One last bit of help, hopefully

[lovemysonbut]

I just had my trigger shot. saturday at 10:30. The last bd was Thursday night around 8. I was planning on bd once at trigger, but found at that my husband released last night at midnight. This would be good for girl, but horrible for conception, and i just want to get pg at this point witht he most chance of girl possibly but don't want more months of swaying, expense, and fertility treatments. What should I do at this point? I was going to bd this afternoon but 12 hours might leave him shooting blanks. Should I try tonight (24 hours after realease) or tomorrow morning (36 hours after release). I don't have ewcm but I am watery (clomid). What are my best odds of both conception and girl at this point? Thanks for your help and hopefully it will work, so I don't need to take any more of your time:) I REALLY appreciate all the help. This has been a long , arduous process.

[atomic sagebrush]

Well I can promise if you don't have sex, you won't conceive. PLEASE have sex NOW and then if he feels like not a lot came out (which does happen sometimes) then forget everythign I just said and go for a second attempt.

[lovemysonbut]

I probably won't ovulate until tomorrow at noon at earliest so I will definitely bd before then obviously. I'm just wondering if I shopuld wait until the last minute to give his sperm time to refresh from the midnight last night release? I may not get pg because he could be shooting blanks after the release.

[lovemysonbut]

Basically, to clarify, I am wondering whether I should wait until tomorrow morning (36 hours after dh release and 6-12 hours before o) or do it tonight (24 hours after dh release and 12 hours or so before o, or both? Any ideas what would be best?

[atomic sagebrush]

24 hours is more than enough time for most guys to recover from one release (now if he had done like 3 in a row for 3 days then maybe not) and I think you are best getting in sooner rather than later. :) Then like I said, if he feels like nothing came out, have another attempt.

[lovemysonbut]

ok....will do:) You are SO helpful! Thanks for everything. Hopefully you won't see me onhere until my gender scan, and either way, I did my best:)