Melziesissie
January 13th, 2013, 04:11 AM
Hi All,
Just new to here, loving all the information....I just want to know am i being selfish....I have 4 beautiful boys....I always wanted 4 children...But my 4th was a big surprise only 12 months difference between my 3rd & 4th, and i was planning on try for a girl for my 4th child as i knew we wouldnt have anymore.
I love all my boys so much and wouldnt change a thing now that i have them, and i kept all the gender surprises for the birth so i had no disappointment during being preganant. And not once at the birth i was disappointed but my baby was sitting playing and i had a big 'SIGH' moment...I may never have a little girl...Ive suggested to my husband we 'try' for a girl and he hasnt said no, but not a yes either....But i just want to read up on everything possible i may be able to do....This will be one and only try, or am i being selfish in wanting a little girl?? Has anyone else been in this predicament? Some days i think i have already way to much on my plate with 4 boys will i have time for a 5th, be it a boy or girl?? How does everyone else do it with more than 4 children??
Thanks for reading :)
Just new to here, loving all the information....I just want to know am i being selfish....I have 4 beautiful boys....I always wanted 4 children...But my 4th was a big surprise only 12 months difference between my 3rd & 4th, and i was planning on try for a girl for my 4th child as i knew we wouldnt have anymore.
I love all my boys so much and wouldnt change a thing now that i have them, and i kept all the gender surprises for the birth so i had no disappointment during being preganant. And not once at the birth i was disappointed but my baby was sitting playing and i had a big 'SIGH' moment...I may never have a little girl...Ive suggested to my husband we 'try' for a girl and he hasnt said no, but not a yes either....But i just want to read up on everything possible i may be able to do....This will be one and only try, or am i being selfish in wanting a little girl?? Has anyone else been in this predicament? Some days i think i have already way to much on my plate with 4 boys will i have time for a 5th, be it a boy or girl?? How does everyone else do it with more than 4 children??
Thanks for reading :)