Dream Member- Accessing Private Forums

[nuthinbutpink]

Some forums are private/member forums here on GenderDreaming.com. In order to view the content and post or reply in those Dream Member/Private forums, you must become a paying member of the site. Members have a rainbow under their names in the forum- those are Dream Members.

Why become a Dream Member?

Some content we wish to keep private and out of google's reach. All content located within a private forum will not show up in a google search. Becoming a Dream Member also supports the site.

Become a Dream Member and access all Private Forums including the Private Gender Swaying Forums, all High Tech Gender Selection Forums.

High Tech(IVF with PGD) Membership benefits-

1. A list of all US clinics that offer GS
2. Ask the Experts posting capability
3. For US Residents, 1-800 phone support
4. For International Residents, Skype phone or chat support

Gender Swaying Membership Benefits include-
1. Low Everything(LE) information for TTC a Girl
2. High Everything(HE) information for TTC a Boy
3. 5-days of Meals for TTC PINK and BLUE, Foods to consume and avoid for TTC a Boy or Girl.
4. Gender Swaying Research Reports
5. Review My Sway Forum for sway plan feedback from our swaying coaches

The Cost for Membership is $19.00 USD for 12 months of access. The Membership may be cancelled at any time and is fully refundable for 30 days. We use Paypal to process all payments. Don't have a Paypal account? No worries! You may create a Paypal account and then choose your payment method for a one time transaction. Paypal lets you do a one-time transaction using your credit card, debit card or with an eCheck.

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The Cost for Membership is $19.00 USD Annually.

Name of the business as it appears on customer card statements: DREAMBABY

Thank you for supporting GenderDreaming.com!

[lovemy2blessings]

This may be a dumb question, but does the Dream Member Forum have more info on the LE diet...or recipes? Or is it the same as the regular forum? TIA

[nuthinbutpink]

This may be a dumb question, but does the Dream Member Forum have more info on the LE diet...or recipes? Or is it the same as the regular forum? TIA

Yes, tons. Try it out and if you don't think it's worth it, we will refund the $19.

[Bella29]

I want to get membership. I am on tapatalk. How to I purchase?

[Bella29]

Thanks for any help

[nuthinbutpink]

Not sure if this will work but here is the link-
http://genderdreaming.com/forum/payments.php

Choose the first option.

[Sosi]

Hi, I just signed up as a dream member! Now where do I go?:) How do I fill out a sticky note? Or how do I access the IVF/PGD forum? Thanks!

[nuthinbutpink]

Here is the main HT forum - http://genderdreaming.com/forum/ht-family-balancing-info-current-cycles/

[nuthinbutpink]

To start a Cycle Diary, copy and paste the Sticky starter info in here-

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/ht-family-balancing-info-current-cycles/22502-sticky-starter-information.html

You'll see all the other current Cycle Stickies in that private forum!

[Sosi]

Ok thanks!

[MyByC]

I have a huge problem.
First, want to become a dream member.
How can I pay? I mean, what options do I have to pay?

Second, I use my Iphone but get your web on Safari(classic page) and not an Iphone page(tapatalk-seems they dont support your site anymore :(( ).
Anywhere else I can find you to have a window specially for genderdreaming?

[nuthinbutpink]

We use Paypal and Paypal accepts echecks, debit or credit cards so you can choose any option you like for signing up.

We are on Tapatalk and it does work!

[MyByC]

Ok. Perfect. So how can I proceed?

[nuthinbutpink]

Big button up above.

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/payments.php

[MyByC]

Yeeey. I'm a dream member now :-)
Now I just need for atomic answer so I can take my plan(that includes all) and get my baby girl soon :X

[Hallie]

I purchased the dream membership last week but still can't access the member forums. I've tried logging in and out again �� but it's still not working. The money has left my account so I know I definately did it properly . Any help would be much appreciated xx

[Nic232]

I also paid for the membership and can not access the forums. There seems to be a few of us? Disappointing!!!! Can someone please look into this ASAP! Thank you

[atomic sagebrush]

I also paid for the membership and can not access the forums. There seems to be a few of us? Disappointing!!!! Can someone please look into this ASAP! Thank you

It's been looked into and will be fixed as soon as our tech support person gets on line to do so.

