Looking for a specific one of Atomic's essays.

[Trike3]

I read one of Atomics essays, and I'd like to find it again, but I don't remember which one it is. In it she talks about how to get the gender you want all it might take is simply getting pregnant. I like that essay a lot. That thought has been going through my mind the past few days.
Maybe to get the girl I want, I just simply have to get over my fears and take the chance and get PG again. I'll have a shot that way. Otherwise I'll never have her.

[atomic sagebrush]

I mention that idea in a ton of essays and posts so I'm not totally sure but this may be the one you're looking for. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/3147-beyond-cookie-cutter-personalizing-your-sway.html

[atomic sagebrush]

or this one? http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/1382-kitchen-sink-mellow-yellow-do-nothing-80-20-rule-swaying.html

[Trike3]

Awesome! Thanks! I find that reading those when I'm feeling all "negative nancy" about getting a girl, really makes me more optimistic.