6Blue NT Scan pics what do you Ladies think???

[6bluewant1pink]

Back from my NT scan. I am 12wks 2days. measuring 12wks 4days. The tech could not give me a gender guess saying it's to early to tell 100%. So we get around to baby private area kept closing legs all of a sudden open it i was OMG i see something sticking up. It look like was a circumcised penis lol. I was like yes that's gonna make boy #7 . The tech said i do not know what your talking about something sticking up because i see nothing sticking up, she kept saying its to early both boys&girls look similar at this point. She did tell me my placenta is anterior left. She did say before i left If i get a girl make sure i do not spoil her. i broke down in tears and said i pray to God everyday for a girl finally after 6 boys, i will treat her as a equal to my boys and NEVER put Her before them! My boys are my heart and they mean just as much to me as She would!
Here's some pics. i think the skull looks boyish(looks big cause its a real close up) hope i am wrong idk. Any guesses???? :nails:

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[Wanting-a-girl]

No nub darn it :( when's ur gender scan?!

[6bluewant1pink]

wantingagirl i am not sure gender scan maybe late June/early July.

[Wanting-a-girl]

The anticipation! Lol I'm still very hopeful it's a girl

[wilma_five]

first pic, maybe a girly nub?
Do you have the video to show?

[6bluewant1pink]

Thanks Wilma for a guess (just the thought of MAYBE a Girl feels good right now, i've never heard Maybe a girl in all these years. I do not want to get my hopes up real high, but need to at least have some hope till i find out for sure. Oh no video i wish i did get one :(

[dloui128]

I think on the first pic I see the nub and it looks girly

[rabbit]

No nub that I can clearly make out, but I hope this is your girl!

[pebmcpd7]

Awh damn it, I can't tell from your pics!!! can you go get an earlier scan, that's what I am doing on Wednesday.

[Adia]

Awh damn it, I can't tell from your pics!!! can you go get an earlier scan, that's what I am doing on Wednesday.

I'll be anxiously checking to see if you hear girl!! I have all my fingers crossed for you!!

[Adia]

wantingagirl i am not sure gender scan maybe late June/early July.

Really?? I don't think I can wait that long!!:wink:

I'm kidding...June and July sound so far away, but they aren't!! Let's keep hoping their is a girl in there!!

I am sorry, I have no guess, I am terrible at seeing anything on an u/s!

[6bluewant1pink]

pebmcp6 if i do go for an earlier scan i have to find a place to go to. I do not think my area has them. I will have to travel an hour to go.

I am trying to not get my hopes up real high but it feels good to hear maybe girl lol.

Good luck tomorrow:fx:

[Mrs_P]

Could be wrong but my first thought was girl nub in the first pic x

[Jadis]

I know exactly how you feel. The not knowing is agony! Sadly, I don't see any nubs in your shots. I will tell you though, that my placenta was anterior left at my 12 week ultrasound and I'm 6 weeks away from meeting my daughter. Good luck to you, I've got a good feeling for you and I'm crossing my fingers for you.

[wilma_five]

Maybe nice te know, my placenta is anterior!

[5boysandcounting]

I think I can see a girls nub in pic 1 too!

Also my placenta is anterior this time too - it was posterior with my boys. I know probably just a coincidence but makes me wonder.

I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you that you get your girl xxx

[ELP]

If I was given a £1 and had to guess from the skull I would go pink:agree: of course I'd prefer a decent nub pic but for fun!!! best of luck with your next scan:fx:

[atomic sagebrush]

Anterior vs. posterior does not matter but left vs right, may. GL!!!!

[3boys]

I don't think that picture 1 shows the whole nub but If I had to put a bet on it, I would bet girl too xx

[HopingWishingPraying]

I think the first and third pics have a girly-ish looking nub in them, and the skull looks girly too. Good luck!

[mommymachine]

I really think I see a girly nub in the first pic.

[6bluewant1pink]

May I ask to the ladies that said skull looks girly how can you tell? Thanks

[Wanting-a-girl]

Skull shape is 50/50 don't put too much faith Into that...l but my gut tells me your getting your little girl! I can't wait til you find out!:)

[6bluewant1pink]

My niece just found out hour ago she having a boy. Her placenta always anterior right. They are very excited because her boyfriend has 3 girls from past relationship. He finally gets his boy! I feel bad having his hopes down telling him last wks look at your odds you have 3girls I have 6 boys what's our odds of opposite gender. This give me a little more hope.

[luckylass]

That looks like a girlie nub to me too in the first picture. Fingers and toes crossed for your little girl.

[atomic sagebrush]

I agree first pic does look girly (but I am no expert at all)

I do want to tell you, I know the skull stuff is unreliable BUT my DD's skull was and is, really very different looking than the boys. Her whole head is shaped differently. The interesting thing is she really does look like them in terms of facial features, so it has to be the underlying structure and not that she is just different looking.