[atomic sagebrush]

I purchased the dream membership last week but still can't access the member forums. I've tried logging in and out again �� but it's still not working. The money has left my account so I know I definately did it properly . Any help would be much appreciated xx

I have messaged someone to get your account set up and it will be activated as soon as possible. Thanks for your patience.

[nuthinbutpink]

Everyone is setup

[Dreaming of a girl]

Hi I purchased the 21 day plan last night and cant access any of the information. Can someone reply and help me. I really want to start swaying for a girl. Thank you

[atomic sagebrush]

Hi, can you confirm that you can't open this link? (some people just can't find the link) http://genderdreaming.com/forum/21-day-meal-plan-for-le-diet/29075-21-days-meals-low-everything-diet-when-ttc-pink-supplement.html I'll message someone who can help.

[Dreaming of a girl]

No unfortunately I can't access it. When I go on the website you have just sent it says, I do not have permission to access the site

[nuthinbutpink]

No unfortunately I can't access it. When I go on the website you have just sent it says, I do not have permission to access the site

You are all setup now!

[Dreaming of a girl]

Thank you, ive had a look and completed the questionnaires!

[atomic sagebrush]

I have them! thanks!

[Lizbet28]

Hi Atomic - I still haven't gotten the plan and am not sure where you're talking about the best place to post questions to you. Can you show a link? The page that has the questionairres listed doesn't seem to have a place to post threads/questions. Can you give me an update? Thanks.

[nuthinbutpink]

Hi Atomic - I still haven't gotten the plan and am not sure where you're talking about the best place to post questions to you. Can you show a link? The page that has the questionairres listed doesn't seem to have a place to post threads/questions. Can you give me an update? Thanks.

Hi there. Your plan was posted a few days ago in your private forum. It is located here- http://genderdreaming.com/forum/completed-questionnaires-and-private-coaching-access/

There, you may reply to that thread with any questions and to communicate with your coach!

[nuthinbutpink]

Hi Atomic - I still haven't gotten the plan and am not sure where you're talking about the best place to post questions to you. Can you show a link? The page that has the questionairres listed doesn't seem to have a place to post threads/questions. Can you give me an update? Thanks.

Hi there. Your plan was posted a few days ago in your private forum. It is located here- http://genderdreaming.com/forum/completed-questionnaires-and-private-coaching-access/

There, you may reply to that thread with any questions and to communicate with your coach!

[MOB01]

Hi, can someone please help me with this issue too. I’ve joined and paid a few days ago and emailed someone about it to let them know and no response and still don’t seem to be able to access anything. Could someone please assist me with this 😊 TIA

[nuthinbutpink]

Hi, can someone please help me with this issue too. I’ve joined and paid a few days ago and emailed someone about it to let them know and no response and still don’t seem to be able to access anything. Could someone please assist me with this �� TIA

You are all setup

[MOB01]

Thank you so much :)

[Kez27]

Hi nuthinbutpink, I paid the membership yesterday but still can’t see anything in a private forum or anyone’s cycles?
Thank you for any help

[atomic sagebrush]

Kez it looks to me like your membership is activated, let me know if you need more help.

[Teb]

Please help, I have purchased a plan and I cannot access the member forums either. I am trying to figure out this whole website!

[atomic sagebrush]

I'll message someone who can help us, Teb!

[nuthinbutpink]

Please help, I have purchased a plan and I cannot access the member forums either. I am trying to figure out this whole website!

You are all set up!

[MamaA10]

Hi I have just brought the membership how do I know when I have the extra accesses? Thanks

[atomic sagebrush]

It looks to me like you have it! Are you swaying pink or blue? I can post a link for you to the Dream Members forums if you're having trouble finding them.

