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Cinss
March 19th, 2013, 07:28 PM
I've never had IB but i would be pretty excited if i did! The thing with testing early is that some ladies find out they had a chemical, that would be quite devastating i think, hold out if you can for AF gals, but i know harder to do than to say! Best of luck to you all!

Huds
March 20th, 2013, 06:02 AM
Thanks for making me feel better everyone!! This was just supposed to be a practice month (which I know doesn't exist and my dh says is stupid) but now I'm kind of hoping I am. I don't like being a symptom spotter because it drives me crazy so I'm going to try to forget about it. Vanesse, I have heard of crazy things happening so it could be. One of the other women might know because I've never had implantation bleeding.

Hang in there Kikical. Not long to go to find out. I know its very hard.. I really want to test too. But its in gods hands now and all we can do is wait. Im finding it hard sticking to the exercise since my attempts. Feel so exhausted after our crazy weekend and now im coming down with a cold boooooo!

Huds
March 20th, 2013, 06:06 AM
I've never had IB but i would be pretty excited if i did! The thing with testing early is that some ladies find out they had a chemical, that would be quite devastating i think, hold out if you can for AF gals, but i know harder to do than to say! Best of luck to you all!

Hi cinss i just wondered if u found your little boy bigger or smaller than your dd when u was carrying her? Just curious

Cinss
March 20th, 2013, 08:19 AM
Hi cinss i just wondered if u found your little boy bigger or smaller than your dd when u was carrying her? Just curious

DS feels bigger for sure... but i smoked before and during my pregnancy with DD so i think that kept her small. Also being my first pregnancy with her everything was tight, now my muscles are stretched and weaker it looks and feels bigger in my abdomen. I don't think just being a boy or a girl has much to do with it.

Huds
March 20th, 2013, 12:22 PM
DS feels bigger for sure... but i smoked before and during my pregnancy with DD so i think that kept her small. Also being my first pregnancy with her everything was tight, now my muscles are stretched and weaker it looks and feels bigger in my abdomen. I don't think just being a boy or a girl has much to do with it.

I had the similar experience. Second time around i felt she was alot lower down. It was so uncomfortable. Not long left for u at all... Bet u cant wait :-)

KikiCal
March 20th, 2013, 05:49 PM
Af came today which is weird because it's 2 days early. I usually have a 25 days cycle but 23 seems really short and I get positive opks on day 13. Should I start taking B6? I heard it sways girl.

Princess of Pink
March 20th, 2013, 06:03 PM
Mine came 2 days early as well and I am taking B6.

KikiCal
March 20th, 2013, 06:11 PM
Do I take it from af-o or continuously through the month?

Princess of Pink
March 20th, 2013, 09:07 PM
I have been taking it continuously. Not sure if that's right though?

Princess of Pink
March 20th, 2013, 09:15 PM
Just found this:

B6 - this vitamin helps with your luteal phase. 100 mg is believed to be safe for those TTC and even throughout the first trimester, but some people find that 50 or even 25 mg works for lengthening their LP. Should be weaned off slowly, but you can take it throughout pregnancy.

KikiCal
March 20th, 2013, 09:20 PM
Thanks! I'm going to buy some tomorrow and I had one left from when I previously took it after difficulty ttc after a mc. i stopped because I read it swayed girl but I just want to be pregnant! Do you know if I count today as cd 1 if af didn't start until the evening? It was spotting in the afternoon and now is regular flow. I am finding conflicting information online.

BabyLee
March 20th, 2013, 10:43 PM
epo = evening primrose oil
I'm not taking that. My supplements are ; fish oil, green tea extract, Guaifenesin (only if we dtd) and also a prenatal. I am slowly getting off of zoloft, I'm down to 25mg could any of these have affect? I am on cd 21 no O yet... I had blood work done and it showed that I was in the middle of my cycle (2 weeks ago) I'm really starting to worry. Another thing is this was first AF since I stopped bfing my one year old. I hope everything is okay with me :worry:

Cinss
March 20th, 2013, 11:21 PM
I'm not taking that. My supplements are ; fish oil, green tea extract, Guaifenesin (only if we dtd) and also a prenatal. I am slowly getting off of zoloft, I'm down to 25mg could any of these have affect? I am on cd 21 no O yet... I had blood work done and it showed that I was in the middle of my cycle (2 weeks ago) I'm really starting to worry. Another thing is this was first AF since I stopped bfing my one year old. I hope everything is okay with me :worry:

Im sure everything is fine with you, could be anything really, not really those supps, i am unsure about the zoloft though, maybe ask Atomic about that. Stopping BF could muck you up a tad, sorry im not really much help, but a lot of the blue swayers have weird and wacky cycles, i would expect you to O very very soon, and if not AF might arrive, so i guess you just have to wait and see.

