Dreaming of Pink Ribbons and Lace leggings

[BV0812]

Hello

My name is Brittney, I am the mommy of two perfect little boys. I am sitting here writing this with a lump in my throat and a pain in my heart. My husband and I have dreamed of having a little girl since we where high school sweethearts. Ten years and two boys later, that little girl I once dreamed of seems harder and harder to see. I was told my first son was a girl from 18-22 weeks. I bonded with a little girl, picked out her name and bought her pretty dresses. When my second son was clearly a boy at 16 weeks my heart broke, I cried for weeks. At the time I thought I was just a horrible mother for not being able to love the perfect baby boy God blessed me with. I didn't learn that gender disappointment and depression was something that many people suffered from. We took the first step towards PGD IVF today and called a infertility specialist. What we found out it that there is no way we will be able to afford to go forth with it. As my husband is sure he does not want more then three children we have only one last chance to balance our family. I don't know what else to say. I hope I can lean on you all throughout this and find peace somehow.

[nuthinbutpink]

H there. I'm so sorry you are down. HRC is in California and around $14,000. Is that way outside what you can do? Can you get a zero interest credit card? Where there's a will, there's a way.

If you want to join us in the Member HT section, we have lots of info there. There is also a $1600 sperm sort in Kentucky that does IUI's.

[3littleladies]

Hi & welcome!

Im so sorry for your heart ache, gender disappointment is very real & a lot of us go through it, Ive been there myself when I really wanted my 3rd to be a boy.

Im sending you heaps of pink dust, I wish you the best of luck with ttc a little girl!

[BV0812]

We had about $10000-$15000 max to spend. I'm sorry I don't know what HRC is? Can you please explain. I very new to all of this.

[nuthinbutpink]

HRC is a clinic in California and Dr Potter is one of our Ask The Experts on here. It is a popular destination for people. The success rates are very good and they are at the forefront of testing and gender selection.

If you become a Dream Member- $12 annually, you can schedule a free consult with him(there is a link you may access as a member) and you get $1,000 off your cycle. There are other good clinics but since you are in the area so to speak, they are one of the best around you. $25-30k is outrageous.

[BV0812]

OH THANK GOD!! There is still hope!! I am in Northern Ca. Where is he located? And it would cost around $14000 for PGD IVF is that correct?

[nuthinbutpink]

You must become a Dream Member to get the free consult and the $1,000 off. The link for that is at the top of the forum. After you do that, you will be able to access the form to schedule a chat-

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/free-consult-contact-form/24572-link-contact-form.html

You'll also be able to chat with others on here that are currently cycling there. You've come to the right place!!

[nuthinbutpink]

This is the Private HT section-

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/forum.php#dream-member-high-tech-family-balancing-private-forum

All the forums listed with a green background will be accessible when you're a member. The "main forum" there is the Info and Current cycles one. Lots of HRC gals in there!

[BV0812]

Thank you a million times for the info!!! I joined and filled out the form for a consult. Can't wait to chat with them and see what we can do.

[nuthinbutpink]

My pleasure. Please join us in the Member section! Welcome!

[1+2+3boys]

Welcome and goodluck :) I too long for a daughter and am lucky that my partner has agreed to go one over our number (3) to try and get her. We wont try for a while though because life is busy enough and it seems like such a long time to wait/put my dream in limbo.
I want to do high tech so badly since it is our last chance at my dream of a daughter. I really don't want to be one of those people who sways hard and is not one of the lucky ones who has to learn to move on, it scares me. I just want her, why can't I just have her. We can not afford HT but I still want to find out more to see of it is possible.

Nuthin but pink- That free consultation with Dr. Potter, can you do it online/skype/phone? Would it be possible to only have to go overseas once? Living so far away from anywhere that does HT makes it so much more expensive.

I am having a hard time with Gender Desire lately and have felt it all day since meeting a Mum with a 7 week old baby girl after two sons. Seeing that combo is the worst because that is what I always thought I would have.

[BV0812]

That is my biggest fear as well. Swaying hard and still not having her. I honestly feel like someone is missing from our family. :sad:

[1+2+3boys]

That is my biggest fear as well. Swaying hard and still not having her. I honestly feel like someone is missing from our family. :sad:

Same, it is such a strong desire that I feel like she is missing too. I imagine my wonderful sons and her playing together as the perfect completed family. My oldest even asked for a sister the other day. I love your profile pic btw.

[nuthinbutpink]

Welcome and goodluck :) I too long for a daughter and am lucky that my partner has agreed to go one over our number (3) to try and get her. We wont try for a while though because life is busy enough and it seems like such a long time to wait/put my dream in limbo.
I want to do high tech so badly since it is our last chance at my dream of a daughter. I really don't want to be one of those people who sways hard and is not one of the lucky ones who has to learn to move on, it scares me. I just want her, why can't I just have her. We can not afford HT but I still want to find out more to see of it is possible.

Nuthin but pink- That free consultation with Dr. Potter, can you do i online/skype/phone? Would it be possible to only have to go overseas once? Living so far away from anywhere that does HT makes it so much more expensive.

I am having a hard time with Gender Desire lately and have felt it all day since meeting a Mum with a 7 week old baby girl after two sons. Seeing that combo is the worst because that is what I always thought I would have.
He does Skype consults, yes.

You'd need to be there for around 12 days if you can do local monitoring where where you live. He will discuss all of that in the consult!