Junie
February 12th, 2013, 03:36 AM
I have 2 sons. My first was very, very, very difficult the first months of his life. The first 4 months he only slept 90 minute stretches (on me), screamed and cried constantly (every picture series of him there is at least one where he is crying), and just seemed to hate being on planet earth. We took him to a sleep specialist, the pediatrician, my midwife, a chiropractor, and a osteopath and they all agreed that yes he was definitely fussy and nothing really seemed to work besides just waiting it out. Of course things got better and the sleep dramatically improved so that he was STTN by 9 months, and as soon as he was mobile he was a much happier baby- now of course he is just as sweet as can be!
However my 2nd baby has been the opposite and it is so AMAZING. I can set him down and he is fine to just chill out and look around, he rarely cries and when he does he isn't very loud, he has been able to put himself to sleep without nursing since he was born, he doesn't sleep perfectly but he does sleep much better then his brother did at this age, I've only baby worn him twice just because it hasn't been necessary, etc.
So now I am terrified that if I can convince DH to have a 3rd that there is a chance that she :) would be colicky like our first. Before I knew how it could be I actually didn't mind having a colicky baby that much but now that I have seen how much nicer it can be, I would really hate to spend the first months with the baby so miserable.
Did any of you with 3 or more go through a similar experience? What did you do if you were unlucky? Was it better then dealing with colic the first time?
However my 2nd baby has been the opposite and it is so AMAZING. I can set him down and he is fine to just chill out and look around, he rarely cries and when he does he isn't very loud, he has been able to put himself to sleep without nursing since he was born, he doesn't sleep perfectly but he does sleep much better then his brother did at this age, I've only baby worn him twice just because it hasn't been necessary, etc.
So now I am terrified that if I can convince DH to have a 3rd that there is a chance that she :) would be colicky like our first. Before I knew how it could be I actually didn't mind having a colicky baby that much but now that I have seen how much nicer it can be, I would really hate to spend the first months with the baby so miserable.
Did any of you with 3 or more go through a similar experience? What did you do if you were unlucky? Was it better then dealing with colic the first time?