Orgasm :(

[Wanting-a-girl]

Darn it lol
I have been doing frequent release for over 10 days and I had the big O today :(
I am ttc a girl is this going to hurt my sway

(tmi) I O'ed after he did his "deposit" nooooooooooooooooooooooooo! Although I think I ovulated 2 days ago but if I O'ed late....

[Cinss]

I wouldn't worry about it too much, i always had the big O when ttc and got DD.

[lobella2]

I also had the big O when I got pregnant with DD2. Don't worry too much about it.

[LacePrincess]

Nah, don't worry about it. The theory is that the big O can change the PH so it's more boy friendly, but GD doesn't really use PH as a sway factor anyways. You're fine! :)

[Wanting-a-girl]

thank you :)

[babydust]

Nah I wouldn't worry about it. Are you about to O today or
Tomorrow? Either way, ph isn't a big factor
Anyway. You're fine :)

[Wanting-a-girl]

I couldn't pin point o cause all my ov tests were neg I'm pretty sure i o'ed on the 19th which would be the day before... Judging by cervical position and mucus....... I have been cramping ever since which was the first thing I noticed when I got preg with my third son... So I'm pretty sure I probably am.. Fingers crossed at least :)

[atomic sagebrush]

It's not ideal, but it does happen and we did surveys and there were plenty of girl moms who always had them.

I had one with DD.

[Wanting-a-girl]

That makes me feel better! Thanks ladies.... I've never been so upset about that happening lol

[Loveychoc]

Ive been wondering about this too... (might be tmi).. When DH releases first, sometimes i purposely try hold my big o, but then he would go fast & rough upon releasing that makes me think it could be a very fast shot that i think all the Ys would win the race :( but when i do my big O first, usually he would go slower and sometimes releases quite little to none!! So i think the sperms have better chance not to rush (like the Ys) ... ?Wouldnt that be great for the x to survive? Except that ive had my big O which could contribute bigger odds for a boy :(

With DS conception last time we both had big Os at the same time.. Which didnt leave a slightest chance to conceive a girl.... But i have the most precious thing ever - our DS :)

[atomic sagebrush]

there is NO proof that X Vs Y sperm live longer, swim faster, or are different in any other way other than a tiny amount of DNA on the X chromosome. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/science-behind-gender-swaying/1562-what-real-differences-between-x-sperm-y-sperm.html

Both X and Y come out no matter what, regardless of the type of O he has.

The reason not to have an O is that they may make it easier for ALL sperm to get up to the egg, and for some reason more sperm = more boys.

[mkarntz1980]

just to let you know....not sure if i posted here, with my DD i orgasmed after DH and got my girl....funny with my boys....never O'd lol