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EmmyRoo
January 28th, 2013, 08:10 AM
I can't believe it, scan showed no heartbeat, baby died at 8+5. I don't know what to do, I'm in bits.

Atsaukina1
January 28th, 2013, 08:22 AM
I'm soo soo sorry:( Is someone staying home with you? Big hugs my thoughts are with you and your family:broken:

rainbowflower
January 28th, 2013, 08:24 AM
oh Emmy, I'm so sorry... :(

I had a MMC with my first and they are utterly devastating. *hugs*

pm me here (or on BC) if you want to talk

nuthinbutpink
January 28th, 2013, 08:32 AM
I'm so sorry.

atomic sagebrush
January 28th, 2013, 08:35 AM
Oh no, I'm so so sorry to read this. I don't even have the words to say. Please let me know how I can help.

Dreamofpink
January 28th, 2013, 08:42 AM
Oh Emmy, I'm so sorry for you. It's utterly heartbreaking and I hope you have plenty of support and comfort at home at this terrible time. Sending you a big hug x x

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starbright
January 28th, 2013, 08:49 AM
So sorry, that's awful. Hope you're getting lots of hugs at home, it must be devastating for you xx

cvd
January 28th, 2013, 08:52 AM
Oh my goodness. I am soooo sorry to hear. :( incredibly sad for you.

Praying4Pink
January 28th, 2013, 08:59 AM
Oh Emmy! I am so sorry honey. There really are no words to express how deeply sorry I am. Sending big hugs your way. :LotsofLove:

OneLastDream
January 28th, 2013, 09:02 AM
I am so sorry. Sending you massive hugs x

NearlyDone
January 28th, 2013, 09:06 AM
So sorry for your loss ((hugs)) xxx

lisvna
January 28th, 2013, 09:23 AM
Im so sorry....hugs

Serendipity
January 28th, 2013, 09:28 AM
Oh my god Emmy, I am so sad for you, I'm so sorry this happened to you. Sending lots of love and strength to you.

(sorry, realise you don't know this username, but I noticed your profile pic and realised I know you from BC uk site private Boy girl forum)

EmmyRoo
January 28th, 2013, 09:32 AM
Thank you everyone, your support means a lot. I'm at home with DH, my parents are on their way. I need to decide if I have a procedure to remove the baby or let it go naturally. I don't want to let it go at all. I'm just devastated. I hoped I'd never have to deal with this although I had a horrible fear it would happen this time. Not sure where to go from here.
X

Atsaukina1
January 28th, 2013, 09:54 AM
so sorry did you have any symptoms or anything?? was just reading your post from last night. glad that your family is there for you and you have someone to lean on

Praying4Pink
January 28th, 2013, 09:59 AM
Thank you everyone, your support means a lot. I'm at home with DH, my parents are on their way. I need to decide if I have a procedure to remove the baby or let it go naturally. I don't want to let it go at all. I'm just devastated. I hoped I'd never have to deal with this although I had a horrible fear it would happen this time. Not sure where to go from here.
X

Aww Emmy this must be so so hard for you. I remember we just talked about it yesterday and you were so worried. I'm just devastated for you. I wish I lived closer so I could give you a huge hug. But since I don't I really hope this virtual one will do :hug2: Give yourself some time and be kind to yourself.

Pangea
January 28th, 2013, 10:51 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss.

prayingforaprincess
January 28th, 2013, 11:05 AM
Very sorry for your loss. Heart goes out to you. (((Hugs)))

dloui128
January 28th, 2013, 11:12 AM
I am so sorry :hugs:

The Anchor
January 28th, 2013, 11:45 AM
Oh no emmyroo, I am so so sorry. It's the hardest thing in the world, and nothing anyone says will make it hurt any less. I hope you are able to find peace...HUGS.

Wanting-a-girl
January 28th, 2013, 11:56 AM
so sorry for your loss

jennaesue
January 28th, 2013, 12:17 PM
Oh, Emmy, I am so sorry. I don't know what to say. I was excited to see your update from your scan today, and was not expecting to see this. :( Big hugs heading your way.

Mbmk
January 28th, 2013, 12:18 PM
I am so sorry to hear of this. How heartbreaking for you :-(

4 blues~hopingforpink~
January 28th, 2013, 12:43 PM
So so Sorry... I had a missed miscarriage at 16 weeks. Its devastating... I wish no mother would have to go through this. My thoughts and prayers are with you.. Big Big hugs <3

Yuzu
January 28th, 2013, 12:55 PM
I'm so very sorry for your loss.

EmmyRoo
January 28th, 2013, 01:02 PM
Thanks everyone. No symptoms at all atsaukina, I was so worried this would happen so maybe on some level I knew something was wrong. I did feel my bump hadn't grown in the last couple of weeks but other than that everything seemed fine. My boobs are still sore now so there must still be hormones. I'm wishing they got it wrong but I could see there was no heartbeat as soon as it came up on screen, and it was so small. Just trying to get my head around the loss now, it's so hard.
X

Thorz300
January 28th, 2013, 01:15 PM
My prayers are with you.......

