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weeziewoozles
December 2nd, 2012, 11:12 AM
Well it's nearly Christmas and I can't think of a better present than a pink sticky bean! How is everyone doing?

I think I am about 5DPO so not too long to wait to test!

HouseOfTurtles
December 2nd, 2012, 12:03 PM
I agree! It would be a wonderful Christmas present! I'm 9DPO and had a Walmart ER test calling my name this morning, BFN :( But I know it's also way early, so we'll see.

This is only our second month TTC, so I'm trying not to get discouraged, but I honestly thought I would be PG right off the bat. Our boys just kinda happened (one was bad timing, the other a messed up BCP cycle), so I figured if we were actually doing it on purpose it would happen right away. It also doesn't help that our good friends (the type of friends that seem to do everything we do) are suddenly PG with their 3rd after DH couldn't keep quiet about us trying for #3 :(

FX for lots of Christmas BFP's!

fish2012
December 2nd, 2012, 03:05 PM
hey i'm 9dpo too, bfn yesterday :fx: really ready for it now and diet not so good this month!

weeziewoozles
December 2nd, 2012, 03:06 PM
I agree! It would be a wonderful Christmas present! I'm 9DPO and had a Walmart ER test calling my name this morning, BFN :( But I know it's also way early, so we'll see.

This is only our second month TTC, so I'm trying not to get discouraged, but I honestly thought I would be PG right off the bat. Our boys just kinda happened (one was bad timing, the other a messed up BCP cycle), so I figured if we were actually doing it on purpose it would happen right away. It also doesn't help that our good friends (the type of friends that seem to do everything we do) are suddenly PG with their 3rd after DH couldn't keep quiet about us trying for #3 :(

FX for lots of Christmas BFP's!

You sound just like me in that our two boys happened just because we decided to start trying. First month TTC both times. This time round we started the LE diet in Sept and sort of tried in Oct but as my cycle went weird on me we basically missed the fertile window by a week so I'm not sure I'd count that month as "trying" really! ;)

This cycle was even longer with my positive OPK on CD30! Good thing was that we DTD every day from CD20 so perfect FR for my fertile window as it happens. Fingers crossed for us all!

How are you doing with the diet in the 2ww? I've been sticking to the calories but allowing slightly more fat and protein within that as I'm so hungry!

weeziewoozles
December 2nd, 2012, 03:07 PM
hey i'm 9dpo too, bfn yesterday :fx: really ready for it now and diet not so good this month!

That's so early so fingers crossed. I'm planning on waiting till AF is due to test but who knows if I will!

Boymomsrock
December 2nd, 2012, 03:09 PM
yeah bfn for me today too even though the only time ive had a temp above 98.6 is when i was pregnant. and ive been charting for years! i wont test tomorrow though unless my temp is still high. tired of wasting tests!

cravingsalt
December 2nd, 2012, 03:21 PM
Hey chicks,

Hoping everyone gets their wish for Christmas this year!

I'm at 6dpo and likely testing on Friday at 11dpo before my holiday party- we'll be riding coasters and having a cocktail or two if no bfp. At this point I feel like I'll get pregnant at some point, but trying to stop thinking every month that this is my month.

WantingPink
December 3rd, 2012, 01:13 AM
I am in the 2ww (big sigh). Me and DH got carried away a couple of days ago and we BD on O day. I haven't been swaying and wasn't planing on it for a couple more months. I already feel like I am prego which is completely ridiculous but that probably shows how mental I am. Not sure when I should test and if I am pregnant part of me will probably be disappointed because I didn't do ANY kind of sway. I know that I shouldn't be thinking like this because there are so many people out there that can't get pregnant on their own but I can't help that part of me feels this way. Another part of me really does hope that I am pregnant and would be happy with another boy. I can't really share these feeling with anyone else so I am sharing them here hoping there are other people out there that understand the way I feel :worry:.

weeziewoozles
December 3rd, 2012, 01:45 AM
I am in the 2ww (big sigh). Me and DH got carried away a couple of days ago and we BD on O day. I haven't been swaying and wasn't planing on it for a couple more months. I already feel like I am prego which is completely ridiculous but that probably shows how mental I am. Not sure when I should test and if I am pregnant part of me will probably be disappointed because I didn't do ANY kind of sway. I know that I shouldn't be thinking like this because there are so many people out there that can't get pregnant on their own but I can't help that part of me feels this way. Another part of me really does hope that I am pregnant and would be happy with another boy. I can't really share these feeling with anyone else so I am sharing them here hoping there are other people out there that understand the way I feel :worry:.

I think we all feel mental on here! It's a great place to vent and share. I'm lucky that I can talk to a few about swaying but not in the detail we do on here as I don't want them to think I am obsessed! Which I am obviously ;)

weeziewoozles
December 3rd, 2012, 10:27 AM
PS I have a nasty headache today and really wanted chocolate with my cup of tea this afternoon. Interesting...

fish2012
December 3rd, 2012, 02:13 PM
hey all will be joining you in here ;-( af arrived today

WantingPink
December 3rd, 2012, 05:23 PM
Does anyone have a good link/thread for when to start testing? I have the in the mail cheap tests and I have EPT. Just wanting some advice so I can stop driving myself crazy and put a date on when to start testing. Thanks weeziewoozles for the response!! I don't have anyone in my "real" life I can talk to about this.

weeziewoozles
December 4th, 2012, 02:20 AM
Does anyone have a good link/thread for when to start testing? I have the in the mail cheap tests and I have EPT. Just wanting some advice so I can stop driving myself crazy and put a date on when to start testing. Thanks weeziewoozles for the response!! I don't have anyone in my "real" life I can talk to about this.

:)
Some people seem to get positives from 8DPO but loads get negatives and then a BFP nearer 14DPO as it was too early. I guess it depends on how long you can wait. I'm hoping to wait till AF is due to test, ie 14DPO but I know I'll be tempted to test this weekend!

WantingPink
December 4th, 2012, 11:28 AM
:)
Some people seem to get positives from 8DPO but loads get negatives and then a BFP nearer 14DPO as it was too early. I guess it depends on how long you can wait. I'm hoping to wait till AF is due to test, ie 14DPO but I know I'll be tempted to test this weekend!

You are so much better than I am at waiting!! I have been doing a lot of reading on here and it does seem like people are getting positives 8dpo so that is when I will start testing (I am a psycho like that). It is going to be hard for me to wait until then. I am a little anxious probably because both of the DS I have now only took one time and we weren't really trying with them... again just got a little carried away. I knew with DS2 that we BD when I was having O pain. This time I had O pain earlier that day.

What are you going to be testing with?

weeziewoozles
December 4th, 2012, 11:51 AM
You are so much better than I am at waiting!! I have been doing a lot of reading on here and it does seem like people are getting positives 8dpo so that is when I will start testing (I am a psycho like that). It is going to be hard for me to wait until then. I am a little anxious probably because both of the DS I have now only took one time and we weren't really trying with them... again just got a little carried away. I knew with DS2 that we BD when I was having O pain. This time I had O pain earlier that day.

What are you going to be testing with?

I may not actually manage the wait though! I bought some early tests last time so have a couple left still, Clear Blue and First Response I think. I also used cheapies last time but not sure if I have any left. If I do I will probably use all of them too - the more the merrier!

We have a Xmas/housewarming party this Saturday so I'd like to know by then so I know how much of my delicious party food I can eat!

WantingPink
December 4th, 2012, 12:56 PM
I may not actually manage the wait though! I bought some early tests last time so have a couple left still, Clear Blue and First Response I think. I also used cheapies last time but not sure if I have any left. If I do I will probably use all of them too - the more the merrier!

We have a Xmas/housewarming party this Saturday so I'd like to know by then so I know how much of my delicious party food I can eat!

FX for you!! Let us know when you start testing. Saturday will be 8 dpo for me so that is when I will probably start (well, probably 7 dpo:))

WantingPink
December 4th, 2012, 12:57 PM
hey all will be joining you in here ;-( af arrived today

Sorry!! Will you be drying again this month?

weeziewoozles
December 5th, 2012, 12:29 PM
8DPO and I'm resisting testing so far but having real trouble deciding wwhat to do RE the diet, as either I'll have implanted by now or not. Hmmm... gluttony or restraint! X

WantingPink
December 5th, 2012, 11:04 PM
8DPO and I'm resisting testing so far but having real trouble deciding wwhat to do RE the diet, as either I'll have implanted by now or not. Hmmm... gluttony or restraint! X

Do you feel like you are pregnant? You are right either you have implanted or you haven't at this point. Go with what your gut feeling is!! Did you cave and test today??

weeziewoozles
December 6th, 2012, 02:06 AM
Do you feel like you are pregnant? You are right either you have implanted or you haven't at this point. Go with what your gut feeling is!! Did you cave and test today??

I honestly have no idea if I am or not. I'm pretty tired but we're all fighting colds here so it could just be that. So I went for gluttony, well not gluttony of my usual standard but definitely ate more than I have since August! About 2000 cals where I've been having 1800. Felt soooooo full after.

I've not tested yet and feel strong enough to resist again today. I really really don't want a false negative. I may test tomorrow as I'll be 10DPO .

WantingPink
December 6th, 2012, 09:14 AM
You should test tomorrow!! Please keep me updated on the results!! FX for you!!

HouseOfTurtles
December 6th, 2012, 12:34 PM
I know it's not over until AF rears her ugly head but I'm pretty sure I'm out :( My period app says I'm due today, but for the the last 6 months I've been very regular, starting every 4th Friday, which would be tomorrow, but I feel cramps brewing :( I've taken 3 FRER starting at 9DPO and all BFN...I was really hoping for a Christmas BFP!

WantingPink
December 6th, 2012, 03:35 PM
I know it's not over until AF rears her ugly head but I'm pretty sure I'm out :( My period app says I'm due today, but for the the last 6 months I've been very regular, starting every 4th Friday, which would be tomorrow, but I feel cramps brewing :( I've taken 3 FRER starting at 9DPO and all BFN...I was really hoping for a Christmas BFP!

Sorry to hear that!!

My Three Sons
December 6th, 2012, 05:08 PM
Here I am in the 2ww again... I think I o'd yesterday as I saw a slight temp rise this morning, but will see what FF says in the next couple of days. I'd love to get my BFP as an early Christmas present and all of you ladies too!

HouseOfTurtles
December 8th, 2012, 02:44 AM
Well AF came today :( On to month #3...I should be ovulating a few days before Christmas. DS2 was conceived on Christmas day in 2007 so maybe it's good luck ;)

weeziewoozles
December 8th, 2012, 04:04 AM
Well AF came today :( On to month #3...I should be ovulating a few days before Christmas. DS2 was conceived on Christmas day in 2007 so maybe it's good luck ;)

Definitely sounds like good luck :)

weeziewoozles
December 8th, 2012, 06:03 AM
You should test tomorrow!! Please keep me updated on the results!! FX for you!!

I've still not tested. I feel like if we've been unsuccessful I'd rather see AF than a BFN. We have a busy weekend with guests and i don't want to be gloomy so may wait for AF due date to test

Girlsway
December 8th, 2012, 08:19 AM
Hi all, I got positive OPK yesterday and we TTCed for the first time. DH feels his volume was too small to conceive as he released twice a day couple of days. Surprisingly I had lots of EWCM despite taking antihistamine for 3 days and i also took half a tablet 3 hours before. We both took a hot bath half an hour before the attempt. I used rephresh 24 hrs before so not sure what to think. The chances are probably not that high.

Thorz300
December 8th, 2012, 09:50 AM
Hi all, I got positive OPK yesterday and we TTCed for the first time. DH feels his volume was too small to conceive as he released twice a day couple of days. Surprisingly I had lots of EWCM despite taking antihistamine for 3 days and i also took half a tablet 3 hours before. We both took a hot bath half an hour before the attempt. I used rephresh 24 hrs before so not sure what to think. The chances are probably not that high.


Don't count yourself out, it could happen!!

Thorz300
December 8th, 2012, 09:57 AM
Here I am again, in the 2ww. I think my O came last night or right as we speak, but either way, we are done with our attempt and now have the very very long wait. I feel good about my chances of getting pregnant, but getting a girl is a whole different story. I did't use anything as far as douche or rephresh goes when we DTD last night (all other times DTD during this cycle I used vinegar douche) then about 20 min after DTD last night (24 hours after my last douche) I used rephresh so we DTD this morning (9 hours after using rephresh) and now we are done, We might DTD tonight just in case, but I think O is over so it really will be more for fun. We tried to do FR but because of DH schedule it didn't work out to well and I think as far as when and how often we DTD it might sway blue. My diet was no where near as strict as it was last month because I couldn't afford to lose anymore weight (BMI is at 16.6) but I did do well with my supps and started drinking Pep tea, which I actually really like! So hopefully I get lucky and a pink bean sticks this time, as I think this might be my last attempt!

aussiettc
December 8th, 2012, 05:04 PM
Hi all. I'm day 3 post O and already feeling pretty inpatient with the 2ww! We completely messed up our attempt this month. Every month I usually O CD18 to 20 so when we BD CD12,13,14 I didn't think anything of it and did not douche/replens/antihistamine. Then out of nowhere I O'd completely unexpectedly on CD14! Feeling very nervous about it all-likelihood of pg probably pretty high but no so great for a pink attempt!?! I already have a DS and very much hoping for a pink bean! Will be joining you here anxiously for the next 10 days xx

hplnvf03
December 8th, 2012, 05:27 PM
Joining you ladies! I am waiting for cross hairs on my chart from FF but I am pretty sure I ovulated Thursday and my temps have gone up the past days. The frequency/timing part got a little messed up and we ended up doing it on CD 8, late on day 13 because I thought my OPK was positive and then I actually got two days of very positive OPKS on day 14 and 15. So I got nervous and we BD'ed last minute on day 16 which was the day of O. I had a chemical pregnancy last cycle so am happy I ovulated pretty much on time. I had more EWCM than I usually do but I took Zyrtec. I feel like my chances of conceiving are higher since we DTD on the morning of O but I also feel like I swayed boy now. Guess we'll see if I am pregnant first. It is going to be a long 2 weeks. But I will be glad to know if I am pregnant before Christmas as we are traveling. Good luck to you all!

