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[moof4]

So as you all know I lurk in here

I have my beautiful four boys...and want to let you mums and dads know that are on the side of finding out you will not have your desired gender or have just had your babies.....life after the darkness is amazing

my boys are all unique and amazing individuals. I do admit there are days when I look for photos of me as a baby and them and try to convince myself they have some of me in them even if they are not girls. The more they grow up the more I don't need the photos...they have traits of me and their dad and it is wonderful to witness.

It is really only the outside world that makes it hard for me now that they are all boys......I remind myself everyday they are individual souls and it is my job to nuture them and enjoy life with them...I love them regardless of what the social norm is. Each time I hear 'oh four boys poor you' I gain power from that and respond 'yes we have so much fun, they are all beautiful'

I love them with all my heart. xxx

[atomic sagebrush]

I have a lot of friends who just decided to move on with all boys and they all look like they're having a great time! I think that sometimes it's being "in it" that makes gender desire feel so all encompassing and when you decide to close the door instead of focusing on it, it can make it easier to move on and be happy.

[nuthinbutpink]

Sounds like you are truly living your life. Good for you! Well done.

[emmake]

Well done!

[motherofboys]

Good for you! I also have 4 boys and it really is outside pressure that's made it harder for me.


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[butterflywarbie]

after my 3 sons i decided to close the door,6 years later i met my new hubby so we wanted to have a baby together and it raised all those emotions again, but i was still ok to have another boy as we didnt have either boy or girl together but when we caught for our second baby together i prayed so hard for a girl and got told he was another boy on a 3 d scan at 16 weeks, i was heartbroken,thankfully by the time he arrived i instantly fell in love with him,but i keep trying to close the door especially as i suffered with very bad postnatal dep after last baby and was in hospital for 4 months :( for treatment, id love someone to come and wipe my brain of wanting a daughter so bad,arggghhhhhh ok rant over lol xx