Rosie85
January 28th, 2013, 02:12 PM
So sorry Emmyroo

hopingforsaskia
January 28th, 2013, 02:30 PM
Oh Emmy... I'm heartbroken for you. I'm so sorry. xoxoxoxoxo

Princess of Pink
January 28th, 2013, 02:34 PM
I'm so sorry hon. Big hugs xx

OnlyPraying
January 28th, 2013, 02:35 PM
oh Im so sorry for your loss sweety.... :sad:

heidih1977
January 28th, 2013, 02:36 PM
oh emmyroo i am so so sorry to hear about your loss....can't believe it. How awful especially when there were no signs or symptoms. hope you are getting all the support you need. take time to grieve. thinking of you xx

Mum23boys
January 28th, 2013, 02:57 PM
Oh Emmy I am so so sorry :-(

Mrs_P
January 28th, 2013, 03:41 PM
Really sorry for your loss, we seem to be having more than our fair share in this group :sad:

mummypink
January 28th, 2013, 03:44 PM
I'm so sorry, sending you a big hug. xx

Cinss
January 28th, 2013, 03:46 PM
So sorry to read this :( I hope you will be ok.

maybeoneday
January 28th, 2013, 05:27 PM
Oh Emmy I am so sorry. Take time to heal, it is so hard.

Take care xx

wilma_five
January 28th, 2013, 05:55 PM
so sorry........:sadflwr:

Pearl327
January 29th, 2013, 03:36 AM
Emmy I am so so sorry for your loss. I hope that you and your DH look after yourselves and support each other through this difficult time.

EmmyRoo
January 29th, 2013, 04:00 AM
Thank you all so much, your support means a lot. I'm exhausted and still in shock. I just don't know what to do. I couldn't sleep then when I did I dreamt I was bleeding which woke me up. Still nothing happening which just makes me hope they were wrong and it's still alive. I feel like I'm trapped in a nightmare and I can't wake up. How can this happen? How can I ever get over this? I feel like it's punishment for GD, I just want my baby back.

True Blue
January 29th, 2013, 04:02 AM
Oh EmmyRoo I am so sorry for your loss :(
Give yourself lots of time and be good to you :(

Rainbow baby
January 29th, 2013, 06:30 AM
Oh no..... I am so sorry Emmy :HH: Thinking of you and your dp!

Jadis
January 29th, 2013, 07:08 AM
I'm so sorry, Emmy. I'm only reading this now, my heart is breaking for you and your DH. Big hugs.

my4leafclover
January 29th, 2013, 07:37 AM
I am so sorry for your loss Emmyroo.

Petal
January 29th, 2013, 07:43 AM
So sorry x

Justjessica
January 29th, 2013, 07:57 AM
I'm so sorry Emmy, that's terrible news. I feel really sad for you. Sending virtual hugs (((())))

AndreaOD
January 29th, 2013, 08:10 AM
So sorry to hear this Emmy.. :LotsofLove:

Sunflower3
January 29th, 2013, 08:48 AM
So sorry Hun. It's very hard to go through a loss, but ease know we are all here for you!! Sending big hugs!!! xxxx

Violet_
January 29th, 2013, 03:08 PM
So sorry to hear of your loss Emmy. It's just heartbreaking. Take your time to grieve the loss of your little baby. Very sad and I'm sorry you have to go through this. Xx

cravingsalt
January 29th, 2013, 04:35 PM
Emmy, no! It's just not fair- nobody should ever have to go through this. I'm so sorry.

aroundtheworld
January 29th, 2013, 09:07 PM
I cannot imagine that devastation. I pray peace over you. Bless you.

fish2012
January 30th, 2013, 04:28 AM
oh emmy i am so sad to hear this, :hugs:

Northern_Shutterbug
January 30th, 2013, 05:00 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss. xxx

Longingforgirl
January 30th, 2013, 05:24 AM
I am so so sorry for your loss!!! :broken:

EmmyRoo
January 30th, 2013, 07:40 AM
Thanks so much, you're all so kind. X

LacePrincess
January 30th, 2013, 09:11 AM
Oh God Emmy, I'm so so sorry. I don't even know what to say, my heart is breaking into a million pieces for you. :(

I'm just starting to post on GD again after taking a bit of a break, so I'm sorry I'm late responding. So much hugs and prayers for you and your family, we're all thinking of you.

EmmyRoo
January 30th, 2013, 09:55 AM
Thanks lace. And congratulations, I really wish you a healthy and happy pregnancy. X

Kittybear
January 30th, 2013, 06:44 PM
I replied on BC but in case you don't see that, I just wanted to say that I am so sorry for your loss Emmy; my heart is breaking for you. My husband doesn't understand why I'm sat here in tears. I cannot even begin to imagine how you must be feeling right now, but know that I am thinking of you.
PM me if you want to talk about anything at all. X x x

kelseypie601
January 30th, 2013, 09:37 PM
So sorry for your loss...hugs and prayers

opleasant
May 3rd, 2014, 01:08 AM
You're in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss. </3

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