Should we?

[purpledream]

DTD tonight? My dollar store OPK shows the test line darker, but my CVC brand is almost there, but not completely. Until now, we were DTD every 4 days and last night was the one and we just followed schedule. I guess, we should do the real deal today, but doing it 2 days in a row makes me very nervous-doesn't that sway more blue? I just feel we should have done it last night with the "not there yet tests", but didn't get clarification...I'm totally bummed right now and I feel like we missed the best timing, I just want to cry!:worry:

[maidentomother]

When was the last time you BDed? Last night? If so, your timing is great if you O in the next 3 days. I would just keep BDing every 4 days. Don't do two nights in a row, that definitely sways boy!

[purpledream]

Yes, we BDed last night(protected!), it was the 4th night from last time. If we BD 4 days from last night, though, aren't we going to miss O? It looks like my sticks are turning positive sometimes later today...Thank for your input!

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes have unprotected attempt tonight. You may very well get a pos between then and now anyway.

[atomic sagebrush]

and just to clarify the only reason I am having you attempt is because your prev. BD was protected. If you had had unprotected attempt I would not have had you attempt.

[angielorna]

what Atomic said :)

I was going to say that if you had protected sex last night, that doesn't count! So absolutely DTD tonight without protection! No swimmers from last night, so tonight's the night :)

If I'm not mistaken, DTD (unprotected) every 4 days unprotected is a strategy to ensure you don't miss your fertile period....so swimmers may be around whenever your egg is released.

Angie

[purpledream]

Guess I really should have done it last night since today is the day my father passed away years ago and I'm so sad and grieving today...

[snipsnsnails]

Just wanted to wish you the best of of luck purple! I hope this is it for you:)