is a healthy baby <3 Thanks atomic for helping me out!

[Dgine]

Hi Atomic, I bought the complete ttc girl package but I only received the swaying plan, the 5 day menu, and the LE diet shopping list. I'm missing the understanding you cycle book, the 21 days menu, and the guide to timing book. Please reply because the diet component of my sway is hard for me.

[nuthinbutpink]

Hi Atomic, I bought the complete ttc girl package but I only received the swaying plan, the 5 day menu, and the LE diet shopping list. I'm missing the understanding you cycle book, the 21 days menu, and the guide to timing book. Please reply because the diet component of my sway is hard for me.

Hi there. All of those items and available for immediate download. The PDFs are located in this section of the site- http://genderdreaming.com/forum/plans-and-ebooks-available-for-purchase/

Hope that helps!

[3rdXsaCharm]

Hello,

I am new to this site and apologize if this question has been asked before but what is the difference between the TTC girl bundle and the complete package? Thanks!

[nuthinbutpink]

Hello,

I am new to this site and apologize if this question has been asked before but what is the difference between the TTC girl bundle and the complete package? Thanks!

The complete package gives you access to all the eBooks we have in our library.

[3rdXsaCharm]

Thank you!

[Amberekstrom]

Hi atomic, I private messaged you as I didn't see this thread. I purchased the plan early last week and haven't heard anything. Not sure how long it takes our what the expectations are there?? Anyways I've also been prescribed Clomid so just want to make sure you know that when completing my plan. Thanks again!

[nuthinbutpink]

Hi atomic, I private messaged you as I didn't see this thread. I purchased the plan early last week and haven't heard anything. Not sure how long it takes our what the expectations are there?? Anyways I've also been prescribed Clomid so just want to make sure you know that when completing my plan. Thanks again!

Once you fill out the forms, it takes around 10-12 days to receive your plan depending on how complex it is!

[atomic sagebrush]

I need the questionnaires before I can do a plan. Without the questionnaires I don't have the info I need to do the plan. You can find the questionnaires here in this thread http://genderdreaming.com/forum/misc.php?do=forms

I add people to my calendar as the questionnaires come in but I'll try to move things around to get your plan back to you ASAP. :)

[JW123]

Hi, I know you are really busy. Just wondering if you know when my plan will arrive. I am looking forward to getting started. Many thanks Jenna

[atomic sagebrush]

Hi, I know you are really busy. Just wondering if you know when my plan will arrive. I am looking forward to getting started. Many thanks Jenna

already sent thanks for patience!

[Mommy2apples]

Am I doing something wrong? How do I post a new topic?

[JW123]

Plan is great just trying to get my head around a few things...
I drink probiotic yogurts since skipping breakfast but now found out they are blue. Would a strawberry milk shake be recommended... trying to cut down tea but would tea be better than a milkshake. Prob the milkshake will have loads of sugar????


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[atomic sagebrush]

Probiotics in form of yogurt or kefir are fine. It's the kind that are supplements (pills you swallow) that swayed blue.

Anything with calories in it (and this probably includes yogurt!) would count as breakfast. It's fine if you choose to do that, I just wanted you to understand that it is really breakfast.

[LoveCharlie]

Hello - I bought a customized plan on August 1 and haven't heard anything about it yet. It's been 3 weeks and that's 3 weeks where I could've been doing something, so I'm a bit upset. Can you please advise what's going on? I did see it taken out of my bank account on August 1st as well.

[nuthinbutpink]

Hello - I bought a customized plan on August 1 and haven't heard anything about it yet. It's been 3 weeks and that's 3 weeks where I could've been doing something, so I'm a bit upset. Can you please advise what's going on? I did see it taken out of my bank account on August 1st as well.

You have had access after you wanted it switched to the customized plan. I just sent an email with the link to the forum but you can see it on here now too. It is Access to.....

You also have access to the meal plan. Please refer to your email. Thanks!

[atomic sagebrush]

Hello - I bought a customized plan on August 1 and haven't heard anything about it yet. It's been 3 weeks and that's 3 weeks where I could've been doing something, so I'm a bit upset. Can you please advise what's going on? I did see it taken out of my bank account on August 1st as well.

I'm sorry, I only see them once the questionnaire is completed and I never got a questionnaire from you so I didn't know to put it on my schedule. I will do your plan immediately upon receiving the questionnaire, have cleared my schedule to do that ASAP. So sorry for mixup!!!

[atomic sagebrush]

I have my schedule open tonight through 6, if I get a questionnaire I can do the plan right away. Otherwise we will have to wait till tomorrow (but I'll still get your plan done immediately upon receiving the questionnaires tomorrow from 8am through 6 pm.)

[atomic sagebrush]

The link to our questionnaires is here (you have to scroll down past a couple other forms to spot them) http://genderdreaming.com/forum/misc.php?do=forms

[Nonerz]

Hello,

I just purchased the "TTC a Boy Bundle- Personalized Gender Swaying Plan and Coaching Service PLUS 21-day Meal Plan" Where do I access the Questionnaire that I need to fill out and how do I download the 21-day meal plan? Thanks.

[atomic sagebrush]

Hi Nonerz! The link to the questionnaire is here http://genderdreaming.com/forum/misc.php?do=forms Thanks!

[mamasboys]

Hey Atomic - I'm afraid once my plan is ready it will end up in my junk mail - do you still send a PM through here as well? Just want to double check!
Thanks!

[babylove24]

Hello Atomic
I want to purchase your personalised plan for swaying pink, however I am still breastfeeding my 13 month old son and am yet to have my period return. I am night weaning him at the moment and hope period will return in next few months and we can try to conceive in January. Is it pointless me purchasing the plan already seeing as I don't have my cycles back yet?
Thank you :-)

[atomic sagebrush]

Hey Atomic - I'm afraid once my plan is ready it will end up in my junk mail - do you still send a PM through here as well? Just want to double check!
Thanks!

Yes we send PM through this site as well!! :) It will be posted under your questionnaires and then that will be your coaching forum.

