Help needed asap so confused what to do ????

[poppys5]

Hi, i hope someone anyone can help me ive been doing the girl diet roughly about a year but not strictly with cals ive had a couple of attempts in the 9 months but no bfp i did the couch potato to start with then decided to do the exercise which i really enjoyed but fell ill and stopped about 6wks ago now ive doing quite strict with the diet but at the upper limit with cals etc im one wk away from possible attempt but i really want to exercise would it be really bad if i started exercise now? My problem is i really feel exercise may help my sway and will need to start it now in time for next cycle after this one so im going to exercise anyway from today but should i make an attempt this time as my weight is on the low side and ive been on the diet sort of for about a year im looking pretty rubbish at the moment and dont want to continue on the diet for to much longer!??? X x x p.s hope this makes sence

[atomic sagebrush]

I want you to attempt this month and I am not sure I would add in exercise at all if you're already very low weight. I really don't recommend it.

Why have you gone 9 months and only had a couple attempts???

[poppys5]

Hi Atomic, im not underweight but not far off im still ok on the bmi scale, ive had more attempts than a few but not propper ones i didnt count them as they were oops moments rather than ttc the oops moments were not at positive opk but were in my fertile window but more on the edges of it as i panic most cycles that i havent done enough and decide not to sway and my cycles are a mess but you answered my question on another post where i asked about the drug norethisterone to regulate my cycles, so im going back to my doc to ask if i can swap the norethisterone for clomid, im still a few days away from ov so i,ll try and get to see my doc before then if she will give me a script for clomid i will wait til my clomid cycle to ttc conceive but if she says i cant have it which is prob more likely i will do an attempt at positve opk this cycle! X

[atomic sagebrush]

I don't want anyone skipping cycles because you feel your sway isn't good enough. your fertile days are gone in the wink of an eye and there IS no month where you are guaranteed a daughter, even in the "most perfect" of months. People have swayed for 2 years and gotten opposites. Just do what you can do and get pregnant, because if you don't get pg, you have zero chance of a daughter.