[atomic sagebrush]

Just to elaborate after looking at your pics - because I think your baby's skull looks girly too.

my DD has a much flatter face and sloping forehead than my boys, and the back of her skull is longer. My boys have much more pointier faces, their foreheads are rounded out instead of back, they have rounder skulls and the back of their skull goes all the way down their neck, whereas my daughter's skull bulge on the back of her head, sort of only reaches about halfway. Her skull is shaped like a loaf of sourdough bread here is a picture if you don't know what I'm talking about Sourdough Round Loaf™ - $4.00 : The Australian Bakery Cafe -, The BEST Aussie Meat Pies in America! (http://www.australianbakerycafe.com/index.php?main_page=product_info&cPath=66&products_id=219&zenid=fvhn3gg0ga8sja13hp63e9v061)

I haven't studied male vs. female skulls or anything so I'm probably just talking out of my butt LOL but both my husband and I noticed it and he doesn't believe in any of this. She also has way way way fatter legs than the boys do, altho that wouldn't show up on ultrasound I thought it was interesting.

[6bluewant1pink]

My sister friend saw my ultrasound pic and says Here daughters head looked just like how my baby head looks. I am staying hopeful till other wise.
Here was boy #6 pic. I think this baby does look different than his (praying so) lol.

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[6bluewant1pink]

Ladies ob admitted me in hospital yesterday for high blood pressure and sugar issues. Also they are trying to figure out what's causing my bad sciatica pain. I did get ultrasound today at 14wks along but what did baby do keep legs tightly closed so we couldn't see the goods lol. I know this means nothing but my boys were always legs wide open lol.

[Wanting-a-girl]

Hope you are feeling okay! I had an u/s at 15 weeks and his legs were closed and he did it again at 19 weeks then opened his legs and there was a penis lol... Anyways I think yours is a girl... That's what my intuition says!

Hope you get better soon and all is okay! Will you be getting another u/s soon?

[6bluewant1pink]

Thanks wantingagirl I am feeling better. On pain meds and bed rest is helping since I am running around after little ones all day at home. Diet sucks lol. I guess my next scan is at 20wks.

[HopingWishingPraying]

I was one of the ones who said I thought it looked like a girly skull. I spent ages obsessing over skulls for a week or so when I had my half-way scan. In the end I have given up guessing on foreheads as I got so confused. I thought I could see a difference for a while but in the end saw lots that could go either way or ones that I thought were girls turn out to be boys etc. So I give up about foreheads. The thing I personally think I see a difference on is the back of the head. Like Atomic was saying, with boys quite often I think the bulk on the back of the head seems to extend further down, to the nape of the neck. Girls often seem to have a more round, less bulky back of the head that doesnt extend as far down. I think boys often seem to have a more oblong shaped head, partly due to the extra bulk on the back of the head, whereas to me girls often seem to have a smaller head that is more round overall rather than sort of oval shaped. That is my totally non scientific observations after looking at lots of scans - but with nothing else to really base it on. It doesnt seem to apply all of the time... I am disheartened as I just saw my friend's scan this morning and her baby had a very rounded back of the head like my baby.... but her baby is a boy. I hope it works for you though (and me!)

[6bluewant1pink]

Ok ladies I set up an early ultrasound for Friday. I will be a day away from 16 weeks. I am so nervous and scared. Wondering if I will back out at the last minute :nails:

[Jadis]

Oooooh! I can't wait to hear, I'll be stalking. I've got a good feeling for you!

[Wanting-a-girl]

Omg I'm soooooo excited! You have to find out sometime anyway so might as well be sooner than later... I hated the constant wondering what this baby was and when I found out what he was I was just happy to finally know :)

I believe you will see a little va-jay-jay

Omg Friday is soooooooooo far away! The anticipation Is going to be killing me lol

[pebmcpd7]

Ohhh I am soooooo stalking, hope you get your wee girl!!!!!

[6bluewant1pink]

Thanks ladies, I am praying for girl but preparing myself to hear boy since that's all I've known to ever hear. I will keep you posted if I follow through lol. I know it would be best to know early to prepare myself better.

[Mummyx2]

Good luck I will be checking in to see how u get on xx

[6bluewant1pink]

My husband seem more hopeful than me. He is going around telling friends/family this is a girl,without us knowing for sure! I know he wants his daddy's little girl,even though he tells me he wants another boy lol.

[crazyladyneedsababy]

stalking, I so hope this is your girl :)

[hlmcdaniels]

I have to say girl!!

[hlmcdaniels]

My husband seem more hopeful than me. He is going around telling friends/family this is a girl,without us knowing for sure! I know he wants his daddy's little girl,even though he tells me he wants another boy lol.

sounds exactly like my dh!!

[luckylass]

Will be keeping fingers and toes crossed you hear pink. :)

[Pandora1]

Here's hoping you hear pink!

[Blue-Blue-Pink?]

Sending pink dust!

[Wanting-a-girl]

Omg it's almost Friday! It's Wednesday night for me so I don't know your time zone but anticipation is killing me :) can't wait to hear

[pebmcpd7]

Still stalking!!! LOL

[6bluewant1pink]

Thanks ladies for your support! I pray this is finally my baby girl I so longed for . I did have unexpected ultrasound today at doctors due to my doctor not being able to heart beat on doppler I was so scared. So right away heart beat was found. Tech was willing to tell me sex if she could see anything obvious. So she did different attempts to see, no my stubborn baby had legs kind of closed but not tightly like at 14 weeks. I thought I saw something tech said it was cord between the baby legs! So I pray Friday ultrasound baby will show the goods or it will be a waste of over $100. Oh baby wasn't as active as my boys,very lazy baby lol.

[Wanting-a-girl]

Boooooooo lol that sucks that baby wouldn't show the goods... It better on Friday!

