I'm new and I would love some advice for a boy sway!

[jmomof3girls]

Hello everyone! I'm a mom of 3 beautiful girls. I would like to ttc a boy in October. Any successful boy sway please let me know what I can do. TIA :cool:

[Hopingforaprincess]

Welcome and good luck on your sway. Check out the ttc a boy sway forums..lots of good info!

[jmomof3girls]

Bump

[nuthinbutpink]

Hi there. You have a couple of options.

Option 1- Let us create a plan for you. We can create a customized plan and give you 6 months of coaching during your sway. We also provide 21 days of meals and a guide to using OPKs to sway.

Option 2- You may research the info on here and develop your own plan. Start here - http://genderdreaming.com/forum/new-site-info-navigational-help/25320-gender-swaying-information.html

After doing some reading and some research, if you want to create your own plan and post it for feedback, we are happy to help.

That should be enough to get you started!

[dloui128]

Welcome
I would definitely check out the customized plan, it is getting great results for the blue swayers

[jmomof3girls]

Thank you for the responses!

[jmomof3girls]

What is your result percentage for a customized boy sway?

[nuthinbutpink]

The results spreadsheet says 100% but that's not accurate. Last time I checked, it was mid 80's. atomic would know better than I because she works with all of them.

The thing is, the personalized plan option really isn't about the percentage of whom it's worked for; it's about us doing the work for you and you having a coach to ask questions. We have a very comprehensive approach to swaying. This is what we live and breath. It's not an exact science though. You can google other methods that will tell you that it is "96%" effective and that's just lie. You either have to be on board with our method and research your plan yourself or be on board with our method and let us do the work for you. No matter what, you have to believe in our approach. If you do, we will do our absolute best to make sure it works for you. That's the best we can do. What other vendor offers support with their plans and customizes them for under $100? Nobody.

[jmomof3girls]

That sounds great to me. Since I'm not ttc until October, Should I wait to order my personalized plan for a few months? I would want to get my full use of the 6 months. Thank you

[jmomof3girls]

I was actually considering doing HT using the Ericsson method. There is a clinic about 70 miles from me. It's about $1500 per attempt. I can get the same odds doing GD method. I'm definitely going to try this instead!

[bluebonnet22]

Jana - it's usually advised to purchase the plan 3 months prior to when you will TTC so you can start the diet and pills and exercise. Atomic is busy so if I were you I'd probably purchase in July.

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[jmomof3girls]

Will do. Thanks for the good advice!

[atomic sagebrush]

The results spreadsheet says 100% but that's not accurate. Last time I checked, it was mid 80's. atomic would know better than I because she works with all of them.

The thing is, the personalized plan option really isn't about the percentage of whom it's worked for; it's about us doing the work for you and you having a coach to ask questions. We have a very comprehensive approach to swaying. This is what we live and breath. It's not an exact science though. You can google other methods that will tell you that it is "96%" effective and that's just lie. You either have to be on board with our method and research your plan yourself or be on board with our method and let us do the work for you. No matter what, you have to believe in our approach. If you do, we will do our absolute best to make sure it works for you. That's the best we can do. What other vendor offers support with their plans and customizes them for under $100? Nobody.

yes the 100% is not accurate, it's just that the people who filled out the questionnaire to be included in the spreadsheet was 100%. I would LOVE IT if everyone who got an opposite filled out a questionnaire today!!!

That having been said yes my success rates for blue are higher than the overall stats of the site (I don't have my numbers here right now, sorry we just moved and all my papers are messed up). And of my opposites, they are often in people with unusual circumstances such as husbands who will not quit smoking (that is a HUGE one and I believe has caused more than one opposite). But, I still want everyone to use the overall success rates of the site because I want you to go into swaying with the lowest possible expectations of success.

For blue our numbers have been in the 70-80% range (they vary by the month) and this has stayed consistent over the course of time, including people who have had 4 daughters in a row. So I think that is a reasonable expectation for your possibility of success.

[jmomof3girls]

Thanks atomic. I have been looking thru this site these last few nights after my girls are down for bed and I have learned a lot!!! I have been reading from posts dating back from 2011 ( I am a VERY curious person, and I investigate everything that interests me! ) I see that you have tremendous success from moms coming into this site who have 3 or more girls already! I do see a few failed blue sways but overall very good results! It's fascinating! I realize that it's not 100% every time but this is really great! I'm thrilled with this information! Thank you!

