What do to next! Help need to decide?

[Third_baby_hopes_x]

I am on cycle day 14 of a 28 day cycle. My husband and I have DTD last wed, Thursday, Friday, sat, twice Sunday, last night and tonight. My ov tests are still negative, despite thinking I would ovulate today and having ov pains just now?

If I am swaying for a girl should I keep DTD until positive ov test or should I stop now?

I have no cm not sure if that's due to cranberry supps or Le diet?

Help any advice is greatly appreciated!
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[Funkyfry]

For ttc a girl atomic advises one attempt at positive opk

[menlc611]

I agree with funky.. we abstained and one attempt at pos opk. Good luck!

[TTCaPRINCE]

DD (wasn't a planned sway) was a result of DTD once.

[atomic sagebrush]

If you are less than 38 years old I would stop DTD now and wait and see if you are pg. We have gotten best results with one attempt and I am a little nervous with that BD pattern that you are making what is in essence a pretty boy friendly sway.

[Third_baby_hopes_x]

I am 33 and still haven't ovulated yet. Thought I would on cd 14 but came off pill 2 months ago and last month I ovulated on cycle day 18? Not sure if it's late cos of my LE diet or the pill?

I have DTD 8 days in a row cos I thought that swayed girl but I am so worried now especially that Atomic has said it sways blue? Do I keep DTD or just leave it if I still haven't ovulated? Is a cutt off recommend? I have put so much into this month, diet, DTD, supplements. I have lost so much weight that I can't go through another months of this. Really hope this is the one for me? Any advice is greatly appreciated? Especially Atomic.

[Third_baby_hopes_x]

Should I try doing o+12 but will that sway blue as it will not be from abstaining and only be 3-4 days from when we DTD last. I have still not ov?

Should I try eating more to see if that makes me ov?

[atomic sagebrush]

Ok then if you've lost a ton of weight you're right you need to attempt no matter what. You also need to do whatever it takes to put the brakes on the weight loss. I need to know more about your diet to help me know what is going on.

Don't do O+12, it has terrible odds of conception.

The die is cast now, keep BD thru O. Your husband's sperm numbers are probably really low anyway by this point.

[Third_baby_hopes_x]

Thanks Atomic. We didn't DTD last night as my husband got called out all night with his work so now I don't know whether to do it tonight cos will his sperm be back to normal since its been 48 hours since last DTD. Still not ovulating but think it will be tomorrow as I have pains. Please help so desperate thanks for all your replies so far

[Third_baby_hopes_x]

Should I get him to release twice and then try to DTd?

[atomic sagebrush]

Sorry I never saw this till now. That wouldn't leave enough to fertilize the egg - I would have him release ONE time and then DTD using second batch, OR else just dispense with the whole idea and DTD and do a J and D (or not)