Is this situation more girl friendly or boy friendly??

[Lassie1982]

Hi everyone,

I've been absent for quiet some time. I've not really been back since the birth of my gender opposite boy.
Fast forward 9 months and we have a very accidental oops pregnancy.
We were going to have another baby, but I wanted a good chance at swaying again, which I feel somewhat robbed of now.
Anyways, I was wondering if you ladies could shed some light on wether you think my current circumstance favoured boy or girl.

2 boys, 9yrs and 9mnths
I'm 31, dh 45
I'm exclusively breastfeeding still. Alex hates solids so I'm still feeding 3 hourly around the clock.
My cycle returned 4 months post partum and has been fairly regular 29 day cycles.
We DTD once, on either on ovulation, or ovulation plus 1 day, maybe 2 (I'm not 100% certain on which day out of 3 I ovulated on)
I jumped and dumped.
It had been 7 days since last ejaculation
My diet was fairly healthy as I am nursing. Lots of fresh fruit and veg, healthy fats. Red meat 1-2 times a week.
I was taking supps for milk supply, fenugreek, brewers yeast and blessed thistle
I was exercising moderately.
Generally I'm in good health, I am a normal weight.
Hubby is also in good health and works out daily.

Obviously I know that it is what it is, but would love some opinions on which gender my situation favoured.

Thanks in advance
.

[Little Lunasa]

Congrats :)
Not an expert but I do know that just one attempt around ovulation has been getting great pink results, and that's exactly what you did! Fx you get your dd x


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[sweetdream]

Think it's really 50%

Breastfeading and 1dtd and jump and dump favours girl.
Excersicing moderatly and healthy foods favours boy

Good luck and hope you get pink!

[atomic sagebrush]

Haha Lassie I was just thinking of you yesterday!!! Congrats!!!

It is ALWAYS possible to get a boy or a girl no matter what so please don't give up hope. In fact I think for some of us a "sneak attack" may sway pink more than a lot of other sway tactics do!

Close spacing between kiddos and breastfeeding may also sway pink. Eating healthy does tend to sway blue but then again I suspect if not for that you wouldn't ahve been able to get pregnant at all anyway.

Wishing you the very best of luck and sending you a ton of pink dust!

[atomic sagebrush]

Congrats :)
Not an expert but I do know that just one attempt around ovulation has been getting great pink results, and that's exactly what you did! Fx you get your dd x


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Oh yes forgot to mention this part! We've been getting 75% pink results with one attempt in fertile window.

Just to clarify so you know, there has never been a confirmed pregnancy from 1 day after ovulation, let alone 2, so you probably DTD on O day. (that is fine and studies have shown this is 50-50)

[NCBeachyGrl]

NO WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Huge congrats! Apparently we are in the same boat...AGAIN as I am pg with an oops too!

I think your chances are good for girl. I look at how obsessive we were with POAS, charting, tracking diet, and swaying in general and I truly feel better about it this time around. I always wonder with DS2 and DS3 (even though they are my worlds) that maybe I altered my path by trying to force something so hard. Sometimes there is a higher plan out there and we just have to go with the flow!!

[Lassie1982]

NO WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Huge congrats! Apparently we are in the same boat...AGAIN as I am pg with an oops too!

Ahhhhhh you're kidding!!!! What are the chances of us both being pregnant again at the same time, unbelievable!!!!!!! What a small world :)

Fingers crossed we've both got our little pink miracles :DD:
Will you be finding out? Is there a due date group?

And he's I agree about the stress in swaying that you and atomic mention, I know stress played a huge part when Alex was conceived.

[NCBeachyGrl]

I am going to do what I did last time with a secret u/s. what about you?

I created a due date thread in the due date buddies forum! I'm so glad we're going through this together!

[Mulberry Smurf]

Congratulations ladies :) I think it sounds 50/50 but hope you have a pink bundle ) xx

[suregena]

NCBeachy and Lassie - weren't we all TTC and then in due date groups together last time? I AM SO JEALOUS YOU BOTH HAVE OOPSIE BABIES! Hahaha! I haven't gotten my cycle back yet, but I don't know why I'd want to do all that again... but you guy's are making me want to join in on the oops train!

[ThreeMenAndALAdy]

Congrats Lassie!!! I just saw this. Too funny that you and NC are together again. I hope you hear pink. Your non sway looks great.

[Lassie1982]

Lol suregena, you never know you might just accidentally catch that first egg :)

Yes we will find out as soon as we can, probably have a 15w gender scan same as last time.

Thanks for the well wishes everyone :)