[6bluewant1pink]

Boooooooo lol that sucks that baby wouldn't show the goods... It better on Friday!

No little one won't let me know for some reason lol. My other kids never showed off like this, their legs always been wide open lol.
I was gonna wait to do the scan at 20weeks which is set for July 1st but guess I will give it another try lol.

[6bluewant1pink]

Here's a pic of my stubborn baby lol.
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[hlmcdaniels]

Closed legs are very good and in my family all the girls always had their leg crossed at first!! Sending tons of pink dust your way:)

[crazyladyneedsababy]

awh booooooooooo to not finding out but at least its so soon till your next scan it wont matter, still stalking xxx

[6bluewant1pink]

Should I even go tomorrow, so nervous :nails::nails::nails::nails::nails:

[Wanting-a-girl]

yes you are going!!!!!! i have beed waiting too long ;)

how many more hours!!!!!!!!?????????

dont let the closed legs play tricks on you... my baby had closed legs too

[6bluewant1pink]

yes you are going!!!!!! i have beed waiting too long ;)

how many more hours!!!!!!!!?????????

dont let the closed legs play tricks on you... my baby had closed legs too

Lol, I am to nervous. I know boys can hide their goods lol. I'm pretty sure what I'll hear. It's at 9am eastern, but it will take 1 hour to get back home or longer depending on if I stop anywhere afterwards, I should update by noon tomorrow. I'm thinking about backing out lol.

[BabyGirl4Me]

6blue - my scan is sat and at this point I am ready for closure one way or another. I feel anxious but I can't stand the not knowing anymore. If you really don't think you can do it, don't force yourself, but think about how the closure would impact you. I can't live with the anxiety of not knowing anymore so Sat can't come soon enough for me. Good luck and hope you hear GIRL tomorrow.

[6bluewant1pink]

6blue - my scan is sat and at this point I am ready for closure one way or another. I feel anxious but I can't stand the not knowing anymore. If you really don't think you can do it, don't force yourself, but think about how the closure would impact you. I can't live with the anxiety of not knowing anymore so Sat can't come soon enough for me. Good luck and hope you hear GIRL tomorrow.

Thanks, but yes I do need closure. If it's in fact another boy I am not gonna tell family/friends so soon,no one will be happy for me :( no matter what he will be loved. I just will be heart broken to have never been able to have a girl. I wish you to the best of luck!

[pebmcpd7]

oh good luck to you all!!! Looking forward to hearing your news!!

[crazyladyneedsababy]

Should I even go tomorrow, so nervous :nails::nails::nails::nails::nails:

yes :cheer:

[Wanting-a-girl]

i think your just soooo prone to hearing boy now that thats all you think you will hear... ive heard boy 4 times now and the thought of having a girl seems impossible but in reality its not...

i am confident that its a girl cause of your ramzis cause my friends was opposite and hers is a boy


goood your the same timezone as me lol!!!!!!!! i will be thinking of you all morning!!!!!!!!!

[Mrs_P]

No little one won't let me know for some reason lol. My other kids never showed off like this, their legs always been wide open lol.
I was gonna wait to do the scan at 20weeks which is set for July 1st but guess I will give it another try lol.

typical isn't it, your baby seems as awkward as mine. I waited 9 years to hear "yay its a girl", even thought i was on to a sure thing this time round as the genetics test said girl and so did the nub shot, i turned up for my 20 week scan so excited to hear those words but no. So far i have had three scans where she has refused to show us properly and all i have got is "i think its a girl but don't go buying pink on just this scan!". They were done at 20, 21 and 34 weeks - awkward little miss, hope yours gives you a good shot tomorrow

[Wanting-a-girl]

my friend who just had a baby girl had i think 5 u/s with closed legs and found out two weeks before she was born that she was a she... but when your paying for private and your baby has crossed legs they will try to get them open unlike most diagnostic u/s ... i find most of those techs to be soooo bitchy

[pebmcpd7]

My tech wriggled around with the scanner on my belly to get my wee man to show his jewels, I don't think he liked been poked at, so he moved!!!!

[desperate4blue]

My tech wriggled around with the scanner on my belly to get my wee man to show his jewels, I don't think he liked been poked at, so he moved!!!!

Hi Pebmcp6

Have u swayed this time or have u previously swayed when u had ur boys.
I realy wish u all the best. I have three girls and think will I ever hear boy?

[pebmcpd7]

Hi Pebmcp6

Have u swayed this time or have u previously swayed when u had ur boys.
I realy wish u all the best. I have three girls and think will I ever hear boy?

This was my first sway. I never really minded every time a had a boy, but this time because I swayed and tried everything threw at me, I took it bad and it is my last!!!! I have to persuade DH to try again, but I had to persuade this time so I don't think it will wash with him!!!!
Hope you hear blue soon!!!!

[6bluewant1pink]

Sad crying, what's wrong with me!!! :tissue:

[Wanting-a-girl]

Don't cry! Your gonna know soon then you will be able to prepare yourself mentally no matter what the outcome!

[ELP]

Todays the day isnt it?!! WHat time is your scan or how many hours from now as I'm UK so will have to count hours lol:) Best of luck :luck::luck:

[vickyaust]

Fx for you.

