atomic sagebrush
March 6th, 2013, 12:50 PM
Updated 12-22-17
The primary consideration in how long to be on a sway diet before TTC is how much you weigh to start out with. WE cannot make a blanket prescription for either pink or blue because every individual is beginning at a different weight to start out with. We have the full guide to weight gain/weight loss for swaying (both blue and pink) here http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/62518-guide-weight-loss-pink-weight-gain-blue.html#post960313
Also, if you are adding exercise, that can also affect how long to do diet beforehand.
:ballerina: If you want a girl and you have little to no weight to lose (0-5 lbs, up to 10 if you lose weight very easily), you should be on LE Diet no longer than 6 weeks before TTC. If you're going to try for a very strict sway, you may even want less time, more like 2-4 weeks, because it will probably take you more than a month to get pregnant. Yes, we have been seeming to see better results with people on diet for longer http://genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-conceive-girl/25157-complete-pink-swaying-statistics-spreadsheet.html but if you weigh 85 lbs you CANNOT be on diet for very long and you should not try because you will lose too much weight and stop ovulation. But ONLY do this short a sway time if and only if you are planning a strict sway (with jellies, frequency, timing, etc) If you're doing a more laid back sway and are focusing on diet, exercise, and one attempt ONLY - please do longer on diet even if you're thin. Up calories to prevent weight loss but do not try for a laid back sway with 2 weeks on diet, that's a recipe for another boy.
:ballerina: If you want a girl and have a lot of weight to lose (more than 20 lbs), you should be on diet a full 90 days before beginning to TTC if at all possible, because we've been having better success with people doing LE Diet for longer. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-conceive-girl/25157-complete-pink-swaying-statistics-spreadsheet.html. Healthy weight loss is 1-2 lbs a week and so in 90 days' time you will have taken off 12-24 lbs, then you can start to TTC and the weight will continue to come off while you go. Most people do not get pregnant the first month of swaying, so you can start off doing a very strict sway, figure on BFN, and still be losing weight for another month or two or three.
:ballerina: If you want a girl and have a bit of weight to lose (5-20 lbs), you should be on diet for 90 days if at all possible, but remain flexible and be willing to cut that short if the weight flies off. For whatever reason, most of the time people with this amount of weight to drop, lose it very rapidly and you may need to adjust caloric intake upwards and/or TTC sooner than you planned.
:ballerina: If you want a girl and want to include the intense exercise option (we have had great results doing cardio exercise 60 min a day, 6-7 days a week) and you have a bit of weight to spare (if you have no weight to spare, you should not do the intense exercise option), you will need to do LE Diet a shorter time before TTC and should also increase calories to the 1800-2000 range. (trying for 90 days with intense exercise and eating 1200-1500 cals a day will cause you to lose way too much weight.)
If you have a lot of weight to spare, stick with the normal 1500-1800 cal intake recommendation and try to make the full 90 days even if it means you have to up calories a bit to do so.
:ballerina: If you really want to start diet sooner rather than later even if you do not have much weight to spare, you always have the option of going vegetarian or vegan, and/or reducing fat and protein to LE Diet levels and stopping multivitamins, but keeping caloric intake high enough so you do not lose any weight, months prior to actively TTC.
:boybear2: Many people assume that because pink swayers have seen better results on diet for longer, then blue swayers should also aspire to longer periods of time on diet before TTC. This is NOT the case. It is much easier to improve condition and fertility than it is to decline it and thus most blue swayers should aim for 6 weeks max on diet before TTC. Most blue swayers only need to gain 3-5 lbs for their sway, and the longer you are on diet, the higher the odds that you will gain too much weight. There are a couple exceptions to that below.
:boybear2: NO matter your weight going in, ALL blue swayers should lift weights 4-5 times a week. This will ensure you add weight in the form of muscle mass, which will help you burn excess calories. If you are already on the heavy side or do not want to gain much weight, you can also add in cardio exercise (the types that build muscle in the thighs and glutes like stepping, and/or uses light weights to build arm muscles while doing the cardio are best, kickboxing and Taebo are also great) UNDER 45 minutes 3-5 times a week. If you do both weights and cardio in the same day, don't do them one right after the other, you want to exercise LESS than 45 min. at a time because your body stops burning carbs and starts using your stored fat/muscle as fuel at about that point.
