Really need some help...

[Angelone]

Hi girls as you know I got my bfp on a superdrug preg test at 9 and 10dp then m digital boots test yesterday so today just wanted to see those strong ones on a first response and the one is barely there granted did do it there now wit very little wee n the cup and about 4tg morning urine... Do u think I should be worried this is just so upsetting month after month if this is a chemical it's going to be my third in as many months x
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[Emily]

Hi girls as you know I got my bfp on a superdrug preg test at 9 and 10dp then m digital boots test yesterday so today just wanted to see those strong ones on a first response and the one is barely there granted did do it there now wit very little wee n the cup and about 4tg morning urine... Do u think I should be worried this is just so upsetting month after month if this is a chemical it's going to be my third in as many months x
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I dont think you can compare different tests like that. Use the same brand that you got your BFP with, using the same typr of urine and comapre that. I have never used a FRER so cannot help there. Fingers crossed for you.

[nuthinbutpink]

I agree with pp. You can't compare different tests.

[BeadinMom]

I agree with the other two ladies...can't compare.
What does your doctor say about the other 2 chemicals? Have you had your progesterone level checked?

[gurly]

How many dpo are you now? Try using the same test that you got the bfp on.

[Angelone]

Thanx for the responses everyone... I'm just worrying myself so much now... I'm 12dpo so got the superdrug positives a 9 & 10 dpo then the digital yesterday at 11 dpo... I was so worried about the light frer that iv just done the second digi with almost clear coloured urine and it's saying not preg :( could it be because it's so early and also late in the after no without had in in my pee that ut came p not preg xx

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[The Anchor]

Oh no Dazie, I hope you're not going through this again, HUGS to you.

[BeadinMom]

Please don't drive yourself crazy...
Your urine probably just too diluted. I would wait & try again tomorrow.
Good luck.

[Angelone]

Thanx anchor I just want some good news I am so worn out Wi all this test in and ttc... It's jus so heartbreaking and I know it wud b worse t get further on and something happen but im just so worried that there's something wrong Wi me :(

Beading that gives me a bit of hope the urine really was almost white and I'd peed loads today before did it :( xx

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[gurly]

Thanx anchor I just want some good news I am so worn out Wi all this test in and ttc... It's jus so heartbreaking and I know it wud b worse t get further on and something happen but im just so worried that there's something wrong Wi me :(

Beading that gives me a bit of hope the urine really was almost white and I'd peed loads today before did it :( xx

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you need to wait 4 hours in between peeing or do it first thing in the morning. Use that test you initially used -- you have created too many variables!

[Angelone]

Thanx gurly I know ur right I haven't tested at the same time of the day wi the digi and also Wi the line tests they're two different tests.. Also throwing into the mix a load of crappy eBay tests that are ment to b 10 miu that haven't shown a hint of a line lol... My stress levels are reaching a peak lol . Hopefully n the morning the frer will b darker xx

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[gurly]

Good luck!

[Angelone]

Thanx x

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[Dreamingof2girls]

Have you tried the digital first response or EPT test? Those are supposed to be very sensitive & correct. Plus test with the first morning urine that's always the best

[Angelone]

I do think we Hav digi first response iv never seen them?? I just tested first morning urine and it was so light Wi the frer... Is there any chance that this is actually stoll hormone left from the chemical Las month? Like how could I still test positive 24 days later x

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[bunnywabbit]

So sorry Dazie. As mentioned, try a digital frer. Clearblue digital are good and reputable. They should tell you how far along you are. I have my FX for you x

[Angelone]

Thanx bunny... It's such a nitemare all this not knowing.. I'm going to wait a couple of days and see if my period comes and then get a clear blue I think xx

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[bunnywabbit]

GL! Keep us posted, we're all here for you :hug2:

[gurly]

With a chemical your hcg should be back to 0 by now so I really don't think it's residual. you only need such a small amount to detect pregnancy with these sensitive tests, your level could have been super low to begin with. I'm hoping this is a true bfp for you, but if you are having repeated chemical pregnancies you should see a doctor, there could be an issue with your thyroid or you might be low on progesterone

[ELP]

Dazie, I hope today brings some clear answers for you:) If it does turn out to be another chemical I agree to bring it up with the Dr.
If your in this position next month then I would get a box of these tests in, they picked up clear bfp's for at 8 and 9 dpo, they are the ones used by the NHS and are nice and wide and give result, some of the IC's are so skinny I seem to spend hours tilting and turning them:) God luck for this month though:luck:
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[Angelone]

Have our much experience with chemicals gurly?? I Hav had three healthy pregnancies Wi my 1st husband no mc nothing then I had the coil in after my last child 5 years ago then when I got it out had treatment for moderate cell changes on my cervix but since the old way removed m period Hav been so short and also I'm two stone heavier than when I last ttc.. In just don't o what factors could be causing this as everything is new including my husband... I just can't understand all the fact bfp etc after my period on the 4th of July I was getting sting bfps forbade full week afterwards I just don't understand how that's possible after a chemical so really these tests are like ten eleven days after my negative cbd... It's so confusing xx

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[gurly]

No I don't have personal experience with chemical, my first pregnancy resulted in a m/c @ 8 weeks.