[wilma_five]

GL today but I think we are gonna hear some pink news ;)

[6bluewant1pink]

Todays the day isnt it?!! WHat time is your scan or how many hours from now as I'm UK so will have to count hours lol:) Best of luck :luck::luck:
Thanks I go at 9 that's in less than 3hours :nails:

[Wanting-a-girl]

Omg yay! Can't wait to hear! My fingers are very tightly crossed for you... I would give you my pink dust but I don't think I have any lol

[6bluewant1pink]

Thanks ladies! I'm starting to feel sick all of a sudden lol.:nails:

[Wanting-a-girl]

Lol I felt sick before I went for this one too lol... Try to relax... I know you won't but u can try ;)

[iluvmy4sons]

Hope you hear pink.

[ELP]

Thanks I go at 9 that's in less than 3hours :nails:

Accoriding to my calculations you should either be in there! On your way! Or maybe even know!!!!! No matter who you see in there I hope they steal your heart:HH: xxxx

[ELP]

Accoriding to my calculations you should either be in there! On your way! Or maybe even know!!!!! No matter who you see in there I hope they steal your heart:HH: xxxx

Nope I'm early, maybe 30 minutes to go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So excited for you:luck:

[hlmcdaniels]

praying for pink for you!! I will be waiting for your update!!

[BabyGirl4Me]

praying for pink for you!! I will be waiting for your update!!

Ditto! Best of :luck: for :XX:

[Wanting-a-girl]

Stalking!

[wilma_five]

So am I ;)

[mommymachine]

This is intense! Thinking/praying for you!

[Wanting-a-girl]

where are you!!!!!! im dying to know!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[crazyladyneedsababy]

stalking too!!!

[Wanting-a-girl]

omg where are you!!!!!!!!!! you are killing me!!!!! lol

[HopingWishingPraying]

Midnight here in Australia so I am off to bed but am checking first thing in the morning. Hope it's pink news for you!!! Fingers crossed!

[wilma_five]

Come on ;)

[Navywife620]

Stalking too!!!

[Wanting-a-girl]

she must be busy "pink" shopping :) fingers crossed!!!!

[afy]

Stalking you too!!! I really hope you hear pink and even better the lil unborn melts your heart!

[OneLastDream]

I really hope you heard pink x

[pebmcpd7]

Come on 6blue the suspense is killing me, hope your out celebrating!!!!

[diamond13]

Stalking lol

[Mrs_P]

Me too any news???????

[6bluewant1pink]

Well i was out celebrating and shopping for boy #7 Ashton :(
I was shocked as soon as tech started ultrasound she yelled out "It's a boy". Does my pics look like a boy? It looks different from my boys i think cause his boy part is smaller lol. I know it's a boy why am i even questioning it :( I am pretty upset and trying to handle this the best way i can. I cried right away, i am in shock i know i will cry some more. My aunt went with me for support. I haven't told me DH, or kids. My kids were excited when i got home asking mommy is it a girl. I said idk baby legs were closed again. I am scared to tell anyone no one will be happy for me. My MIL comment when she found out i am pregnant oh find out sex early so i will know to start shopping right away wow seriously:mad: Well off to rest and get over the shock. I do wish i would have not rushed and didn't do a good sway. But i get what God wants me to have i must accept it even though i can not understand WHY i couldn't be able to have at least 1 girl that's all i ever wanted :tissue: So much pointed to girl :( I may try again in 4 years or so idk.

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[Wanting-a-girl]

Omg that didn't turn out like I thought! But I love the name ashton! My little cousin found out she is having a boy today and she want tos use Ashton for his name....
The potty shot isn't great but the profile shot shows the bits I believe

I'm not brave enough to try again.... DH is getting fixed when this guy is born cause I know if he doesn't I will try again lol

Take some time to take it in...I've only heard boy 4 times and havnt been dissapointed altho sad that I won't have a girl I would imagine being upset if it was boy number seven...

Congrats he is beautiful and I'm sure hes going to be a great addition :)

[Mrs_P]

oh hunny am so sorry you didn't hear pink but congratulations on another beautiful little boy. I do see what you mean though, not the best boy shots i've seen - how far long are you?

[6bluewant1pink]

oh hunny am so sorry you didn't hear pink but congratulations on another beautiful little boy. I do see what you mean though, not the best boy shots i've seen - how far long are you?

thanks i am 15wks 6days.

[pebmcpd7]

6blue, sorry you didn't hear girl. I totally understand how you feel!!!!
I am OK with it now... But no one knows I am pregnant yet, it will hit me when people start saying 'hope this is your girl'. It hits me when I hear someone had their girl after 2 boys etc, but I know he has been sent to me for a reason and I love him already!!!!

[crazyladyneedsababy]

hey hun im so sorry it wasn't your girl :( but congratulations on being a 7 boy mummy, that's amazing :) you will be well looked after. I agree they are not the best potty shots :bighug:

[hlmcdaniels]

I am sorry you didn't hear girl but for some reason I am not fully convinced by those potty shots..they don't look like either of my boys(I just compared) maybe hold off before buying any more blue until your 20 week scan! Hugs

[atomic sagebrush]

I"m so sorry but congrats on a healthy boy. 7th sons are very lucky!!

[BabyGirl4Me]

Gosh hun, I honestly don't know what to say right now but I hope you are at least feeling some closure now. You seem to be taking the news far better than I would for whatever that's worth.