Princess of Pink
March 21st, 2013, 04:56 AM
Maybe an anovulatory cycle?

The Anchor
March 21st, 2013, 02:40 PM
Thanks! I'm going to buy some tomorrow and I had one left from when I previously took it after difficulty ttc after a mc. i stopped because I read it swayed girl but I just want to be pregnant! Do you know if I count today as cd 1 if af didn't start until the evening? It was spotting in the afternoon and now is regular flow. I am finding conflicting information online.

B6 sways BOY...and yes today is CD1 if you have regular flow...

Princess of Pink
March 21st, 2013, 03:31 PM
Gosh I hate TTC.... :giggle: I am the worlds most impatient person and all you seem to do while TTC is wait for something! Currently waiting for CD9 so I can start opk and extra sups leading up to O....then you wait for O....then you wait for AF/BFP...then the whole waiting cycle starts again...so frustrating!!!

I never thought I would say this....but I can't wait to be pregnant and get morning sickness!!

The Anchor
March 21st, 2013, 03:32 PM
Gosh I hate TTC.... :giggle: I am the worlds most impatient person and all you seem to do while TTC is wait for something! Currently waiting for CD9 so I can start opk and extra sups leading up to O....then you wait for O....then you wait for AF/BFP...then the whole waiting cycle starts again...so frustrating!!!

I never thought I would say this....but I can't wait to be pregnant and get morning sickness!!

Hi Pop...can I ask...what are your extra supps leading up to O?

Princess of Pink
March 21st, 2013, 03:37 PM
CD 9 - O
6 Capsules Premium Super Greens (25% wheatgrass, 25% Barley Grass, 33% Spirulina, 17% Chlorella)
Mucinex 1200mg x 2 per day
2 green tea capsules

Insert preseed daily

These are mainly just to increase EWCM and make me alkaline that week or so leading up to O.

The Anchor
March 21st, 2013, 05:46 PM
CD 9 - O
6 Capsules Premium Super Greens (25% wheatgrass, 25% Barley Grass, 33% Spirulina, 17% Chlorella)
Mucinex 1200mg x 2 per day
2 green tea capsules

Insert preseed daily

These are mainly just to increase EWCM and make me alkaline that week or so leading up to O.

LOL...yes, was thinking I was missing out on something! Why do we wait 'til CD9 for the super greens? I've been taking wheat grass AF-O, just want to make sure I'm not messing anything up!

KikiCal
March 21st, 2013, 07:38 PM
Where do you get the wheatgrass from?

Princess of Pink
March 21st, 2013, 10:53 PM
Cause they taste like ass and atomic said I could just do a blitz the week of O as they make you alkaline when you swallow them.

I'm in Australia and I buy them at Coles.

afy
March 21st, 2013, 11:12 PM
Aha PoP even the capsules taste like ass to me!
Can't wait to get off these supps!
The pre seed when can we star using soon as we have our attempts?

Are any of you ladies going to let DH release in you with no protection in month of your attempts after AF, or will you guys go protected up until your attempts in the fertile windows? I was just curious to know

Cinss
March 21st, 2013, 11:59 PM
The pre seed when can we star using soon as we have our attempts?

Are any of you ladies going to let DH release in you with no protection in month of your attempts after AF, or will you guys go protected up until your attempts in the fertile windows? I was just curious to know

You can insert the preseed just before your attempts, or like PoP does a few days leading up to O. I did/would not use any protection the month of your attempts.

Princess of Pink
March 22nd, 2013, 03:08 AM
Atomic told me to pop a small bit of preseed in each day for a week prior to O so that my environment was alkaline. And yes DH releases inside all month when we are trying.

afy
March 22nd, 2013, 06:42 AM
Thanks ladies, lol I don't think I'm looking forward to the Inserting part!

