Help Please! TTC girl

[kitkat18]

Hi Guys,

Firstly I am so stoked to find such a lovely open caring forum! I started researching my 'sway'
four years ago....yes hubby needed convincing and I needed to be very honest about my desire for another baby not just a girl :)

Now my baby is four and feel at peace with either gender but thinking why not try and up my chances.

My hubby is 41 I am 35. He does not know I am ttc for a girl it would freak him out so I am doing this solo styles. We just had our first try I have lost 6 pounds in 6 weeks from LE diet, I am skipping breakfast, using zyrtec when I see cm, BD at pos opk one attempt only, no O. I can't lose too much more weight maybe another 6 max. Should I try and up my calories a bit? I am eating around 1,400.

Just had a BFN after one attempt BD at pos opk what is the next best BD strategy for our age!?

Thanks so much for any help.

xx

[SamS_TTCPink]

Hi and welcome. :)

I'm pretty new here too and it is so warm and welcoming. I know there's lots of women on here who have swayed without their partners doing it too so it still works. :)

Atomic is the guru so she'll be able to give you advice but she also does personalised plans which I just invested in too.

Look forward to sharing our sway journeys. :)

[Bigwish]

I think your sway sounds good. The only thing i should change, when i was in your position, is leave the zyrtec and add chitosan (a fiber supp). There are great results with chitosan. To me zyrtec isn't doing that much but can prevent you from getting pregnant.

[atomic sagebrush]

please bump this, something has come up and I have to close without replying

[kitkat18]

thanks for the warm welcome guys.

good advice about chitosan I had no idea zyrtec was a no go I need a plan from atomic I think.

bump X

[atomic sagebrush]

A ton of us got girls without hubby participation (me included)

Yes PLEASE increase calories. I really want hardly anyone lower than 1500 calories - lower than 1500 is the exception not the rule.

I want you to keep one attempt as long as you can. It is getting much better and much more consistent results than any of the other sway tactics. I would prefer you drop anithistamine, jelly, frequency, jump and dump and even no female O before losing one attempt.

I know it feels counterintuitive but it is totally possible to get pregnant with one attempt at ANY age (I did it at 41 1/2) and no one should think, on the basis of one BFN, that they can't. It takes fully fertile couples doing nothing to sway, 3-6 months to get pregnant and so I urge everyone to give the one attempt a fair shake before dropping it.

[atomic sagebrush]

thanks for the warm welcome guys.

good advice about chitosan I had no idea zyrtec was a no go I need a plan from atomic I think.

bump X

it's a great time for a plan because I don't have a long wait right now. :)

[kitkat18]

thanks so much atomic! that is really helpful and I will get a plan as I have so many questions to ask.
Funny thing is I started only planning on swaying only a little and now I am really into it-another boy mama thing?!
XXX

[atomic sagebrush]

yes it is, very much so. Essay here! http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/33517-maternal-dominance-hypothesis-priviledged-daughter-hypothesis.html