Sorry, I really don't know what to say at all. I will pray for peace for you and your family. You will always get all the love and support you can soak up from us. Please stay with us during and after your pregnancy, we will want updates. :HH:

[Gimmeapinkone]

Congratulations on your son! Sorry you didn't hear girl but I'm sure he will be an awesome addition to your family x

[vickyaust]

I am not an expert but don't think those pics are overly convincing. My friend was recently told boy at 16 weeks and girl at 20 weeks. Just gave birth to a girl.

[ELP]

Oh hun, I'm sorry you didnt hear pink, I was so excited for you. But it sounds like this little man is already absolutely adored and will be a beautiful addition to the family xxx

And for the record you and peb have my full envy as peb already knows, 7 boys!! You lucky mares!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[6bluewant1pink]

Thanks ladies, I am truly trying to be strong. I had a break down early this morning. I couldn't sleep good. Went on Facebook saw my friend update she has 2 boys now just found out its a girl. I log off as soon as I did I got a text it's a girl! I had a strong feeling she was having a girl. I am happy for her but it at a bad time for me. This gender disappointment is kicking my butt. I was trying to be strong but had to let it out.
I secretly hope July 1st I get a shock it's a girl, the part does not look like my boys. But I doubt it it I know it will be a boy, I am boy doomed.

[hlmcdaniels]

I am praying you do get that shock.. it didn't look like my boys either, there is still hope!

[lovemy4]

I'm so sorry you didn't hear girl, but 7 of one kind is pretty amazing! The potty shot isn't great but the side shot is 100% boy. Love the name you chose :)

[pebmcpd7]

Thanks ladies, I am truly trying to be strong. I had a break down early this morning. I couldn't sleep good. Went on Facebook saw my friend update she has 2 boys now just found out its a girl. I log off as soon as I did I got a text it's a girl! I had a strong feeling she was having a girl. I am happy for her but it at a bad time for me. This gender disappointment is kicking my butt. I was trying to be strong but had to let it out.
I secretly hope July 1st I get a shock it's a girl, the part does not look like my boys. But I doubt it it I know it will be a boy, I am boy doomed.

I was the same after my scan, and hoped it was wrong!!! At my anomaly scan you could see plain he was a boy!!!
I am now dreading telling people I am pregnant!!! Hope your feeling better today! It does get better!!!
Can you talk to anyone about your GD. I can't, it is not something that I have ever said to anybody before!!!

[Dana-Alicia]

I'm sorry you didn't hear girl. It is unfair to not get at least 1 girl out of 7. I totally agree with you. I'm sure he will be so special though, he will melt your heart once he's born. I really hope you'll next one is a girl, you (and other parents of big one gender families) deserve it so much!!!

[Lizzie Lizard]

6blue I am sorry that you didn't hear girl today. I was pulling for you too. It is completely unfair, but unfortunately how life can be sometimes. I think you are handling it beautifully! I agree, you are having your magnificent 7! That is amazing!!! Lots of love to you and your family. xoxo

[mumof6]

oh i know how you feel - hugs :(
we are calling boy #7 Ashton too!!
it's worse when someone close to you is having that girl too isnt it.

i'm hoping dh will forget that i promised to have my tubes tied after this baby is born - just want ONE little girl
we just bought a 12 seater bus so hopefully in a few years he'll agree to #8

i have no advice because i know how hard it is and i still just cant accept it - feel free to pm me anytime

[Jadis]

Oh my goodness, I'm sorry you didn't hear girl. Congratulations on a perfect little man. Wishing you peace.

[crazyladyneedsababy]

hey mrs im just dropping past to see how you are, been thinking of you xxx

[6bluewant1pink]

hey mrs im just dropping past to see how you are, been thinking of you xxx

Hey, thanks for checking up on me! I am hanging in there. It seems to be better than the first 2days of knowing. I just hate dumb comments everyday I hear I hope it's a girl. My husband cousin wife came up to me(she has a boy then a girl) at my son graduation saying what you naming her. I said idk baby gender yet ultrasound in July. She said well your husband said its a girl. I said idk yet. She says I know you want a girl, if you saying idk it must be a boy, and I may be only made to have boys. I wanted to beat her down, I'm sick of dumb comments. The wrong person gonna make me explode!

[Wanting-a-girl]

omg i think i would have beaten her!!!! i have quite the bitch personality tho lol

that is terrible...

[crazyladyneedsababy]

Hey, thanks for checking up on me! I am hanging in there. It seems to be better than the first 2days of knowing. I just hate dumb comments everyday I hear I hope it's a girl. My husband cousin wife came up to me(she has a boy then a girl) at my son graduation saying what you naming her. I said idk baby gender yet ultrasound in July. She said well your husband said its a girl. I said idk yet. She says I know you want a girl, if you saying idk it must be a boy, and I may be only made to have boys. I wanted to beat her down, I'm sick of dumb comments. The wrong person gonna make me explode!

arghhhhhhhhhhh some people are so insensitive and it is always people that are blessed with both genders or that have no children at all.
Im glad your getting on ok. It may be better just to tell people, make a joke about it saying ok I have 7 now, I feel like the luckiest lady alive, 7 BOYS!!! that's doc, grumpy, happy sleepy ,sneezy, bashful and dopey....next one is bound to be snow white, right?