I just did a little googling and unfortunately m/c is common after IUD removal. You might want to get checked to make sure your uterine lining is not too thin.

[Angelone]

I'm sorry to hear that :(

I hadn't even thought to Google the coil removal and thanx s much for checking that :) is Hav thought after 8 months ut wud b ok but I'm convinced that Wi such a short error my inbox is clearly very thin xx

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[Angelone]

Elp thank u I hadn't seen ur comment earlier and iv just added them to my Watch list :) x

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[Angelone]

Well my wee mum turned up on my doorstep this morn holding a double pack of clear blue digi... Her aim was to put my mind at rest and get it straight once and for all... I was convinced it was gonna to b neg and to my shock it said pregnant 1-2 weeks... So that's me no more testing and line spotting I'm jus gonna Hav to believe it xx

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[ELP]

God bless your sweet mum!!! And congrats on that definite bfp!!!!!:cheer:

[Angelone]

Thanx so much Elp she really is the best mum I cud ever ask for she's a great help and such a loving mum can't praise her highly enuf still in shock mind u after those light tests lol x xxx

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[BeadinMom]

Yay!!!! Congratulations!!! A line is a line is a line...and there's no denying that digital :)
So glad you can finally put your mind at ease.
Your mom is a sweetheart!!

Keep us posted on everything!!!

[Angelone]

Beadin mum she really is best ever... And yes just goes to show u a line is a line even tho I thought they were pathetic excuses for lines ha ha xx

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[Becca.lms]

Thanx so much Elp she really is the best mum I cud ever ask for she's a great help and such a loving mum can't praise her highly enuf still in shock mind u after those light tests lol x xxx

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Congratulations!! So happy for you! Glad you can rest.
Also my period was July 1rst. Bfn for me today. What day did you ovulate?

[Angelone]

Thank u Becca :) I really hope u get ur bfp soon :) my period was 4th July then ovulated 14th gong by the cb advanced ov test... How lings ur cycle usually xx

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[gurly]

Yay!! Congratulations! I've never seen a test that says how far along you are - so cool!

[Becca.lms]

[QUOTE=Daziedazie;440942]Thank u Becca :) I really hope u get ur bfp soon :) my period was 4th July then ovulated 14th gong by the cb advanced ov test... How lings ur cycle usually xx

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Vitex lowered my period to 28 days. I ovulated on the 18th or 19th. Maybe I'm just not pregnant. With previous pregnancies I never got a bfp until 18po but seeing everyone else's are driving me mad !

[Angelone]

It cud b the case that it's Def too early for u then ur about three days longer than my cycle.. Def don't give up hope just ye missus this cud b ur month.. I Hav had two chemicals in the Las three months and part of me won't believe I'm even preg this month till the Scan jus worry because the lines were so light that it's gonna happen again but trying t b positive :) I really hope it happens for u this month xx

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[Becca.lms]

It cud b the case that it's Def too early for u then ur about three days longer than my cycle.. Def don't give up hope just ye missus this cud b ur month.. I Hav had two chemicals in the Las three months and part of me won't believe I'm even preg this month till the Scan jus worry because the lines were so light that it's gonna happen again but trying t b positive :) I really hope it happens for u this month xx

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How long are your periods? With my first I took 7 tests and it wasn't until the digital that I got a bfp.
I can understand that. During my pregnancy I tested like once a week out of paranoia!

[Angelone]

Mine car usually 14 days after I ovulate so this month it'll be tomoro I'm due in I can ovulate from day 10 to 14 which is a nitemare.. Iv a slight wee bit of brown discharge tonight a I'm hoping it a not gonna happen again :(
Did u test the whole way thro ur pregnancy?? I was never so obsessed w the testing before iv three children already but this time m kinda getting obsessed with the lines gettibg darker probably coz of the mc but before I think I did like one lol x

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[Becca.lms]

Mine car usually 14 days after I ovulate so this month it'll be tomoro I'm due in I can ovulate from day 10 to 14 which is a nitemare.. Iv a slight wee bit of brown discharge tonight a I'm hoping it a not gonna happen again :(
Did u test the whole way thro ur pregnancy?? I was never so obsessed w the testing before iv three children already but this time m kinda getting obsessed with the lines gettibg darker probably coz of the mc but before I think I did like one lol x

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Not the entire time. With Ezra I felt kicks starting at 11 weeks and full blown ones at 15. Nothing is more reassuring than a lively baby. But up until then yes. Oh okay I don't Ovulate until day 19,20. Wouldn't that make my LP short?
Brown discharge is fine, red would be different. Brown is leftover blood still sitting around in your cervix. Lots of ppl discharge that and It is not associated with an unhealthy pregnancy. So TRY not to over think it. Stress does the body no good.