:boybear2:If you want a boy and you are underweight, undernourished (you are a picky eater, vegan, have an illness that inhibits your nutrient absorption, are exercising a lot, or are just coming off a fast for religious purposes), and/or have trouble keeping weight on, you may need to do diet for longer than 6 weeks. You should not gain more than 10-15 lbs regardless.
:boybear2: If you want a boy and were previously doing IG-style diet and cutting way way back on cal-mag-Vit. D whilst eating a lot of sodium/baking soda/COT/ASG/Ural, and you were on that diet for more than 2 months, you want to give yourself more like 8 weeks to undo the damage that was done by the IG-style diet. You should eat the lower caloric intake of 2000-2200 a day and add in cardio to ensure you do not gain too much weight.
:boybear2:If you want a boy and are already heavy, you should eat the lower caloric intake 2000-2200 cals a day, and you can even decrease that to 1800-2000 if you need to. You should TTC after only 2-4 weeks on diet (using Preseed, taking vitamin supplements, and having DH release every 2-4 days) and you should let go of tactics that do not sway and inhibit pregnancy, like Shettles timing. You should add in cardio as well if at all possible. If a few lbs. sneak off, that's ok, it may help your sway by improving your condition overall. Remember, it's NOT weight gain or loss that sway - it's improving your overall condition, and if you need to lose a bit of weight, it can help your condition overall, esp. if you've gotten girls at a higher weight.
:boybear2:If you want a boy and actually need to lose weight before TTC, please do so in a safe fashion on a diet that contains both protein and carbs in addition to healthy fats and fruit/veg such as South Beach Diet. Be sure you are taking a multivitamin. Then once you have the weight off or at least some of it, you can go onto HE Diet for a short time.
:boybear2:If you really want to start diet sooner rather than later, you always have the option of increasing intake of protein and saturated/healthy fat, eating 9-11 fruits and vegetables a day, reducing or eliminating shellfish/organ meats/artificial sweeteners/transfats/high-nitrate cured meats, reducing caffeine and alcohol intake to moderate levels, quitting smoking, and beginning multivitamins and fish oil, but keeping caloric intake low enough so you do not gain any weight, months prior to actively TTC.
The primary consideration in how long to be on a sway diet before TTC is how much you weigh to start out with. WE cannot make a blanket prescription for either pink or blue because every individual is beginning at a different weight to start out with. We have the full guide to weight gain/weight loss for swaying (both blue and pink) here http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/62518-guide-weight-loss-pink-weight-gain-blue.html#post960313
Also, if you are adding exercise, that can also affect how long to do diet beforehand.
:ballerina: If you want a girl and you have little to no weight to lose (0-5 lbs, up to 10 if you lose weight very easily), you should be on LE Diet no longer than 6 weeks before TTC. If you're going to try for a very strict sway, you may even want less time, more like 2-4 weeks, because it will probably take you more than a month to get pregnant. Yes, we have been seeming to see better results with people on diet for longer http://genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-conceive-girl/25157-complete-pink-swaying-statistics-spreadsheet.html but if you weigh 85 lbs you CANNOT be on diet for very long and you should not try because you will lose too much weight and stop ovulation. But ONLY do this short a sway time if and only if you are planning a strict sway (with jellies, frequency, timing, etc) If you're doing a more laid back sway and are focusing on diet, exercise, and one attempt ONLY - please do longer on diet even if you're thin. Up calories to prevent weight loss but do not try for a laid back sway with 2 weeks on diet, that's a recipe for another boy.
:ballerina: If you want a girl and have a lot of weight to lose (more than 20 lbs), you should be on diet a full 90 days before beginning to TTC if at all possible, because we've been having better success with people doing LE Diet for longer. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-conceive-girl/25157-complete-pink-swaying-statistics-spreadsheet.html. Healthy weight loss is 1-2 lbs a week and so in 90 days' time you will have taken off 12-24 lbs, then you can start to TTC and the weight will continue to come off while you go. Most people do not get pregnant the first month of swaying, so you can start off doing a very strict sway, figure on BFN, and still be losing weight for another month or two or three.
:ballerina: If you want a girl and have a bit of weight to lose (5-20 lbs), you should be on diet for 90 days if at all possible, but remain flexible and be willing to cut that short if the weight flies off. For whatever reason, most of the time people with this amount of weight to drop, lose it very rapidly and you may need to adjust caloric intake upwards and/or TTC sooner than you planned.