I really feel for you hun and I hope one day you get your dream. If I ever win the lottery I would happily pay for PGD or microsort (if your not for pgd) for people like yourself who deserve to hear its a girl so much :bighug:

[pebmcpd7]

OMG this is what I am dreading when I tell people I am pregnant!!! I am so gonna hate these flippant comments!!!!
I think people are starting to notice my belly too... No one has said straight out are you pregnant, they are still unsure, I may have just put on weight LOL... It is coming soon though...

[Wanting-a-girl]

When I announced I was having a boy via Facebook ... I said I'm gonna be an all boy mom and couldn't be happier :D there is no sadness here! So if anyone has any stupid comments keep them to yourself cause I will not defend my child because of his gender!

And I havnt had any comments


But... When I went to the hospital two weeks ago to get checked cause I was having pains the OB on call asked me what I was having and had already I'm like all boys and she's like ahhhhh that sucks! Lol I'm like no not really lol

[6bluewant1pink]

arghhhhhhhhhhh some people are so insensitive and it is always people that are blessed with both genders or that have no children at all.
Im glad your getting on ok. It may be better just to tell people, make a joke about it saying ok I have 7 now, I feel like the luckiest lady alive, 7 BOYS!!! that's doc, grumpy, happy sleepy ,sneezy, bashful and dopey....next one is bound to be snow white, right?

I really feel for you hun and I hope one day you get your dream. If I ever win the lottery I would happily pay for PGD or microsort (if your not for pgd) for people like yourself who deserve to hear its a girl so much :bighug:
Thanks so sweet of you to say! I wish i could hit the lottery I would jump to get the ht whatever need to get a girl! Oh I always said if I won lottery house,car,jewerly, none of that would be 1st on my list getting my girl I always prayed for would be!I too would share my blessings with other women like you who are so special to me on here, great support love you all :hugs:

[6bluewant1pink]

peb I hate comments,they make it feel like this is a disease or something! Here I am getting to the point of peace and they try to get me back to being very hurt and upset. I refuse to get this down again,move on focus on my healthy baby boy coming. Can't change what's meant to be. I'm pretty sure a year or so after baby boy comes I will be wanting to try again:think: lol. But next time I'm starving lol.

[6bluewant1pink]

When I announced I was having a boy via Facebook ... I said I'm gonna be an all boy mom and couldn't be happier :D there is no sadness here! So if anyone has any stupid comments keep them to yourself cause I will not defend my child because of his gender!

And I havnt had any comments


But... When I went to the hospital two weeks ago to get checked cause I was having pains the OB on call asked me what I was having and had already I'm like all boys and she's like ahhhhh that sucks! Lol I'm like no not really lol

Not even a congrats! My ob already said 6boys if this isn't a girl I am not tieing my tubes CORRECT I am not :)

[atomic sagebrush]

I really think doctors need sensitivity training for GD. After my scan with DS 4 where I had just heard boy and was crying about it in front of the tech and everything, my doctor walked in and said, "it looks like a girl to me - oh just kidding." That was about the worst 5 seconds of my life.

[pebmcpd7]

peb I hate comments,they make it feel like this is a disease or something! Here I am getting to the point of peace and they try to get me back to being very hurt and upset. I refuse to get this down again,move on focus on my healthy baby boy coming. Can't change what's meant to be. I'm pretty sure a year or so after baby boy comes I will be wanting to try again:think: lol. But next time I'm starving lol.

LOL, I am gonna starve too!!!!
I am already looking at loads of exercise!!!

[6bluewant1pink]

I really think doctors need sensitivity training for GD. After my scan with DS 4 where I had just heard boy and was crying about it in front of the tech and everything, my doctor walked in and said, "it looks like a girl to me - oh just kidding." That was about the worst 5 seconds of my life.

That was rude of your doctor!

[6bluewant1pink]

LOL, I am gonna starve too!!!!
I am already looking at loads of exercise!!!

See this baby was conceived during my break month. Ain't gonna lie I ate Chinese food,pizza hut around days conceiving. My friend whose having girl after 2 boys ate a ton with boys around time conceiving. With her girl she and her husband were having marriage problems, she was depressed she hardly ate she told me she would drink fluids that's it mostly, gonna do that next time diet is very important I am learning!

[pebmcpd7]

I really think doctors need sensitivity training for GD. After my scan with DS 4 where I had just heard boy and was crying about it in front of the tech and everything, my doctor walked in and said, "it looks like a girl to me - oh just kidding." That was about the worst 5 seconds of my life.

The horrible person.

At my anomaly scan this time, I said, is it still boy?? The tech said yes, what have you at home, I said 6 boys and she just went, AWH no!!!

[Caradana]

Totally agree on the sensitivity training!!!

[crazyladyneedsababy]

sadly I didn't win the 80 million on the euromillions lottery this week ladies, but good news is nobody did so next weeks a rollover :)

It would be so lovely to have money and be able to help people that really deserve it.