[atomic sagebrush]

Hello Atomic
I want to purchase your personalised plan for swaying pink, however I am still breastfeeding my 13 month old son and am yet to have my period return. I am night weaning him at the moment and hope period will return in next few months and we can try to conceive in January. Is it pointless me purchasing the plan already seeing as I don't have my cycles back yet?
Thank you :-)

No I have several people who are waiting for their periods while nursing right now! We just make a few changes to hopefully improve the chances of your cycles coming back sooner rather than later.

[Nonerz]

Hi Atomic, Can you please confirm that you got both of my questionnaire forms? Every time I try to submit the first one it says "invalid."

[atomic sagebrush]

I have them Nonerz! Thank you for checking!! :)

[babylove24]

Thanks Atomic. Strangely enough my period returned this morning, I am so happy!! I have ordered the personalised pink plan but I can't see where to access the questionnaire. I thought I had as I found your link you had posted to other members but then it wouldn't let me through to it. I have also tried logging out and then back in again but still no luck. Please can you let me know. Thank you :)

[Chiara]

Hello Atomic, I am new on the forum and I am considering to buy the custom plan (for pink sway).
My concern is regarding the diet since i have PCOs. Do you offer any diet/advices support for women with this syndrome?
Thanks

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes actually the majority of my Custom Swayers are PCOS. Swaying under special circumstances Part 3 PCOS (http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/9052-swaying-under-special-circumstances-part-3-pcos.html)

[atomic sagebrush]

Thanks Atomic. Strangely enough my period returned this morning, I am so happy!! I have ordered the personalised pink plan but I can't see where to access the questionnaire. I thought I had as I found your link you had posted to other members but then it wouldn't let me through to it. I have also tried logging out and then back in again but still no luck. Please can you let me know. Thank you :)

Has this been fixed yet?? Sometimes it seems to take a day to kick in. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/misc.php?do=forms

[babylove24]

Has this been fixed yet?? Sometimes it seems to take a day to kick in. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/misc.php?do=forms

No that still doesn’t work :(
It just takes me to a page with forms for past attempts

[MBLo]

thank you! Once your payment goes through, you will be able to access a couple of questionnaires, and if you fill them out, then I'll have the info I need to be able to design a personalized plan for you. It takes me 7-10 days to do the plan (almost always 7)

Hi where can I find the questionnaire? I purchased a plan as well but haven't received anything.


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[atomic sagebrush]

I have yours MBLo

[atomic sagebrush]

Hello Atomic, I am new on the forum and I am considering to buy the custom plan (for pink sway).
My concern is regarding the diet since i have PCOs. Do you offer any diet/advices support for women with this syndrome?
Thanks

I have your questionnaire Chiara!

[babylove24]

Atomic please can you let me know about the questionnaires, I bought the plan and diet on Sunday and still not received anything and can’t access the link. Thanks.

[atomic sagebrush]

I have a message in to tech support, I'll message again.

[babylove24]

I have a message in to tech support, I'll message again.

Thank you very much :)

[atomic sagebrush]

I have your questionnaires!

[babylove24]

Brilliant :) Can’t wait to receive my plan. Thanks Atomic

[babylove24]

I have your questionnaires!

Hi Atomic. Will my plan be ready in the next few days? How do I access it once it is done? Can’t wait :-)

[atomic sagebrush]

Should be up at any time now! you'll get a message with a link in it when it's up.

[babylove24]

Should be up at any time now! you'll get a message with a link in it when it's up.

Thanks so much! I already have some questions about my sway. Where do I post them once I have my plan?

[MBLo]

Hi Atomic. Where would I get the message? Nothing came through here and I checked my email. Just making sure I’m not missing it. Thanks!


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[nuthinbutpink]

Hi Atomic. Where would I get the message? Nothing came through here and I checked my email. Just making sure I’m not missing it. Thanks!


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Your plan is now posted. You received an email and a PM with the link to your plan and your private forum! Thank you!

[MBLo]

Thank you!


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[cheriex333]

Can you let me know if both my questionnaires were received?

[atomic sagebrush]

yes I have them Cherie! thanks!

[Qtptwt16]

Hi! I just purchased the girl ttc 12 month plan. What do I do next?

[nuthinbutpink]

Hi! I just purchased the girl ttc 12 month plan. What do I do next?

I am setting up access for you now!

[jgojah]

Hey, I purchased a custom sway plan today & got a receipt from PayPal. I'm not sure what to do next or where to go?

[Qtptwt16]

Thanks!!!

[atomic sagebrush]

Hey, I purchased a custom sway plan today & got a receipt from PayPal. I'm not sure what to do next or where to go?

once I get your questionnaire I can make your plan for you! link to questionnaires is here: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/misc.php?do=forms

[jgojah]

once I get your questionnaire I can make your plan for you! link to questionnaires is here: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/misc.php?do=forms

I keep logging out and back in and clicking on the link but all I see are links to enter details of sway attempt

[atomic sagebrush]

I've messaged someone who can help!

[Qtptwt16]

I am setting up access for you now!

Hi! What do I do next? I haven't received an email or anything. Do I need to fill out a questionnaire?

[atomic sagebrush]

I have your questionnaire but for others with the same question, it is here: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/misc.php?do=forms

[lilmama27]

Hi there, will I be receiving my custom sway plan soon? I submitted my questionnaire 1.5 weeks ago. Thanks!!

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[atomic sagebrush]

Yes I'll have it coming at you ASAP.

Thanks for your patience.

[lilmama27]

Yes I'll have it coming at you ASAP.

Thanks for your patience.Thank you. Looking forward to receiving it!

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[atomic sagebrush]

If you want to message me your email I'll send you the original, it sometimes takes a day or two for them to post it and that way you can have it right away!!

[lilmama27]

If you want to message me your email I'll send you the original, it sometimes takes a day or two for them to post it and that way you can have it right away!!I just PM'd you my email. Thank you!!

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[jgojah]

Hey, I've been trying to hold out on messaging about the status of my plan because I don't want you to feel as though I'm rushing you but as I had to message and wait a few days just to get access to the questionnaires, I'm thinking that maybe I haven't received my plan due to another technical glitch?

I've been checking email, spam folder and messages here to see when my plan would be ready but haven't received any communication.

I really don't want to be a bother and if it's not completed as yet, that's totally ok! I just wanted to get a possible time frame please?