Thorz300
December 8th, 2012, 06:24 PM
It sounds like there are a few of us who feel like we might have messed up timing/frequency and swayed blue, lets hope that some :pinksperm: make it threw for us!!! I am only hours past O so this is going to be a long 2ww I'm happy to be in good company with great ladies!!!

WantingPink
December 8th, 2012, 07:54 PM
I feel your pain ladies!! I am 8 dpo after an "oops" night. That is how my last two DS were conceived with DH so I am feeling very very nervous even though I got a BFN this morning with FRER!! :fx: for all of us

Girlsway
December 9th, 2012, 05:50 PM
Here I am again, in the 2ww. I think my O came last night or right as we speak, but either way, we are done with our attempt and now have the very very long wait. I feel good about my chances of getting pregnant, but getting a girl is a whole different story. I did't use anything as far as douche or rephresh goes when we DTD last night (all other times DTD during this cycle I used vinegar douche) then about 20 min after DTD last night (24 hours after my last douche) I used rephresh so we DTD this morning (9 hours after using rephresh) and now we are done, We might DTD tonight just in case, but I think O is over so it really will be more for fun. We tried to do FR but because of DH schedule it didn't work out to well and I think as far as when and how often we DTD it might sway blue. My diet was no where near as strict as it was last month because I couldn't afford to lose anymore weight (BMI is at 16.6) but I did do well with my supps and started drinking Pep tea, which I actually really like! So hopefully I get lucky and a pink bean sticks this time, as I think this might be my last attempt!

BMI 16.6 that's v low, I can see your point but I hope it sways pink for you this month. I am BmI 19 so I still have couple of months to go but that would be it. After 7 weeks dieting I lost 8 pounds and now I am less strict with it which is not ideal.
How do you ladies keep motivated?

Thorz300
December 9th, 2012, 10:08 PM
BMI 16.6 that's v low, I can see your point but I hope it sways pink for you this month. I am BmI 19 so I still have couple of months to go but that would be it. After 7 weeks dieting I lost 8 pounds and now I am less strict with it which is not ideal.
How do you ladies keep motivated?

To be honest, this is only our 2nd cycle ttc and I am already loosing motivation as far as the diet goes. I really want too keep it up, because I think there is something to it, but like I said, it really isn't an option for me to lose anymore weight. I am not a meat eater anyway, so it is easy for me to cut the meat out completely and to skip breakfast, but after that, I think I'm just gonna eat what I normally would but cut out things like raman noodles, chips, and salty popcorn (which used to be staples in my diet). I can't believe you have done this diet for 7 weeks, so many of you ladies amaze me!!

weeziewoozles
December 10th, 2012, 06:59 AM
BFP this morning at 13DPO! Whoohoo! :)

Girlsway
December 10th, 2012, 08:38 AM
BFP this morning at 13DPO! Whoohoo! :)

Congrats! You must be over the moon, and a great timing for Xmas!

WantingPink
December 10th, 2012, 09:40 AM
Congrats!! Hoping for pink for you!!

aussiettc
December 10th, 2012, 03:36 PM
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thrilled for you xx

WantingPink
December 10th, 2012, 05:13 PM
So testing again this morning (10dpo) and still neg. This waiting is sooooo hard!! I can't even have a glass of wine to deal with the anxiety I have about all of this right now. Isn't FRER suppose to be positive by 10DPO? Have a lot of people gotten positives after 10dpo if they are using FRER?

Girlsway
December 10th, 2012, 05:49 PM
So testing again this morning (10dpo) and still neg. This waiting is sooooo hard!! I can't even have a glass of wine to deal with the anxiety I have about all of this right now. Isn't FRER suppose to be positive by 10DPO? Have a lot of people gotten positives after 10dpo if they are using FRER?

Its still early days, I don't know FRER but good luck in next few days. I have my fingers crosse for you. I am only 2dpo so its still a long wait for me.

Thorz300
December 10th, 2012, 08:38 PM
BFP this morning at 13DPO! Whoohoo! :)
Yay that is so awesome, congrats!!

Thorz300
December 10th, 2012, 08:59 PM
So I may have miscalculated and I'm not even sure if I have ovulated! Tell me what you ladies think please......So my cycle is generally always 25 days long on Friday cd 10 I got what I thought was a +opk and I had EWCM and my CP was soft but not super high. I also started to get ovulation spotting. Oh and ff predicted Saturday (cd11) to O. So this is my first month temping and my temps were staying in the same range all week. Then on Saturday (cd11 and day after my +opk, spotting, and EWCM) my temp dipped so I thought for sure that meant I ovulated on CD 11 so I was totally expecting my temp to shoot up on CD 12 but it didn't it only went back up to my normal range. To then this morning I thought it HAD to go up my cervix is hard and medium texture and I now have creamy CM but alas, my temp dropped slightly!!! I'm now worried I might not O this cycle because if I O now or in the next few days, my LP will be too short to sustain a pregnancy anyway :(

I hope my explanation of this all makes since, I'm gonna try and post a link to my chart so you can understand better, please let me know your thoughts!!, I also want to mention I had a chemical last month :( I'm worried I may have O issues or LP issues

http://www.fertilityfriend.com/m/home.php/40b39c

Smiley13
December 11th, 2012, 06:20 AM
Hi ladies! I'm officially in the 2ww:) FF said I'm 3 days post ovulation but I'm thinking its more like 2 or even 1. I'm feeling optimistic about it but this was only our first month of trying so we'll see. I've been on the diet for about 8 weeks and I'm really wishing it was ok to cheat in the 2ww! Good luck to all you ladies!!! This is going to be a VERY long 2 weeks.

Smiley13
December 11th, 2012, 06:23 AM
So I may have miscalculated and I'm not even sure if I have ovulated! Tell me what you ladies think please......So my cycle is generally always 25 days long on Friday cd 10 I got what I thought was a +opk and I had EWCM and my CP was soft but not super high. I also started to get ovulation spotting. Oh and ff predicted Saturday (cd11) to O. So this is my first month temping and my temps were staying in the same range all week. Then on Saturday (cd11 and day after my +opk, spotting, and EWCM) my temp dipped so I thought for sure that meant I ovulated on CD 11 so I was totally expecting my temp to shoot up on CD 12 but it didn't it only went back up to my normal range. To then this morning I thought it HAD to go up my cervix is hard and medium texture and I now have creamy CM but alas, my temp dropped slightly!!! I'm now worried I might not O this cycle because if I O now or in the next few days, my LP will be too short to sustain a pregnancy anyway :(

I hope my explanation of this all makes since, I'm gonna try and post a link to my chart so you can understand better, please let me know your thoughts!!, I also want to mention I had a chemical last month :( I'm worried I may have O issues or LP issues

40b39c Fertility Charts (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/m/home.php/40b39c)
I was having the same issues with temping and read somewhere that sleeping with your mouth open it can affect getting an accurate oral temp reading. Also, if you drinking water throughout the night that can affect your oral temp as well. It sounds like you did ovulate from your description of symptoms:/ Good luck:)

Ipadmad
December 11th, 2012, 06:38 AM
Can I join? I ovulated Sunday or Monday, so a long 2ww for me. We bd frid and sat night and Monday night. Really hoping I caught, but very sad DH couldn't finish Sunday (he was ill and had done fr for a week).

So much more pressure with Christmas around the corner isn't there.

Thorz300
December 11th, 2012, 07:21 AM
I was having the same issues with temping and read somewhere that sleeping with your mouth open it can affect getting an accurate oral temp reading. Also, if you drinking water throughout the night that can affect your oral temp as well. It sounds like you did ovulate from your description of symptoms:/ Good luck:)
I take my temp vaginally so I'm not sure there is much room for error :( I think I'm having O issues maybe since my bmi is 16.6 but I'm afraid to gain since it sways blue. I'm just going to go by when I think I should have had my O. So I should be 4 dpo but I know af will be coming! Such a bummer!

Thorz300
December 11th, 2012, 07:22 AM
Can I join? I ovulated Sunday or Monday, so a long 2ww for me. We bd frid and sat night and Monday night. Really hoping I caught, but very sad DH couldn't finish Sunday (he was ill and had done fr for a week).

So much more pressure with Christmas around the corner isn't there.

Welcome!!

Thorz300
December 11th, 2012, 07:23 AM
Hi ladies! I'm officially in the 2ww:) FF said I'm 3 days post ovulation but I'm thinking its more like 2 or even 1. I'm feeling optimistic about it but this was only our first month of trying so we'll see. I've been on the diet for about 8 weeks and I'm really wishing it was ok to cheat in the 2ww! Good luck to all you ladies!!! This is going to be a VERY long 2 weeks.
Welcome and good luck!!

WantingPink
December 11th, 2012, 11:57 AM
Got a BF? this morning... does anyone else see a line??


7107

Thorz300
December 11th, 2012, 12:07 PM
Got a BF? this morning... does anyone else see a line??


7107
I think I might see one, but my eyes might be playing tricks on me!

WantingPink
December 11th, 2012, 03:56 PM
I know... I think my eyes are playing tricks on me also!! It looks just like this IRL also... so frustrating. I am about to loose my mind. I may have to do a digital cause I can't take it anymore:)

Smiley13
December 11th, 2012, 06:58 PM
I take my temp vaginally so I'm not sure there is much room for error :( I think I'm having O issues maybe since my bmi is 16.6 but I'm afraid to gain since it sways blue. I'm just going to go by when I think I should have had my O. So I should be 4 dpo but I know af will be coming! Such a bummer!
Sorry your having problems:( That is a very low BMI. Hope you get a BFP instead of AF!

Smiley13
December 11th, 2012, 07:03 PM
Can I join? I ovulated Sunday or Monday, so a long 2ww for me. We bd frid and sat night and Monday night. Really hoping I caught, but very sad DH couldn't finish Sunday (he was ill and had done fr for a week).

So much more pressure with Christmas around the corner isn't there.
Sounds like we're on the same schedule. I'm pretty sure I O'd on Sunday. This next 2 weeks is going to be soo hard! Especially with all the Christmas goodies that are everywhere I look! Hope we both get a BFP as a Christmas gift! When are you planning on testing?

WantingPink
December 11th, 2012, 11:44 PM
So I may have miscalculated and I'm not even sure if I have ovulated! Tell me what you ladies think please......So my cycle is generally always 25 days long on Friday cd 10 I got what I thought was a +opk and I had EWCM and my CP was soft but not super high. I also started to get ovulation spotting. Oh and ff predicted Saturday (cd11) to O. So this is my first month temping and my temps were staying in the same range all week. Then on Saturday (cd11 and day after my +opk, spotting, and EWCM) my temp dipped so I thought for sure that meant I ovulated on CD 11 so I was totally expecting my temp to shoot up on CD 12 but it didn't it only went back up to my normal range. To then this morning I thought it HAD to go up my cervix is hard and medium texture and I now have creamy CM but alas, my temp dropped slightly!!! I'm now worried I might not O this cycle because if I O now or in the next few days, my LP will be too short to sustain a pregnancy anyway :(

I hope my explanation of this all makes since, I'm gonna try and post a link to my chart so you can understand better, please let me know your thoughts!!, I also want to mention I had a chemical last month :( I'm worried I may have O issues or LP issues

40b39c Fertility Charts (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/m/home.php/40b39c)

Temps can be a really difficult thing. I was taking my temp for about a year and this is how I got my temp to be "accurate":

- Test with a digital basal thermometer (not a fever thermometer)
- Test at the same time every day (even on weekends)
- Test right when you wake up. Do it the very first thing. Keep the thermometer by your bed.
- Test internally (vaginally), if you have your mouth open when you sleep the temp will be cooler. Also, different areas underneath your tougue are different temps. You have to put the thermometer in the exact same place.
- Not getting enough sleep or getting too much sleep can cause your temp to fluctuate so you have to go to bed at the same time every night also.
- Drinking alcohol can definitely affect your temp (it did mine)!!
- Don't fluctuate the temperature of the house too much at night.
- Don't use an electric blanket.
- Also, if you do any of the above things to change your temp you need to note it on your chart.

Not all these factors affect all women and some women can wake up whenever they feel like and it won't affect their basal temp but I wasn't one of these people.

Also, don't get too freaked out with the whole temp thing. If your cycles are regular and you are doing OPKs every morning and night through O then you should be just fine. I can feel O pain and I noticed that it would often times take me 2-3 days for my temps to go down.

Hope that helps!! :fx: for your BFP!!

Megan429
December 12th, 2012, 12:26 AM
Got a BF? this morning... does anyone else see a line??


7107

I *think* I see something there!

Megan429
December 12th, 2012, 12:29 AM
Hey everyone, I'm new here, hope it's ok to jump in. I'm in the 2ww of a NTNP cycle (expecting AF Thursday), and then gearing up to 'officially' TTC #3. I've enjoyed looking around and getting info on the site. I'm also an u/s tech and have been interested in swaying and 'nubs' since my first pregnancy in 2008.

Best wishes to you all! :)

WantingPink
December 12th, 2012, 12:39 AM
Here is another with the internet tests that I took this afternoon!! 11 DPO...


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ICB3
December 12th, 2012, 02:21 AM
Hi everyone, Can I join you ladies in the 2ww? I'm 6 dpo and will probably be testing on Friday with Internet cheapies. I've been on the diet for two months and its my first month trying. I'm already having cheats on the diet though...I'm so bad!
Wanting it looks like a line! Congrats!

Emily
December 12th, 2012, 08:09 AM
Here is another with the internet tests that I took this afternoon!! 11 DPO...


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Yeay!!! that is a line:)

Smiley13
December 12th, 2012, 08:11 AM
Here is another with the internet tests that I took this afternoon!! 11 DPO...


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I definitely see a line! Congrats!

Thorz300
December 12th, 2012, 08:48 AM
Here is another with the internet tests that I took this afternoon!! 11 DPO...


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Yay congrats!!?

Girlsway
December 12th, 2012, 10:30 AM
Here is another with the internet tests that I took this afternoon!! 11 DPO...


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Definitely a line, congrats!!!

WantingPink
December 12th, 2012, 10:58 AM
Thank you everyone!! Okay so I took another one this morning hoping the line would be a little darker than last night and it wasn't?? Not sure what to think about this. Now I have a slight positive and I want to see it get darker!! Anyone know of any good HPT progression pictures on here?

WantingPink
December 12th, 2012, 11:08 AM
Okay so I found this great progression photo so now I am not so freaked out now. With my first 2 children I didn't know about most of the things I know now (chemicals, line not getting darker with an ectopic, etc.) so when I found out I was pregnant I was able to relax and enjoy it more. Knowledge can be mentally draining:)

Sorry I am such a spaz!! I do have some good early pregnancy "signs" like my boobs are really sore, I feel a little nauseous every now and then, my sense of smell is through the roof, I am ultra hungry, and I have the achy/crampy lower abdomen.

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/bfp/10751-bfp-progression.html

Thorz300
December 12th, 2012, 01:43 PM
Mine didn't ever get too much darker with any of my 3 boys. Just try and relax, I know it's hard! Just enjoy the special moment!!

Thorz300
December 13th, 2012, 01:41 PM
Well I guess I'm out of the 2ww!!! Ugh my body is playing tricks on me, I guess I actually haven't ovulated yet, but I did just get another + opk so I guess i'llbe back in the2ww in a few days. now because of this silly body of mine, it will be more like a 3ww. Booooo! Here is to hoping I ACTUALLY ovulate this time, it is my second +opk this cycle. But my temp never shifted. Lets hope it does this time!

Girlsway
December 13th, 2012, 02:31 PM
That's annoying Thorz300 but at least you don't have to wait for 4 weeks for the next ovulation like i have to. Enjoy BDing!
WantingPink what's the latest today, did you test again or you waiting now?
Think of you ladies!

Megan429
December 13th, 2012, 02:49 PM
Ok took a test this morning and I think it's a BFN but then my eyes play tricks on me. :/ Wishing AF would just just show up so I could start again and know where I am in my cycle (this was a NTNP cycle).

Girlsway
December 13th, 2012, 03:06 PM
Ok took a test this morning and I think it's a BFN but then my eyes play tricks on me. :/ Wishing AF would just just show up so I could start again and know where I am in my cycle (this was a NTNP cycle).

I also see something, which day are you in?

Megan429
December 13th, 2012, 03:24 PM
Not sure because I haven't been tracking ovulation but I think I'm around 8-10 dpo. Just from tracking my period start date for the last few months, FF expected my period today.

WantingPink
December 13th, 2012, 08:14 PM
That's annoying Thorz300 but at least you don't have to wait for 4 weeks for the next ovulation like i have to. Enjoy BDing!
WantingPink what's the latest today, did you test again or you waiting now?
Think of you ladies!


Okay here is an updated photo... I think the line is getting darker!! I will continue to test until I get a nice dark positive but I finally feel like I have a BFP!!:omg:


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Thorz300
December 13th, 2012, 08:34 PM
Yay yay yay!! How exciting!!
Congrats!!

Butterfly Spirit
December 13th, 2012, 08:42 PM
7214
:running:
WantingPink, YAY looks like a BFP to me
Happy & Healthy 9 Months! :pregnant:

Megan429
December 13th, 2012, 08:50 PM
Congrats!! I see it too!

Thorz300
December 14th, 2012, 07:37 AM
Well I was just set back nearly a week :( but I'm back in the 2ww O'd yesterday how many ladies are in the 2ww it seems slower than last month????

Smiley13
December 14th, 2012, 11:01 AM
Well I was just set back nearly a week :( but I'm back in the 2ww O'd yesterday how many ladies are in the 2ww it seems slower than last month????
I am! I'm at day 5. It seems like FOREVER! I wish we could know one way or another right away. The wait just isn't fair!! Good luck:)

Girlsway
December 14th, 2012, 12:19 PM
Okay here is an updated photo... I think the line is getting darker!! I will continue to test until I get a nice dark positive but I finally feel like I have a BFP!!:omg:


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it's definite! Congrats. Do you remember how you felt at 6-7dpo? My boobs are bigger but I just don't know if that's normal a week before period. I didn't feel it this much last month.

Girlsway
December 14th, 2012, 12:25 PM
I am on my first month and it already feels like forever. My mind is so impatient that its imagining pregnancy signs at 6dpo, I'm not sure if it is even physically possible? x

Thorz300
December 14th, 2012, 01:28 PM
I got sharp stab/pinch feelings around 6dpo with my 1st two pregnancies nothing with my 3rd!

ICB3
December 14th, 2012, 02:14 PM
I'm 8 dpo and I tested this morning. BFN but hoping its just too early!

Thorz300
December 14th, 2012, 03:05 PM
I'm 8 dpo and I tested this morning. BFN but hoping its just too early!

I try not to test before 11dpo because I don't like the disappointment!! Try to stay positive!

Smiley13
December 14th, 2012, 03:37 PM
I am on my first month and it already feels like forever. My mind is so impatient that its imagining pregnancy signs at 6dpo, I'm not sure if it is even physically possible? x
I feel the same way! I'm really hoping to be pregnant this month. I am going crazy! I'm only 5 dpo and I swear my boobs are sore. I'm sure its not possible to have any symptoms this early, its probably just all in my head:/

My Three Sons
December 14th, 2012, 05:09 PM
I may be out...not throwing in the towel just yet, but I'm crampy like I may start soon, probably tomorrow. FF changed my O date to CD 11 instead of 13 like it has, which would put me at 11 DPO.

Megan429
December 14th, 2012, 05:29 PM
I tested this morning, and another BFN, although now I'm 2 days late. Wishing AF would show up so I could move out of limbo if I'm not pg!

GL to those of you getting ready to test!!

Thorz300
December 14th, 2012, 05:47 PM
The hardest part of all this has been pin pointing my O! It seems I not alone in this! Sorry toyouladies who might be out! Hope you get a surprise!!

WantingPink
December 14th, 2012, 07:40 PM
I feel the same way! I'm really hoping to be pregnant this month. I am going crazy! I'm only 5 dpo and I swear my boobs are sore. I'm sure its not possible to have any symptoms this early, its probably just all in my head:/

I had sore boobs at 3 dpo and definitely at 6 dpo. Then on about day 8 it vanished and came back a little on day 9. Then day 10 my boobs were really sore and I started having the pregnancy smell/nose!! Then day 11 I got BFP!! So it may not all be in your head:)

Angelone
December 15th, 2012, 05:33 AM
hi everyone im in the 2 ww and im on day 16 my breast are feelin sore already is this even possible ... i hope we all get a wee positive before christmas what a lovely present for dh's xx

Angelone
December 15th, 2012, 05:53 AM
Here is another with the internet tests that I took this afternoon!! 11 DPO...


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i can def see a line in these ones congrats xx

Smiley13
December 15th, 2012, 06:33 AM
I had sore boobs at 3 dpo and definitely at 6 dpo. Then on about day 8 it vanished and came back a little on day 9. Then day 10 my boobs were really sore and I started having the pregnancy smell/nose!! Then day 11 I got BFP!! So it may not all be in your head:)
That makes me feel like I'm not too crazy lol! Hopefully its a good sign:) Congratulations to you! Hope this is your girl:)

Thorz300
December 15th, 2012, 07:55 AM
hi everyone im in the 2 ww and im on day 16 my breast are feelin sore already is this even possible ... i hope we all get a wee positive before christmas what a lovely present for dh's xx
Are you on CD16 or 16 dpo? If you are 16 Dpo then you should be able to test!

TTCPink
December 15th, 2012, 08:22 AM
Hi Everyone! Just stopping in to see how you are all doing. I am 7DPO and trying to hold off until 10DPO to test. Sending pink dust, prayers and good luck to you all. Hope to see more BFP news here soon! Seems there are a few us who are almost due to test. All I want for Xmas is a BFP!

Congrats, Wanting Pink!! :)

Megan429
December 15th, 2012, 10:19 AM
I'm out, AF showed today. GL to those of you testing soon, and congrats Wanting Pink!!

My Three Sons
December 15th, 2012, 01:51 PM
Crampy and spotty today. I hate this...

Thinking of making a doctor's appointment since my cycles are so short now.

Thorz300
December 15th, 2012, 02:15 PM
I'm out, AF showed today. GL to those of you testing soon, and congrats Wanting Pink!!

Sorry!!!! :(

Thorz300
December 15th, 2012, 02:16 PM
Crampy and spotty today. I hate this...

Thinking of making a doctor's appointment since my cycles are so short now.

Sorry :( how long are your cycles?

My Three Sons
December 15th, 2012, 03:55 PM
Sorry :( how long are your cycles?

Lately they are about 22 or 23 days long. I've never had really long ones, never really longer than 28 even when I was younger. Looking back in FF, when I conceived my other 3 they were relatively short then too. Maybe it's just taking some time to catch the egg. It just seems weird though when I know we have dtd close enough to O to not get preggo.

Girlsway
December 15th, 2012, 04:57 PM
I'm out, AF showed today. GL to those of you testing soon, and congrats Wanting Pink!!

I am sorry Megan429 I had my hopes for you x

Girlsway
December 15th, 2012, 05:05 PM
Hi Everyone! Just stopping in to see how you are all doing. I am 7DPO and trying to hold off until 10DPO to test. Sending pink dust, prayers and good luck to you all. Hope to see more BFP news here soon! Seems there are a few us who are almost due to test. All I want for Xmas is a BFP!

Congrats, Wanting Pink!! :)


Hi TTCPInk, I am 7 dpo as well and you are right no point of testing till 10-11 dpo. Can't wait till Tuesday :-)

Angelone
December 16th, 2012, 04:27 AM
Are you on CD16 or 16 dpo? If you are 16 Dpo then you should be able to test!

Cd16 so can't test :( patience has never been my own thing lol x

Mum23boys
December 16th, 2012, 05:12 AM
Just wanted to pop over and wish all of you that are testing this month the best of luck - i hope your get your xmas BFP.
XX

Thorz300
December 16th, 2012, 12:46 PM
So after the horrific shooting in Connecticut, I have decided I am not going to sway anymore, I realized that for me, I just want one more angel to complete my family, and which ever sex the lord decides to bless me with, I will be happy! with that said, my diet went out the window, it felt so good to eat some of my favorite foods, French onion soup,chips and salsa, buttered popcorn, but I just ate Raman noodles for Lunch and I almost immediately threw up!! i was able to hold it down, but i felt so nauseated for about a half hour!! Weird, I know it is way too early for those types of signs since I am only 3dpo but a girl can hope right?!?!

Boymomsrock
December 16th, 2012, 01:02 PM
Should be officially here tomorrow...made our attempt late last night and I'm pretty sure I'm o'ing today. Not sure if I should do another attempt today or tomorrow or AT&T all. Dh held off for 5 days before last night.

Girlsway
December 16th, 2012, 03:15 PM
So after the horrific shooting in Connecticut, I have decided I am not going to sway anymore, I realized that for me, I just want one more angel to complete my family, and which ever sex the lord decides to bless me with, I will be happy! with that said, my diet went out the window, it felt so good to eat some of my favorite foods, French onion soup,chips and salsa, buttered popcorn, but I just ate Raman noodles for Lunch and I almost immediately threw up!! i was able to hold it down, but i felt so nauseated for about a half hour!! Weird, I know it is way too early for those types of signs since I am only 3dpo but a girl can hope right?!?!

Fair enough, that's a good attitude. Plus you never know it's very likely you are pg already. Keep us posted either way xx

Boymomsrock
December 16th, 2012, 03:24 PM
So after the horrific shooting in Connecticut, I have decided I am not going to sway anymore, I realized that for me, I just want one more angel to complete my family, and which ever sex the lord decides to bless me with, I will be happy! with that said, my diet went out the window, it felt so good to eat some of my favorite foods, French onion soup,chips and salsa, buttered popcorn, but I just ate Raman noodles for Lunch and I almost immediately threw up!! i was able to hold it down, but i felt so nauseated for about a half hour!! Weird, I know it is way too early for those types of signs since I am only 3dpo but a girl can hope right?!?!

i'm only doing the diet anymore. I was doing everything in the beginning and still haven't gotten preg. I've dropped everything but the diet. And i still cheat here and there. I stick mostly to the two meals a day but every once in a while have a bite of chicken. LOL

TTCPink
December 16th, 2012, 10:46 PM
Hi Girls, I'm feeling bummed. 8DPO and spotting today. I started spotting for AF at 9DPO last month so I am not going to kid myself that it could be implantation bleeding. It was a crazy cycle for me anyway, with my O on CD8. Not sure what the heck is going on with my body. LP is too short, O was so early, UGH. My cycles were regular before swaying. Not sure if it is the weight loss or Vitex and SP, or a combo of both. I will try diet+SP+Vitex one more month, but if I have another crazy cycle next month I am dropping the Vitex and SP from my sway completely.

Not sure if we will make an attempt in Jan. yet or not. I will wait and see how much I stray from the diet over the holidays. Maybe we will wait until Feb for our next attempt. I guess for now I plan to enjoy some yummy food and wine over the holidays and then I will regroup after that.

Good luck to you all.

Thorz300
December 16th, 2012, 10:59 PM
Hi Girls, I'm feeling bummed. 8DPO and spotting today. I started spotting for AF at 9DPO last month so I am not going to kid myself that it could be implantation bleeding. It was a crazy cycle for me anyway, with my O on CD8. Not sure what the heck is going on with my body. LP is too short, O was so early, UGH. My cycles were regular before swaying. Not sure if it is the weight loss or Vitex and SP, or a combo of both. I will try diet+SP+Vitex one more month, but if I have another crazy cycle next month I am dropping the Vitex and SP from my sway completely.

Not sure if we will make an attempt in Jan. yet or not. I will wait and see how much I stray from the diet over the holidays. Maybe we will wait until Feb for our next attempt. I guess for now I plan to enjoy some yummy food and wine over the holidays and then I will regroup after that.

Good luck to you all.
Sorry to hear that! I was drinking peppermint tea which I heard is a lot like SP and it messed with my cycle, I stopped drinking it and 2 days later O came, I really believe it was slowing O maybe the SP is messing with your cycle in some way too. I'm no expert, and I don't know anything about vitex but if you think they are messing with your cycle, they probably are. My cycle has always been like clock work... 25 day cycle with O on day CD 11 or 12 this time it didn't come until day 16. Anyway, good luck, sorry AF might be other way!

Ipadmad
December 17th, 2012, 01:43 AM
I'm 7 dpo now and I don't think I've caught this cycle. Other than a bit of tummy bloating and being teary, which is usual for me before af, I don't feel any different. I'm trying to not get my hopes up.

This waiting stage is so hard isn't it. I'm so impatient. I'm trying to remember if I felt any different in early stages with ds1 and ds2.

I am also missing January too ttcpink. I'm just not sure whether I can go 'all out' now or wait for af? Im getting 'don't drop any more weight, you're too skinny' comments from my mum, so would be nice to be able to put on a bit, to let me lose it again January. Does anyone know if that's ok? To gain, then lose again close to an attempt (feb)?

Thanks

Smiley13
December 17th, 2012, 07:17 AM
I'm 8 dpo and really having a hard time resisting the urge to test! Anyone have success testing this early?

Thorz300
December 17th, 2012, 07:54 AM
I'm 8 dpo and really having a hard time resisting the urge to test! Anyone have success testing this early?

I've never tested that early, but I've seen some ladies here who have and some have gotten BFP but most get BFN! I Will be 11 dpo on Christmas Eve! I'm trying to decide if I want to test on Christmas Eve or Christmas but I don't want to risk being disappointed so maybe I should wai until AF is due,, but I don't know if I'm that patient!

Girlsway
December 17th, 2012, 08:02 AM
I'm 8 dpo and really having a hard time resisting the urge to test! Anyone have success testing this early?

I couldnt resist it and i tested (also 8 dpo today), its BFN but it has a slight shade on it. I didnt use the early morning urine, so i cant wait testing tomorrow morning.

Girlsway
December 17th, 2012, 08:04 AM
I'm 7 dpo now and I don't think I've caught this cycle. Other than a bit of tummy bloating and being teary, which is usual for me before af, I don't feel any different. I'm trying to not get my hopes up.

This waiting stage is so hard isn't it. I'm so impatient. I'm trying to remember if I felt any different in early stages with ds1 and ds2.

I am also missing January too ttcpink. I'm just not sure whether I can go 'all out' now or wait for af? Im getting 'don't drop any more weight, you're too skinny' comments from my mum, so would be nice to be able to put on a bit, to let me lose it again January. Does anyone know if that's ok? To gain, then lose again close to an attempt (feb)?

Thanks

I would be also interested in knowing if thats okay. I have the same issue with the diet.

Smiley13
December 17th, 2012, 08:14 AM
I've never tested that early, but I've seen some ladies here who have and some have gotten BFP but most get BFN! I Will be 11 dpo on Christmas Eve! I'm trying to decide if I want to test on Christmas Eve or Christmas but I don't want to risk being disappointed so maybe I should wai until AF is due,, but I don't know if I'm that patient!

I can't decide whats worse; a BFN or AF:/ Its always tough deciding when to test. What a great Christmas present a BFP would be for both of us:)

Smiley13
December 17th, 2012, 08:15 AM
I couldnt resist it and i tested (also 8 dpo today), its BFN but it has a slight shade on it. I didnt use the early morning urine, so i cant wait testing tomorrow morning.
If it has anything on it then its probably positive! What brand did you use?

Girlsway
December 17th, 2012, 08:55 AM
If it has anything on it then its probably positive! What brand did you use?

I am only using cheap strips from amazon that's why I don't mind testing. It was BFN but it had a weird shade on it like on Megan429 picture earlier on in this thread. She got her AF later so I am not putting my hopes up.
Which tests are you using?

Thorz300
December 17th, 2012, 09:49 AM
I am only using cheap strips from amazon that's why I don't mind testing. It was BFN but it had a weird shade on it like on Megan429 picture earlier on in this thread. She got her AF later so I am not putting my hopes up.
Which tests are you using?

Could be an evap line!! I'm jealous that you are now in the testing window, that seems so far away for me!
hope you get your BFP!!!

Boymomsrock
December 17th, 2012, 10:11 AM
Where are you in your cycle thorZ?

Girlsway
December 17th, 2012, 10:25 AM
Could be an evap line!! I'm jealous that you are now in the testing window, that seems so far away for me!
hope you get your BFP!!!

I haven't heard about the evaporation line before but you are right, it could well be that. I have to admit I never spend so long looking at a strip of paper before :-) My eyes desperately wanted to see a line there. I even kept on tilting it against the light in hope of seeing something :-) I might retake tonight just to see if it was the evaporate line.

I have all my fingers crossed for you Thorz300 and I will be logging on on Christmas Eve!

Thorz300
December 17th, 2012, 10:33 AM
Where are you in your cycle thorZ?

4DPO UGH

Smiley13
December 17th, 2012, 10:47 AM
I am only using cheap strips from amazon that's why I don't mind testing. It was BFN but it had a weird shade on it like on Megan429 picture earlier on in this thread. She got her AF later so I am not putting my hopes up.
Which tests are you using?
I caved! I just used a First Response test and I'm pretty sure its a BFN. I stared at it so long that I started seeing the faintest of faint line and now I have a headache lol. I'm going to wait until Wednesday to test again.

Boymomsrock
December 17th, 2012, 11:19 AM
4DPO UGH

I know it seems like torture huh?? Heehee...hang in there! I'm already antsy and o'ing today! Lol!

Amberlilly55
December 17th, 2012, 11:42 AM
Hi everyone! I am new to the boards and found my way to this thread. I am in my tww hoping for a girl this time around. I should be finding out on the 21st. I couldn't resist and tested this morning with a dollar store test. BFN :(

Angelone
December 17th, 2012, 01:59 PM
Are you on CD16 or 16 dpo? If you are 16 Dpo then you should be able to test!

Cd18, now totally impatient lol xx

WantingPink
December 17th, 2012, 03:57 PM
I caved! I just used a First Response test and I'm pretty sure its a BFN. I stared at it so long that I started seeing the faintest of faint line and now I have a headache lol. I'm going to wait until Wednesday to test again.

Did you see my really really faint positives at 11 DPO earlier on this thread (with the internet ones and with FRER)? You should post pictures so we can see!! The ladies on here could see them and I was like you... going cross-eyed and getting a headache from staring at them for so long. I hope it is a BFP for you!!

Smiley13
December 17th, 2012, 05:15 PM
Did you see my really really faint positives at 11 DPO earlier on this thread (with the internet ones and with FRER)? You should post pictures so we can see!! The ladies on here could see them and I was like you... going cross-eyed and getting a headache from staring at them for so long. I hope it is a BFP for you!!

Thanks wantingpink. I really think I was seeing things. I just looked at it again and I'm not seeing the line. I'm still holding out hope for a BFP at the end of the week:)

Smiley13
December 18th, 2012, 05:25 AM
Anyone see a line? My eyes are definitely playing tricks on me. One minute I do then I don't. 9 DPO.

Smiley13
December 18th, 2012, 05:36 AM
Ok doesn't look like the image came up? I'm trying to do this from an iPhone. Oh well, off to work:/ Wantingpink-it looks just like the pic you first posted.

Thorz300
December 18th, 2012, 08:51 AM
Ok doesn't look like the image came up? I'm trying to do this from an iPhone. Oh well, off to work:/ Wantingpink-it looks just like the pic you first posted.
Hopefully you can post one after work :)

Girlsway
December 18th, 2012, 08:51 AM
Ok doesn't look like the image came up? I'm trying to do this from an iPhone. Oh well, off to work:/ Wantingpink-it looks just like the pic you first posted.

Then it's positive, as you said if there is anything it's BFP. I tested this morning again and it was BFN, no line what so ever :-(

Boymomsrock
December 18th, 2012, 08:54 AM
1 whole dpo today, haha!

Smiley--post a pic! Let us help you obsess! ;)

WantingPink
December 18th, 2012, 10:48 AM
Ok doesn't look like the image came up? I'm trying to do this from an iPhone. Oh well, off to work:/ Wantingpink-it looks just like the pic you first posted.

You need to get a pic up so we can all stare at it with you. Have to admit it is one of my favorite things to do on here:)

WantingPink
December 18th, 2012, 10:52 AM
Then it's positive, as you said if there is anything it's BFP. I tested this morning again and it was BFN, no line what so ever :-(

That happened to me also at 8 dpo (the evap line) but the good news is you aren't out until AF. At 8, 9, 10 dpo I was sure I was pregnant but kept getting BFN until 11 dpo and even then it was so faint that I didn't really believe it. Mrs. P didn't get her positive until like 15 DPO. I know it is sooooooo hard to be patient!! I probably went through 20 tests before 11 dpo. Do you have any other signs that you might be pregnant?

Wanting-a-girl
December 18th, 2012, 11:02 AM
1-2 dpo I will be testing jan 1st... Fingers crossed for you all :)

Smiley13
December 18th, 2012, 12:01 PM
So I showed DH and he didn't see it but I still think there maybe something there (or my eyes are willing a line to show up lol). I will try again to post after work. You ladies are great:)

The Anchor
December 18th, 2012, 12:08 PM
I am 2 dpo...I'll be testing Dec 28th. Maybe a new years surprise? I am simply a terrible 2wwer, I can't stand it. Thank goodness for christmas this year, hopefully it'll take my mind of things. GL everyone!

Dreamofpink
December 18th, 2012, 12:37 PM
I think I'll be joining you ladies tomorrow, ov day today. Not holding out much hope, got lost with it all thinking I'd already ov'd so dtd cd14, 15, 16 missed 17 & 18 and ov'd today. DTD today just a few hours after my EWCM, not sure it would've been enough. I only ever get EWCM the day before (sometimes) and on ov day, so know that's it for me now. CP was absolutely useless and my cm had gone white on cd17&18 making me think I'd ov'd. Wish I ahdn't given up on the opks now but they were stressing me out!!! Went to see doc today too, so will have bloods done to confirm ov. I'm also having them done on cd28 due to late ov, so any chance a bfp'd show do you think? I'd be 9dpo, not sure if they even look for that anyway!! Gosh this is all SOOO hard!!!!! Have had a good few cries today :(

Boymomsrock
December 18th, 2012, 12:41 PM
Yay there's a lot of us right at the same dpo! Hopefully we will have a roll of bfps in the next 2 weeks!!

TTCPink
December 18th, 2012, 03:08 PM
I'm still waiting on AF...spotted on 8DPO, 9DPO, and still spotting today (10DPO). Only brown blood. Tested today just in case...BFN. Is there still a chance for me this month? Temp went down a bit this morning. I know the spotting is most likely AF making her way over, but I still am holding on to a thread of hope.

TTCPink
December 18th, 2012, 03:10 PM
Looks like a lot of you will be testing around Jan. 1...hope you all start off the new year with a BFP! :)

Ipadmad
December 18th, 2012, 04:12 PM
I'm on 8 dpo today. No signs whatsoever, but tested this morning regardless :). Total waste of time, but at least it feels like I'm doing something. Completely futile I know, but I'm so impatient.

I don't feel any different anyway. Just feel v pre-menstrual - bloated, teary and emotional. With ds1, my nipples went dark and spotty quickly, none of that now. But I do remember being quite surprised when I got a bfp with ds2. I dont think i had pre-tests symptoms 2nd time around. That's giving me some hope at the moment, but I am not expecting a positive.

Such a roller coaster isn't it. I wish I was more laid back.

Wanting-a-girl
December 18th, 2012, 04:37 PM
I think the holidays are really gonna make this tww fly by... I'm a pretty bad tww waiter always symptom spotting lol but I am ver adimint about not testing till Af is due cause of last month chemical.... Hope we all get some BFP'S! My due date would be sept 11th which I don't like so I will get them to change to the 10th or 12th

Smiley13
December 18th, 2012, 05:38 PM
Well I was definitely seeing things...AF reared her ugly head this afternoon:( The ironic part is that she came while I was at the store stocking up on pregnancy tests. Not really sure if I should take a month off due to the tempting holidays or try to muscle through with only a couple cheats. I am bummed but its only my first month so it was unlikely that it would happen this quick. Good luck to everyone still in the 2ww!

Girlsway
December 18th, 2012, 06:04 PM
That happened to me also at 8 dpo (the evap line) but the good news is you aren't out until AF. At 8, 9, 10 dpo I was sure I was pregnant but kept getting BFN until 11 dpo and even then it was so faint that I didn't really believe it. Mrs. P didn't get her positive until like 15 DPO. I know it is sooooooo hard to be patient!! I probably went through 20 tests before 11 dpo. Do you have any other signs that you might be pregnant?

Thank you for encouraging words. My bbs are unusually tender but it could be just PMS. I feel AF is on its way which again doesn't have to be a bad thing. With my DS1 I was persuaded AF would arrive. I guess soon we will know but I don't want to feel disappointed when not pg.

Girlsway
December 18th, 2012, 06:20 PM
Well I was definitely seeing things...AF reared her ugly head this afternoon:( The ironic part is that she came while I was at the store stocking up on pregnancy tests. Not really sure if I should take a month off due to the tempting holidays or try to muscle through with only a couple cheats. I am bummed but its only my first month so it was unlikely that it would happen this quick. Good luck to everyone still in the 2ww!
I am so sorry to hear that, I am on my first month and feel exactly like you. The chances are low. If you can try to do another month, what if you get pg next month and then you don't have to worry about dieting anymore. I know it's not easy with the festivities but they will be over soon.

Smiley13
December 18th, 2012, 08:28 PM
I am so sorry to hear that, I am on my first month and feel exactly like you. The chances are low. If you can try to do another month, what if you get pg next month and then you don't have to worry about dieting anymore. I know it's not easy with the festivities but they will be over soon.

Thanks Girlsway. I think we are going to go for it. I think I'd go crazy waiting. It will be hard but I'll just have to limit my cheats and do the best I can. I hope you get a BFP soon:)

Girlsway
December 19th, 2012, 04:07 AM
BFN this morning, it's not looking good.

Thorz300
December 19th, 2012, 06:48 AM
BFN this morning, it's not looking good.

:(

Thorz300
December 19th, 2012, 06:49 AM
Well I was definitely seeing things...AF reared her ugly head this afternoon:( The ironic part is that she came while I was at the store stocking up on pregnancy tests. Not really sure if I should take a month off due to the tempting holidays or try to muscle through with only a couple cheats. I am bummed but its only my first month so it was unlikely that it would happen this quick. Good luck to everyone still in the 2ww!

:(

Smiley13
December 19th, 2012, 01:33 PM
BFN this morning, it's not looking good.
How many dpo are you? Maybe its just too early.

Smiley13
December 19th, 2012, 01:36 PM
:(

Your sweet Thorz:) I'm feeling ok about it though. Every time AF comes it brings a another chance for great sway attempt:) December just wasn't meant to be my month. I hope its yours!

Amberlilly55
December 19th, 2012, 01:45 PM
I got a BFN this morning. AF is due tomorrow. Since I only just found this site earlier this week I am going to take this as an opportunity to sway. Got to stay positive! Good luck to everyone hoping for a BFP!

Girlsway
December 19th, 2012, 05:25 PM
How many dpo are you? Maybe its just too early.

11 dpo so it should have shown a little. Your AF arrived early, do you know why that was?

Smiley13
December 19th, 2012, 06:06 PM
11 dpo so it should have shown a little. Your AF arrived early, do you know why that was?

I have a luteal phase defect. I had it with DS2 and was on progesterone suppositories. I tried to avoid them this time by taking OTC progesterone cream but all it did was give me red skin and cramps:( I have a call into my MD to get a script for them for this cycle.

Girlsway
December 19th, 2012, 06:26 PM
I have a luteal phase defect. I had it with DS2 and was on progesterone suppositories. I tried to avoid them this time by taking OTC progesterone cream but all it did was give me red skin and cramps:( I have a call into my MD to get a script for them for this cycle.

Let's hope that will help and you'll get your BFP next month :-)

Smiley13
December 19th, 2012, 06:49 PM
Let's hope that will help and you'll get your BFP next month :-)

Thanks:) I should have gone straight for it from the get go but was hoping that I could get away without it. Now I know. I hope you find out one way or another soon:) The waiting is the worst!

Thorz300
December 19th, 2012, 07:35 PM
Your sweet Thorz:) I'm feeling ok about it though. Every time AF comes it brings a another chance for great sway attempt:) December just wasn't meant to be my month. I hope its yours!
That is a great attitude, I wish I had that same feeling, to me it meant "Oh no another month of this stupid diet" but now I am not swaying anymore so even if I don't get pregnant this time, I don't have to worry about the silly diet (it was REALLY hard for me since I have such a low bmi)

Thorz300
December 19th, 2012, 07:36 PM
I got a BFN this morning. AF is due tomorrow. Since I only just found this site earlier this week I am going to take this as an opportunity to sway. Got to stay positive! Good luck to everyone hoping for a BFP!

Way to look at it in a positive light!! Good luck, and welcome to GD!

Thorz300
December 19th, 2012, 07:44 PM
Oh my, I do not know what this is.....it can either be AF approaching or sign of PG....I don't know because it has never happened to me! I am so weepy and emotional. I spent an hour fixing my 22 month olds favorite blanket (a crocheted afghan I made him while I was pg/ him and on bed rest) I was so excited for him to see it (since I hadn't let him use it for over a week because of the whole) anyway, when he saw it he could careless about it...........that made me CRY!!!! What in the world????? Why would that make me cry?!!?? Then, I was making dinner and I didn't have everything I needed so I had to make substitutes and that made me cry?!?! I don't know if I can pin this on early pg signs or on AF because I have never experienced this with AF or ANY of my pregnancies LOL I feel so dumb. My husband didn't know how to react when I told him why I was crying...... He tried to make me feel better, but really he had no idea how to because they were BOTH very silly reasons to be sad/crying!!! Jeez I feel dumb!!!

Thorz300
December 19th, 2012, 07:45 PM
Oh my, I do not know what this is.....it can either be AF approaching or sign of PG....I don't know because it has never happened to me! I am so weepy and emotional. I spent an hour fixing my 22 month olds favorite blanket (a crocheted afghan I made him while I was pg/ him and on bed rest) I was so excited for him to see it (since I hadn't let him use it for over a week because of the hole) anyway, when he saw it he could careless about it...........that made me CRY!!!! What in the world????? Why would that make me cry?!!?? Then, I was making dinner and I didn't have everything I needed so I had to make substitutes and that made me cry?!?! I don't know if I can pin this on early pg signs or on AF because I have never experienced this with AF or ANY of my pregnancies LOL I feel so dumb. My husband didn't know how to react when I told him why I was crying...... He tried to make me feel better, but really he had no idea how to because they were BOTH very silly reasons to be sad/crying!!! Jeez I feel dumb!!!

WantingPink
December 19th, 2012, 10:23 PM
Oh my, I do not know what this is.....it can either be AF approaching or sign of PG....I don't know because it has never happened to me! I am so weepy and emotional. I spent an hour fixing my 22 month olds favorite blanket (a crocheted afghan I made him while I was pg/ him and on bed rest) I was so excited for him to see it (since I hadn't let him use it for over a week because of the whole) anyway, when he saw it he could careless about it...........that made me CRY!!!! What in the world????? Why would that make me cry?!!?? Then, I was making dinner and I didn't have everything I needed so I had to make substitutes and that made me cry?!?! I don't know if I can pin this on early pg signs or on AF because I have never experienced this with AF or ANY of my pregnancies LOL I feel so dumb. My husband didn't know how to react when I told him why I was crying...... He tried to make me feel better, but really he had no idea how to because they were BOTH very silly reasons to be sad/crying!!! Jeez I feel dumb!!!


That is kind of crazy especially if it hasn't ever happened to you before. Do you have any other signs of being PG? I have noticed with this PG I have been very irritated with everything which isn't like me at all. Usually I am the patient one. It is so hard to wait and wonder if every little thing is a sign of being PG... but it is also kind of fun:)

Thorz300
December 19th, 2012, 10:29 PM
That is kind of crazy especially if it hasn't ever happened to you before. Do you have any other signs of being PG? I have noticed with this PG I have been very irritated with everything which isn't like me at all. Usually I am the patient one. It is so hard to wait and wonder if every little thing is a sign of being PG... but it is also kind of fun:)

I do have a few other symptoms, I got really nauseated when cooking dinner, so much so that I wouldn't even eat it after I spent the time and effort to cook it. I have also been really tired. But the thing is, this is my first time actually paying this much attention to signs and symptoms, so maybe all these things happened to me before but I just wasn't paying attention (except for the crying bit, because I am just not a crier in general) I too have been quite a bit more snappy or short tempered than normal, but I chalked that up to my 22 month old trying to give up naps ALREADY!! Really it seems anything can be a symptom so I'm trying not to get my hopes up! I'm only 6dpo so who knows......I think I'll test on Christmas Eve or Christmas!

The Anchor
December 19th, 2012, 10:30 PM
I personally think that mother nature is one evil witch. Why on earth would she make 2ww symptoms exactly mirror those of AF??? Is it punishment for something? If it makes it better, for me, if it's AF I get all the symptoms, crampy, achy, emotional, tired...but the one thing that's pretty specific to pg for me is the REALLY sore bbs. GL!

Boymomsrock
December 19th, 2012, 10:31 PM
I'm kind of the same way anchor. I've always known i was pregnant because my nipples were super sensitive. Like couldn't let the shower hit them sensitive.

Your post cracked me up Thorz because i could totally picture myself crying too! LOL! FX!

WantingPink
December 19th, 2012, 10:36 PM
I personally think that mother nature is one evil witch. Why on earth would she make 2ww symptoms exactly mirror those of AF??? Is it punishment for something? If it makes it better, for me, if it's AF I get all the symptoms, crampy, achy, emotional, tired...but the one thing that's pretty specific to pg for me is the REALLY sore bbs. GL!

Yes, that is the big difference for me too. I always know I am PG because my bbs and nipples get very sore and sensitive. It started happening for me this time on 3 DPO and I thought I was being completely mental (which has also been known to happen around AF):)

Thorz300
December 19th, 2012, 10:39 PM
LOL unfortunately I have NEVER had the boob symptom because when I was 19 I got a breast reduction and the sensation to the nipples is quite depleted :( With my first son I found out I was pg because of the sharp pinch/pains in my ovary uterus area, that was my ONLY symptom, with DS2 the same thing, I started feeling those pinch/pains at about 6 dpo but with DS3 I didn't feel a single pain and the only reason I even POAS is because we went out to eat and I couldn't get enough of the french onion soup!!! It was like I was famished and the only thing that could make it better was that soup, and I couldn't get enough of it....DS looked at me and said "are you PG"? I said "NO" because I haven't "felt any pains" just goes to prove that every pregnancy is different, that is another reason why I don't want to get my hopes up.....I have had a few of the pains but no where near what I felt with my 1st 2 boys!!! Oh the joys of the 2ww!

Ipadmad
December 20th, 2012, 02:46 AM
I think I'm out. 10dpo today and just got a bfn. I know it's not over till af arrives, but I just don't feel any different to normal. I know af is on her way - moody and teary as usual, tired, back ache and dizzy. It seems extra disappointing this cycle, what with Xmas being around the corner and all.

Never mind, onto the next cycle!

Good luck to everyone else x

Mum to three girls
December 20th, 2012, 05:41 AM
Hi, I'm going to "crash" this thread! I'm 39 and TTCing no 4, this month has been my second attempt, my last was a chemical. So, I'm really confused now. I have very regular cycles, my LMP was 21 Nov and I Oed on day 13-14. I got my first bfp with FRER on 10dpo but it was really faint and stayed faint. By day 12dpo it had gone and I used my last FRER on Tues (13dpo) and it was still negative. On that day I had a bit of cramping and I thought it was all over for this cycle.

BUT, something made me test again tonight as AF hasn't come and she's about a day late and I have cramps but they're different and I have a faint but definitely there BFP. And it's late here so it's an end of day test. I'm 15dpo.

Could I have ovulated twice in one cycle???

I don't think I can deal with the roller coaster of another chemical quite so soon.

Wanting-a-girl
December 20th, 2012, 09:47 AM
Cramping today 4dpo! To early for implatation I know... Just sharing

Thorz300
December 20th, 2012, 12:05 PM
So this might be tmi, but I was wondering if a yeast infection might be a sign of pregnancy? I have never had a yeast infection, but my vj has started to feel itchy and not normal. Because I have never had one, I had to look up the symptoms and almost everything I have read says this is the start of a yeast infection. Does anyone know if this might be a sign of pregnancy? I know we all grasp at straws during the 2ww but this is just so weird for me because I truly have never had one!

Wanting-a-girl
December 20th, 2012, 12:22 PM
i have read some things that say yes... but i dont know for sure how many dpo are you

Thorz300
December 20th, 2012, 12:56 PM
Im 7dpo! My husband says he thinks I am pg. He is a doctor but not an OBGYN so I don't know how much he really knows about this stuff. But he knew before I did with my last pg. I don't really "feel" like I am one way or another so far, I am 1for 3 for "knowing" im pregnant before testing and my husband is 1/3 too, so obviously we aren't very good at knowing before hand.

Mum to three girls
December 20th, 2012, 03:28 PM
My DH is also a doctor and he's CRAP when it comes to pregnancy stuff! He couldn't even see last night's line - granted it was faint but there was definite colour to the second pink line. BUT I reckon some husbands just really "know" their wives. Thrush was the first preg symptom for me with DD1.

I won't be able to resist POAS this morning (again!), I'm 16dpo and no AF. I'm still really confused by my faint BFP from 10-12dpo lightening and then completely going by 13dpo (and I checked with a few FRERs that it had gone, I'm an addict!) and then reappearing last night.

Thorz300
December 20th, 2012, 03:58 PM
My DH is also a doctor and he's CRAP when it comes to pregnancy stuff! He couldn't even see last night's line - granted it was faint but there was definite colour to the second pink line. BUT I reckon some husbands just really "know" their wives. Thrush was the first preg symptom for me with DD1.

I won't be able to resist POAS this morning (again!), I'm 16dpo and no AF. I'm still really confused by my faint BFP from 10-12dpo lightening and then completely going by 13dpo (and I checked with a few FRERs that it had gone, I'm an addict!) and then reappearing last night.

Are you always using your first morning urine? That is the only thing I can think of as to why it wouldn't show up after it already did!! I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you, and hopefully my vj irritation is a sign of pregnancy for me and/or a sign its a girl :)

WantingPink
December 20th, 2012, 04:59 PM
Are you always using your first morning urine? That is the only thing I can think of as to why it wouldn't show up after it already did!! I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you, and hopefully my vj irritation is a sign of pregnancy for me and/or a sign its a girl :)

Weird... this same thing happened to me?? I thought I too might be getting a yeast infection but a couple of days ago (about 15 DPO) it went away?? Have no idea why or what that could be about?? Maybe your body lowers your immune system for implantation and I was starting to get a YI? I don't know but I wish it was the sign of a girl:)

Thorz300
December 20th, 2012, 05:04 PM
Weird... this same thing happened to me?? I thought I too might be getting a yeast infection but a couple of days ago (about 15 DPO) it went away?? Have no idea why or what that could be about?? Maybe your body lowers your immune system for implantation and I was starting to get a YI? I don't know but I wish it was the sign of a girl:)

I think mine might be going away too.....this makes me happy, that it's going away, and that it might be a sign of pregnancy!!

My BFF is getting a scan today and possibly finding out if it is a boy or girl!!! I feel terrible that I secretly pray she is having a boy!! Unless of course I get preg with a girl, then she is fine to have one!! Because if she gets a girl (she really wants a girl) then I will be the only one of my family and friends with not even 1 girl!! She was the only one in the boy only club with me.! I feel bad that I will be so sad if she gets a girl!!

WantingPink
December 20th, 2012, 05:05 PM
Im 7dpo! My husband says he thinks I am pg. He is a doctor but not an OBGYN so I don't know how much he really knows about this stuff. But he knew before I did with my last pg. I don't really "feel" like I am one way or another so far, I am 1for 3 for "knowing" im pregnant before testing and my husband is 1/3 too, so obviously we aren't very good at knowing before hand.