How are things now, have you told anyone? xxx

[mumof6]

if people just kept their mouths shut GD would be that little bit easier to deal with i think.
do people just think we love taking their stupid comments like we're freaks or sad and pathetic for having 7 boys OMG

everyone always has an opinion and when you've heard BOY 7 times it's not easy trying to keep it together and look like we are thrilled when all we wanted to hear was "IT'S A GIRL" just ONE time
and when you say you dont know the gender they think you're lying and really having a boy but dont want to say it.

will your dh's agree to more babies? mine says no and i did promise to have my tubes tied after this baby but im hoping he doesnt even bring the subject up because i desperately want one more try

[pebmcpd7]

if people just kept their mouths shut GD would be that little bit easier to deal with i think.
do people just think we love taking their stupid comments like we're freaks or sad and pathetic for having 7 boys OMG

everyone always has an opinion and when you've heard BOY 7 times it's not easy trying to keep it together and look like we are thrilled when all we wanted to hear was "IT'S A GIRL" just ONE time
and when you say you dont know the gender they think you're lying and really having a boy but dont want to say it.

will your dh's agree to more babies? mine says no and i did promise to have my tubes tied after this baby but im hoping he doesnt even bring the subject up because i desperately want one more try


This was our last too!!! But I think I am gonna beg him to go just one last time!!!

[6bluewant1pink]

sadly I didn't win the 80 million on the euromillions lottery this week ladies, but good news is nobody did so next weeks a rollover :)

It would be so lovely to have money and be able to help people that really deserve it.


How are things now, have you told anyone? xxx

Lol, no haven't told anyone yet. My sister keep asking I told her I find out next month. I tell everyone I find out next month. I guess I'll have to be treated like baby boy is a disease next month, and start to going off on folks :mad:

[6bluewant1pink]

if people just kept their mouths shut GD would be that little bit easier to deal with i think.
do people just think we love taking their stupid comments like we're freaks or sad and pathetic for having 7 boys OMG

everyone always has an opinion and when you've heard BOY 7 times it's not easy trying to keep it together and look like we are thrilled when all we wanted to hear was "IT'S A GIRL" just ONE time
and when you say you dont know the gender they think you're lying and really having a boy but dont want to say it.

will your dh's agree to more babies? mine says no and i did promise to have my tubes tied after this baby but im hoping he doesnt even bring the subject up because i desperately want one more try

the comments make healing worst. The main comment oh keep trying, are you gonna have more I'll say Im gonna have 7 more lol. another dumb comment aww another wild boy. my husband actually said no more, well he said that after #5 our 2nd child together lol. I did tell him I was gonna get the tubal but decided not to. I am gonna get iud. I would say talk it over with him before deciding on having it done for sure.

[retrolove1]

Sorry you didn't get to hear pink. I can't imagine how you feel, Im desperate for a girl after only two boys. I really hope that you will get your girl one day.
I also hate the pressure that family and friends give you over having the opposite sex, yes it would be lovely but if not then the next boy will be loved all the same.

I love the name Ashton, ds2 is called that and he is a right little cheeky monkey. X x x

[mumof6]

it's the smallest things that set off the GD - if people just would leave it be it would be a hell of a lot easier for us to cope.
i'm always asked if i'll have any more? sometimes i say no way and others i say maybe we'll see.

i have no intention of having my tubes tied i was planning on iud and having one more try at convincing dh in about 3 or 4 years time with #8 i think he will cave since he has been like this with all of our kids - he only ever wanted 2 so any more after that i have had a struggle to get him to agree to ttc.

we have told everyone we arent finding out - i have my anatomy scan next thurs to confirm our boy and plan to go on a little shopping spree after since my youngest ds will be in childcare and all my other boys will be at school so i have the day to myself.

I hope and pray that one day us 7 boy mummys will hear "it's a girl" after waiting so long and seeing everyone else get baby girls i think we damn well deserve it - it's one thing to hear boy 3 or 4 times but to hear it 7 times is a real kick in the backside and is heartbreaking to the point that not everyone understands what it is like. I feel hopeless and I feel like a total failure because i've managed to disappoint not only myself and my dh but my whole family because i cannot produce that one girl that everyone is expecting of me.

[6bluewant1pink]

it's the smallest things that set off the GD - if people just would leave it be it would be a hell of a lot easier for us to cope.
i'm always asked if i'll have any more? sometimes i say no way and others i say maybe we'll see.

i have no intention of having my tubes tied i was planning on iud and having one more try at convincing dh in about 3 or 4 years time with #8 i think he will cave since he has been like this with all of our kids - he only ever wanted 2 so any more after that i have had a struggle to get him to agree to ttc.

we have told everyone we arent finding out - i have my anatomy scan next thurs to confirm our boy and plan to go on a little shopping spree after since my youngest ds will be in childcare and all my other boys will be at school so i have the day to myself.

I hope and pray that one day us 7 boy mummys will hear "it's a girl" after waiting so long and seeing everyone else get baby girls i think we damn well deserve it - it's one thing to hear boy 3 or 4 times but to hear it 7 times is a real kick in the backside and is heartbreaking to the point that not everyone understands what it is like. I feel hopeless and I feel like a total failure because i've managed to disappoint not only myself and my dh but my whole family because i cannot produce that one girl that everyone is expecting of me.