[atomic sagebrush]

No it's done and sent in to be reformatted and posted...sometimes it takes a few days for them to post it and I think the holidays may be playing a part here. I am happy to email you the original if you message me your email address I'll do it right away!

[jgojah]

No it's done and sent in to be reformatted and posted...sometimes it takes a few days for them to post it and I think the holidays may be playing a part here. I am happy to email you the original if you message me your email address I'll do it right away!

Thanks, PM sent

[atomic sagebrush]

I sent your plan!

[3boys123]

Hi I just wanted to make sure my questionnaire went through. I sent it 10 days ago. Happy to keep waiting, was just worried it may have not gone through or I didn't send it through correctly. Many thanks x

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes I have it, plan is done and sent, should be up any time now!

[Shezton]

Hi! I purchased the complete ttc girl package and dream membership yesterday. I was wondering when it will be activated and I can have access to the questionnaire. Any help would be muchly appreciated. I did also comment yesterday with no reply so far. Thanks

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes I'm sorry my Internet went out yesterday and still isn't back up, having to post from a makeshift setup today and did not get my q's done yesterday. i have messaged someone who can help us. Thanks so much!

[Elrod8910]

Hi I have a few questions. First, I am going to start trying for a boy in July and have starting tracking ovulation to get a good hang on when I am ovulating. On day 11 I got a flashing smile face but had what I think was egg white cm. The next day I got a steady smile face (peak day) but a mix of creamy and egg white. The next day was just creamy cm. Which day did I ovulate? Second when the time does come to BD. When do I DTD, how many times and how far apart? I plan on starting the boy diet next month (may)

[atomic sagebrush]

Hi I have a few questions. First, I am going to start trying for a boy in July and have starting tracking ovulation to get a good hang on when I am ovulating. On day 11 I got a flashing smile face but had what I think was egg white cm. The next day I got a steady smile face (peak day) but a mix of creamy and egg white. The next day was just creamy cm. Which day did I ovulate? Second when the time does come to BD. When do I DTD, how many times and how far apart? I plan on starting the boy diet next month (may)

Hi and welcome! Glad you found us!

This forum is really for questions about the Custom Sway plans, in the future please join us in the TTC a boy forums here http://genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-boy/

The unfortunate reality is that no one can tell when you ovulate based on OPK and EWCM (and this is true regardless of what people will tell you on other sites). Even worse, it doesn't stay consistent from month to month so you can't use past cycles to judge what will happen in future ones.

It is totally normal to a) have EWCM for many days in advance of O and b)have CM dry up on O Day or even O-1. Both of those things happen to people regularly. It's also normal to have EWCM a day or two after O. You just really can't use the CM consistency to pin down O Day. Hormones make EWCM and the hormones, while they're linked to ovulation, are not cause and effect the way people make it sound. Your hormone levels can drop a little after the surge or they can stay high even a day or two after ovulation and since it's the hormones that makes the symptoms and not ovulation per se, it is not any guarantee about where you are in the cycle.

You will ovulate an average of 24-36 hours after that first peak. That's the best guess. Sometimes you will get false negative or false positive OPK or your body surges and then decides not to ovulate yet, so OPK are helpful but not the end all, be all, unfortunately. We use them to time our attempts and they work well enough for that, but they can't pin down O to the precise day and for sure not the precise hour.

When to BD depends on if you are a believer in timing or not. Timing actually does not work and most of us on here have several timing opposites, but going off what you write I"m assuming you are wanting to use it. So in that case, you will wait for the peak reading and have 3 attempts - the night of peak (this will be late on O-1) then the next morning (O Day) and again the next night (also O Day). Then BD every other day for a few more days after that to guard against delayed ovulation. This is in line with Shettles timing (unless you O late, but if you do O late, it's best to keep BD anyway since otherwise you'd be having a cutoff!!) but allows you to get in the three attempts in the fertile window that has been shown to sway blue. :)

[Wonder Woman]

Hello, I just ordered my personalized plan and want to know (1) if the email is to come instantly, or is there a few day wait? (2) Also I’m not sure that you guys have my email address. (3) For a “personalized plan and coaching service” subscription, do people need to distinguish between a custom plan and a TTC boy/girl plan? Not sure i understand the difference :) have a happy day all!

[atomic sagebrush]

Hi WW!! If you get a custom plan there is a wait of about 7-10 days, if you get the instant download plan it will be emailed to you right away. Did you buy the "custom" or personalized plan, or the readymade plan?? The difference is that the readymade plan will be sent to you immediately and is not personalized, and the custom plan I will make for you based on your personal information. :)

[Wonder Woman]

Perfection, I got the custom plan! I saw the link you put up at the top of the site with the questionnaire so I’m going to start tonight! So privileged to be a part of this forum and to see how you’re bringing so much light into the world.

[atomic sagebrush]

Thank you so much! I have your questionnaire and will get your plan to you as quickly as I can. :)

[Wonder Woman]

Amazing, I’m ready! My history is pretty crazy so fair warning! :)

[Girlsway2018]

Hi! I signed up for the complete TTC girl program today and I am so excited to get started! When can I expect to be able to access the questionnaire? Thank you so much!!

[Girlsway2018]

Good morning! I still can’t access the questionnaire for my custom plan. Could someone help me with this? Thank you!!

[atomic sagebrush]

I've messaged someone who can help us with that! Thanks for your patience!

[Girlsway2018]

Thank you so much! I got access and I just submitted my questionnaires!

[atomic sagebrush]

I have it! Thanks!

[xtina33]

Hi everyone :)

Iv been following a vegetarian diet since last November (2017), that’s when I purchased my plan from Atomic.

I’m now only 11 weeks from our first attempt! I’m beyond excited �� so naturally the diet is now being STRICTLY followed.

I just wanted to ask a few things about food... our favourite topic!

Can I eat cous cous ? And can I eat quiche ?
Iv been eating egg salads & stir fry’s most evenings to be honest, I’m a creature of habit! I rarely try new foods so this diet is perfect for me!

I’m a massage therapist (holistic) so I have an active job, and work in a very hot Spa. I only eat a tiny lunch and save my calories for dinner. Anyone else do this?

Best wishes ! Christina xx

[Kari]

Hi!

