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5blueones
December 7th, 2012, 04:04 AM
Hi everyone!

I was referred here by a member of another parenting forum.
Im 25 and have 5 bright boys, last week we found out we were again expecting another healthy boy.

Now i should be happy with what the universe has given us right, feel blessed for even having 5 health happy children and expecting the same again, and dont get me wrong i am! I love my boys more than anything, but its becoming harder and harder to get thru the initial shock of "another boy" and dealing with the fact that we may not ever get the daughter we long for.

I really hope this is a supportive forum and i hope to meet some people with the same thoughts and feelings as myself. Just so i know its not just me in this boat!
I know i'm not selfish ...wanting that little pink bundle, i am grateful for even being able to have children, i just long for that balance in my family, hopefully one day we'll get it :fingers:

Cinss
December 7th, 2012, 04:28 AM
Hi and welcome :) Sorry to hear you are having a tough time with GD at the moment. There are lots of ladies here with 3, 4, 5, 6 of the same so i think you will fit in and get the support you need.

mydream
December 7th, 2012, 05:21 AM
Welcome here. You have certainly come to the right place!

Violet_
December 7th, 2012, 05:48 AM
Welcome. Congrats on your pregnancy and your little men. This forum is very supportive and non-judgemental and I love that about it. So many lovely ladies supporting each other.

3boys
December 7th, 2012, 05:59 AM
Welcome :) Congratulations on your pregnancy. You have come to the right place. Feel free to vent away. When are you due? Come join a due date club

5blueones
December 7th, 2012, 06:05 AM
Thanks! I really thought i was being unreasonable this time, but honestly i cant shake this feeling atm this time! Im due in april 3boys. I should have a look around while the monsters are quiet :)

fairyfrog
December 7th, 2012, 06:05 AM
Welcome! This is the perfect place. I hope you get your girl. Six kids is a great idea! :cheerteam:

3boyshopingforpink
December 7th, 2012, 07:23 AM
Welcome and congratulations on your pregnancy :) this is such a wonderful site with so many supportive and caring ladies

Mum23boys
December 7th, 2012, 07:36 AM
CONGRATULATIONS + WOWZERS - How many are you planning on having >? Sorry to be nosey - for us this baby (4) is our last even if it is another boy - there is no way financially / work / sace wise we could ever go above that plus DH said 3 was teh max so getting this 4th was hardwork !!!

Everyone on here is so lovely and you have definately come to the right place.
x

Adia
December 7th, 2012, 09:55 AM
Welcome, welcome!

As much as we all love our little monkeys, its normal to want a little balance in the brood.

Look at it this way, if you ever decide to sway for a girl, you will have lots of info of how to make a boy so you will know to do the opposite!!!