[tkelly621]

Thanks atomic. I have been looking thru this site these last few nights after my girls are down for bed and I have learned a lot!!! I have been reading from posts dating back from 2011 ( I am a VERY curious person, and I investigate everything that interests me! ) I see that you have tremendous success from moms coming into this site who have 3 or more girls already! I do see a few failed blue sways but overall very good results! It's fascinating! I realize that it's not 100% every time but this is really great! I'm thrilled with this information! Thank you!


I also have three beautiful girls. This will be our last baby so.I would love a boy for my.husband. I am doing a ton of stuff to sway blue but if it doesn't work, I will accept the fact that we just weren't meant to have a boy. :) we are going to start next month.

[jmomof3girls]

I also have three beautiful girls. This will be our last baby so.I would love a boy for my.husband. I am doing a ton of stuff to sway blue but if it doesn't work, I will accept the fact that we just weren't meant to have a boy. :) we are going to start next month.
Same here!!! Good luck to us!!! Hopefully we both get our boys after 3 girls!

[Pebbles&BamBam]

I don't have any advice, but wanted to say good luck! We are also going for a boy:-)


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[The Anchor]

You're a member...read through the boy sway forums. There are lots of successful boy sways in there!

[jmomof3girls]

I don't have any advice, but wanted to say good luck! We are also going for a boy:-)


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Thanks and good good luck to you too

[jmomof3girls]

You're a member...read through the boy sway forums. There are lots of successful boy sways in there!
I have spent lots of time looking the forums. They are great! Thank you!

[blackbekki]

My biggest difference between getting preg with my 2boys and my angel was I was at it all the time(first boy we just met 2nd son we wanted to be preg ASAP after losing our girl full term) that was really the only major difference as we got caught with our daughter with just dtd once that month x


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[jmomof3girls]

That is true with my girls too. They were all one time BD's. Thank you!

[atomic sagebrush]

mine too. my boys were all at least 2

[jmomof3girls]

Thanks! I'll put that in my notes!

[Mamato3?]

My 2 DDs also were 1 BD (i was a full to think that the sperm was stronger after a 2 weeks abstence....)

[jmomof3girls]

Now we know what not to do!!! Lol

[bluebonnet22]

I think you've heard this enough at this point but my DS was 2-3 attempts in the fertile window as well! Definitely seems to be a pattern.

[jmomof3girls]

Thank you bluebonnet. I love getting input from boy moms ��

[essnce629]

Interesting! Both my boys were from two attempts before O!

Trying hard to stick to one attempt for my girl sway!

[kitkat18]

Both my boys were from one attempt in the fertile window, but I was super fertile sways boy, he diet etc etc xx
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[jmomof3girls]

Interesting! Both my boys were from two attempts before O!

Trying hard to stick to one attempt for my girl sway!
I would definitely stick to one attempt. Good luck!!!

[jmomof3girls]

Both my boys were from one attempt in the fertile window, but I was super fertile sways boy, he diet etc etc xx
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I guess sometimes we beat the odds!! I'm EXTREMELY fertile and I have 3 girls LOL!

[kitkat18]

Too true Jana!! Its the overall picture I guess Xx
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[jmomof3girls]

Agreed!! :happy:

[Mumof3girls]

I got my DD3 with one attempt.

[jmomof3girls]

Thank you mumof3girls! I love this input from the moms. Are you swaying also? I hope both of us can get our boys after 3 girls :happy:

[happy1981]

@Janamomof3girls when I got pregnant with my DS We DTD every day, sometimes 2 times/day! I was eating a Low carb high fat diet, lots of full fat product and protein! I love salt so there was a lot of that. I was doing weight lifting and avoiding alcohol. In addition I was super stressed about getting pregnant! DH was training for a marathon and probably had high levels of testosterone. Maybe those are some good tips!

[jmomof3girls]

Thank you very much for the tips!! :happy:

[essnce629]

I would also like to add that up until finding Gender Dreaming I had been taking fish oil supplements, a prenatal, probiotics, vitamin D, and a B-complex daily for the past decade! I also had never had an alcoholic drink ever and never drank coffee or soda. The only caffeine I had was in the 1-2 green or white teas I had daily. Besides my cups of tea I only ever drank water-- 2-3 refillable bottles a day. I never exercised ever, besides the occasional yoga. I hate cardio! Oh, and full fat dairy only!

No wonder I have two boys LOL! Good luck!

[jmomof3girls]

LOL!! You were definitely doing a boy sway. I hope you get your DD!! Thanks for you input :happy: