Worried

[Babybeaublue]

Hi
I got my bfp last Fri. Usually I would get a good strong line but it was faint. The next day it was a bit stronger but not as strong as I hoped. As with all my other pregnancies I "knew" I was pregnant before testing even with no symptoms., now it's changed. Since getting the + test I don't really feel anything even DH said he thought I'd be more excited. I keep thinking maybe it's a sign that something will go wrong. I have no symptoms and although I know I don't usually start feeling sick til about 7 weeks I'm still worried. The thought that one in five pregnancies end in mc is stuck on my head. I'm even too scared to test again.

[nuthinbutpink]

I never had symptoms. I see no reason to worry if there's no bleeding.

[Mulberry Smurf]

I would try to relax as stress won't help matters. Fingers crossed it's just a shy little blue bean in there trying not to make his mummy ill ;) xx

[Peebell85]

It's hard not to worry, but I felt EXACTLY the same as you when I first got my BFP. I even kept going to the loo to wipe as I was convinced I was going to miscarry at any time... but at 12 weeks, I'm still waiting and no bleeding. Maybe you are just extremely lucky and pregnancy suits your body! Alll the best xo

[Babybeaublue]

It's hard not to worry, but I felt EXACTLY the same as you when I first got my BFP. I even kept going to the loo to wipe as I was convinced I was going to miscarry at any time...

This is me! I had bleeding with dd2 every week from 5-12 weeks so I'm always on the lookout for it happening again

[SamS_TTCPink]

I know how you feel! I felt exactly the same and wrote almost an identical post to yours!!

Although my experience won't give you much comfort, do know that when I felt the same there were so many comments about others that had been through it and had no symptoms and faint lines ended up having happy, healthy and uneventful pregnancies that resulted in healthy bubs!

Maybe it's a sign that this is your blue bundle of joy! 😊

I know it's easier said then done but just try to relax and enjoy each day of your pregnancy as it comes. Have you got a scan or drs appointment booked in? Maybe ask them to check your HCG levels just to ease your mind. xx

[Babybeaublue]

Thank you I just saw your post today and replied. I'm in the uk I have to wait til May 16th to see my GP and all she will do is refer me to hospital for a scan at 12-14 weeks. It's always a waiting game this pregnancy thing isn't it? TTC 2WW BFP etc my youngest has chicken pox so not much time to think thankfully

[SamS_TTCPink]

Yep! It's always a waiting and worrying game!! And even after they're in our arms we still worry about them! I don't know why we do it to ourselves!! 😉

I did see your reply on my other post. Hopefully you'll have a better outcome than I did. 👍

May 16th seems forever away I'm sure, at least you have the kids to get you busy and not too much time to think. 😉

Hope you're youngest gets better soon. ❤️

[Babybeaublue]

Thank you sending all my pink dust your way x

[Abifasc]

I had few symptoms with my first son and even fewer with my second. I know it's tough but I've heard girl pregnancies are more difficult than boy ones!

[Babybeaublue]

I hope that's the case. My last pregnancy I had 24 hour sickness I even woke at night feeling sick! DH text me to say he'd get me a test bless him.
ETA he just told me he paid £10 for a clearblue Digital - I need to see lines!!!!

[Babybeaublue]

Ok apparently I'm ungrateful. If I'm 4weeks 5 days what should the stupid(!) digital say?

[mommymachine]

The test should say 2-3 weeks pregnant I think. But it still might say 1-2 weeks or 3+ weeks. It just depends on your hormone levels. I would always get "2-3 weeks" pregnant when I was where you are:)

[Babybeaublue]

Ok thanks. I have to wait til morning (more waiting) to take it is FMU or 2ndMu best?

[Mrs_Incredible]

Good luck! Seeing the word PREGNANT is good too!!! I felt very un-pregnant til 6-7 weeks and I've been a miserable sod since!! Enjoy feeling normal while you can!! X

[atomic sagebrush]

My mom never had any symptoms with her pregnancies and in fact told me "it's all psychological" LOL.

[Babybeaublue]

Ha!! My mum likes to remind me when I have MS that she never felt sick with any of us, and now I have a UTI bah!

[Mulberry Smurf]

Boo to uti hope the test comes back saying pregnanT xx

[ever hopeful]

For some reason, I found SMU better than first. If you continue to be worried even after you see pregnant on your digital, I would wait until you are 7 weeks and go to an EPU and ask for a scan....just say that you are very very worried and haven't been feeling right. Will give you peace of mind rather than waiting for 12+ weeks. Good luck xx

[Babybeaublue]

Thanks ladies. Digi test says 2-3 weeks which according to instructions means 4-5 weeks preg and I reckon I'm 4+6 today so that's good right??

[SamS_TTCPink]

yay, that sure is good!

[WantingPink]

Yes that is right on track. I think I got a 3+ at about 5 weeks 2 days with this one but hard to remember now?? Sounds like your Hcg is rising... congrats!!

[Mulberry Smurf]

Yay that's super news :) all going well for little bean!! If you wanted to you could ask for a scan in 4 weeks time you should be able to see a little heart beat flickering away then xx

[atomic sagebrush]

yes perfect!!!

[Babybeaublue]

Thank you! I got some antibiotics so hoping this uti goes soon. I have to wait to see my own GP then get her to refer me to my hospital for booking in and scan at around 12-14 weeks so hoping all goes well x

[Mrs_Incredible]

Yay 2-3 is fantastic! Congratulations xx


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