Omg you nailed it, I feel the same put me to tears no one knows how deep the pain gets. I also feel like a failure :(

[mumof6]

nothing will ever make that pain go away besides having that girl - sometimes i think i'm selfish and sometimes i think the NEED is so strong that someone is playing some cruel trick on me and doing this to me on purpose iykwim? probably irrational but a very real feeling.
some can make peace with it but i just cant - i'm an emotional wreck and dh gets so angry at me.

all i can offer is *Hugs* and the knowing that there are at least 2 other people here knowing exactly what i am going through makes me feel like i'm not entirely going through this alone and i have somewhere to sound off when things just dont make sense

[6bluewant1pink]

nothing will ever make that pain go away besides having that girl - sometimes i think i'm selfish and sometimes i think the NEED is so strong that someone is playing some cruel trick on me and doing this to me on purpose iykwim? probably irrational but a very real feeling.
some can make peace with it but i just cant - i'm an emotional wreck and dh gets so angry at me.

all i can offer is *Hugs* and the knowing that there are at least 2 other people here knowing exactly what i am going through makes me feel like i'm not entirely going through this alone and i have somewhere to sound off when things just dont make sense

Aww I know what you mean! I want a girl so bad it's so hard to let go. Plenty of people tell me give up it's not meant to be. That hurts to hear. I do feel like someone put root or something on me lol. All I hear adopt a girl,is it really that easy? It's an emotional rollercoaster I do not wanna go through, I must say I was actually adopted but never felt like an equal compared to her biological kids. So no mother daughter bond, that why I want one with my own daughter. I want to conceive and carry and birth my own daughter, hope that don't sound bad. I pray us mom's of 7 boys finally get our long awaited girls we so deserve! Glad to know I am not alone.

[harleyquinn]

I don't want to sound like Debbie Downer but I too am boy#7 (if we count my stepson, who now tells us he is gay but thats neither here nor there LOL) and I am just at that point where I think....me and DH could keep having babies until kingdom come, and each one WILL be a boy. So I have given up. If I do have another one, I know in my heart its gonna be a boy, and thats something that I am deciding NOW that I am going to be ok with because I refuse to keep letting this hurt me. I always think of Jerry Lee Lewis who had something like 12 boys?? and I think that would be me. I know people want to have a lot of hope etc, but I just don't have it anymore and instead if I want another, I am KNOWING RIGHT NOW, it WILL be a boy. I just know it.

[Wanting-a-girl]

Harley did you find out your is a boy already?

[harleyquinn]

Yes my baby is a boy, I had that Verifi test a couple months ago. I also had 2 ultrasounds that tech said girl before I got a good shot a couple weeks ago showing boy...but I have been very unfazed by gender this time around...I expected a boy and will continue to expect boys if I am lucky enough to have another :) Contrary to what the general public thinks...I can't just decide I am going to have a girl and voila...produce one ;) So I am just going to hunker down into boy-mom mode and enjoy myself.

[6bluewant1pink]

20 week ultrasound Monday, I dear to ask gender, which I already know!

[Wanting-a-girl]

might as well get a nice clear look of his bits so then there is no doubt :)

i had a dream the other day my baby came out a girl and i was super upset it wasnt the boy i have been anticipating ... weird as that sounds lol... anyways now i have been worried cause they wernt able to show me his bits at my 20 week cause he closed his legs ...

anyways my point is double check so you dont have doubt

how are you doing? any GD?

[6bluewant1pink]

might as well get a nice clear look of his bits so then there is no doubt :)

i had a dream the other day my baby came out a girl and i was super upset it wasnt the boy i have been anticipating ... weird as that sounds lol... anyways now i have been worried cause they wernt able to show me his bits at my 20 week cause he closed his legs ...

anyways my point is double check so you dont have doubt

how are you doing? any GD?

I guess I will ask to see his package but I know it will be very clear he will have legs wide open a show off like his brothers were lol. I know it's all boy and can't doubt it. I am doing better actually well most days but I can't lie I have my sad days but more good thank the Lord. I think Monday May not be a good day I keep telling myself a healthy baby is all that matters. I am trying to be strong. Why do I feel like sometimes wanting November to hurry up have Ashton and try again hopefully for a girl I know sounds selfish I hate thinking that when I should be enjoying this pregnancy. I hate the fact of announcing soon to everyone and the dumb comments to come. I know if I don't announce soon I will hear yeah you know it's a boy and just saying you don't know yet, I've heard that a month ago from my husband cousin wife I wanted to beat the you know what out of her! She got her boy&girl and never will feel GD! It sucks!

Enough of me how are you feeling?

[Wanting-a-girl]

Well I am very happy to here your having more good days then bad :)

When are you gonna strt trying again? Right away?

[Wanting-a-girl]

Try not to let people get you down... I thnk people like to get under people's skin so don't give them that satisfaction

[6bluewant1pink]

Well I am very happy to here your having more good days then bad :)

When are you gonna strt trying again? Right away?

No time soon I hope! Lol. But all psychics said within a year after Ashton birth. I really want to wait at least 4 or 5 years when I am older 35 or 36, my mom had all girls ages 33,35,& me at 36. I definitely wanna be more cautious about what I put into my mouth around the time of ttc definitely strict diet!!!

[6bluewant1pink]

Try not to let people get you down... I thnk people like to get under people's skin so don't give them that satisfaction
I really shouldn't let people get me down, it's hard.
I text 2 of my sister's (adopted sister's) telling them gender ultrasound Monday hope it's a girl but most importantly praying for healthy baby! One said good luck, she praying for me, other said good luck but no matter outcome if it's a boy he will be loved, health is more important! That made me tear up its true! I am glad to get the support from them so far so good. my mother in law tells me she don't understand why I'm Stressing it's not the end of the world lol. I will update you all with baby boy news Monday!