PDA

View Full Version : My DH passed away...



praying4boy
December 26th, 2012, 10:59 AM
I joined this site in hopes to adding a boy to my family. I asked a million questions along the way. I did all the tricks to help ensure we would have a boy. Recently my DH has passed away suddenly. I am in so much pain. And now when I look at my lil girl, I think I wish she just had a sibling to keep her company. No matter if it was a boy or a girl. Now I could careless if I had a boy. Another girl would have been just fine. Just a second child. And now theirs nothing that can change that. My story is really just to share that I know we can not control gender disappointment, but it doesnt matter if a baby is a boy or girl, it is a blessing from god, and I would give anything to just have another baby with my DH. I miss him so badly.:broken:

nuthinbutpink
December 26th, 2012, 11:04 AM
Oh my! What happened? How old was he? I'm so sorry.

mummypink
December 26th, 2012, 11:11 AM
I'm so sorry, sending you a bug hug. Words just aren't enough, but I hope and pray that you find the strength to get through this. xxx

jennaesue
December 26th, 2012, 11:41 AM
I am so sorry for your loss. I really can't imagine how difficult it must be. I can understand your sadness about not having another baby, regardless of the gender. Hugs to you.

Longingforgirl
December 26th, 2012, 11:51 AM
Oh my god I am so sorry!! I hope you are having a lot of support from family and friends. I cannot imagine in how much pain you must be. :sad:

luckylass
December 26th, 2012, 11:59 AM
I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you and your little girl have people there to support you both. This is heartbreaking.

PolishPrincess
December 26th, 2012, 12:02 PM
Prayers for you and for your daughter. You seem to be full of love for her and she is so blessed to have that!!! I will really pray for you both!

rainbowflower
December 26th, 2012, 12:03 PM
:( sorry for your loss

cravingsalt
December 26th, 2012, 12:37 PM
Praying- I am so very sorry for your profound loss. I know our words can't touch what you're feeling right now, but I think I can speak for everyone that our hearts are truly breaking for you. It's so humbling to hear something like this- and you're right, it gives us perspective about gd living in the hopes for tomorrow when we should be cherishing each day. Hugs to you and your daughter, I hope you have a good support system to hold you up.

BeadinMom
December 26th, 2012, 12:55 PM
My heart hurts for you...
I pray you & your beautiful daughter find peace.

Hobbermittens
December 26th, 2012, 01:10 PM
I am so, so sorry for your loss. :(

OnlyPraying
December 26th, 2012, 01:25 PM
Oh no....I am so sorry praying.... :sad: please dont beat yourself up for having GD, its natural to want what you dont have... hugs ...be kind to yourself and what your DD really wants is a mother like you and thank God she already has that....may the Lord bless your DH and give you enough courage to ride through this calamity with patience....You will be in my prayers

Boymomsrock
December 26th, 2012, 01:59 PM
Oh praying I understand your pain losing a dh. I lost mine almost 4 years ago and not a day goes by that I don't think of him. If you want someone to talk to feel free to PM me. Hugs.

Cagirl09
December 26th, 2012, 02:29 PM
I am so very sorry for your unspeakable loss. Thank you so much for thinking of us and sharing your message during this difficult time. I will be praying for you and your family.

vickyaust
December 26th, 2012, 03:04 PM
So sorry for your loss.

Yuzu
December 26th, 2012, 03:08 PM
I am so very sorry for your loss. So sorry.

Another princess
December 26th, 2012, 03:16 PM
I am so very very sorry x

xxxx
December 26th, 2012, 04:02 PM
Dear, I am so sorry for this terrible loss, May God Almighty give you the grace to to hold up during this moment. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Please kindly take it easy.

Wanting-a-girl
December 26th, 2012, 04:56 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss :(

True Blue
December 26th, 2012, 05:09 PM
So very sorry for your loss :( devastating x

zanacal
December 26th, 2012, 05:15 PM
I'm so sorry xx

TT_3814
December 26th, 2012, 05:25 PM
How devestating. :( I'm so sorry about your husband, I'll be praying for you and your daughter and keeping you both in my thoughts. xxx

Cinss
December 26th, 2012, 06:38 PM
Oh my god Praying4boy this is devistating news, i am so so sorry you have to go through this right now. I will be thinking of you and your daughter today you will be in my prayers.

My Three Sons
December 26th, 2012, 08:10 PM
I am so so sorry for your loss.