So we could also use the pre seed for every time we DTD in the TTC month basically? And just increase it a little more in the fertile windows?

PoP it must be very frustrating I'm not even TTC yet but get so frustrated with counting and keeping track of each cycle day etc.. Im currently on CD18 and I'm waiting for CD1 I can't believe how fast the time has flown by, I'm quite nervous for the attempt month but at the same time wanna keep my calm and make it as natural as possible and not like I'm doing an experiment lol.

Huds
March 22nd, 2013, 07:51 AM
Thanks ladies, lol I don't think I'm looking forward to the Inserting part!

So we could also use the pre seed for every time we DTD in the TTC month basically? And just increase it a little more in the fertile windows?

PoP it must be very frustrating I'm not even TTC yet but get so frustrated with counting and keeping track of each cycle day etc.. Im currently on CD18 and I'm waiting for CD1 I can't believe how fast the time has flown by, I'm quite nervous for the attempt month but at the same time wanna keep my calm and make it as natural as possible and not like I'm doing an experiment lol.

Wow afy next month u start ttc.. Time has flown very quick. Good luck for next month! Hope u get preg before coming to the UK :-)

Princess of Pink
March 22nd, 2013, 07:57 AM
Got everything crossed for you afy...hope you are a OHW!!

afy
March 22nd, 2013, 09:16 AM
Thank you sooo much huds and PoP!
After almost 6months on the HE diet it's time for show time lol

Huds I really do hope I get preggers before going to UK which is in June! The thought of staying on the supps and anxiously waiting for cd1 will kill me lol

KikiCal
March 22nd, 2013, 09:18 AM
I've had my first month ttc and I'm already sick of waiting. When I don't get pregnant, I assume there's something wrong with me. Someone told me to sit quietly and take deep breaths and think of peace. She said this will help my whole body feel calm even if my head is crazy. I'm hoping that will help. I am really type A about a lot of things and like to control everything so it's hard for me to let go and not be in control.

Huds
March 22nd, 2013, 09:50 AM
Thank you sooo much huds and PoP!
After almost 6months on the HE diet it's time for show time lol

Huds I really do hope I get preggers before going to UK which is in June! The thought of staying on the supps and anxiously waiting for cd1 will kill me lol

I can imagine.. I really hope u do come to the UK with some fab news for ur family!!! When it hits cd1 u get nervous and hope it all goes well. Then u hope dh does his part! CrAzY!!!!

KikiCal
March 22nd, 2013, 09:54 AM
Okay I have a weird question of course! If dh and I dtd at night cd8 and then not again until afternoon on cd13 is that perfect or too long? That's waiting 4.5 days.

Huds
March 22nd, 2013, 09:55 AM
I've had my first month ttc and I'm already sick of waiting. When I don't get pregnant, I assume there's something wrong with me. Someone told me to sit quietly and take deep breaths and think of peace. She said this will help my whole body feel calm even if my head is crazy. I'm hoping that will help. I am really type A about a lot of things and like to control everything so it's hard for me to let go and not be in control.

I hope next months a good month for us all. Next month try and book something that u want to do or enjoy. Hopefully this will keep ur mind of ttc

Cinss
March 22nd, 2013, 05:38 PM
afy use preseed whenever you want it wont hurt you.

Kiki up to a 5 day gap is fine inbetween dtd.

BabyLee
March 23rd, 2013, 03:30 AM
Im sure everything is fine with you, could be anything really, not really those supps, i am unsure about the zoloft though, maybe ask Atomic about that. Stopping BF could muck you up a tad, sorry im not really much help, but a lot of the blue swayers have weird and wacky cycles, i would expect you to O very very soon, and if not AF might arrive, so i guess you just have to wait and see. lots of help. Thanks. :) Well AF came today! TMI.. Light Brown, old blood perhaps? I wonder if I did not O. I hope to be on track now. How are you ladies doing?

Cinss
March 23rd, 2013, 04:19 AM
lots of help. Thanks. :) Well AF came today! TMI.. Light Brown, old blood perhaps? I wonder if I did not O. I hope to be on track now. How are you ladies doing?

Sounds like no O this time :( boo that happened to me once too, it sucks big time, such a waste of time, but hopefully everything goes back on track this cycle for you, it did for me.