[MamaA10]

Yea please looking for pink thanks!

[atomic sagebrush]

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/ttc-girl-resources/

Most of it is in here, but if you go to the main forum page, you can also access a couple other forums as well. They will be highlighted for you and include the extreme gender swaying forum, info about the French Gender Diet if you're interested in that, the High Tech member forums if you want more info about IVF, and some other cool stuff!

[Pinkin2019]

Hi there,
I have become a dream member but can not access the International IVF Support private page under Ask the Experts? I seem to be able to access other private forums though. I am doing something wrong??
Thanks for your help!

[nuthinbutpink]

That is a separate forum. The main HT forum is where all of the people that are using the site for HT are posting.

[Bobster]

Hi, I don’t seem to be able to access the private forums but I’m sure I am a dream member?

[vehivle]

TTC Girl Resources (http://genderdreaming.com/forum/ttc-girl-resources/)

Most of it is in here, but if you go to the main forum page, you can also access a couple other forums as well. They will be highlighted for you and include the extreme gender swaying forum, info about the French Gender Diet if you're interested in that, the High Tech member forums if you want more info about IVF, and some other cool stuff!

sorry- god knows why it says i disliked this post! Must have been a finger slip on my phone! Sorry!

[atomic sagebrush]

sorry- god knows why it says i disliked this post! Must have been a finger slip on my phone! Sorry!

Oh no worries that happens all the time! I've even done it myself a couple times. It's just the way the touchscreens work.

did you have any questions?

[vehivle]

Well I was just browsing at the time with no questions. But since I'm now 2 days into the girl diet I may as well ask a question I've got. I have requested a custom plan but I'm aware there is a 7-10 day wait so I thought I'd just start the diet and just wait for the plan to arrive. Since starting the diet, I haven't been counting calories for the "free veg". I'm essentially making massive stirfrys of mushrooms, courgettes, leeks and aubergines. It's been great and apart from between the hours of when I wake up until noon (as I've decided to skip breakfast) I am literally never hungry. I'm also eating way more cakes and treats than I was able to when previously on a general diet. i had decided my calorie limit would be 1800 as I'm still breastfeeding and I thought I'd slowly reduce to 1500 as the breastfeeding tails off and I get closer to the conception date. That way I'll ensure a continuous loss and won't increase intake/weight as this potentially sways boy. But despite that and with eating quite a lot, I'm averaging around 1600 calories. I've had to consume more junk food to reach the 1800 mark and I drank some protein shake as my protein was at 31g. And I read you said minimum 40-50g.

So I am now starting to think I must be doing the diet all wrong as people on the threads reporting their daily meals seem to be eating so much less. .. and they seem much more hungry. I am realising now I perhaps should have been calorie counting the veg? Perhaps the huge amount I'm eating is a lot and so maybe even swaying blue? I'm not sure.

Also - quick question with regards to the pasta amount in your recipes. Could you clarify the amount in grams? Reason being you said 1/2 cup, but that obviously is effected by the shape of the pasta - spaghetti is hard to measure in a 1/2 cup. I tried to measure out penne last night - it was and very tiny amount... it came to about 30g. In the end I went with the recommended serving of 100g. But this came to 366 cals ands opposed to the approx 255 cals in your recipe which made me guess I had allowed too much pasta. If you could let me know in grams, I'll be very grateful.

Oh lol- sorry one last question I've just thought of! Where does honey fall in the food grading? I enjoy honey on 0% fat Greek yoghurt. But I haven't eaten it since starting the diet in case it sways boy? It's not like manuka or organic or anything fancy. It's just bog standard shop brand runny honey. But I just wanted to make sure it wasn't like "high nutrional" value food and so no go on the girl diet? I know everything is fine in moderation but I want to know like how much moderation. Is in the category with white bread and so OK often or in the category with garlic in which case use in tiny amounts and definitely not often?

Sorry for the many questions and thanks in advance!