I purchased the custom plan but not sure what to do next? I would like to get started ASAP as ttc next month! Please let me know! Thank you!

[Kari]

Hi! How do I access the ebook I bought?

[nuthinbutpink]

Hi! How do I access the ebook I bought?

Here you go- https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/download-the-timing-book/

[nuthinbutpink]

Hi!

I purchased the custom plan but not sure what to do next? I would like to get started ASAP as ttc next month! Please let me know! Thank you!

The questionnaires are here-
https://genderdreaming.com/forum/misc.php?do=forms

[Kari]

Thank you v much!

[atomic sagebrush]

Hi!

I purchased the custom plan but not sure what to do next? I would like to get started ASAP as ttc next month! Please let me know! Thank you!

I have your questionnaires Kari and will get to work ASAP on your plan.

[Kari]

That’s very kind, thank you!

[Kari]

Hello! I hope you are well! I know you are busy! I was just wondering when I can expect to receive my plan? Thank you in advance!

[atomic sagebrush]

It takes me 7-10 days to do the plans so it should be coming your way very soon. If you want me to send you the original immediately upon completion instead of having to wait another day or two for it to be posted please message me your email and I'll send it to you when I send it in to tech support to be reformatted.

[Kari]

Hi Atomic

Thank you for this! I have private messaged you my email! Many thanks!

[Caroline33]

I am interested in a sway plan. Are these confidential? Also what type of medical information would you need to start a plan?

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes, they're totally confidential, only you and I (and the lady who posts the plans for me, although she never reads them) can see the plan and the coaching forum.

I only need the barest medical information - whatever would affect trying to conceive. You don't have to share anything with me that you are less than comfortable with. :)

[Amel]

Hi, I want to thank everyone for their hard work in this website. I've been reading some of the comments and I the information shared here is very informative and interesting. I want to ask a question, but since I am new in this thread thing please forgive me if I wrote in the wrong one. I am gluten free and they saying how important is the morning breakfast. I am in Gluten Free diet and I don't know if my cereal counts? I also want to ask about the plan you can purchase and I don't see the prices. I want to know how much Potassium and Sodium should I take for the boy sway. Thank you

P.S. I try to post this again in a new thread if I succeed lol

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes yes you can do a boy sway gluten free (and it will only help, especially if you got your girls while eating gluten since you were not absorbing all your nutrients due to the gluten in your diet)

All cereal counts even if gluten free. In fact some of the gluten free oat cereals are excellent for blue.

The prices for sway plans are here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/payments.php

Potassium - you should try to get 4000 mg or more potassium for a boy but it's best to get that through diet and not supplements. Supplements of potassium may not be safe and are not as good for your sway as lots of healthy foods.

Sodium - we have not found that eating tons of sodium helps get boys (many of our opposites were in people eating a lot of sodium). But if you want to, keep it to 4000 mg max and do not do those massive amounts of sodium intake as recommended by some sources. Those have NEVER been proven to sway.

I have a write up I'll share about why sodium can't be swaying:

Biologically:

The body keeps the levels of sodium, potassium, calcium and magnesium in pretty tight regulation. It doesn't "like" or "want" to have lower than normal levels and it takes steps to keep that level very regular, either by excreting and/or storing the excess (yes, your body is able to store sodium for future use, just as it can store calcium and magnesium as well) or if you aren't getting enough, it relelases its stores and becomes more efficient at extracting sodium from the foods that you eat and the water you drink. So even though you may eat less sodium, your body simply takes steps to counteract that.

Low sodium levels are unusual and/or temporary (such as severe dehydration) and it's only in people who have serious health issues or are on medication that it is even POSSIBLE. Sodium - blood: MedlinePlus Medical Encyclopedia (http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/003481.htm) Back in the early days of the site, we had a few people (including a medical doctor) try to follow the FGD and had their blood levels of sodium, cal, mag, and potassium tested before and after doing a strict FGD for 6 weeks and their levels were virtually identical, all within normal range, before and after doing the FGD for 6 weeks, and the doctor's sodium level actually went UP because her body just got better at extracting sodium from food and water. (BTW she gave up FGD based on that info and did indeed get a girl on LE Diet).

Additionally, low sodium diet cannot be swaying pink because people of sub-Saharan African descent all carry a gene that causes them to have higher levels of sodium in their blood****** than people of other ethnic heritages (possibly as a defense against dehydration, malaria, or both) and yet they have the highest % of girls conceived of any ethnic group (102 boys for every 100 girls versus 105/106 for every 100 girls for other ethnicities) and this has stayed consistent even as they have moved out of Africa and into other parts of the globe. And because of this it is VERY harmful for people who have this ethnic heritage to eat that high sodium blue sway diet. It can kill, if not now, then in the future.

Plus, potassium, which is supposed to be eaten in high amounts while swaying blue, actually undoes the effects of sodium. So it really makes no sense that sodium and potassium should be taken together for swaying and the entire concept has no real biological support. This is all based on a study done in water animals that don't even reproduce the way humans do and can actually switch from male to female when you dump sodium into their tank. It does not and never has made any sense to apply this to humans.

Historically:

Humans and in fact ALL mammals have an insatiable palate for salt. Whenever they find salt, they eat it in huge quantities and virtually all cultures across the globe use tons of the stuff in food preservation and condiments and this has been true for at least dating back thousands of years, yet the gender ratio stays at about 50-50 regardless. Archaologists recently uncovered a salt mine in China dating back to 6000 BC (that's 8000 years ago). There was NEVER a time where humans were having disproportionate numbers of male and female offspring over the long term - not when we were cavemen eating not as much sodium, not in ancient China, and not today. It is VERY likely that the altered gender ratio in China that the FGD book used as "proof" that sodium sways blue, was NOT due to sodium whatsoever but was the result of female infanticide because we now know for a fact that is occurring there today.

Humans are eating more salt than ever before and yet the gender ratio is actually FALLING with more girls conceived than they were even 50 years ago.

[Amel]

Thank you for your quick response. It took me an hour to find it lol. I want to purchase the TTC a Boy Bundle- Personalized Gender Swaying Plan and Coaching Service PLUS 21-day Meal Plan. I am curious about the statistics on this plan girls vs. boys babies. I understand that it will take at least a week before I get the plan. Do I need blood work and a doctor visit to check anything for the questioner or no need.