:ballerina: If you want a girl and want to include the intense exercise option (we have had great results doing cardio exercise 60 min a day, 6-7 days a week) and you have a bit of weight to spare (if you have no weight to spare, you should not do the intense exercise option), you will need to do LE Diet a shorter time before TTC and should also increase calories to the 1800-2000 range. (trying for 90 days with intense exercise and eating 1200-1500 cals a day will cause you to lose way too much weight.)
If you have a lot of weight to spare, stick with the normal 1500-1800 cal intake recommendation and try to make the full 90 days even if it means you have to up calories a bit to do so.
:ballerina: If you really want to start diet sooner rather than later even if you do not have much weight to spare, you always have the option of going vegetarian or vegan, and/or reducing fat and protein to LE Diet levels and stopping multivitamins, but keeping caloric intake high enough so you do not lose any weight, months prior to actively TTC.
:boybear2: Many people assume that because pink swayers have seen better results on diet for longer, then blue swayers should also aspire to longer periods of time on diet before TTC. This is NOT the case. It is much easier to improve condition and fertility than it is to decline it and thus most blue swayers should aim for 6 weeks max on diet before TTC. Most blue swayers only need to gain 3-5 lbs for their sway, and the longer you are on diet, the higher the odds that you will gain too much weight. There are a couple exceptions to that below.
:boybear2: NO matter your weight going in, ALL blue swayers should lift weights 4-5 times a week. This will ensure you add weight in the form of muscle mass, which will help you burn excess calories. If you are already on the heavy side or do not want to gain much weight, you can also add in cardio exercise (the types that build muscle in the thighs and glutes like stepping, and/or uses light weights to build arm muscles while doing the cardio are best, kickboxing and Taebo are also great) UNDER 45 minutes 3-5 times a week. If you do both weights and cardio in the same day, don't do them one right after the other, you want to exercise LESS than 45 min. at a time because your body stops burning carbs and starts using your stored fat/muscle as fuel at about that point.
:boybear2:If you want a boy and you are underweight, undernourished (you are a picky eater, vegan, have an illness that inhibits your nutrient absorption, are exercising a lot, or are just coming off a fast for religious purposes), and/or have trouble keeping weight on, you may need to do diet for longer than 6 weeks. You should not gain more than 10-15 lbs regardless.
:boybear2: If you want a boy and were previously doing IG-style diet and cutting way way back on cal-mag-Vit. D whilst eating a lot of sodium/baking soda/COT/ASG/Ural, and you were on that diet for more than 2 months, you want to give yourself more like 8 weeks to undo the damage that was done by the IG-style diet. You should eat the lower caloric intake of 2000-2200 a day and add in cardio to ensure you do not gain too much weight.
:boybear2:If you want a boy and are already heavy, you should eat the lower caloric intake 2000-2200 cals a day, and you can even decrease that to 1800-2000 if you need to. You should TTC after only 2-4 weeks on diet (using Preseed, taking vitamin supplements, and having DH release every 2-4 days) and you should let go of tactics that do not sway and inhibit pregnancy, like Shettles timing. You should add in cardio as well if at all possible. If a few lbs. sneak off, that's ok, it may help your sway by improving your condition overall. Remember, it's NOT weight gain or loss that sway - it's improving your overall condition, and if you need to lose a bit of weight, it can help your condition overall, esp. if you've gotten girls at a higher weight.
:boybear2:If you want a boy and actually need to lose weight before TTC, please do so in a safe fashion on a diet that contains both protein and carbs in addition to healthy fats and fruit/veg such as South Beach Diet. Be sure you are taking a multivitamin. Then once you have the weight off or at least some of it, you can go onto HE Diet for a short time.
:boybear2:If you really want to start diet sooner rather than later, you always have the option of increasing intake of protein and saturated/healthy fat, eating 9-11 fruits and vegetables a day, reducing or eliminating shellfish/organ meats/artificial sweeteners/transfats/high-nitrate cured meats, reducing caffeine and alcohol intake to moderate levels, quitting smoking, and beginning multivitamins and fish oil, but keeping caloric intake low enough so you do not gain any weight, months prior to actively TTC.