KikiCal
March 23rd, 2013, 07:07 AM
Hopefully things are back on track for you! I'm over March and ready to move to April! It's always taken me 2-3 months to get pregnant and I wasn't too worried before ttc but it seems like an eternity when I'm in the middle of it!! GL to everyone trying.

afy
March 23rd, 2013, 10:58 AM
Oooo so how many of us ladies are TTC in march? It's so exciting but nerve racking catching that egg!!

Thanks cinns Ill do just that and how much should we use it has applicators with it me and DH been using It anyway but never used applicator for my month of attempt I will

Cinss
March 23rd, 2013, 05:18 PM
Oooo so how many of us ladies are TTC in march? It's so exciting but nerve racking catching that egg!!

Thanks cinns Ill do just that and how much should we use it has applicators with it me and DH been using It anyway but never used applicator for my month of attempt I will

I found 1ml was more than enough :)

aftmjt
March 23rd, 2013, 05:52 PM
I found 1ml was more than enough :)

Thanks did know 1ml would be ok I've been using 3ml and felt very wet!!! Lol

afy
March 25th, 2013, 02:47 PM
The 1ml we need to Insert right before we DTD or we can do before?

Princess of Pink
March 25th, 2013, 03:35 PM
Before is fine, I usually do mine 20mins or so before, gives it time to spread around in there.

Princess of Pink
March 26th, 2013, 07:16 PM
CD9 today and we are off camping for 11 days. Gonna be primitive swaying for this cycle lol. Got a whole bag with just swaying supplies and sups, the things we do. Good luck ladies and happy Easter to you all xx

KikiCal
March 26th, 2013, 08:35 PM
CD9 today and we are off camping for 11 days. Gonna be primitive swaying for this cycle lol. Got a whole bag with just swaying supplies and sups, the things we do. Good luck ladies and happy Easter to you all xx

Swaying for a boy seems primative to me so maybe being out in nature will help! Have a nice time! I'm cd 7 and just waiting to start trying again!

Princess of Pink
March 26th, 2013, 10:42 PM
Hope the easter bunny brings us both fertilised eggs!!

Huds
March 27th, 2013, 06:02 AM
Af showed her ugly face this morning... Waaaaahh! Im out this month... Back on epo. Fingers crossed for us all for April

Huds
March 27th, 2013, 06:04 AM
Swaying for a boy seems primative to me so maybe being out in nature will help! Have a nice time! I'm cd 7 and just waiting to start trying again!

Goodluck kikical.. Its showtime for u lol fingers crossed

KikiCal
March 27th, 2013, 06:11 AM
Haha let's get some fertilized eggs! Thanks Huds you too!! April needs to bring us babies so we can get off this HE diet. I feel like I'm being more careful than when I was dieting after DD was born.

Huds
March 27th, 2013, 06:25 AM
Haha let's get some fertilized eggs! Thanks Huds you too!! April needs to bring us babies so we can get off this HE diet. I feel like I'm being more careful than when I was dieting after DD was born.

I hope so. I cant wait to stop the HE diet either. Since being on this diet my belly has plopped out.. I look like im 3 months preggers urghh. Im having to wear floaty tops to make me feel better lol :-)

Huds
March 27th, 2013, 06:27 AM
Hey kikical.. When do u start inserting the preseed? Last month i only used it on my attempts. This month i want to use abit more

Pearl327
March 27th, 2013, 06:56 AM
Huds,

I would go with the preseed everyday the week you expect to O. Sorry AF showed up.

Huds
March 27th, 2013, 07:41 AM
Huds,

I would go with the preseed everyday the week you expect to O. Sorry AF showed up.

I planned to do that last month pearl.. But ov showed up earlier than i expected

onthepond
March 27th, 2013, 08:45 AM
Hi Ladies, I think I am 8 DPO today and POAS this morning - BFN although I do think that is probably really early. I know with my last positive, I didn't see a faint line until 10 DPO. Just crossing my fingers although I came down with the stomach flu last night which might not help anything. Good luck to all getting ready to test or TTC!

afy
March 27th, 2013, 09:01 AM
Huds,

I would go with the preseed everyday the week you expect to O. Sorry AF showed up.