[atomic sagebrush]

No I just need your questionnaire. I am actually having a slow time right now so will be able to get your plan back to you more quickly than that :bluecheer:

We have about 68% for the overall site for blue with about 220 people reporting (pink sways are at 69% so I think about 70% is a good expectation). I prefer to use the overall success rates because it is more people overall and gives you a better expectation. Plus, many of the custom swayers have health issues or other situations that actually make swaying harder for them, not easier, so they may have slightly lower success rates than what the average person can expect.

[Amel]

Thank you. I just purchased the plan. Just let me know what to do next. I am going out of town now DH driving so let me know what form should I submit since I have my hands free.

[atomic sagebrush]

the questionnaires are here https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/misc.php?do=forms I've messaged someone to activate the plan for you and I hope they get it active right away, sometimes it can take a short time.

[atomic sagebrush]

Ok it's all good to go - just follow that link and as soon as I get your questionnaires I can make your plan. :)

[4boysdreamingpinkkk]

I think I posted my first post in the wrong forum- and i just posted this and it got deleted? But i am not social medica/forum savy, and i am so confused. here is my origional post:

Hi there-
so my DH and i have spent the last 4 hours trying to understand this forum, and it is so confusing! I feel very overwhelmed. I did buy the personalized plan, and I know I need to wait to recieve it for more to make sense, But we are just so lost!

We have 4 boys- 3 of which have special needs, and I honestly dont have time to sift though it all, I mean no offence when I ask this, but will the plan have everything laid out pretty clear, so that I may just print it out and be able to hang it on my fridge or something?

question 2- With the diet and "Meal plan" does this include shopping list of things that are good to eat? With all my boys individual needs, i think it will be extremely hard to "Count carbs" and all of those things that ive read so far.

question 3- because DH is 110% on board with swaying, will food ideas/suppliments and all of that be included for him as well? We are trying to do everything possible, we just want to start the diet now.

question 4- how to i access the "coaching"? and is that where i can personal message about questions I have?

we are excited to figure all this out and ttc our dream princess!
thanks!

[Leos.mema]

I really want to purchase a plan...but curious how long the process takes??


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[atomic sagebrush]

I think I posted my first post in the wrong forum- and i just posted this and it got deleted? But i am not social medica/forum savy, and i am so confused. here is my origional post:

Hi there-
so my DH and i have spent the last 4 hours trying to understand this forum, and it is so confusing! I feel very overwhelmed. I did buy the personalized plan, and I know I need to wait to recieve it for more to make sense, But we are just so lost!

We have 4 boys- 3 of which have special needs, and I honestly dont have time to sift though it all, I mean no offence when I ask this, but will the plan have everything laid out pretty clear, so that I may just print it out and be able to hang it on my fridge or something?

question 2- With the diet and "Meal plan" does this include shopping list of things that are good to eat? With all my boys individual needs, i think it will be extremely hard to "Count carbs" and all of those things that ive read so far.

question 3- because DH is 110% on board with swaying, will food ideas/suppliments and all of that be included for him as well? We are trying to do everything possible, we just want to start the diet now.

question 4- how to i access the "coaching"? and is that where i can personal message about questions I have?

we are excited to figure all this out and ttc our dream princess!
thanks!

I don't think it got deleted, I just replied to it in another spot.

To find your old posts more easily, go to the top of the page where there's a bar at the top. It says "Home, the Forums, Blogs, and then there's a clickable spot called "My Posts". Click "My posts" and it will give you some options - my threads and my posts. "My threads" will take you to threads you actually started, "my posts" will take you to posts where you replied to someone else's thread. Then you'll be able to go back and find the stuff you posted on. You can also click on your own user name and it will give you options to read your own posts (or other people's names and you can read their posts as well!

[atomic sagebrush]

I really want to purchase a plan...but curious how long the process takes??


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It usually takes 7-10 days but I've had a slow couple weeks and can get a plan back to you very quickly if you need me to.

[atomic sagebrush]

I think I posted my first post in the wrong forum- and i just posted this and it got deleted? But i am not social medica/forum savy, and i am so confused. here is my origional post:

Hi there-
so my DH and i have spent the last 4 hours trying to understand this forum, and it is so confusing! I feel very overwhelmed. I did buy the personalized plan, and I know I need to wait to recieve it for more to make sense, But we are just so lost!

We have 4 boys- 3 of which have special needs, and I honestly dont have time to sift though it all, I mean no offence when I ask this, but will the plan have everything laid out pretty clear, so that I may just print it out and be able to hang it on my fridge or something?

question 2- With the diet and "Meal plan" does this include shopping list of things that are good to eat? With all my boys individual needs, i think it will be extremely hard to "Count carbs" and all of those things that ive read so far.

question 3- because DH is 110% on board with swaying, will food ideas/suppliments and all of that be included for him as well? We are trying to do everything possible, we just want to start the diet now.

question 4- how to i access the "coaching"? and is that where i can personal message about questions I have?

we are excited to figure all this out and ttc our dream princess!
thanks!

Or just to make it easier, you can follow this link to see my response to your original post. https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/66109-paid-plan-but-so-overwhelmed-help.html#post994285

[Leos.mema]

It usually takes 7-10 days but I've had a slow couple weeks and can get a plan back to you very quickly if you need me to.

What are the e books? If I get the 6 month plan, does that include those private forums? Thank you!


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[atomic sagebrush]

The e-books are just a few books I wrote. One on diet, one on using OPK and understanding the menstrual cycle, and then one on timing.

The coaching forum comes with the plan. The Dream Member forums are separate.

[Leos.mema]

The e-books are just a few books I wrote. One on diet, one on using OPK and understanding the menstrual cycle, and then one on timing.

The coaching forum comes with the plan. The Dream Member forums are separate.

Ok purchased my plan. I can’t seem to find the questionnaire. Super sorry! I have no idea what I’m doing.


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[atomic sagebrush]

The questionnaire is here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/misc.php?do=forms

[atomic sagebrush]

I have your questionnaires! :)

[atomic sagebrush]

I have your questionnaires! :)

[Leos.mema]

I have your questionnaires! :)

Yay!!! I forgot to mention I’m taking the Juice Plus Omegas. Is there a way to add that? Thank you for all your help!!!