My DH is also a doctor and all three of my pregnancies have been on "accident" because he thought he knew where I was in my (very regular) cycle (insert large sigh here). DH did know I was pregnant with #1 but he didn't have a clue with #2 and still doesn't know about this one:)

Thorz300
December 20th, 2012, 10:57 PM
Ugh, I wish someone would talk me out of POAS tomorrow morning. It will be 8dpo I know some people have gotten BFP that early but that most don't. I told myself that I wouldn't test until 11dpo but now that the time is creeping up on me, I am really tempted. Im really torn. My husband will be at work all weekend so I probably should wait for him, but when he is gone I get lonely so in some weird way I think POAS keeps me from getting to lonely I know that sounds dumb!!

Elements
December 21st, 2012, 04:03 AM
Ugh, I wish someone would talk me out of POAS tomorrow morning. It will be 8dpo I know some people have gotten BFP that early but that most don't. I told myself that I wouldn't test until 11dpo but now that the time is creeping up on me, I am really tempted. Im really torn. My husband will be at work all weekend so I probably should wait for him, but when he is gone I get lonely so in some weird way I think POAS keeps me from getting to lonely I know that sounds dumb!!

Dont do it! them tests are expensive!!!

im 11dpo tomorrow. im not feeling hopeful though. Im waiting for a appointment for a mamogram at the moment. I have
huge lump in my boob. Apparently the public health system thinks 'urgent' means no big hurry.

Mum to three girls
December 21st, 2012, 04:09 AM
Sorry, quotes not working on phone but I get the POAS thing when you're by yourself with the kids. I am a POAS addict and when life is chaotic it almost gives me a bit of private "me time". Even if they're all watching me go!

I still have no idea what's going on with me, my FRER this am didn't work - no control line but my Internet cheapies arrived today. No sign of AF at 16dpo. 2 of my 3 BFNs done after my day 10-12dpo BFPs were first morning samples so I'm not sure how they became positive again yesterday? Bearing in mind that I was a normal person I wouldn't have tested a million times between 10dpo and now. I'll do an Internet test tonight when the girls are down.

Overall it still feels like it'll probably be just a continuation of the chemical so I'm not getting too excited yet.

Mum to three girls
December 21st, 2012, 04:12 AM
Sorry, double post.

Pangea
December 21st, 2012, 04:26 AM
Hi everyone, I'm joining in. I'm 1dpo today, I have a long wait ahead of me until testing. I have no patience and I have a big packet of cheapie tests upstairs so I'll probably start testing around 7/8dpo.

Mum to three girls, I hope the internet test is positive. It must be very frustrating not knowing what's going on.

Elements I hope you get the mammogram quickly and that the results are good.

Good luck everyone, I hope all your symptoms are pregnancy symptoms and that there are lots of Christmas BFPs.

Pink10
December 21st, 2012, 05:28 AM
Hi everyone! I'm joining too - BFN today but my boobs are soooooooooo sore - may a sign??? Only 8 DPO - FX for a Christmas BFP!

Good luck everyone!

My FF chart:

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Thorz300
December 21st, 2012, 07:18 AM
Dont do it! them tests are expensive!!!

im 11dpo tomorrow. im not feeling hopeful though. Im waiting for a appointment for a mamogram at the moment. I have
huge lump in my boob. Apparently the public health system thinks 'urgent' means no big hurry.

Oh no, good luck! I really hope it all turns out

Thorz300
December 21st, 2012, 07:21 AM
Sorry, quotes not working on phone but I get the POAS thing when you're by yourself with the kids. I am a POAS addict and when life is chaotic it almost gives me a bit of private "me time". Even if they're all watching me go!

I still have no idea what's going on with me, my FRER this am didn't work - no control line but my Internet cheapies arrived today. No sign of AF at 16dpo. 2 of my 3 BFNs done after my day 10-12dpo BFPs were first morning samples so I'm not sure how they became positive again yesterday? Bearing in mind that I was a normal person I wouldn't have tested a million times between 10dpo and now. I'll do an Internet test tonight when the girls are down.

Overall it still feels like it'll probably be just a continuation of the chemical so I'm not getting too excited yet.

Fingers crossed for you!!

boyjoy
December 21st, 2012, 09:31 AM
Hi 2 WWers.
I have 13 month old baby girl and i wasn t planning to wait this 2 weeks. :( we were using pull out as birth control. I know it sounds silly but we did this with the calendar , since the beginning which means 8 years. My period started 3 month ago and it was surprisingly regular. This time i did feel some cramps on my right side 7 days later than my O day. I didn t think it was O. And we dtd that night. In the morning i had tons of Ewcm. You know what that means. :(( day past dtd is 9. Today we are leaving for a vacation. I don t want to test and ruin my vacation. I love babies but we werent planning this until february. I hope AF shows up very soon.

If i am pregnant this is gonna be our first surprise baby. Of course she/he ll be loved. But hope can wait some more.

Thorz300
December 21st, 2012, 09:42 AM
Oh no I wasn't able to curb my desire/curiosity and I caved and POAS (8dpo) so here is the thing....after a staring contests with this thing in different lights, I think I see a super duper faint line...I shouldn't have POAS because its gonna drive me nuts fiddling with these things in different lighting. Maybe I'll try to skip tomorrow and test again on sunday. Sunday will be 10dpo .

boyjoy
December 21st, 2012, 09:55 AM
I got very faint lines at dpo9 with my 3 daughters. They say early bfp is a girl sign. FX for u.

Pangea
December 21st, 2012, 10:05 AM
I hope that's the beginnings of a bfp for you Thorz, would it show up in a picture?

Boyjoy, I hope you get the outcome you're hoping for. I was in a similar situation last summer, accidentally dtd 2 days before ovulation, but luckily I didn't get pregnant.

Thorz300
December 21st, 2012, 10:49 AM
I hope that's the beginnings of a bfp for you Thorz, would it show up in a picture?

Boyjoy, I hope you get the outcome you're hoping for. I was in a similar situation last summer, accidentally dtd 2 days before ovulation, but luckily I didn't get pregnant.

No it wouldn't show up in pics, I'm not even sure I really see anything lol

Girlsway
December 21st, 2012, 11:00 AM
I simply can't believe this. I got BFN at 11pdo at very sensitive test so I didn't test at 12pdo. I was just waiting for my AF to arrive. Today at 13pdo I felt pg so I tested and I got a faint line!!! I will test tomorrow to see if it gets any darker. Now I feel guilty of drinking 3x diet coke a day plus eating yogurts with sweeteners. Do you think I did any damage? x

Girlsway
December 21st, 2012, 11:12 AM
Oh no I wasn't able to curb my desire/curiosity and I caved and POAS (8dpo) so here is the thing....after a staring contests with this thing in different lights, I think I see a super duper faint line...I shouldn't have POAS because its gonna drive me nuts fiddling with these things in different lighting. Maybe I'll try to skip tomorrow and test again on sunday. Sunday will be 10dpo .

It has to be a BFP, you had the symptom as well. Pre Christmas socialising kept me busy for couple of days and I am just catching up with the posts now. It's brilliant news for both of us. I am retesting tomorrow to confirm. Keep us posted and fingers crossed!!!

WantingPink
December 21st, 2012, 11:48 AM
If you have a faint (or imaginary) BPF post your pictures so we can all stare at them:) I am :poas: and since I am not obsessing over my test anymore I would love to take stare at others:)

Just FYI... how I got mine to be a little darker is by using "second morning urine". When I would first wake up I would go to the bathroom. Then I don't drink ANYTHING I wait about 1/2 - 1 hour and test that sample (it will be small but you don't need much to dip). It will be super concentrated and more than FMU. I got my 11 DPO BF? to be a BFP that way!!

Thorz300
December 21st, 2012, 01:04 PM
I simply can't believe this. I got BFN at 11pdo at very sensitive test so I didn't test at 12pdo. I was just waiting for my AF to arrive. Today at 13pdo I felt pg so I tested and I got a faint line!!! I will test tomorrow to see if it gets any darker. Now I feel guilty of drinking 3x diet coke a day plus eating yogurts with sweeteners. Do you think I did any damage? x

Yay!!! Can you post pics of your faint line?? I think you will be fine. I didn't know I was pregnant with my first until 5 or 6 weeks, and I was drinking lots of diet Mt Dew, he is a healthy and extremely smart little 6 year old now!

Girlsway
December 21st, 2012, 01:11 PM
If you have a faint (or imaginary) BPF post your pictures so we can all stare at them:) I am :poas: and since I am not obsessing over my test anymore I would love to take stare at others:)

Just FYI... how I got mine to be a little darker is by using "second morning urine". When I would first wake up I would go to the bathroom. Then I don't drink ANYTHING I wait about 1/2 - 1 hour and test that sample (it will be small but you don't need much to dip). It will be super concentrated and more than FMU. I got my 11 DPO BF? to be a BFP that way!!

Thanks WantingPink, I will try with the second urine as you suggested and post the pics! Btw how are you feeling? Any morning sickness yet?

Angelone
December 21st, 2012, 02:35 PM
well im day 22 now and tried a clearblue on the off chance still neg lol x

Girlsway
December 21st, 2012, 04:21 PM
Weird... this same thing happened to me?? I thought I too might be getting a yeast infection but a couple of days ago (about 15 DPO) it went away?? Have no idea why or what that could be about?? Maybe your body lowers your immune system for implantation and I was starting to get a YI? I don't know but I wish it was the sign of a girl:)
Its happening to me too, I felt I was getting the infection at approx 9dpo and it still feels that way.

Thorz300
December 21st, 2012, 04:55 PM
Its happening to me too, I felt I was getting the infection at approx 9dpo and it still feels that way.

That makes at least 3 of us.....weird!

WantingPink
December 21st, 2012, 05:03 PM
Thanks WantingPink, I will try with the second urine as you suggested and post the pics! Btw how are you feeling? Any morning sickness yet?

Congrats Girlsway!! Did you figure out your due date? That was what I did as soon as I got a BFP. Can't wait to see the pics... I think they are so much fun. I don't have any morning sickness YET. I keep thinking it is going to come because of how sick I was with DS1 and even more sick with DS2. I definitely have some food aversions because I can smell them so much better!! Really hope the morning sickness can stay away through Christmas so my family doesn't start wondering why I am not eating as usual. Does your DH know yet?

Mum to three girls
December 21st, 2012, 06:28 PM
Good luck Thorz and Girlsway! I'm sure I'm out. My Internet cheapie was a stark white BFN although I found an unopened Crystal Clear and dipped it and got a BFP on the same urine. I don't really trust that brand though. Overall though I don't feel pregnant and I'd expect a bit more in the way of symptoms at 17dpo. Just hoping AF comes sooun as my in laws are coming to stay in early Jan and I don't want to be ovulating when they're here (I find frequent bding with guests in the house a bit weird, not sure why).

Mum to three girls
December 21st, 2012, 06:34 PM
Silly phone

WantingPink
December 21st, 2012, 06:53 PM
Good luck Thorz and Girlsway! I'm sure I'm out. My Internet cheapie was a stark white BFN although I found an unopened Crystal Clear and dipped it and got a BFP on the same urine. I don't really trust that brand though. Overall though I don't feel pregnant and I'd expect a bit more in the way of symptoms at 17dpo. Just hoping AF comes sooun as my in laws are coming to stay in early Jan and I don't want to be ovulating when they're here (I find frequent bding with guests in the house a bit weird, not sure why).

I am not familiar with Crystal Clear however I haven't heard of any test that gives a false positive?? Did you read it within the time allowed??

Thorz300
December 21st, 2012, 07:19 PM
Good luck Thorz and Girlsway! I'm sure I'm out. My Internet cheapie was a stark white BFN although I found an unopened Crystal Clear and dipped it and got a BFP on the same urine. I don't really trust that brand though. Overall though I don't feel pregnant and I'd expect a bit more in the way of symptoms at 17dpo. Just hoping AF comes sooun as my in laws are coming to stay in early Jan and I don't want to be ovulating when they're here (I find frequent bding with guests in the house a bit weird, not sure why).

Well hopefully that crystal clear was right, make sure to test again with your morning urine!

I'm not testing tomorrow but I will on Sunday (or so I say now, but I might just change my mind by the morning!)

Thorz300
December 21st, 2012, 07:20 PM
Ladies, post pics of your BFP I like to live through you until I get mine or I am out!!!

Mum to three girls
December 21st, 2012, 07:56 PM
I am not familiar with Crystal Clear however I haven't heard of any test that gives a false positive?? Did you read it within the time allowed??

It's notorious for blue evap lines, usually after 10 minutes but sometimes quite quickly, so it's not a useful result. I'm testing Monday, I've decided. Good luck to everyone else

The Anchor
December 21st, 2012, 09:44 PM
HOORAAAAAY Thorz and girlsway! Way to go!

onthepond
December 21st, 2012, 09:58 PM
Hi ladies, just got my BFP tonight at 11 dpo with FRER. Light pink line, but there for sure. Send me all of your blue dust and I hope you all are seeing BFPs in a few days! GL! Happy Holidays!

boyjoy
December 22nd, 2012, 02:23 AM
I hope that's the beginnings of a bfp for you Thorz, would it show up in a picture?

Boyjoy, I hope you get the outcome you're hoping for. I was in a similar situation last summer, accidentally dtd 2 days before ovulation, but luckily I didn't get pregnant.

Oh God ! I so hope it is the case for me, too. and i am as lucky as you were. TY

boyjoy
December 22nd, 2012, 02:26 AM
HOORAAAAAY Thorz and girlsway! Way to go!

Hey Anchor.
You are ttc ing again! I remember you from IG. Your sway was one of my task sways back then. Hope you have another healthy baby soon.

Girlsway
December 22nd, 2012, 02:32 AM
Morning girls! I couldn't sleep properly with the excitement of testing and despite the weekend I am up early POAS! I used a proper brand this time round and the second urine (thank you WantingPink for the tip) and it did the trick. I got a very clear BFP. I am over the moon but it's still early days. The due date would be 1.9. which is coincidentally our wedding anniversary :-) DH had a day off yesterday so he knew straight away. He was very pleased and slightly surprised that it's possible to get pg like this. Good luck Thorz300, are you retesting this morning? Mum to 3 girls dont loose hope, I did at 11dpo and I regret it now (I literary overdosed on sweeteners) I wish I waited longer, plus I was just guessing when I ovulated, I wasn't checking the temperature (I only used OPKs) so its possible I am still on 12 or 13dpo. I will send pics from my desktop later on today.