Pearl could we use 1ml ? Could we apply this in morning time or night?

KikiCal
March 27th, 2013, 09:28 AM
I'm going to use preseed at night before bed and use 1ml. I figure in bed I'm laying down and not moving too much. I'm cd8 and starting today. I'm also starting mucinex and the heating pad. We're moving this weekend into my parents' house because our new house won't be ready for two weeks. So dtd this weekend will be very unromantic and I'm sure I won't O. It's hard enough to do with DD but now my parents!

Onthepond, 8 dpo is very early. I've never gotten a positive before 12dpo so there is time. Good luck!!

afy
March 27th, 2013, 10:05 AM
I'm going to use preseed at night before bed and use 1ml. I figure in bed I'm laying down and not moving too much. I'm cd8 and starting today. I'm also starting mucinex and the heating pad. We're moving this weekend into my parents' house because our new house won't be ready for two weeks. So dtd this weekend will be very unromantic and I'm sure I won't O. It's hard enough to do with DD but now my parents!

Onthepond, 8 dpo is very early. I've never gotten a positive before 12dpo so there is time. Good luck!!

Lol I can just imagine how unromantic our attempts will be!
When do you usually expect to ovulate Kiki?
And will you not be using preseed before DTD and on the nights you won't DTD use preeseed before you sleep?

Huds
March 27th, 2013, 10:36 AM
I'm going to use preseed at night before bed and use 1ml. I figure in bed I'm laying down and not moving too much. I'm cd8 and starting today. I'm also starting mucinex and the heating pad. We're moving this weekend into my parents' house because our new house won't be ready for two weeks. So dtd this weekend will be very unromantic and I'm sure I won't O. It's hard enough to do with DD but now my parents!

Onthepond, 8 dpo is very early. I've never gotten a positive before 12dpo so there is time. Good luck!!

I only have 5applicators left. I wana save them for when the opk goes positive. Did u buy more applicators?

Huds
March 27th, 2013, 10:38 AM
Lol I can just imagine how unromantic our attempts will be!
When do you usually expect to ovulate Kiki?
And will you not be using preseed before DTD and on the nights you won't DTD use preeseed before you sleep?

Hey afy, u normally use preseed before dtd... 1ml is ok. Any more i found too wet. Not sure about the days when u dont dtd. Are u guys planing on dtd every 2/3days?

Adia
March 27th, 2013, 11:34 AM
I hope so. I cant wait to stop the HE diet either. Since being on this diet my belly has plopped out.. I look like im 3 months preggers urghh. Im having to wear floaty tops to make me feel better lol :-)

I have such a pooch on my belly that my kids are asking me if I'm pregnant, nope, just fat!! I can still hide my flab with clothes but not for too much longer. i have been on the HE since October and I'm ready to get off of it!!!

Huds
March 27th, 2013, 12:31 PM
Adia my daughter has asked me the same thing lol

KikiCal
March 27th, 2013, 12:57 PM
I have been working out 6 days a week and still getting flabby! This is not good when summer is coming! I'm really hoping for BFP soon so I will at least have an excuse for being fat!!

onthepond
March 27th, 2013, 03:00 PM
OMG I 100% agree with you ladies. I literally weigh 20 pounds more now than when I conceived DD. I don't know if other people can really notice it, or if it is just me, but I am starting to feel ick!

Okay, so 8DPO is early...that makes me feel better. I wasn't sure if that was normal. Hopefully I will see my BFP in a few days!

Adia
March 27th, 2013, 04:19 PM
I'm hoping for your BFP onthepond!

Like the others said, with summer coming I am dreading what to wear. I have been able to hide in big sweaters and loose tops but what am I going to do when its 100 degrees outside and nothing fits?

I have summer maternity clothes but I just feel super looney wearing maternity clothes when I'm not pregnant....however, pretty soon that is all that is going to fit!!!

Huds
March 27th, 2013, 04:30 PM
Hey kikical are u inserting preseed every time u dtd?

Huds
March 27th, 2013, 04:32 PM
Hope u get ur bfp ontheponds :-)

KikiCal
March 27th, 2013, 07:08 PM
I do but mostly that's because our attempts are more rushed and that speeds things up.

Cinss
March 27th, 2013, 07:48 PM
I only have 5applicators left. I wana save them for when the opk goes positive. Did u buy more applicators?