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[atomic sagebrush]

I would have you wean off those anyway. Those would tend to be more boy-friendly. Don't drop them suddenly, just gradually space doses further and further out till down to one per week, then you can drop them.

[MandTsMommy]

Hi, I purchased a personalized plan two weeks ago and completed the questionnaires. I’m not sure if they have been completed yet or not, but I haven’t been able to find them on my account. Thanks!


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[atomic sagebrush]

Hi M and T - it's here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/completed-questionnaires-and-private-coaching-access/66108-mandtsmommys-sway-info-ttc-girl.html

[aoverby23]

I forgot to mention when I did my questionnaire that I sometimes take Trazadone to help me sleep. I have awful insomnia! Can't wait to read the plan :-)

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[atomic sagebrush]

Thanks!

[Dtryingforgirl]

Sorry if this isn't the right place to post...I could use your help.

I have adrenal fatigue although it had been under control for around a year with diet and lifestyle.

Since doing the girl sway I can feel my body getting weak. I've lost 13 lbs sticking to the girl diet in around 3 months. Which is a quite a bit for me....I don't have much to lose...and I cheat for one week every month...usually right before my period [emoji849]

Obviously I know if I let me body crash I won't get pregnant and won't be able to sustain a pregnancy if I did, but I want a girl so bad... I could use some advise on strong gender sway that doesn't contain so much of the diet....if there is such a thing?

Any help would be appreciated. I had hoped I would just get pregnant this month and then not have to worry about it but BFN this morning.


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[atomic sagebrush]

Just keep to the general principles of the diet - lower protein, lower fat, more fat from vegetable sources vs. animal sources, eating less highly fortified foods and prenatals. In short, just do your best, but relax and compromise on the thigs you feel are the most important.

[Pink rose 76]

Hi atomic I purchased a plan last Saturday just wondering how much longer will I have to wait to get the plan? Is it yourself that does the plan ? Thanks x

[Nell_]

It's been 2 weeks since I completed the questionnaire.... atomic is looking into it for me as she said it should be up now :( I hope it comes up soon was hoping to make a start on it.asap x

[atomic sagebrush]

Hi atomic I purchased a plan last Saturday just wondering how much longer will I have to wait to get the plan? Is it yourself that does the plan ? Thanks x

Your plan is done and was sent in to be reformatted and posted (I don't do that part.) I'm always happy to send you guys the original, it's less fancy than the finished plan but has all the same info in it - just message me your email address and I'll email you the original version directly.

[atomic sagebrush]

It's been 2 weeks since I completed the questionnaire.... atomic is looking into it for me as she said it should be up now :( I hope it comes up soon was hoping to make a start on it.asap x

Your plan was posted on the 6th Nell and you can access it here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/completed-questionnaires-and-private-coaching-access/66285-nells-sway-info-ttc-girl.html

[Pink rose 76]

Thank you atomic I’ll send you my email address now thru PM x

[atomic sagebrush]

Just sent it! Thanks!

[bluebird.]

Hi Atomic, I completed my q's this morning - it is ok if I request the original version to be emailed to me too? I want to get a head start as soon as it's ready! :happy:
Thanks so much!

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes that's just fine by me! Thank you! I have your questionnaires and will get your plan to you as quickly as I can!

[SummerDreams]

Hi there, I'm planning to try and sway for a girl in about 9 weeks time. I read on a few forums that the diet part is the main factor and doesn't work too well unless you do it for minimum 12 weeks before starting. Is it still worth me buying a personalised plan? What is the main benefit of the personalised plan vs Immediate download plan?
Thanks for your help :)

[atomic sagebrush]

Oh yes absolutely! We have good results with anything longer than 6 weeks on diet and there is a TON of stuff in the plan that has nothing to do with diet anyway. 12+ is the best, but less is still good.

The immediate download plans are good too and you'd have it the same day. But you can start diet now anyway if you want to wait for the custom plan, plus if you get the bundle with the 21 day diet you can have that the day you buy it (it's instant download)

Either way I'm here to help you do the diet to the best of my ability. :)

[PadrePioidevotemyfirstson]

Hi x totally get you’re very busy with Christmas and I just wanted to confirm you received my questionnaires?

Many thanks in advance xxx


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[atomic sagebrush]

Yes! I have them! Hoping to get the plans to you guys ASAP!

[PadrePioidevotemyfirstson]

Nooo stress thank you x safe happy Christmas

Look forward to working with you x


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[atomic sagebrush]

PP - If you want me to email you the original version (I have finished it and sent it to tech support to be reformatted and posted in a finished version but it may take them an extra day or two) just private message me by clicking my user name and send me your email, and I'll send you my version of the plan.

[sweetfacejess]

If you're wondering about any aspect of the Custom Plans, please feel free to ask!!!

Hey atomic! I purchased a plan a week ago, just wanted to make sure you received my questionnaires? Didn’t want to be of annoyance and ask when you specifically said 7-10 days but just making sure you got it. Thank you so much!


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[atomic sagebrush]

I have them and hope to get it to you by tomorrow! Thanks for checking in!

[sweetfacejess]

I have them and hope to get it to you by tomorrow! Thanks for checking in!

Hey atomic!
Maybe I’m not checking in the correct spot but I can’t see my sway plan as of yet? Can you please guide me in where to find it?

[emoji3526] thank you <3


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[atomic sagebrush]

It's done and should be posted any time, if you want me to email you the original just message me (by clicking my username) and sending me your email. It's a less fancy version but has all the same stuff in it.

[atomic sagebrush]

plan is up https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/completed-questionnaires-and-private-coaching-access/

[Hopefulnat]

Hello Atomic!
I just wanted to make sure you received my questionnaires. I completed them on the 12th. Im really bad at navigating the websitr, so just making sure you received it. Thanks so much!

[atomic sagebrush]

I have them, if you want me to email you the completed plan (I can send you the original usually before tech support has a chance to reformat them and repost them) please click my user name and message me your email and I'll send it.