Butterfly Spirit
December 22nd, 2012, 02:34 AM
7428 Girlsway!
:running:
What a wonderful early Christmas gift!
Happy & Healthy 9 Months! :pregnant:

Girlsway
December 22nd, 2012, 05:20 AM
Here is the picture but the quality is not great. The first test was done yesterday (i think 12dpo) and last two were done this morning. 7434

Thorz300
December 22nd, 2012, 05:43 AM
YAY THAT IS FOR SURE A POSITIVE!!!! CONGRATS!!!! I am really excited for you!

I'm not going to test again until tomorrow or maybe even monday. I am only 9dpo today and I really don't want to be let down quite yet!

Pangea
December 22nd, 2012, 05:47 AM
Huge congratulations to Onthepond and Girlsway!

Fertility friend is telling me that I'm 3dpo today, but I'm sure it's wrong as the first elevated temperature, while slightly higher than the preceding temps, is a typical pre O temp for me. The following two temps are way higher. I've tried changing the settings on ff, but it just keeps telling me I'm 3dpo. I'm only 2dpo.

Thorz300
December 22nd, 2012, 07:40 AM
So this is my first time ever doing temps. I'm 9dpo and my temp went from a steady 8.5-8.6 range and this morning it was 8.15 so is this normal? Does it mean AF is coming? I need to just stop obsessing and enjoy the Holidays and wait until AF comes. It would be nice if I could just not POAS until after AF is due, but we all know that is too hard!

Here is my chart

http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/40b39c/

Pangea
December 22nd, 2012, 08:13 AM
I wouldn't worry about it, it's nowhere near the coverline. It could be a secondary estrogen surge or implantation dip.

WantingPink
December 22nd, 2012, 11:43 AM
Morning girls! I couldn't sleep properly with the excitement of testing and despite the weekend I am up early POAS! I used a proper brand this time round and the second urine (thank you WantingPink for the tip) and it did the trick. I got a very clear BFP. I am over the moon but it's still early days. The due date would be 1.9. which is coincidentally our wedding anniversary :-) DH had a day off yesterday so he knew straight away. He was very pleased and slightly surprised that it's possible to get pg like this. Good luck Thorz300, are you retesting this morning? Mum to 3 girls dont loose hope, I did at 11dpo and I regret it now (I literary overdosed on sweeteners) I wish I waited longer, plus I was just guessing when I ovulated, I wasn't checking the temperature (I only used OPKs) so its possible I am still on 12 or 13dpo. I will send pics from my desktop later on today.

Congratulations!! I am so happy for you and so glad the "SMU" worked for you!! How exciting!! Hopefully I will see you in the August due date... do you kind of figure out when you are due?

WantingPink
December 22nd, 2012, 11:53 AM
So this is my first time ever doing temps. I'm 9dpo and my temp went from a steady 8.5-8.6 range and this morning it was 8.15 so is this normal? Does it mean AF is coming? I need to just stop obsessing and enjoy the Holidays and wait until AF comes. It would be nice if I could just not POAS until after AF is due, but we all know that is too hard!

Here is my chart

40b39c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/40b39c/)

I think your chart looks great!! The dip could mean lots of things but it is above coverline so no worries!! Your symptoms are so similar to mine it is kind of freaky. I know what you mean about waiting to test. I started testing 8 DPO and every time I got a neg I had to keep telling myself "it doesn't mean anything". I think if you can wait that would be good. Also, part of me wanted to know exactly when I started testing positive to see if it meant anything about the gender. GL and let us know when you decide to test!!

Thorz300
December 22nd, 2012, 05:43 PM
I'm feeling really blue right now I don't know if I would say depressed, but kind of.....I'm feeling a lot of different symptoms, symptoms that I have never had with any of my other pregnancies..... I don't want to get my hopes up right now but seriously I have a laundry load of symptoms: SUPER irritable, weepy, low low low energy, ALWAYS thirsty, crazy sense of smell, food aversions, nausea, headaches, I had a vaginal itch that went away, I wake up with a stuffy nose but I am not sick, and dull sharp pains in my uterus.....there are a lot more but those are the ones I can think of off the top of my head.....tomorrow I will be 10dpo and part of me still doesn't want to POAS! I think I am feeling extremely lonely too (maybe another symptom) because we are from Utah, and now live in Ohio, far away from family and it is the holidays and my husband is on call at the hospital all weekend and 2 of my 3 boys are sick....last month I think I had a chemical, so I am almost bummed I have signs and symptoms because I don't want to get my hopes up. Sorry, I think I am just really lonely, with my hubby being gone, and super emotional, I don't mean to have a pity party on here, but right now its the only communication I have with people older than 6!!! I have facebook too, but I'm not the kind of person to air my emotional issues on facebook lol!

Smiley13
December 22nd, 2012, 07:34 PM
Here is the picture but the quality is not great. The first test was done yesterday (i think 12dpo) and last two were done this morning. 7434

Congratulations!!!

Smiley13
December 22nd, 2012, 07:37 PM
I'm feeling really blue right now I don't know if I would say depressed, but kind of.....I'm feeling a lot of different symptoms, symptoms that I have never had with any of my other pregnancies..... I don't want to get my hopes up right now but seriously I have a laundry load of symptoms: SUPER irritable, weepy, low low low energy, ALWAYS thirsty, crazy sense of smell, food aversions, nausea, headaches, I had a vaginal itch that went away, I wake up with a stuffy nose but I am not sick, and dull sharp pains in my uterus.....there are a lot more but those are the ones I can think of off the top of my head.....tomorrow I will be 10dpo and part of me still doesn't want to POAS! I think I am feeling extremely lonely too (maybe another symptom) because we are from Utah, and now live in Ohio, far away from family and it is the holidays and my husband is on call at the hospital all weekend and 2 of my 3 boys are sick....last month I think I had a chemical, so I am almost bummed I have signs and symptoms because I don't want to get my hopes up. Sorry, I think I am just really lonely, with my hubby being gone, and super emotional, I don't mean to have a pity party on here, but right now its the only communication I have with people older than 6!!! I have facebook too, but I'm not the kind of person to air my emotional issues on facebook lol!
Hang in there Thorz:) You may be happily surprised if you test tomorrow.

pebmcpd7
December 22nd, 2012, 07:52 PM
We had a try this month, we weren't gonna, but as it was before Christmas day and all the rich eating we will do, we went for it!! I will be 7DPO on Christmas Day, I was gonna test, it would be a lovely surprise. But DH said no wait for a few more dys, because he doesn't want to ruin Christmas if it a BFN!! He is so sweet, I must look so deflated every month and I try so not to show it!!

The Anchor
December 22nd, 2012, 09:47 PM
Oh YAH I SEE it!!!!

WantingPink
December 23rd, 2012, 12:49 AM
I'm feeling really blue right now I don't know if I would say depressed, but kind of.....I'm feeling a lot of different symptoms, symptoms that I have never had with any of my other pregnancies..... I don't want to get my hopes up right now but seriously I have a laundry load of symptoms: SUPER irritable, weepy, low low low energy, ALWAYS thirsty, crazy sense of smell, food aversions, nausea, headaches, I had a vaginal itch that went away, I wake up with a stuffy nose but I am not sick, and dull sharp pains in my uterus.....there are a lot more but those are the ones I can think of off the top of my head.....tomorrow I will be 10dpo and part of me still doesn't want to POAS! I think I am feeling extremely lonely too (maybe another symptom) because we are from Utah, and now live in Ohio, far away from family and it is the holidays and my husband is on call at the hospital all weekend and 2 of my 3 boys are sick....last month I think I had a chemical, so I am almost bummed I have signs and symptoms because I don't want to get my hopes up. Sorry, I think I am just really lonely, with my hubby being gone, and super emotional, I don't mean to have a pity party on here, but right now its the only communication I have with people older than 6!!! I have facebook too, but I'm not the kind of person to air my emotional issues on facebook lol!

I know exactly how you feel and I know it is tough especially this time of year. Hang in there!! All your symptoms are the exact same ones that I had especially being thirsty, irritable, and my pregnancy "smell" kicked into high gear on 10 DPO. I think you are a strong person to have waited this long to test... I say go for it tomorrow!! Just remember that a neg doesn't mean anything but a positive definitely would:) Hope you don't feel so down tomorrow. You should do something really fun with your kids tomorrow. Take them out to breakfast, bake and decorate cookies, make a gingerbread house.

Mum to three girls
December 23rd, 2012, 05:10 AM
I'm feeling really blue right now I don't know if I would say depressed, but kind of.....I'm feeling a lot of different symptoms, symptoms that I have never had with any of my other pregnancies..... I don't want to get my hopes up right now but seriously I have a laundry load of symptoms: SUPER irritable, weepy, low low low energy, ALWAYS thirsty, crazy sense of smell, food aversions, nausea, headaches, I had a vaginal itch that went away, I wake up with a stuffy nose but I am not sick, and dull sharp pains in my uterus.....there are a lot more but those are the ones I can think of off the top of my head.....tomorrow I will be 10dpo and part of me still doesn't want to POAS! I think I am feeling extremely lonely too (maybe another symptom) because we are from Utah, and now live in Ohio, far away from family and it is the holidays and my husband is on call at the hospital all weekend and 2 of my 3 boys are sick....last month I think I had a chemical, so I am almost bummed I have signs and symptoms because I don't want to get my hopes up. Sorry, I think I am just really lonely, with my hubby being gone, and super emotional, I don't mean to have a pity party on here, but right now its the only communication I have with people older than 6!!! I have facebook too, but I'm not the kind of person to air my emotional issues on facebook lol!

Looking after three on your "own" is HARD. Can you organise a play date with someone? So you can chat to the mum and just let the kids run at a park or somewhere. I always find the hard days are easier if we all get some fresh air.

I'm definitely out, after a clingy chemical AF finally arrived and I'm celebrating with a glass of wine! After all the drama I'm actually relieved and looking forward to the next cycle (and to bubbles at Christmas). I'll be back here in a few weeks.

Thorz300
December 23rd, 2012, 05:19 AM
I know exactly how you feel and I know it is tough especially this time of year. Hang in there!! All your symptoms are the exact same ones that I had especially being thirsty, irritable, and my pregnancy "smell" kicked into high gear on 10 DPO. I think you are a strong person to have waited this long to test... I say go for it tomorrow!! Just remember that a neg doesn't mean anything but a positive definitely would:) Hope you don't feel so down tomorrow. You should do something really fun with your kids tomorrow. Take them out to breakfast, bake and decorate cookies, make a gingerbread house.

Your sweet! I did POAS this morning BFN ugh oh well....I cant go anywhere because my 4 year old is super sick high fever of nearly 104 poor kid was sick with strep throat on his birthday last month now gonna be sick on Christmas! Ugh on top of it all my 22 month old suddenly won't sleep through the night or take naps and just screams and screams and screams! Even when he sees me getting his pajamas out at night he starts throwing a fit. I don't know what to do he used to sleep so well now suddenly it is almost like he is terrified to sleep. I don't know what to do. Luckily everything is good with my oldest he is a very helpful 6 year old!

Thorz300
December 23rd, 2012, 05:22 AM
Looking after three on your "own" is HARD. Can you organise a play date with someone? So you can chat to the mum and just let the kids run at a park or somewhere. I always find the hard days are easier if we all get some fresh air.

I'm definitely out, after a clingy chemical AF finally arrived and I'm celebrating with a glass of wine! After all the drama I'm actually relieved and looking forward to the next cycle (and to bubbles at Christmas). I'll be back here in a few weeks.

Sorry AF came, I'm afraid I am in the same boat, I know it is only day 10 but I feel a lot less optimistic. I also had a chemical last month, does that make it harder to get pregnant the next cycle? GL on your next cycle! I see you have 3 DD how long did it take to conceive each of your DD and how long have you been ttc this time?

Girlsway
December 23rd, 2012, 06:17 AM
Looking after three on your "own" is HARD. Can you organise a play date with someone? So you can chat to the mum and just let the kids run at a park or somewhere. I always find the hard days are easier if we all get some fresh air.

I'm definitely out, after a clingy chemical AF finally arrived and I'm celebrating with a glass of wine! After all the drama I'm actually relieved and looking forward to the next cycle (and to bubbles at Christmas). I'll be back here in a few weeks.
I am sorry AF arrived but I like your attitude! Enjoy Xmas and its relatively not long till you can try again.

Girlsway
December 23rd, 2012, 06:24 AM
Sorry AF came, I'm afraid I am in the same boat, I know it is only day 10 but I feel a lot less optimistic. I also had a chemical last month, does that make it harder to get pregnant the next cycle? GL on your next cycle! I see you have 3 DD how long did it take to conceive each of your DD and how long have you been ttc this time?

Hi Thorz, hang in there and dont loose hope as i did. I know it's though when children are not well and let's hope tomorrow will be a better day for you. Don't worry about the chemical. I had one a cycle before we conceived DS2.

Angelone
December 23rd, 2012, 07:43 AM
well im on day 24 and still no positive test im hoping a few more days and ill get my positive .,.. whats the earliest any of youve had your positive xx

Thorz300
December 23rd, 2012, 09:25 AM
well im on day 24 and still no positive test im hoping a few more days and ill get my positive .,.. whats the earliest any of youve had your positive xx

With DS2 I got a BFP at 9 or 10DPO but I actually wasn't trying to get pregnant with DS1 and DS3 so I didn't find out until after AF was due.

My question is how mand ladies got a BFN on 10DPO and still got a positive later? I'm losing hope even with all of the heaps of symptoms I have!!! I will only try one more cycle, and then take a break for a bit!

Pangea
December 23rd, 2012, 09:55 AM
Mum to three girls, sorry you got AF, at least you know what's going on now though. Good luck for next month.

Thorz you're still really early, I got a BFN at 10dpo with DS2 and then a very faint BFP at 11dpo.

Pebmcp6 I really hope this is your month. Your DH is probably right as it's unlikely you would get a BFP at 7dpo, I hope you get a BFP in time for New Years!


