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JEWELLE11
November 22nd, 2013, 03:42 PM
Hi Ladies,

I want to introduce myself, my name is Jenn, mom of 3 beautiful boys! I feel super grateful that I have my boys :) Just a little background, we started trying to conceive when DS2 was 2.5 years old, and sadly had 3 miscarriages at 13-14 weeks of pregnancy -After much testing it was determined I had a blood clotting disorder. My next pregnancy took a year and a month to conceive and I did everything to increase fertility as it was said I had a low ovarian reserve. After, Maca, Royal Jelly, B-6 100 mg, Zymenssence, B-12, Pre-natal and Pre-seed. I finally became pregnant with Twins, sadly one of the twins we lost at 12 weeks and 4 days but with a super scary pregnancy I moved on to have my son at 39 weeks last year Aug 2012!

In my dreams while pregnant with the twins, I saw myself moving on with my son but losing our daughter b/c she was too tiny! My feeling is that we were pregnant with a B/G twin but I will never know that for certain. Life is exactly as it should be right now, I am super happy and content with our family! I lost all my baby weight, I'm at my lowest adult weight since having my boys and feeling really good. Two months ago, I had a dream that I was pregnant and the nurse said "finally after 3 boys, your having your girl"! Recently, I had another dream being pregnant and could feel the baby move inside me, in the dream I was sick- which I never was with my boys- and I just knew I was having a girl. Then I saw my son (twin) and he crawled over to a little girl who looked just like him, she smiled and the baby kicked.

These dreams have me really freaked out because I just feel super grateful to have my boys, after so many losses however I can help to think that maybe I am suppose to have a little girl afterall. After these dreams I began taking Vitex, Folic Acid, Calcium and Magnesium (just in case) I feel that was is meant to be will be but we are not trying at all- infact, my husband is scheduled to have a vasectomy next year!

Before I had my son, I had many dreams telling me that he was on his way, so I knew that I would have a little boy but that was okay because I just wanted to have a baby! Now I find myself thinking about having a little girl, about having my Jewelle. We had our kids names picked out and only ever picked one girl name :)

Just curious how many of you mamas had dreams of your future babies! :) thanks for sharing and so glad I found this forum!

nuthinbutpink
November 22nd, 2013, 04:46 PM
Welcome!

Dreamingof2girls
November 22nd, 2013, 05:04 PM
Hi Jen!
Welcome girl! I know EXACTLY how you feel & what your talking about!! My DS will be 10 next year & before I even conceived him or even thought of another baby I knew I was going to have him & that he would be a boy. 2 years AFTER my aunt had passed away in a horrific accident, she came to me in my dreams. We were in a hospital I was sitting in a wheelchair & I see my maternal aunt walking towards me holding a bundle in her arms. She handed me the baby & said- oh! He's beautiful!!! So beautiful! Congratulations. I woke up kinda shocked @ such a vivid dream! I remember putting my hand on my stomach & saying to myself "I'm not even pregnant" well, fast forward 4 months later after my dream I was pregnant. Fast forward another 37 weeks & I gave birth to a baby boy!! Ill never ever 4 get that dream. Since then I've had 2 more babies but she never came to me with them :( with them I dreamt the whole time they were girls & they are all boy :) now! I've been having non stop dreams of twins & I can't help to feel in my gut that I'm having twins!! I believe it so much that if I'm told in the ultra sound that it's only one, I'm going to be devastated like I lost one & I'm not even 100% sure it is 2 in there!

JEWELLE11
November 22nd, 2013, 05:54 PM
@Dreamingof2girls!!! I totally believe that sometimes dreams give you messages, especially when it's a person we love that past and comes to us with these messages. Before my third son, I dreamt twice that I was going to have him.

1st time, My dad (who passed) came to me in a dream and put his hand on my tummy and said, Don't worry honey, he will do great things!

2nd time, Hubby and I were at a fair and this lady came up to my hubby and started to read his hand, then she looked at me and said Jacob is on his way! 4 months later we got a positive pregnancy test on Christmas Day!

Dreams that are vivid, in my opinion tend to be right on. When I lost my twin, my neighbors mother-in-law who had passed away, came to me and said I made this for your baby and it was a blue shirt, then I said to her but I'm having two babies and she said No sorry dear, it's only one. The next day I found out we lost our Baby A!

I'm glad I'm not the only person who believes in dreams giving you messages!

No matter what they tell you either way you are blessed, Congrats on the pregnancy! I hope that you have both your little girls in there, if not your little girl :happy:

The Anchor
November 22nd, 2013, 06:43 PM
Welcome aboard!

JEWELLE11
November 22nd, 2013, 07:24 PM
Thank you! @ nuthinbutpink and The Anchor! Glad to be here and learning how to sway pink :happy:

hotdogz&boyz
November 23rd, 2013, 12:36 AM
Welcome. I've never had a vivid dream about a baby coming to me, but it sounds mighty cool!

I do, however, have a blood clotting issue, just like you. We had a similar tale of losses and testing. If you take aspirin for the disorder, it can help on the girl sway side (I only need aspirin daily, but then shots when I get preggo).

Good luck! I hope your dreamed of girl comes your way soon!

JEWELLE11
November 23rd, 2013, 09:43 PM
I know right, dreams coming true....who knows....

I only need aspirin as of now and I hear that sways GIRL but I tried it with my twin pregnancy that resulted in one boy- so not sure how much it did sway. I still never knew what the sex of baby A was but based on my dreams it seems to be a girl!

I was on 3 different supplements when finally pregnant, lovenox (injections), baby aspirin and crinone (progesterone) it saved one baby but not the other- the specialist said this combination gives you a 90% success rate and after so many losses I held on to that being true, when we lost the one twin- my faith was diminished by a lot but thankfully he is here and super healthy! I feel blessed so if these dreams come true, GREAT and if not GREAT, I have exactly what I am suppose to have :)

3girlsnwaiting
November 23rd, 2013, 10:10 PM
Welcome. I am sorry for your losses. My hubby has a blood clotting disorder and is on Coumadin.