[atomic sagebrush]

actually I have your email, I'll send your plan to you shortly

[atomic sagebrush]

Hello Atomic!
I just wanted to make sure you received my questionnaires. I completed them on the 12th. Im really bad at navigating the websitr, so just making sure you received it. Thanks so much!

I just wanted to let you know I just sent this, let me know if you don't see it.

[Hopefulnat]

Thanks so much! I would like to let you know that I am starting Clomid in a few days. You said to let you know, thanks !!


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[kittendreams]

Hi Atomic
I had a plan with you in 2017 and would like to know if I can renew that with you when we try for dc4? I won't be doing standard Le this time after my little opposite ds3 so I'd be wanting to try the pcos version.
Obviously I'm in no rush ds3 is only 7 weeks but wanting to know my options for when my ppaf returns.

[atomic sagebrush]

Hi Atomic
I had a plan with you in 2017 and would like to know if I can renew that with you when we try for dc4? I won't be doing standard Le this time after my little opposite ds3 so I'd be wanting to try the pcos version.
Obviously I'm in no rush ds3 is only 7 weeks but wanting to know my options for when my ppaf returns.

Yes of course, you can renew a plan at any time by going to the "membership and plans" button at the top of the page and after that it's pretty self-explanatory!!!

:agree: would def. have you on the alt. diet this next time through!!

[Happylane]

I purchased a custom boy plan a couple of years ago. Do I still have access? When I tried to open it via the private message it told me I didn’t have permission to view it. Thanks!

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes you can either renew the plan with the coaching for a small fee or else we can email you the plan if you'd like, although that long ago it may take a little digging. :)

[HenryBraxton]

hey atomic.. i understand you probably have 101 things to do right now, wanted to ask how long my plan would take.. im just raring to start lol i also wanted to ask will you tell us which supps are advisable im aware fish oil supps and primrose are a big hit.. x
My Baby Blocker (Mirena) comes out on March 14th. I am a teacher and hope to deliver spring break of 2017 and take the rest of the year off so I can hand over a 6 month old to my Mom instead of a 2.5 month old. I plan. I predict. I positively think. My mental game is strong AF...

However, I can't will a Baby Boy into conception. So, what are your tried and true tips and tricks for ensuring this first go 'round, we get a boy!
Sarkari Result (https://sarkariresult.onl/) Pnr Status (https://pnrstatus.vip/) Showbox (https://showbox.bio/)

[atomic sagebrush]

??? I feel like I've answered this question before and there is a 2017 in this post.

If this is an attempt to start spamming the site you're on my radar, I've written down your name and you'll be banned if that's your game.

If not, then please join us in the TTC a boy forum where I can answer all your questions. https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-boy/

[BellaCheska]

Hi Atomic

I paid for the complete TTC Boy package on 25 April and received the customised plan on 12 May - thank you- but haven't received information on how to access the meal plan and ebooks.

I was wondering how I would be able to access the meal plan and ebooks.

Many thanks in advance.

[atomic sagebrush]

Those were available upon purchase, sorry for the mixup with your plan.

HE Diet is here https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/21-day-meal-plan-for-he-diet/
OPK book is here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/guide-to-understanding-af-and-using-opk-to-sway/
Timing book is here https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/download-the-timing-book/53813-timing-book.html

Let me know if you can't access these. I am worried since the questionnaires didn't work for you that they may not either.

[andreav101]

Hi I’m interested in setting up a full plan for team blue? Can you please direct me how to do this ? Thanks very much


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[atomic sagebrush]

Hi andrea! Just follow this link https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/payments.php and you'd want a Custom plan. Some of the options are for just the plan, others have more bells and whistles attached - but the main thing is the Custom plan. That's the one I'll make for you personally and it comes with the coaching forum!

[APPLE4]

Hi

I just wanted to check that you had received my form for the custom sway. Each time I log on it flashes up that I need to fill it out so I just wanted to double check. Thanks.

[atomic sagebrush]

Hi

I just wanted to check that you had received my form for the custom sway. Each time I log on it flashes up that I need to fill it out so I just wanted to double check. Thanks.

Yes I have it Apple! Thanks for checking!

[andreav101]

Hi andrea! Just follow this link https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/payments.php and you'd want a Custom plan. Some of the options are for just the plan, others have more bells and whistles attached - but the main thing is the Custom plan. That's the one I'll make for you personally and it comes with the coaching forum!

Perfect sounds good. I am just wondering once I purchase plan, is it custom created for me personally? And how long would I need to be on it before ttc? I am leaning towards the custom plan, when could
I have it done by? Thanks


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[andreav101]

Hi andrea! Just follow this link https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/payments.php and you'd want a Custom plan. Some of the options are for just the plan, others have more bells and whistles attached - but the main thing is the Custom plan. That's the one I'll make for you personally and it comes with the coaching forum!

Sorry I am a little confused how to use the site.. I just paid for my custom plan.where do I access my questionnaire to answer the questions?


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[atomic sagebrush]

Perfect sounds good. I am just wondering once I purchase plan, is it custom created for me personally? And how long would I need to be on it before ttc? I am leaning towards the custom plan, when could
I have it done by? Thanks


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Yes I'll make you a plan personally! If you're in a huge hurry I can try to jockey some stuff around and have it done ASAP.

I have your questionnaires so I'm assuming you found them! :)

[andreav101]

Yes I'll make you a plan personally! If you're in a huge hurry I can try to jockey some stuff around and have it done ASAP.

I have your questionnaires so I'm assuming you found them! :)

Hey! Thanks I just seen this now. For some reason I don’t get notifications ?! How many Days approx until you expect my plan to be complete? Any way you could send me some basic “to do’s” to get a head start on things as I am aiming for a soknish time frame! Much appreciated


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[andreav101]

Hey! Thanks I just seen this now. For some reason I don’t get notifications ?! How many Days approx until you expect my plan to be complete? Any way you could send me some basic “to do’s” to get a head start on things as I am aiming for a soknish time frame! Much appreciated


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Soonish^^ ah sorry!!


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[atomic sagebrush]

Hey! Thanks I just seen this now. For some reason I don’t get notifications ?! How many Days approx until you expect my plan to be complete? Any way you could send me some basic “to do’s” to get a head start on things as I am aiming for a soknish time frame! Much appreciated


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The whole site is full of basic to dos! I'm sure you'd rather just get your plan than have me spend time doing that and then making your plan later. :) I'll get your plan to you as soon as I can, I'll try to finish it today.

