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cvd
April 5th, 2013, 01:38 PM
Thought it'd be a funny topic lol

With DS1 things were good, pregnancy increased my drive, he almost couldn't keep up with me but now with DS2 I honestly want NOTHING to do with DH!!!! I wish I could put a 10 foot pole between us even just when we are sleeping hahaha I remember reading something about sex drive and the sex of your baby, not true over here! Poor guy, I almost feel bad, when it does happen I literally give him like a 2 minute window. :rofl:

Wanting-a-girl
April 5th, 2013, 01:52 PM
O god I don't remember with my first two cause that was soooo long ago but with ds3 omg I couldn't get enough... DH could not keep up if he tried lol like I wanted it multiple times a day lol (tmi) this pregnancy I've barley had sex lol I don't care for it at all! 3 more days till I find out the sex

Mrs_P
April 5th, 2013, 03:18 PM
well its not a sex thing - this one i've barely near him - bit of a shock i think from FR to none. Its been months since we last had sex to begin with it made me bleed i was worried i'd loose the baby and now i can barely put my socks on with the spd and back pain! At least my dh is not the only one i was worried i was the worst wife ever!

On the other side i am permanently tired and struggling and still have 11.5 weeks to go. Bet he's looking forward to me hitting 36-37 weeks - for me its a means to an end then so worth the pain

Praying4Pink
April 6th, 2013, 09:51 AM
Same here! Don't want to be touched, kissed, or bothered! I give it up about once a week, lol. Poor hubby! Just think...when the baby comes we will be even worse.

Wanting-a-girl
April 6th, 2013, 10:15 AM
I swear I've had sex like 5 times since getting preg lol I just have no drive and he keeps pissing me off so a bit of both lol

cvd
April 7th, 2013, 10:45 AM
Hahaha!!!

Wanting - good luck with your scan! I'll definitely be checking in for your update :) Oh and I hear ya on the DH pissing you off part, my hormones are terrible right now, he just has to word a sentence the wrong way and I go off the wall, really makes his chances incredibly SLIM!

Mrs P - Too funny, I also was the same way at 36 weeks last time LOL poor DH doesn't even get to look forward to that since we're having a planned csection.

Praying - We are at about once a week too, and I consider him lucky with that lol it's like a chore for me! I can't even imagine once our babies are all here hahah!

Jadis
April 9th, 2013, 11:40 AM
Whew!! I'm not the only one? What a relief! It's been about a month since we had sex. I got hit with bronchitis and sinusitis, that knocked me on my ass for 2 full weeks. Then, as I was starting to feel better, the antibiotics gave me a yeast infection! My poor DH can't win! Not only have I been physically unwell, but I'm just not emotionally into it either. I don't feel much interest in sex these days at all! Feels like I don't care when I get it next.

NearlyDone
April 9th, 2013, 02:55 PM
Poor OH we are deff at the sympathy sex stage now :/

aroundtheworld
April 9th, 2013, 06:22 PM
I am definitely the opposite here- I am wanting it a LOT! And it's really good each and every time. ;)