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babydes56
May 26th, 2011, 06:04 AM
I just wanted to find out from you if any of you dtd everyday from the onset of a +opk to -opk & still got your boy. The reason i ask is my dh hadnt released for 4 days prior to last night when we dtd & i had also got a +opk so i thought it's best we went for it, i'm now trying to figure out if i should do it again tonight or wait till the day after but all this also depends on how many days of +opks i get. I usually get 2-3days but that can change from time to time

MrsSpencer
May 26th, 2011, 08:22 AM
I have a 3 year old DS, we DTD from the time the line started getting darker to about 5 days after a + OPK, just to be safe.

This time I DTD a few times before the + OPK, and then the night of the +OPK and didn't again. Not because I was hoping for one or the other (of course I'd love a little girl) but because DH got sick and couldn't do it anymore that week.

swish
May 26th, 2011, 08:27 AM
With ds2 I dtd every other day from ewcm, didn't use opk but probably amounts to same thing. Good luck!

Indira
May 26th, 2011, 08:28 AM
With my first boy I didnīt use OPKīs and went by CM, we DTD just once on O or the day before O.
With my second I used OPKīs but only that month so I donīt know if I had a fade pattern, if I remember well we dtd the second day I had a positive OPK, only once.
I had a very boy friendly diet though (rich breakfast, pizza, spinach, tomatosauce, always snacking and tons of raisins) and I really believe timing isnīt that important.
Good luck !

babydes56
May 26th, 2011, 08:36 AM
Thanks ladies, been on diet for a long time now so i hope that it will overcome timing

nicnee1976
May 26th, 2011, 08:44 AM
With DS1 we were doing frequent BD through O, although no OPKs. With DS2 and DS3 they were both 1 off 'accidents' dtd either on O day or the day before.
This time we dtd every day or other day stopping 2-3 days before O. We stopped 24 hours before first strong positive opk. We were ttc a girl.

rainbowflower
May 26th, 2011, 12:38 PM
yes, TMI but we DTD 9 times in the 7 day period over OV (CBFM let us know when I was entering my fertile period) because I was so desperate to get pregnant again after my MC. on the peak days we did it twice each day just to boost our chances as much as possible

atomic sagebrush
May 28th, 2011, 10:54 AM
I just wanted to find out from you if any of you dtd everyday from the onset of a +opk to -opk & still got your boy. The reason i ask is my dh hadnt released for 4 days prior to last night when we dtd & i had also got a +opk so i thought it's best we went for it, i'm now trying to figure out if i should do it again tonight or wait till the day after but all this also depends on how many days of +opks i get. I usually get 2-3days but that can change from time to time

Well, it's too late for me to answer this now but DH and I DTD several times in a row around O with DS 2 and 3.

atomic sagebrush
May 28th, 2011, 10:55 AM
Thanks ladies, been on diet for a long time now so i hope that it will overcome timing

It totally will. Diet is so much better than timing.