[atomic sagebrush]

Your plan is actually ready and has been sent to be posted in your coaching forum; I'm happy to send you the original in the meantime (you'd need to message me your email address via PM though)

:agree: not counting cals in the free veg You are not meant to count calories, protein, and fat in veg, and count only calories in higher carb veg and fruit (they are free for protein and fat)

:agree: Yes I want you at 1800-2000 cals when breastfeeding and also up protein and fat to 50-60 g.

You do not need to be hungry and I don't want you eating ANY less than what I"ve just written above. The rules are different when breastfeeding. Anyone hungry all the time and miserable on LE Diet is doing the diet wrong.

I don't use grams and so they're difficult for me to estimate. Just use a serving size, however you can measure that. I know the recommended amounts on pasta are ridiculously small, aren't they?? :( I am fine with you having 366 calories of pasta rather than 255. Please don't get too hung up on a hundred calories either direction - these type of small details do not matter.

I'd prefer to find other options for you rather than protein shakes as they are often highly fortified.

Honey is fine as a part of the LE Diet. I haven't graded it (and I'm not going to, LOL - I just can't grade every food so I decided long ago not to) just treat it as sugar and have it with a meal. You're welcome to have it every day. It really has very little in the way of "nutrition" in the way we worry about it - no protein, no fat, a few calories, very little additional nutrients.

When it comes to the rating system, again, please don't get hung up on that. There is no basis scientifically for that. All foods are allowed on LE Diet. The only thing that matters is the limits. I made that list because I had so many people pestering me about this food or that food that I wrote that list, but the only thing that matters is the limits.

[rayalynn1]

I did ask this question in my private coaching forum however I thought I would post it here so that if anyone else is ever searching for this answer like I am they can find the answer through this Q & A forum :p

I purchased a plan for TTC a girl. I was wondering however if when you purchase a plan, do you automatically become a dream member? I had assumed yes, but I don't have access to any of the private forums. So should I purchase the dream member 12-month plan? Or is this just a glitch in the system. :) Thanks!

[atomic sagebrush]

The Dream Memberships are separate from the plans because a lot of IVF people buy DM but not plans.

It's totally up to you if you want the DM or not. There's some good stuff in the Dream Members section (and I do always appreciate the purchases as this is my full time job) but with me as your coach you can always pick my brain on any given subject. :)

[atomic sagebrush]

The Dream Memberships are separate from the plans because a lot of IVF people buy DM but not plans.

It's totally up to you if you want the DM or not. There's some good stuff in the Dream Members section (and I do always appreciate the purchases as this is my full time job) but with me as your coach you can always pick my brain on any given subject. :)

[summerlove]

I just made my payment to become a Dream Member as it says under the description of dream member that I will be able to access the private forums and the LE diet information, however, it is still not allowing me to view any of that. When I click on it, it says "you do not have permission to view this page". Can someone please help?

[atomic sagebrush]

You're showing up as a Dream Member to me (thank you! your purchases enable me to do this as a job rather than having to work outside the home!) Can you tell me what you're trying to access?? There are a few things that are for Custom Sway plan people but practically all that stuff is available in the Dream Members forums. :)

[summerlove]

Thank you for your reply!
I am trying to access the link for the LE diet. I just tried again and it is still not allowing me to view it

[nuthinbutpink]

Thank you for your reply!
I am trying to access the link for the LE diet. I just tried again and it is still not allowing me to view it

https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/ttc-girl-resources/

That section? Can you access those?

[summerlove]

yes! :)
I had found a thread with a message that Atomic replied to someone in with a link to the LE diet info and I was trying to click that link and it was not working, but I think something must have just been wrong with that one link because everything else is working and I have figured it out! Newbie here and don't quite know what I'm doing haha I think I have it all figured out now though :)

[atomic sagebrush]

There are some links that have gone bad over time and it's just impossible for me to go back over everything I've written over the years to be sure they're all working. Thanks for letting me know!