You can wash and re-use them, put them in semi boiling water after use that will sterilise them good as new.

Huds
March 28th, 2013, 02:49 AM
You can wash and re-use them, put them in semi boiling water after use that will sterilise them good as new.

Ah thank u cinss!

KikiCal
March 28th, 2013, 12:53 PM
Does anyone know why I get ewcm on cycle day 9 but it seems to dry up by the time I get a positive opk?

Huds
March 28th, 2013, 04:21 PM
Does anyone know why I get ewcm on cycle day 9 but it seems to dry up by the time I get a positive opk?

The same happend to me last month. I come of af and thees tons and ton of ewcm. When my opk goes positive, theres hardly any there

BabyLee
March 28th, 2013, 04:25 PM
Well my body has confused me once again. I spotted on CD 22 (tmi, had unprotected sex! I know stupid) then the next day nothing, I'm CD 28 today and no AF or sign of O. I'm not sure what is going on with me. I completely stopped taking the zoloft, and I do feel extremely emotional and edgy. I just want to be on track and know all is okay with me. How are you ladies doing?

BabyLee
March 28th, 2013, 04:29 PM
The same happend to me last month. I come of af and thees tons and ton of ewcm. When my opk goes positive, theres hardly any there
This also happens to me. I think this is why we are more prone to girls, our bodies don't have the proper environment for the y sperm, just a theory.

BabyLee
March 28th, 2013, 04:36 PM
I have such a pooch on my belly that my kids are asking me if I'm pregnant, nope, just fat!! I can still hide my flab with clothes but not for too much longer. i have been on the HE since October and I'm ready to get off of it!!!What consists of the HE diet? Do any of you believe that the way you exercise help with a gender swaying? I got a treadmill. I am hoping that won't negatively affect my sway.

onthepond
March 28th, 2013, 06:21 PM
Ladies, how are you all doing? ANY other testers out there today or tomorrow? Any ladies with good news to share? I decided to test today at 9DPO and got a BFN :( I am seriously so sad about it because I wanted more than anything to see a BFP after my MC and D&C in February. I feel like I really need to see a BFP because the BFN just made me so, so sad. It was with a FRER so I am feeling now like I am out this month...wouldn't even the slightest of slight lines show up with FRER by now? There was definitely nothing there...I tried with FMU and 2MU and both were stark white. Sincerely depressed and trying not to let it get me down. Sigh. Prayers for me if you have them! Thanks ladies!

Cinss
March 28th, 2013, 06:31 PM
What consists of the HE diet? Do any of you believe that the way you exercise help with a gender swaying? I got a treadmill. I am hoping that won't negatively affect my sway.

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-conceive-boy/27056-he-diet-faq.html?highlight=diet+nutshell

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-conceive-boy/16806-high-everything-diet-nutshell-version.html?highlight=diet+nutshell

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/1411-exercise-enigma-both-genders.html?highlight=exercise

Cinss
March 28th, 2013, 06:33 PM
ONTHEPOND - http://dl.glitter-graphics.net/pub/2816/2816061jj3fcm727g.gif (http://www.glitter-graphics.com)

KikiCal
March 28th, 2013, 09:39 PM
Onthepond, I hope your BFP comes soon. I tested early last cycle and I swore I wouldn't do it again. That pain and uncertainty is too much for me. I'd rather just be disappointed when af comes and eat some chocolate. I never trust bfn until I see af anyway. You'll be in my thoughts!

onthepond
March 28th, 2013, 09:43 PM
Thank you so much Cinss and Kiki. I seriously just wish I was still pregnant with our baby we lost :( Breaks my heart and honestly, seeing these BFN's really just makes that worse. I thought if I saw a BFP I could really be so excited and over the moon again, but it is not seeming like that is going to happen. Most seem to get their BFP by 9 DPO so me seeing stark white at 9DPO sure doesn't look good. I should just throw in the towel and leave it to AF to show or not, but that is easier said than done, too, for me. Thanks for everything!

pooh_ob
March 28th, 2013, 10:59 PM
On the pond I'm praying for you. Lots of us have stories like mine: negative 9 and 10 dpo...positive on 12! And let's be honest, that's still early :-) Hang in there! Praying........

onthepond
March 29th, 2013, 09:49 AM
Thanks ladies, I so appreciate all of you. I don't talk to anyone else about any of this...Well, I guess DH but he is just always positive and says that it will happen, there is always next month, blah blah blah. 10 DPO and BFN's this morning with FMU and 2MU. Not looking good for me. Temps had dipped slightly the last 2 days, too. How could this not be our month after going through our loss. UUG. I just want to run away. We have 7 close sets of friends who 6 of which have had their babies in the last 2 months and the 7th is in labor this morning. Doesn't seem fair.