The easiest way I have found to track my posts is to go to the top of the page and you'll see a navigation bar, it says "Home, Forums, Blogs, etc" and there's one marked My Posts. If you go into My Posts it will show all your posts - both those you've started and those you have finished.

[andreav101]

The whole site is full of basic to dos! I'm sure you'd rather just get your plan than have me spend time doing that and then making your plan later. :) I'll get your plan to you as soon as I can, I'll try to finish it today.

The easiest way I have found to track my posts is to go to the top of the page and you'll see a navigation bar, it says "Home, Forums, Blogs, etc" and there's one marked My Posts. If you go into My Posts it will show all your posts - both those you've started and those you have finished.

Great will do, yes I’ve been finding lots of info already and have already been adding more meat to diet and trying to cut out almond milk which I had no idea could be a factor! Could you please send me a message on here to let me know when it’s complete since and I’ll look for it. Thanks so much.


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[atomic sagebrush]

I will and if you message me your email address (just click my user name and then you can send me a private message that way) I'll send you the original when I send it to tech support. AFter I finish it, I send it to them and they make it all fancy, but the original version has all the exact same stuff in it.

[APPLE4]

Hi

Not chasing! Just wondering how much longer my plan will take? I am finding it really hard going it alone. I have never counted calories & have questions! Maybe it will be a bit clearer when I get a plan. Thanks

[atomic sagebrush]

Hi

Not chasing! Just wondering how much longer my plan will take? I am finding it really hard going it alone. I have never counted calories & have questions! Maybe it will be a bit clearer when I get a plan. Thanks

It's done and was sent to be reformatted and posted - I have a message in to see why there's a delay but in the meantime if you want me to message you the original, I'd be happy to. Just PM me by clicking my username and I'll email you my version. IT's slightly less fancy than the finished version (which will still be posted!) but you'd have it right away.

[mum_boy]

Hi All,

I am mum of 2 girls (5 year and 2 year). Both pregnancies were natural with no issues at all. I have opted for IVF/PGD at HRC with Dr.Potter. I had 3 PDG tested boy embies. I had 3 FETs at HRC. All resulted in early miscarriages at 5-7 weeks. Dr.Potter thinks i am having immune issues. I have done my NK testing too. I am 31 year old now.

Now I am planning to conceive naturally to have a boy. Could someone advice if i can dream about it? Has anyone gone through my situation? Could some one suggest a plan that i can follow to conceive naturally to have a boy?

Thanks in advance,
mum_boy

[atomic sagebrush]

Since you had PGD normal embryos it's unlikely this is chromosomal. Did Dr. Potter have any insight into what your immune issues might be??

For some reason we don't understand some people are able to TTC naturally and just don't respond well to the IVF process. I think you have every chance of having a boy naturally and I'd be able to help.

Were you interested in a custom plan https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/payments.php or just having me help you while you make your own plan? Please come join us in the forums https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-boy/ and I can answer all your questions!

[Dreamer82]

Hi Atomic,

I am sure many have already asked you this questions and I could find some partial answers on the forum. I have purchased a $99 6-month plan for TTC a girl and I think I would be able to get the pdf files with it. However, I am not sure where to find them. Could you please help me?

[atomic sagebrush]

21 day diet is here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/21-day-meal-plan-for-le-diet/

OPK book is here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/21-day-meal-plan-for-le-diet/

I have your questionnaires and I'll get your personalized plan to you as quick as I can.

[Boymomof3]

Hi Atomic, I accidentally bought the regular package when I wanted the customizable plan and coaching! Please help!


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[atomic sagebrush]

we can switch it over for you! I'll message someone who can help us with that

[Boymomof3]

Thank you so much!


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[Boymomof3]

Any word on getting me switched?


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[nuthinbutpink]

Hi Atomic, I accidentally bought the regular package when I wanted the customizable plan and coaching! Please help!


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You may now access the questionnaire. Should work now!

[Boymomof3]

Thank you but I need the girls bundle! I have 3 wonderful boys but hoping for some pink in my life haha


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[Boymomof3]

I was able to fill out the girls questionnaire. Thanks!


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[atomic sagebrush]

Ok great!

[Ergdunn]

I’m new here and I’m interested in swaying for girl. I have 4 boys (11yrs, 5yrs, 3yrs, & the youngest just 2 months old). I am currently breastfeeding so not sure how that affects anything. But also curious if I should try to start ovulation testing to see if I am even having a cycle right now. Any advice or direction is appreciated!!

[atomic sagebrush]

Hi and welcome! As a general rule, if you're getting your period, then you're ovulating, and if you're not, you aren't.

Exclusively BF 2 months postpartum I would suspect you are not getting your period yet, and it's pretty unlikely you will be fertile. I would not bother testing now, it would just be money wasted on OPK.

If you want to start trying sooner what you can do is have unprotected sex every 96 hours. While obviously not the best chance of conception, it will be one attempt in the fertile window which has been strongly pink friendly right now.

I don't want you doing a sway diet until your baby is older but you can go vegetarian, just be sure you're having soy only 2-3 times a week and not any more often than that.

[Boymomof3]

Sorry to be a pain but I checked back at the questionnaire and it said 0 entries. Can you just let me know that you got it? Thanks!


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[atomic sagebrush]

I have them! It's because they're set privately so only you and I can see them in your coaching forum that when you check on them they seem like they're not there. But I have them. :)

[Boymomof3]

Thank you!


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[Sarah2017]

Hello!
Quick question about the plan packages Complete girl package ($139) and the girl bundle ($99) - I can see that the complete girl package comes with the additional ebooks, is this the only difference? If getting a personalised plan would my personal PH, OPKs etc be discussed in this?

Apologies if this has been answered elsewhere, my boys don't enjoy sleep as much as their mother does so I'm pretty tired and don't have a lot of brainpower at the moment!

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes that's the difference.

Personal plan is everything but diet (although there are some diet tips and freebies that come with the plan) and then I help you in an ongoing fashion with your diet in the coaching that comes with the plan.