[Angelone]

Aaaahhhh I get ya now.. Yea it's so hard the first few weeks worrying till see them on the screen all cute :) u felt kicks really early too :) that's really reassuring... I think when see the brown discharge automatically think that's he start of ur period but I'm gonna hope and pray this little one is safe in there... Well how short wud that make ur luteal phase if u ov then?? Xx


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[Angelone]

I'm so worried that I'm having another flipping chemical today's frer was so faint and iv been having brown discharge on wiping all day x

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[Northern_Shutterbug]

I think you need to see the drs. Perhaps if AF does show up, give your body a month to 'reset' itself. Give yourself a break for a month. I know it sounds harsh, but if you're getting this each month the stress is not doing you any good and may sway boy too.

I keep my fingers crossed for you though.

[Angelone]

Thanx northern u are definitely talking sense... We're definitely gonna give it a break this is affecting r relationship too its just soon stressful ... Iv my app for Thurs Wi the Dr and now two chemicals to tell hm about since I made the app this just can't b right... Af is Def on its way iv had brown spotting all da and it's staring to turn red... Just so hard every rime u think this is it and same again :( x

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[BeadinMom]

Aww Dazie...I am so sorry. I spotted for all of my kids, except this one...I knew I had been low in progesterone for the others, so rather than wait, I went ahead and started the progesterone on my own. I knew it wouldn't hurt, but could definitely help...and since I had had a chemical the month before, I was going for it.
I hope the answer is as simple as that for you...XO

[Northern_Shutterbug]

I'm glad you've got an appointment. I hope he doesn't fob you off like my drs did when I had two chemicals. When I phoned them up the first time asking about having bloods done, they said if I had a positive test, then that was it, I was pregnant, they'd never heard of a chemical pregnancy! Wallies!

[Angelone]

It's so crappy beadinmum and northern... It's lik the Dr's and midwifes don't really care until it's after 7 weeks but yes I'm gonna push for some answers and what we can do from here but I Def think that it's something t do Wi the lining tbh... Hopefully I'll Hav some answers and my nod and kind will Hav a break take me off from ttc... U don't realise how it affects u.. Beadinmum iv hard a few people talk about progesterone cream what's tha about and what does it d or even go lol X

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[BeadinMom]

I am so sorry you're dealing with this. If you really think its the lining, maybe you could try adding baby Aspirin? My fertility specialist told me my lining was thin, but then refused to do anything about it.. so my regular OB put me on Estrogen to build my lining after my chemical in April. The fertility specialist did give me a script for progesterone though...so I had it on hand after I got my BFP in May.
Im not sure the over the counter creams are strong enough to do anything, but it may be worth a try. You put it on different body parts like twice a day, I think...you'd have to read the label on the individual containers.
I wish the capsules weren't by script...I would send you what I have left.
If I were you, I would demand blood work...ask for the nurse, tell her your other doctor (lol) said they thought your progesterone was low & that you should call & request blood work right away. LOL...worth a try.

[onthepond]

So sorry Dazie :( I would really ask your dr to test your progesterone. After my MMC I just knew something was wrong so I kept insisting. Once they tested and saw I was low, they kept an eye on it. Once I got my BFP it dropped from a 14.2 to 7.1 in 3 days...I started the progesterone then and am now 10 weeks - have seen baby 3 times on ultrasound now with great size and heartbeat. I really think it helped me. I wish you the best of luck - take care of yourself and know I'm thinking of you.

[Becca.lms]

Soooo sorry :(

[gurly]

Oh no Daizy, I'm so sorry! Maybe you should see a reproductive endocrinologist, skip right to the specialist and don't bother with midwives or doctors who will brush you off.

[Emily]

It's so crappy beadinmum and northern... It's lik the Dr's and midwifes don't really care until it's after 7 weeks but yes I'm gonna push for some answers and what we can do from here but I Def think that it's something t do Wi the lining tbh... Hopefully I'll Hav some answers and my nod and kind will Hav a break take me off from ttc... U don't realise how it affects u.. Beadinmum iv hard a few people talk about progesterone cream what's tha about and what does it d or even go lol X

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Soo sorry. I know what you mean, i had a chemical in October and the doc was so upbeat about it being early on and not affecting my cycle that i thought i must have misunderstood him (I was living in Spain at the time) and asked if the pregnancy was still viable. he laughed and said no, but try again next month.

I dont have any practical advice about progesterone or linings etc. just wanted to commiserate. Hugs.

[Kristykos]

My progesterone was low and I MC twice, I researched Macca and took it 2 months before and all through early pregnancy. Its a root vegetable that helps fertility and boosts milk supply. Not sure about how it would effect sway, I had a gorgeous boy, healthy 4.3 kg!! It couldn't do any harm to anyone. I know the pain and frustration, I have been pregnant 5 Times yet only carried 2 to term. Trust your instincts and dont count on modern doctors 100%. Lots of baby dust xx