Ollynem
March 30th, 2013, 03:55 PM
The same happend to me last month. I come of af and thees tons and ton of ewcm. When my opk goes positive, theres hardly any there

This is so me too. I didn't O until 3days after I had EWCM and when I did have it the OPT was very very negative. So confusing. When I got a +OPT my cervix was hard and not open like it normally is when I have EWCM and the cm was all claggy cream (TMI) which should be a sigh of not fertile. I feel I am destined to have all daughters when it seems my body doesn't want to act fertile only a week to 3days before I even O.

Ollynem
March 30th, 2013, 04:01 PM
Thanks ladies, I so appreciate all of you. I don't talk to anyone else about any of this...Well, I guess DH but he is just always positive and says that it will happen, there is always next month, blah blah blah. 10 DPO and BFN's this morning with FMU and 2MU. Not looking good for me. Temps had dipped slightly the last 2 days, too. How could this not be our month after going through our loss. UUG. I just want to run away. We have 7 close sets of friends who 6 of which have had their babies in the last 2 months and the 7th is in labor this morning. Doesn't seem fair.

On the pond I am sorry your having a hard time. I think thats the hardest part about having a m/c is the length of time it takes to happen again (weather it 1month or 2years) when you have already planned your life to include that baby you lost. Its especially hard when people around you have what you shold have to. The girls are right. 10DPO could very well be too early. I hope so anyway. If not January is a way better time to have a baby :)

I am 1DPO today. Unfortunately we only DTD once due to DH working away. That was about 12hrs before I O'd so timing I am happy with and diet just wished I had more boy sperm in me amongst the girls lol I doubt very much I will get pregnant anyway but I can always hope.

zebaniee
March 31st, 2013, 12:11 AM
I am patiently waiting for ovulation and started to calculate my maybe baby's due date...25 December. What an awful birthday! I feel like I should skip this month because I really don't like the idea of a christmas baby. On the other hand, the bfn start to wear you down and I don't want to miss any opportunities IYKWIM?

afy
March 31st, 2013, 10:00 AM
I am patiently waiting for ovulation and started to calculate my maybe baby's due date...25 December. What an awful birthday! I feel like I should skip this month because I really don't like the idea of a christmas baby. On the other hand, the bfn start to wear you down and I don't want to miss any opportunities IYKWIM?


Im patiently waiting for CD1 to begin which is any day now! im slightly nervous after almost 6months of swaying ill be Going for my attempts soon! Lol I do the same I try to calculate maybe babys due date! When are you due to ovulate? If we conceieve round about 2nd week of April when would our due date be?

KikiCal
March 31st, 2013, 01:47 PM
My due date would be around then and I'm just going to risk it. The women in my family are always late so I'm sure the baby would be due a few days late. Although since I said that, it probably wouldn't happen. I would celebrate a half birthday too so they could have some special attention. I really want to get pregnant so I don't want to skip a month.

I'm upset I O today because I've eaten candy and sweets for Easter. I tried to balance it by eating protein but the damage has still been done. I'm really not sure what I was thinking but it's too late now. Plus, we've been moving so my diet has been horrible. Still eating protein and carbs but more like snacks than meals. I'm just venting because my attempts are happening and I'm blowing it again! Oh well, hopefully my months of diet and exercise will overpower today.

S4724
April 1st, 2013, 06:35 PM
Is it okay to dtd continously for 2 days? I'm not close to O yet i will take aroud 10 days more I guess depending on how EPO behaves with my body. Meanwhile me and DH dtd yesterday and today. It was just one off but is it okay if it happens in future or should I avoid it? My DH is 36.