Adia
December 26th, 2012, 08:39 PM
So sorry to hear this. You are absolutely correct, any child is a blessing no matter what the gender.
It is times like these I wish life made more sense. Praying that you find peace in the sad time. Never think you are alone, our hearts break for you.

sweetpea
December 26th, 2012, 09:11 PM
Oh wow, I am so very sorry for your loss. :( I pray God brings you and your daughter peace and comfort during this difficult time. Big (((hugs))) to you. :(

Esskal
December 26th, 2012, 09:20 PM
I am so sorry for your loss :( My prayers are with you and your family.

atomic sagebrush
December 26th, 2012, 10:19 PM
I am so, so sorry to hear this. I don't even have the words to say. :( I wish you the very very best.

dloui128
December 26th, 2012, 11:08 PM
I am so sorry for your loss, I can't imagine the pain you are going through but I hope that you and your family find peace

Violet_
December 26th, 2012, 11:27 PM
So sorry to hear you are going through the loss of you DH. I wish you all the best for your and DD's future.

Bimby
December 27th, 2012, 06:11 AM
I'm so very sorry for your loss :( I can't even begin to imagine the grief. May you & your daughter find peace xx

Pangea
December 27th, 2012, 06:19 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss.

3boys
December 27th, 2012, 06:31 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss

lisvna
December 27th, 2012, 09:25 AM
Im so sorry for your loss. Hugs

faithuk
December 27th, 2012, 01:02 PM
So sorry xx

praying4boy
December 27th, 2012, 01:09 PM
Thank u everyone for ur kind words. I am tying to be strong but I cry everyday.

Longingforgirl
December 27th, 2012, 01:19 PM
Oh my god I am so so sorry for your loss! :(

skrimpy
December 27th, 2012, 06:57 PM
So sorry for your tremendous loss. You and your daughter are in my prayers.

mydream
December 27th, 2012, 08:06 PM
I am so very sorry for your loss.

1wish
December 27th, 2012, 08:49 PM
Brings tears to my eyes. You had really put things in perspective and are exactly right. Can't think of the right words but my thoughts and prayers are with you and your little girl xxxx

The Anchor
December 27th, 2012, 09:10 PM
I am so so sorry, I hope you are able to find peace somehow...

EODwife363
December 31st, 2012, 03:38 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss :(

Polli
January 6th, 2013, 05:33 PM
I am so so sorry to hear of your loss. Sending hugs, thoughts and many prayers for you and your daughter. xxx

Rainbow baby
January 7th, 2013, 01:11 AM
So terribly sad for you and your little girl, I will be thinking of you my dear!!!

Princess of Pink
January 7th, 2013, 01:32 AM
I am so so so sorry for your loss :(

Butterfly Spirit
January 7th, 2013, 02:06 AM
My :broken: just breaks for you and your precious daughter. God, I can't imagine! :sad:
I am so sorry for your loss!

CherryBlossom
January 7th, 2013, 03:35 AM
Oh hunny I am so terrible sorry to hear this news =( I wish you and your daughter all the very best.
Sending you huge hugs your way xoxox

secretly sad
January 31st, 2013, 05:26 PM
I think about you often and keep checking to see if you have posted anything. I hope you are doing ok. X

Justjessica
February 1st, 2013, 05:29 AM
That's terrible. I am so so sorry for you. I hope you and your little girl are doing ok.

SaraLou
February 2nd, 2013, 05:40 AM
I am so, so sorry to hear of your loss. Sending love and prayers to you and your little girl. Take care x

suregena
February 9th, 2013, 06:24 AM
I don't even think saying sorry is good enough... but this just feels me with immense sadness and I don't even have the words. So much love and thoughts to you and your daughter...

mariposa
February 25th, 2013, 01:09 PM
I am so, so sorry for your loss. Hugs...:sad:

Funkyfry
March 11th, 2013, 05:10 PM
Oh god! I am so truly sorry for your loss

TeraDN
March 28th, 2013, 10:43 PM
So very sorry for your loss. huge hugs !!

myrainbowgirl
April 9th, 2013, 05:50 PM
I can't even imagine. So, so sorry for your loss. :( I will pray for you and your sweet daughter. Definitely puts things in perspective.

Mummy-P
April 13th, 2013, 03:56 PM
I hope the love you and your daughter share gives you both the strength to get through this heartbreak. Your DH will be watching over the both of you as your angel and guide you through these dark days. Keep your faith in God and believe in your heart there is another world where you will one day meet again, for the time being I pray your love for him transcends from this world to the next. RIP Xx

S4724
April 23rd, 2013, 05:00 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. Xxx