big o question or lack of.... for ttc boy

[wishing&hopingforblue]

I know that when swaying for a boy its better for me to orgasm. Well I usually dont...well sometimes but it takes alot and although of course everyone likes to "o" during sex but its such a pain for me that I enjoy sex more without feeling pressured to. If this makes sense. Hmmmm another reason I have 4 girls!!!

But anyways im wondering what I should do as far as my sway.....I was kinda thinking somewhere along the lines of the baking soda vibrator lol....before hubby & I do our thing??? & then use some preseed?
Any thoughts?

[Almost Complete]

Baking Soda Vibrator??? I have gotta google that! Have you considered using a battery operated vibrator while with your husband. Isn't doggy style a boy position (I'm not a swayer)? You operating it in that position is, um, orgasmic. I hope that is not TMI.

[Almost Complete]

Ha! I googled it and it brought me right back to gender dreaming. Lol, apparently this is the home of the baking soda vibrator. Man do I know nothing about swaying. I always thought you wanted to O during/after ejaculation.

[Abifasc]

I didn't O when either of my boys were conceived- I also have a hard time. If you feel it's necessary I'd use a vibe beforehand :)

[dloui128]

I tried the BSF and hated it, it burned and I kept getting BFN
I'm all for the vibrator though, I used mine before me and DH would get busy, it would just make things more fun during sex and get rid of some of the pressure of trying to do everything right for my sway. If I were you I would just use Preseed and not worry about baking soda

[wishing&hopingforblue]

Baking Soda Vibrator??? I have gotta google that! Have you considered using a battery operated vibrator while with your husband. Isn't doggy style a boy position (I'm not a swayer)? You operating it in that position is, um, orgasmic. I hope that is not TMI.

Omg!!! Lol...he would I think totally think I lost my mind & tmi but its not like he's against toys or anything but I think ones dipped in baking soda might just hmmm "get him out of the mood" lets just say. Hahaha!! I was planning on doing this without him know right before dtd.
And yes I learned of the baking soda vibrator on gender dreaming...I cant take credit for that one ;)

[dloui128]

Omg!!! Lol...he would I think totally think I lost my mind & tmi but its not like he's against toys or anything but I think ones dipped in baking soda might just hmmm "get him out of the mood" lets just say. Hahaha!! I was planning on doing this without him know right before dtd.
And yes I learned of the baking soda vibrator on gender dreaming...I cant take credit for that one ;)

If you want to be discrete about it then go take care of yourself in the bathroom or some where private and then jump him when you're all done :)

[wishing&hopingforblue]

I tried the BSF and hated it, it burned and I kept getting BFN
I'm all for the vibrator though, I used mine before me and DH would get busy, it would just make things more fun during sex and get rid of some of the pressure of trying to do everything right for my sway. If I were you I would just use Preseed and not worry about baking soda

Thanks this seriously just made me feel so much better about my sway!!

[wishing&hopingforblue]

If you want to be discrete about it then go take care of yourself in the bathroom or some where private and then jump him when you're all done :)

Yup thats the plan!!

[LilithWiser1979]

I have conceived three boys and baking soda has NEVER been in my vagina, but I was totally not shy about masturbating after DTD to get pg! Orgasm during sex probably isn't as important as an orgasm, period. If you can, masturbate before DTD and after. I did this twice and got my two sons :)

[LilithWiser1979]

Also here's a thread I started asking this very same question, LOL!

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-conceive-boy/39776-sex-question-girl-moms-ignore-if-tmi-bothers-you.html

[Leebug]

Go for it girl! I definitely agree with the other girls.vibrator yes.baking soda no! I never got pg when I used it & it really irritated my Vj.walgreens.com has all that fun stuff in the "sexual wellness" section if u need to shop.lol

[atomic sagebrush]

Ha! I googled it and it brought me right back to gender dreaming. Lol, apparently this is the home of the baking soda vibrator. Man do I know nothing about swaying. I always thought you wanted to O during/after ejaculation.

It's NOT the home of the baking soda vibrator, we are getting great results without baking soda anything and I really don't recommend it for anyone.

[atomic sagebrush]

I BEG you not to use a baking soda vibrator.

Your body is made to conceive both boys and girls naturally. We all have the potential to make a baby of either gender. So it's best to use only things like Preseed that mimic your body's natural "stuff" or else give your body the raw materials it needs to make it itself.

Baking soda is nothing like EWCM, it kills sperm and we have gotten great results without it.

[atomic sagebrush]

I will go delete any reference to that right now. That is left over from the early days of the site before our experiences and research showed that baking soda was not the way to go and was preventing pregnancy and causing infections.

[atomic sagebrush]

These threads may help:

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/27912-o-no-orgasms-swaying.html

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/11684-ph-pickle.html

[wishing&hopingforblue]

Thanks so much ladies for all the great advice. I will NOT be using ANY baking soda!!! Going to use Preseed. I was a little Leary of the baking soda to begin with anyways.