Cinss
April 1st, 2013, 07:07 PM
Is it okay to dtd continously for 2 days? I'm not close to O yet i will take aroud 10 days more I guess depending on how EPO behaves with my body. Meanwhile me and DH dtd yesterday and today. It was just one off but is it okay if it happens in future or should I avoid it? My DH is 36.

Totally fine hun :)

onthepond
April 1st, 2013, 08:37 PM
Well ladies, AF showed late last night and this was a 24-25 day cycle month. It HAS to be a result of the MC and D&C because never, ever have I had a cycle this short. I have literally only had 27-29 days. Ooh well, honestly, I feel like maybe my body just wasn't ready. I am looking forward to TTC in April, though we really aren't doing anything to sway anymore...just prenatals, fish oil, green tea some days and BD every other day once AF ends. I just want to be pregnant again, a boy would be an extra bonus. Wishing you all LUCK and hoping to see some BFP's SOON!

Cinss
April 2nd, 2013, 04:53 AM
Well ladies, AF showed late last night and this was a 24-25 day cycle month. It HAS to be a result of the MC and D&C because never, ever have I had a cycle this short. I have literally only had 27-29 days. Ooh well, honestly, I feel like maybe my body just wasn't ready. I am looking forward to TTC in April, though we really aren't doing anything to sway anymore...just prenatals, fish oil, green tea some days and BD every other day once AF ends. I just want to be pregnant again, a boy would be an extra bonus. Wishing you all LUCK and hoping to see some BFP's SOON!

That is basically my sway, with exercise and HE diet :) best of luck for a BFP in April! xx

S4724
April 2nd, 2013, 03:07 PM
I am unable to exercise more than half an hour. I do this 4 times a week though. Is it any good?

dloui128
April 2nd, 2013, 05:03 PM
I am unable to exercise more than half an hour. I do this 4 times a week though. Is it any good?

30 minutes is plenty that is all I did and I only did it 3 times per week

afy
April 4th, 2013, 09:30 AM
Have we not started a April TTC thread?

S4724
April 4th, 2013, 02:35 PM
Have we not started a April TTC thread?
Don't think so, so I shall post my query here!!

Okay so i've just been trying to conceive little over 6 weeks. Last month my cycle was 38 days long(it used to be 28 days before that)!! I was told that since I was on prenats, EPO it was quite common. So I did not use my OPK till CD14, which is today assuming that I will have a long cycle, and I get a positive OPK today!!!
My questions:

1) Can there be a possibility that I get pos OPK more than once? If so should I continue to dtd?

2) I don't know when I will be ovulating as just now is the first time I tested, is it OK to dtd 3 times within 24 hours??

Oh I'm nervous!!!

S4724
April 4th, 2013, 02:35 PM
Have we not started a April TTC thread?
Don't think so, so I shall post my query here!!

Okay so i've just been trying to conceive little over 6 weeks. Last month my cycle was 38 days long(it used to be 28 days before that)!! I was told that since I was on prenats, EPO it was quite common. So I did not use my OPK till CD14, which is today assuming that I will have a long cycle, and I get a positive OPK today!!!
My questions:

1) Can there be a possibility that I get pos OPK more than once? If so should I continue to dtd?

2) I don't know when I will be ovulating as just now is the first time I tested, is it OK to dtd 3 times within 24 hours??

Oh I'm nervous!!!

Cinss
April 4th, 2013, 05:57 PM
S4724 yes you can get a +opk for more than 1 day, but the first one you get is the important one. Once you have seen it is is good to get in 3 attempts in 24 hours. Don't worry about how long your tests stay + you will Ov 12 - 36 hours after the 1st one.

Cinss
April 4th, 2013, 06:05 PM
http://genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-conceive-boy/28260-april-chit-chat-boy-swayers-all-welcome.html

BabyLee
April 6th, 2013, 07:57 PM
Hello ladies, how is everyone? So no AF yet. I have a doctors appointment Monday and I'm sure she will want to get me on something to get it started but I'd like to have some "natural ideas " to bring to my doctors.... So I thought I'd come here to you ladies who I trust with this kind of thing. Another thing I got this link in my parenting magazine for a free ttc kit, it includes LH tests a basil thermometer and two stages of ttc "all natural " vitamins. How do I go about making sure the vitamins are boy sway friendly? Thank you all so much in advance :)