I think I'm going to stop temping now. I've confirmed that I've ovulated, I don't want to stress myself out looking at patterns in my chart. I'd rather be blissfully unaware if my temp is falling!

Angelone
December 23rd, 2012, 10:25 AM
With DS2 I got a BFP at 9 or 10DPO but I actually wasn't trying to get pregnant with DS1 and DS3 so I didn't find out until after AF was due.

My question is how mand ladies got a BFN on 10DPO and still got a positive later? I'm losing hope even with all of the heaps of symptoms I have!!! I will only try one more cycle, and then take a break for a bit!
This waiting is awful lol I don't remember Bein this bad wi my other three xx

Thorz300
December 23rd, 2012, 12:55 PM
I totally agree Dazie, this waiting stuff is terrible, I didn't really think about it at all with the other 3 but this time since I was swaying pink, I got a lot more involved in the details, sometimes I really wish I hadn't!

Elements
December 23rd, 2012, 01:26 PM
Hi - Iv been around but I have posted this month because the docter told us not to try untill we had sorted out some issues. But I just tested (I want a few drinks over xmas so need to make sure) and just got the surprise of my life when i saw to very dark lines!!! 12dpo.

Ekkk!!! Do i tell hubby today or for xmas or what!

I had a slight suspision because everytime I coughed i had a sharp muscle pulling sensation down inside my pelvis.

Thorz300
December 23rd, 2012, 01:35 PM
Hi - Iv been around but I have posted this month because the docter told us not to try untill we had sorted out some issues. But I just tested (I want a few drinks over xmas so need to make sure) and just got the surprise of my life when i saw to very dark lines!!! 12dpo.

Ekkk!!! Do i tell hubby today or for xmas or what!

I had a slight suspision because everytime I coughed i had a sharp muscle pulling sensation down inside my pelvis.

Congrats!!! What an exciting Christmas gift!!!


Ugh I think I am starting to feel AF cramps coming on!!! I think I am out!

Mum to three girls
December 23rd, 2012, 02:46 PM
Sorry AF came, I'm afraid I am in the same boat, I know it is only day 10 but I feel a lot less optimistic. I also had a chemical last month, does that make it harder to get pregnant the next cycle? GL on your next cycle! I see you have 3 DD how long did it take to conceive each of your DD and how long have you been ttc this time?

Congrats Elements!

Thorz, conceiving the first three were easy, DD1 was an accident. DD2 was on the second cycle and DD3 was about a month after having my hormonal IUD removed. I've only been "trying" for two cycles so far but swaying seems to give the whole thing a different focus. I'm 39 now though and that's what I'm blaming the chemicals on! I'm also a bit worried that the breastfeeding (my youngest is 10 months) may be affecting implantation but I have had very regular cycles since about three months post partum and DD2 was conceived easily whilst feeding DD1. I'd hate to wean to conceive and not be able to.

Even though I'd love a wee boy I'd really just love a baby. We always wanted 3 or 4 and the main reason for having a 4th would be to balance things out. The first two are only 19 months apart in age and are BEST FRIENDS (and worst enemies) but they very close. There's a 4 year age gap between DD2 and DD3 which was due to post grad study and a whole heap of work and training stuff I wanted to finish off (even though I only work about 1 1/2 days a week now) so I'd kind of like her to have a buddy as well. Of course, we assumed it'd happen immediately and now that it hasn't we're going to have to sit down and work out when it's time to stop. Maybe in another 2-3 months?? If I got pregnant and it stuck next month there's be a similar age gap but if it takes another 6 months it would sort of defeat our purpose.

I'm not sure how much a boy sway will "work" for me as my diet is very boy (minus the sweets but they're easy to give up), I'm a runner and pretty toned and with bfing it's pretty hard for me to gain weight. I don't want to give up running whilst TTC (and my family won't thank me if I do, as it's my stress release and time away from the girls) and I don't want to stop breastfeeding. I can give the diet, supplements and pre seed a good go though!

Good luck to everyone still testing!

WantingPink
December 23rd, 2012, 03:35 PM
Your sweet! I did POAS this morning BFN ugh oh well....I cant go anywhere because my 4 year old is super sick high fever of nearly 104 poor kid was sick with strep throat on his birthday last month now gonna be sick on Christmas! Ugh on top of it all my 22 month old suddenly won't sleep through the night or take naps and just screams and screams and screams! Even when he sees me getting his pajamas out at night he starts throwing a fit. I don't know what to do he used to sleep so well now suddenly it is almost like he is terrified to sleep. I don't know what to do. Luckily everything is good with my oldest he is a very helpful 6 year old!

It is tough to have house full of sick kids with an absent DH. My youngest decided at about 2 that he didn't want to sleep in his room so we got him a turtle that lights stars onto his bedroom ceiling (similar to a dream light) and we got him a moon in my room. We told him that if he stayed in bed that we would keep the turtle and the moon in his room. It seemed to work really well. Plus you can't see the stars very well if the room is light so he actually liked the room really dark. A friend of ours had the same problem with their girl so they got her a beta fish for her room and told her that the fish would be lonely if she left it in the room by itself at night... apparently that worked too:)

I didn't get my BFP until 11 DPO and it was sooooooo faint at 11 DPO that I thought I was seeing things. I ended up posting it on Count down to pregnancy so I could use their invert tools to see the pos. That website was actually very helpful. Here are my pictures and you can play with the "tools": Pregnancy Test Gallery - Unauthorized Access | Countdown to Pregnancy (http://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/pregnancy-test-gallery/my-images100261)

Girlsway
December 23rd, 2012, 03:48 PM
Hi - Iv been around but I have posted this month because the docter told us not to try untill we had sorted out some issues. But I just tested (I want a few drinks over xmas so need to make sure) and just got the surprise of my life when i saw to very dark lines!!! 12dpo.

Ekkk!!! Do i tell hubby today or for xmas or what!

I had a slight suspision because everytime I coughed i had a sharp muscle pulling sensation down inside my pelvis.

Congrats Elements, I hope you get your boy x

Thorz300
December 23rd, 2012, 04:06 PM
It is tough to have house full of sick kids with an absent DH. My youngest decided at about 2 that he didn't want to sleep in his room so we got him a turtle that lights stars onto his bedroom ceiling (similar to a dream light) and we got him a moon in my room. We told him that if he stayed in bed that we would keep the turtle and the moon in his room. It seemed to work really well. Plus you can't see the stars very well if the room is light so he actually liked the room really dark. A friend of ours had the same problem with their girl so they got her a beta fish for her room and told her that the fish would be lonely if she left it in the room by itself at night... apparently that worked too:)

I didn't get my BFP until 11 DPO and it was sooooooo faint at 11 DPO that I thought I was seeing things. I ended up posting it on Count down to pregnancy so I could use their invert tools to see the pos. That website was actually very helpful. Here are my pictures and you can play with the "tools": Pregnancy Test Gallery - Unauthorized Access | Countdown to Pregnancy (http://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/pregnancy-test-gallery/my-images100261)

The link wouldn't work!

Pangea
December 23rd, 2012, 04:21 PM
Congratulations Elements!

Thorz300
December 23rd, 2012, 04:23 PM
Wanting pink, I just went back to your pics on this thread, and I remember I thought I could see a line then, and I don't know if I can now lol that gives me hope that that was you BFP at 11DPO and Pangea getting hers at 12DPO I guess this cycle has really been messing with my mind because I thought I had ovulated and then I ended up ovulating 4 days later so I feel like I have been in a 3ww instead of 2ww and because of ovulating late, I am not sure when AF is due because I just got an IUD out and I am not sure how long my LP is yet because this is my 1st month charting since iud removal. Anyway my best guess is AF is due the 25th-28th probably the 27!!

Angelone
December 23rd, 2012, 05:05 PM
I totally agree Dazie, this waiting stuff is terrible, I didn't really think about it at all with the other 3 but this time since I was swaying pink, I got a lot more involved in the details, sometimes I really wish I hadn't!

Yes I def think that makes it worse I swayed for pink with my last wee boy so this time I threw caution to the wind and just hope I get my dd xx

Angelone
December 23rd, 2012, 05:06 PM
Hi - Iv been around but I have posted this month because the docter told us not to try untill we had sorted out some issues. But I just tested (I want a few drinks over xmas so need to make sure) and just got the surprise of my life when i saw to very dark lines!!! 12dpo.

Ekkk!!! Do i tell hubby today or for xmas or what!

I had a slight suspision because everytime I coughed i had a sharp muscle pulling sensation down inside my pelvis.

Aww congrats what lovely news :) I hav had a few wee weird feelings but am not letting myself believe we're preg as this wasbonly the first Month of trying xx

pebmcpd7
December 23rd, 2012, 06:08 PM
I think I'm going to stop temping now. I've confirmed that I've ovulated, I don't want to stress myself out looking at patterns in my chart. I'd rather be blissfully unaware if my temp is falling!

I agree with you on the temp thing, but can't help myself take it!!!! LOL I analyse every temp!!!

WantingPink
December 23rd, 2012, 07:01 PM
Wanting pink, I just went back to your pics on this thread, and I remember I thought I could see a line then, and I don't know if I can now lol that gives me hope that that was you BFP at 11DPO and Pangea getting hers at 12DPO I guess this cycle has really been messing with my mind because I thought I had ovulated and then I ended up ovulating 4 days later so I feel like I have been in a 3ww instead of 2ww and because of ovulating late, I am not sure when AF is due because I just got an IUD out and I am not sure how long my LP is yet because this is my 1st month charting since iud removal. Anyway my best guess is AF is due the 25th-28th probably the 27!!

The link was showing the picture that was posted here earlier (the one that shows 11 and 12 DPO, three internet tests). It is #79135. Right now it is on about page 212. The point is you can go in there and post a picture of your stick and then play around with the invert picture. That is what really convinced me that I was pregnant. There are TONS of pics in there of faintly positive that you can really see when you invert the picture. Also, what are you testing with. I found the internet tests to be more sensitive than FRER and definitely more sensitive than the FRER digital. The digital gave me a neg at 11 DPO when the internet "cheap" tests were reading positive. I got my internet tests from Early Detection Pregnancy Test (10 miu/ml HCG Sensitivity) (http://www.early-pregnancy-tests.com/extra-sensitive-pregnancy-test.html). Also did you read my post about doing the "second" morning urine? I was a little obsessed with finding out if I was pregnant and was pulling out all the stops to try and figure out if I was because I felt like I was. Definitely don't do any of these crazy things if you think it will stress you out even more. Also, BTW, Mrs. P didn't get a BPF until like 15 DPO and she is having a girl!!!

Here is a link to my BFP progression also if you want to look at it. I seriously don't think a sane person would have seen the line at 11 DPO:) http://genderdreaming.com/forum/bfp/23218-bfp-progression.html

Thorz300
December 23rd, 2012, 07:37 PM
The link was showing the picture that was posted here earlier (the one that shows 11 and 12 DPO, three internet tests). It is #79135. Right now it is on about page 212. The point is you can go in there and post a picture of your stick and then play around with the invert picture. That is what really convinced me that I was pregnant. There are TONS of pics in there of faintly positive that you can really see when you invert the picture. Also, what are you testing with. I found the internet tests to be more sensitive than FRER and definitely more sensitive than the FRER digital. The digital gave me a neg at 11 DPO when the internet "cheap" tests were reading positive. I got my internet tests from Early Detection Pregnancy Test (10 miu/ml HCG Sensitivity) (http://www.early-pregnancy-tests.com/extra-sensitive-pregnancy-test.html). Also did you read my post about doing the "second" morning urine? I was a little obsessed with finding out if I was pregnant and was pulling out all the stops to try and figure out if I was because I felt like I was. Definitely don't do any of these crazy things if you think it will stress you out even more. Also, BTW, Mrs. P didn't get a BPF until like 15 DPO and she is having a girl!!!

Here is a link to my BFP progression also if you want to look at it. I seriously don't think a sane person would have seen the line at 11 DPO:) http://genderdreaming.com/forum/bfp/23218-bfp-progression.html

I'm doing the dollar store cheapies!! But I only have 5 left so I don't want to do more than 1 right away with it being Christmans and all I don't think I would get back to Dollar Tree before AF is due anyway. I did read about the 2nd morning urine and I might try that, what could it hurt right? Did you read that some where online? I don't want to stress too much, but my husband will finally be home tomorrow so then Christmas can truly begin and I can take my mind off of it all for a bit!

WantingPink
December 23rd, 2012, 10:37 PM
I'm doing the dollar store cheapies!! But I only have 5 left so I don't want to do more than 1 right away with it being Christmans and all I don't think I would get back to Dollar Tree before AF is due anyway. I did read about the 2nd morning urine and I might try that, what could it hurt right? Did you read that some where online? I don't want to stress too much, but my husband will finally be home tomorrow so then Christmas can truly begin and I can take my mind off of it all for a bit!

So I tested with dollar store ones also (I really am POAS psycho) and it didn't come up positive until 13 DPO. The sensitivity on the dollar store ones that I have are 25 miu/ml and the early detection internet ones are 10 miu/ml. So the good news is if you are using those you may not come up positive until 13-15 DPO.

I didn't read about it anywhere online it just kind of made sense to me... your FMU is concentrated because you don't drink all night however, your bladder is collecting urine all night and by morning you are dehydrated. So if you empty your bladder but wait to drink then that urine will be very concentrated. I am a Medical Technologist so I kind of geek out on that kind of stuff.

Northern_Shutterbug
December 24th, 2012, 05:32 AM
Hi Everyone,

I've not been on here for weeks, it was really getting me down after my last cycle ended in yet another negative, and everyone else was getting BFPs :tissue:

Anyway, am on cd28/10dpo and I got a v. faint bfp 3 days ago and it's got progressively stronger. Still not as strong as I'd like, but hopefully it'll carry on than end in yet another chemical.

http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8213/8300275799_571ef54990.jpg

Here's today's at 10dpo

http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8503/8302466265_05b162b11c.jpg

Hubby doesn't know yet, he thinks he's getting a kinky present tomorrow as it can't be opened in front of family, but I'll be giving him a test wrapped in a jewellery box.

Thorz300
December 24th, 2012, 06:18 AM
Yay Congrats Shutterbug, what a great Christmas present!