Atomic HELP!!! Oing early

[Wishonastar]

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PLEASE HELP!!! Oing 3 DAYS EARLY!!!

Top image yesterday's opk and bottom today's (second morning urine) I'm only supposed to ovulate on Saturday!!! DH only had 7 days abstinence!!! Where do i go from here!

I will keep testing with OPKs throughout day, should I take Zyrtec now? Ph is about 4.5...

It's 10:30am and DH only gets home at 5:30pm!!!!! Is that ok???? So hot bath as soon as he walks in then dtd????

Zyrtec ASAP right??? I have a "little" ewcm...

Acijel after attempt or not??

[harleyquinn]

WOW that was a sudden opk...I am panicking with you!

I would take the zyrtec soon. But let the poor man have a bite and a sit before plopping him in the bath ;)

I have no idea about the abstinace...sit tight for Atomic. I wouldn't worry about it, but thats a personal call.

I think Acijel AFTER is not as hindering for pg, as Acijel BEFORE..so use it. But I'm not sure how long you have been at this etc.

[Wishonastar]

Eeeeek I know!! I don't know where that +Tive OPK came from!!! But I can't stress lol! Just took Zyrtec so that would be about 6 hours before dtd... I normally get two days of positive OPKs but will see what this month does... Been on diet and supps for about 6 weeks.... Wish me luck!! Eeeek

[harleyquinn]

Yes good luck! It is definitely an eeeek process when things go not as planned but that may be a good thing! Relax, enjoy...:)

[black&gold]

I did abstain last month and 7 days is totally fine. 7-10 days is the recommended so I'd say you're good. From what I was told, one attempt at +OPK so looks like tonights your night. Good luck!

[Wishonastar]

Thanks MsBlakely and Harleyquinn... What a curve ball on my attempt month lol

[Wishonastar]

If I usually get two days of positive OPKs should I leave my one and only attempt till late tonight?

[Wishonastar]

Have I missed it? First two were before I ate or drank anything for the day...

Last one was after lunch and a glass of cranberry and sprite zero... Was more diluted urine... Do I still attempt tonight?

I know they dry darker but first two were dark almost straight away :/

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[2lovelyboys]

I am keeping everything crossed for you!

[GeCon]

Don't forget ovulation will occur between 12-36 hours after a positive OPK, so I wouldn't think you've missed it. Just the surge has passed.

[Wishonastar]

8326Had another positive opk at 8:30am... What do I do? Be content with the one off bd at 8:30pm? Or what are my options?

Was very tender last night on left side, was quite sore... Right side perfectly fine...

Also had a little ewcm this morning... Take another Zyrtec? Is it safe?

[harleyquinn]

This is my vote----leave it. I have seen it said on here many times and on IG ~abstain with one attempt--is a solid plan. I get 3 days of + too so i know it gets confusing but last month we got pg from using the FIRST opk + (didn't stick) but I bagged it after one try and did get pg.

[Wishonastar]

Thanks Harleyquinn... Will just relax now then... Just took another Zyrtec to dry up ewcm hope that was ok... That will be the last tho and will stop the cranberry tabs now too.... Now to wait :)

[harleyquinn]

The only thing that worries me is if you used Rephresh or Acijel :nails:

But I gues thats what is so hard about swaying...you don't want to do too little and you don't want to do too much. You have to know when "enough is good enough" meaning being able to get pg in the first place! But honestly, if it was me, I would be good leaving it at that.

[Wishonastar]

I only used a fingertip maybe 1/2 hour after bd and another finger about 2 hours after bd and only at the entrance of vj... Done nothing this morning except take zyrtec and equal... Did jump and dump after 5 mins of laying flat.... I think that should be ok?

Yeah it's hard to judge what to do and know if what you doing is right... I can only pray it worked :))

[Wishonastar]

I didn't use any acijel before attempt :)

[harleyquinn]

I have seen people get pg from opks like this...where they DTD when you did and next day is blazing + and use acijel after

I think what you did sounds very sensible and I hope it works too! :)

[atomic sagebrush]

7 day abstain is plenty

everything else seems like a good attempt

no need for anything after attempt

[atomic sagebrush]

no zyrtec after pos opk from now on

[atomic sagebrush]

only the first pos opk counts

you will o 8-48 hours after regardless of how long opk stay positive

[Wishonastar]

Thanks Atomic

:nails: hope I didn't do myself any harm by taking that Zyrtec... Cm has remained wet since but no where near as wet as usual... 11pm last night OPKs were still showing positive... I will test with 2MU this morning and see if surge gone and wait for creamy cm.

Should I stick with diet in 2WW?

[atomic sagebrush]

you may cut down odds of conception a bit with the zyrtec

yes you should continue diet in 2ww