Pretty sure I'm having a miscarriage at 10 weeks :(

[Mackenzie]

Well ive had no bleeding of any kind until last night. Hubby and I bd before he went to work at 4:30 and I had a gush of blood with a clot the size of a dime in toilet at about 6:30. Sorry tmi. Had some more bleeding but pretty much stopped by 8. It was bright red by the way. So I went to er and they checked my hcg levels and they were 8000 apparently isn't that low for 10 weeks? They did a ultrasound but had empty bladder so couldn't see anything. Then did internal ultra and could see better but still not enought to say of its a miscarriage for sure. He I'd say it didn't look " typical" and that his feeling was miscarriage. I'm soo gutted the 2 times ive swayed I miscarry. I don't get it. I have a ultrasound at 12:15 today to confirm. Any advice? Thanks

[lovemy2blessings]

Hugs mommy my thoughts are with you..I hope everything turns out ok

[kpmum]

I hope you get some reassuring news today x

[iwonder]

Thinking of you...

[aidansmum]

I am so sorry to hear that! I wouldn't despair though, I bled quite a bit with my first and also bled for about a week with my last boy. I hope you get good news soon. I found this online, as you can see, 8000 is on the lower side but still within the normal range. Hope all ends up well. :fingers:

3 weeks LMP 5 – 50 mIU/ml
4 weeks LMP 5 – 426 mIU/ml
5 weeks LMP 18 – 7,340 mIU/ml
6 weeks LMP 1,080 – 56,500 mIU/ml
7-8 weeks LMP 7, 650 – 229,000 mIU/ml
9-12 weeks LMP 25,700 – 288,000 mIU/ml
13-16 weeks LMP 13,300 – 254,000 mIU/ml
17-24 weeks LMP 4,060 – 165,400 mIU/ml
25-40 weeks LMP 3,640 – 117,000 mIU/ml
Women who are not pregnant <5.0 mIU/ml
Women after menopause 9.5 mIU/ml

[Mackenzie]

Thanks guys, well bad news. Ultrasound showed 6.4 weeks, I'm just numb I don't get how it could have stopped going a month ago and no bleeding till yest. Feel so lost. I was ttc boy and now it sways pink after misc right? I swayed between my 2 and 3 daughter and had first misc then took three cycles after that to get preggo and had 3 dd. so I'm not sure how much it sways, I'm hoping not that much as I want to ttc as soon as possible.

[bunnywabbit]

I truly am sorry Mackenzie, you're in our thoughts. Hang in there... *bigstronghugs*

[Mackenzie]

Sorry had dd3 not 3 dd

[Mackenzie]

Thanks bunnywabbit

[wantingonemore]

hope you're holding up ok :(
just wanted to give some anecdotal evidence against the "after mc = girl" hypothesis... i know at least 3 girlfriends who have fallen pregnant with boys following a mc...

[Dana-Alicia]

So sorry for your loss. I conceived a boy 4,5 months after I lost my daughter. You have a good shot still. Take time to grieve hun...

[dloui128]

So sorry for you loss hun :hugs:

[hoping4agirl2014]

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you. I had a miscarriage before getting pregnant with my first son so there is still hope for you. Again my thoughts are with you.


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[retrolove1]

Just wanted to say I'm very sorry! X

[Mackenzie]

Thanks girls, you really are a big help, the support on here makes me weepy, well weepier....

[lisvna]

I'm sorry for you loss. Hugs.

[aidansmum]

Sorry to hear that! It's heartbreaking to have a miscarriage, and even more so when you put so much time and effort into your sway. Praying you will get your little boy next time :(

[onthepond]

I am so sorry Mackenzie :( I went through a loss at 10.5 weeks in Feb. We got our BFP in June and are now 15 weeks pregnant with a baby boy. There is hope and it does get better with time. Thinking of you, sending hugs.

[Rainbow baby]

Sorry for your loss, hope you are doing ok! I wouldn't worry about the m/c swaying pink I have got pregnant again twice after a m/c at 6 weeks and one at 14 the following cycles and got boys both times. I was def more fertile.

[crazyladyneedsababy]

hey hun, just wanted to come past, ive just had my 2nd miscarriage, I started bleeding on 2nd sept and still having blood tests etc done atm. However, in between my 2 boys I had an mc, I fell pregnant with my second son right after the mc, literally got a positive pregnancy test 4 weeks later so there is loads of hope. im sorry and im here if you want to talk xxx