Holy Smokes! - UPDATE :o(

[Adia]

It is so sweet that people are still commenting on my exciting BFP from a few weeks ago but its no longer true.... I started spotting on Monday and went to the OB on Tuesday. They said the hcg levels were 2500 which was good but they couldn't find anything in the gestational sac. The u/s machine on Tuesday was not a good one so the obgyn wanted me to have another u/s today.

Today's u/s machine was much better and showed a gestational sac with attached lining but nothing in the sac....:tissue:

Not sure what to do from here, I don't really want to have a d&c but we'll see what the doctor says next week.

Ugh, this is awful. :sad:

[Butterfly Spirit]

6529

YAY Adia for your BFP! :)

Happy & Healthy 9 Months :pregnant:

[LacePrincess]

Wow! Congrats!

[dloui128]

That is awesome news Adia!!!!! Congratulations :)

[rachel]

congratulations :)

[atomic sagebrush]

That's great, Adia!!! :fx:

[The Anchor]

Woohoo! Way to go Adia!

[Dreamofpink]

Fantastic news Adia!!!! Here's to a healthy & happy 9 months :cheerteam:

[mydream]

Great news! Congratulations!

[BeadinMom]

Congratulations!!! Sending you all my blue dust!!!! :)

[Cinss]

Yippee, congratulations! I know how good seeing those 2 lines is, im so glad it happened for you so quickly. Best wishes for a happy healthy sticky blue bean :)

[sweetpea]

Yay!!! Congrats to you, Aida! I wish you a H&H 9 months! ;)

[Mrs_Incredible]

Congratulations!!! Hoping you have a h&h 9 months xxxx

[luvalittleman]

Hi Adia, Congratulations - that's so exciting!!
Fingers crossed its a sticky blue one.

[Myloves]

Congrats! Sending you my blue dust :bigboy:

[becca]

Yayayayay! Congrats to your bfp! That is such awesome news!!!!

[Adia]

Thanks ladies!!!

I am still in shock, complete shock, but happy I can eat whatever I want tomorrow at American Thanksgiving!

I *think* I am at peace with either gender. While I desperately want a boy, this is my last baby so if its a girl, I think I can adjust my attitude and just enjoy the last baby I get to bring into the world and the process of doing so. DD3 is getting so big and she is too heavy to cart around. Just the idea of having a baby that I can prop on my hip and get to lay on my shoulder is super exciting to me right now!!

I hope all my American Gender Dreaming gals have a Great Gobble Day and everyone else has a great week!

[Cinss]

Its so good to see you happy :) Yes you can eat whatever you want now, i will advise you to keep up the calories, if you do have a blue bean they do need more nourishment in the first stages of growth, so dont go back to that girly way of eating just to be on the safe side :)

[Pearl327]

Congratulations Adia. I hope you have a gorgeous baby boy in there. You will be in my due date buddies group and we need more boy swayers over there :)

[Violet_]

Congrats on your pregnancy Adia. I'm also just pregnant and due approx 1st Aug 2013.

[Adia]

Its so good to see you happy :) Yes you can eat whatever you want now, i will advise you to keep up the calories, if you do have a blue bean they do need more nourishment in the first stages of growth, so dont go back to that girly way of eating just to be on the safe side :)

Thanks Cinss! I have been HUNGRY so eating hasn't been a chore as much as a necessity. I am still hesitating when I go to eat something and start thinking "is this ok on the blue die....wait a minute, I can just eat and not worry anymore!!"

[Sunflower3]

Congrats Adia! Also just got my BFP!

[Hobbermittens]

Congrats, my friend! I am so happy for you!!

[Hobbermittens]

Thanks Cinss! I have been HUNGRY so eating hasn't been a chore as much as a necessity. I am still hesitating when I go to eat something and start thinking "is this ok on the blue die....wait a minute, I can just eat and not worry anymore!!"

Hope being hungry is a good sign for blue! I was STARVING when I was first pregnant with Sawyer!

[Cinss]

Hope being hungry is a good sign for blue! I was STARVING when I was first pregnant with Sawyer!

Me too, i couldnt stop eating right after my BFP :)

[Emily]

Congrats!

[Yahmama]

Me too, i couldnt stop eating right after my BFP :)

Same here...super hungry from the very beginning! FX!!

[Adia]

Thanks again everyone. I am shocked at this hunger. I had to get up in the middle of the night last night and get something to eat because I was so hungry. I even ate several snacks after dinner but was still starving!!

While I am a natural girl dieter and I like feeling hungry from time to time, this is different. I get so hungry I am almost sick to my stomach, then I eat and i'm fine.....hmmm, hope this helps us have more clues to swaying and gender results, etc.

:fx:

[Adia]

I started spotting on Monday and went to the OB on Tuesday. They said the hcg levels were 2500 which was good but they couldn't find anything in the gestational sac. The u/s machine on Tuesday was not a good one so the obgyn wanted me to have another u/s yesterday.

Today's u/s machine was much better and showed a gestational sac with attached lining but nothing in the sac....sad day for me.

[dloui128]

I am so sorry to hear this Adia :hugs:

[Zivic-Bubac]

I'm so sorry :(

[SophiaRose]

So sorry Adia , devastating xx

[Cinss]

So sorry for your m/c Adia :( i chose not to have a D&C with mine (baby was seen with no heart beat at 7 weeks) it was 3 weeks later that it came out naturally. It really hurt but i was just terrified to have a D&C.

[Hobbermittens]

Oh no! :( I am so sorry! :(

[LacePrincess]

Heartbreaking, I'm so sorry. :( Thanks for letting us know.

[Adia]

Thank you ladies, while I am sad for my loss, I am so grateful for my children and their safety. I try never to take them for granted, more now than ever.

I cannot imagine the horror and unspeakable devastation of the parents who have lost a child, or anyone, in Connecticut today.

A miscarriage is a minor thing compared to that. God bless those families, I grieve with them.