sneakypete
December 18th, 2012, 10:15 AM
Hi,
Just wanted to briefly say hello as I am new to forum. I live in the UK but was born in Sweden. I found this site through ingender.com. I suffered from GDe when pregnant with both my children. My wonderful, sweet 5 yr old DS because I was longing for a mother/daughter relationship. After he came into my world, I realized how wrong I'd been to think girls were ...more fun, or whatever I foolishly felt at first. The second time around (a DD, she was recently one) I really wanted a boy. In part because the world told me I wanted a girl, in part because I wanted DS to have a brother as I grew up without a sister and always longed for a same sex sibling. I understand if my thoughts sound weird and all over the place...that's just GD(e) for you?!
It saddens me that people expect that if you have a pigeon pair you won the jackpot. I understand that quite a few people desire a pigeon pair, but I was not one of them. In fact I hate when people make a big deal of gender in the first place, which is partly why I'm here. I hope to be a support to people as well as talk to others in similar situations.
Thanks for reading my waffle!
Just wanted to briefly say hello as I am new to forum. I live in the UK but was born in Sweden. I found this site through ingender.com. I suffered from GDe when pregnant with both my children. My wonderful, sweet 5 yr old DS because I was longing for a mother/daughter relationship. After he came into my world, I realized how wrong I'd been to think girls were ...more fun, or whatever I foolishly felt at first. The second time around (a DD, she was recently one) I really wanted a boy. In part because the world told me I wanted a girl, in part because I wanted DS to have a brother as I grew up without a sister and always longed for a same sex sibling. I understand if my thoughts sound weird and all over the place...that's just GD(e) for you?!
It saddens me that people expect that if you have a pigeon pair you won the jackpot. I understand that quite a few people desire a pigeon pair, but I was not one of them. In fact I hate when people make a big deal of gender in the first place, which is partly why I'm here. I hope to be a support to people as well as talk to others in similar situations.
Thanks for reading my waffle!